GIÁO DỤC NÃO PHẢI - CƠ HỘI TỐT GIÁO DỤC TRẺ ĐẶC BIỆT (Chương 1)

1. Relaxation will change the mind of the child. Get rid of all the pressure from the child. 1. The most important factor in raising a child is that there are many parents who are too busy to see the results in front of their children. They don't stop worrying when comparing their child's development with their peers. They are happy when their child gets high scores and angry when their child gets low scores. If they focus too much on their academic performance, it will have a bad impact on the child and make both parents and children feel under pressure. Therefore, parents should stop evaluating their children by their academic performance standards. There are two important things to avoid in raising a child. 1. Set standards for your child. 2. Compare your child with other children. I'm sure every mother has shed tears when welcoming their child. But right after that, the worries start to come. Parents worry that their child will be underweight, timid, slow-talking, or not as smart as their peers. It is parents who create tension and make themselves worried. And the result is that the whole process of raising a child is full of pressure. The most important factor in raising a child is to accept yourself as yourself. Tell your child that parents are very happy just because you are here with them. Naturally, the speed of growth and development of each child is very different. Some children develop quickly both physically and mentally. Some children know how to speak quickly, while others speak slowly. The speed of brain development among children is also very different. Each child has different interests, with different objects around them and their preferences. Therefore, adults should not always worry. When your child seems to be a little slower than peers, believe in the strength of the child's internal development by respecting what the child has. If you teach your child in a really comfortable, relaxing, and loving way, your child will definitely grow up quickly and healthy. The most important thing to remember is to focus on emotional and mental development for your child rather than academic achievement or talent development. Second, each child has extraordinary development potential. All children are geniuses. Therefore, you need to understand your child's potential. It is the innate ability to help children develop with limitless potential. In other words, children have developed potential in themselves. When children grow up, they will be able to express themselves more clearly. Not only in the environment of raising children, but also in the nature of birth. In any situation, children still need to be able to raise their personalities. Therefore, parents should encourage children to develop their individual personalities. Educational methods, personality training, and respect for personal differences Unfortunately, current educational programs often do not care about these differences. And many parents are holding their children's souls. Parents should keep this in mind. Children are wonderful individuals. From their natural selves, their negative prejudices have made them unable to see the good things in their children. But as soon as parents stop worrying negatively about their children's potential, as well as their child's natural development, children will start to change in a better direction. Please remember, there is no child who cannot change. Many parents want their children to be educated in the Shichida Japanese Academy. Through interviews with parents, we realize that many parents are worried about raising their children. From parents who have children with disabilities, to parents who are worried about their children not being able to get along with their friends, who are being bullied, and who do not know how to control their anger. Our mission at the Shichida Japanese Academy is to help remove these worries so that parents can pass on the message of love to their children. 3. Start with your spirit and right brain If you pay attention to your child's spirit and right brain, your child will gradually change. Here is an example of this. This spring, Akira will be in grade 5. About 3 months ago, when he was still in grade 3, he attended one of the schools of the Shichida Japanese Academy. When he first came in, he could not sit still long enough to attend all the classes. He often left his seat to sit on the teacher's chair. It was impossible for him to sit still and play games in class. Therefore, he did not have the opportunity to develop his sports skills. He was disqualified from the other students in the physical education class. And so he became disheartened and did not want to do anything else. Akira's mother explained that Akira's mother took him to many consultants and consultancy organizations to be guided, but hopelessly. In grade 1 and 2, he had to study in a special class. When he was in grade 3, he was transferred to the normal class. However, his condition still did not allow him to take any classes. By the end of grade 3, his mother found the Shichida Japanese Academy. Akira did not use his right brain and almost did not use his left brain. We focused on his breathing and imagination skills. In addition to that, we used the Kan card to recreate images, memorization exercises, kanji and geographic cards. We tried to make his studies interesting by helping him experience wonderful things. Akira especially liked geographic cards. So we taught him this subject by arranging different games in each class. Akira was very interested. We handed out Kan cards up to grade 4. Each card was a single character. In each class, Akira focused on about 36 to 40 cards that we handed out in front of him. We helped his mother understand how to use the Kan card effectively. At the same time, we guided him and his mother to put the Kan cards together and combine them with the boy. As a result, Akira started to get 1% score. In the questions about the Kan card, Akira became the first student to get the Kan card. The human brain is divided into two parts, the left and the right brain. The traditional education method focuses on the left brain and encourages competition and confrontation. Meanwhile, the right brain is more compatible with people around. If the development of the child does not meet the expectations of the parents, it may be because the parents are too focused on teaching the child to improve their academic achievements and train their talents while neglecting the development of the soul. It means that the parents and children will not be able to develop effectively. Once the parents and teachers realize the importance of nurturing the soul rather than paying attention to the academic achievements of their children, they will start to look at children in a positive direction. They start to look at the ability to trust and love unconditionally. No child is born with a poor memory. The only obstacle to memory is whether the child's soul is really open or not. When the right brain method makes the child's heart open, every child always feels excited and the potential of the child will be revealed. Ms. Sawada, a fourth-grade teacher, was worried when her students were forced into her class. She was overjoyed and happy when she saw a lot of joy in the result of her positive progress. The class became cheerful and each student began to show their wonderful abilities. When calculating the number and fraction, each part was forced in the fourth grade program. Even slow learners can improve their abilities quickly. Ms. Sawada said that if all children in Japan can develop the ability to imagine and imagine, the children can develop very good abilities. Gradually, the values ​​or IQ values will become unnecessary in education. 5. Make the child feel love When a child is told a love story, stories that are humane can change the child's heart. Because from the natural nature of the child, the child always wants to be loved. When the teacher tells the children a love story, they will also change. When parents give their children love, a loving heart can change everything. Helping to raise a heart that is always open is important. Let our hearts become more and more open. A person with an open heart is a good person. We asked the children how a person with an open heart is. Then we explained that a person who is selfish and knows how to think of others will always have an open heart. Children change thanks to stories about hearts and love. Now I will tell you an example of how children have changed thanks to heart-touching stories. When I was in grade 1, I saw that telling stories about hearts and people full of love was very important. I wanted to be better than them. So I started telling stories about hearts. I told them all the important topics about how to evaluate yourself and not do things that make your heart not bright anymore. Then they started to change. I started to see independence, how to think positively, and how to try to show your best side. I told them to play with cards. If they used to play with cards, now they know how to play cards. They don't have to hide their answers anymore. I told them to play with each other. When they don't have an answer, they don't have to compete anymore. They can work together now. I believe that they have regained their strength and now they are great friends. All those quick changes are thanks to training in photography. However, I also want to point out that stories about hearts are the main reason why children start to change. Children can change when they hear stories about love. They will change into people who can think of others, who know how to be considerate, who are open-minded, who are positive, not just because they want to praise themselves. 6. Simplicity helps the brain develop. When parents change the way they look at their children, children will change too. Parents usually look at their children with negative perspectives. 1. Parents set standards to evaluate their children. 2. Parents compare their children to other children. When parents change the way they look at their children from negative to positive, children will feel comfortable and open their hearts. As a result, your brain will develop and you will change and become a wonderful child. What makes children change? In fact, the people who change are not children, but because the way parents look at their children changes. Therefore, the way parents treat their children changes. The change in parents' attitudes affects their children. Because parents still have negative thoughts about their children, their children's hearts will share with their parents' negative thoughts. And children will be under pressure when they deal with these difficult situations by burning their brains, which is the responsibility of the brain to respond to the brain that is under pressure. That is why the learning ability of children is reduced. On the other hand, if parents praise the good qualities of their children as well as give them unconditional love, children's hearts will become relaxed and comfortable. Your brain will start to develop. This is the time when children's learning abilities begin to improve. Before, very few parents were aware of raising their children's spirits. Education today focuses more on the attitude of the child than on the personality and soul of the child. The basic principles of discipline also make the way parents look at their children more strict. This traditional method of technical training teaches children to follow a certain rule and formula to form good habits. But this education method is no longer suitable for today's world. It is not like the previous era. This new era is full of pressure around children. Children are also involved in the whirlwind of stress. That is why they do not want to go to school or start to bully their friends. To help children overcome these difficulties, parents need to have a new way of looking at discipline. 7. Change the way parents look at you. To help children's spirits relax, we must stop evaluating by the standards of educational achievements. Instead, let's start to raise children with a sincere heart. The method of raising children with a sincere heart is to look at the right path that your own self always praises and loves you. This is easy to say, but very difficult to do. At the hospital, we conducted a test. We selected two universities where there is a mother-child relationship and is facing many difficulties. Mothers in these two cases asked to record every day what their mother said to them. This notebook was monitored by us for a week. Not long after, something interesting happened. It seems that the image of the child in the mother's eyes has changed. One of the mothers shared, At first, I felt embarrassed when I brought the notebook back to write compliments every week because I found it annoying. However, when I tried to find 5 things to compliment you, my relationship with the child improved a lot. I felt very happy. After many tests, the children have changed. The faces of the children are more relaxed and cheerful. The behaviors in the class have also changed positively and are improving rapidly. These feelings make the child feel confident in himself because his mother began to record good points and praise him. This test made me believe in the miraculous effect of the mother-child relationship on the development of the child. Mothers and children are always a special bond that cannot be separated. 8. 6 points of view look at the child according to the Shichida education method to make the child feel relaxed to raise the child with a loving heart Parents can apply the following 6 points when looking at the child. 1. Do not focus too much on the shortcomings should only focus on the strengths as well as the abilities of the child 2. Do not consider your current state as the last state think that the child is still continuing in the process of completion 3. Do not be a father and mother who pray too much but try to look at the child that the child is not perfect but try to look at the child that the child is not perfect 4. Do not compare yourself with other children remember that each child will have a different speed of development 5. Do not put too much emphasis on academic achievements in raising your child look at and praise your efforts and efforts even when you get a bad grade 6. Learn how to look at your child as a perfect child just like yourself 7. Do not compare yourself with other children 8. Do not look at your child as a perfect child just like yourself do not be negative about yourself but accept love like what you are doing now each child is growing up your current state is not complete accept the child at this time do not look at the weakness of the child but instead praise the good qualities of your child 8. Do not compare yourself with other children 9. Do not compare yourself with other children 10. Do not compare yourself with other children 11. Do not compare yourself with other children 12. Do not compare yourself with other children 13. Do not compare yourself with other children 14. Do not compare yourself with other children 15. Do not compare yourself with other children 16. 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Do not compare yourself with other children Candy's imagination has never been faster Candy's language development is slow Candy's memory is excellent Candy can remember the face of a street vendor Last September, my daughter took part in a regular gym class at a sports club near her home She tried her best to join a group of trainees selected in October However, she did not know how to climb ropes I advised her to use her visual ability After 3 days, when the trainer said she was not qualified If she could not climb ropes 3 times She started to climb easily I was very surprised On Sunday, my son had a test I was a little bit surprised However, I thought I could not do the preparation So I took a normal test But my son got 57 points I couldn't even get a higher score than 60 at that time. Contrary to my teacher's prediction, my son got 67 in the next exam, and even 70 in the 4th exam. The teacher couldn't understand how my son had studied, and how much progress he had made. Because I couldn't tell my son to memorize the content just by reading it quickly. And the exam was only one time, so I just replied that my son only read the textbook. In addition, I was shocked by the power of visual imagination.