“You Need To Get Over Yourself!”

[Music] brought to you by the every dooll app start budgeting for free today all right Kenneth asks I borrowed $35,000 from my father but only repaid 7,500 because of my expensive lifestyle what you only repaid $7,500 because you're a person who lacks Integrity but we'll go from there that's crazy when he updated his will before he passed he deducted the remaining 27 ,500 owed from my portion of the estate I need the rest of my inheritance money I live in a semi-porous s and you need to go to your local church and ask for forgiveness from both entitlement my God Almighty good for your dad for deducting this amount of money that you didn't pay him back because you lacked character and integrity not because of your expensive lifestyle but because you chose to live expensively over you chose over your word that you gave your dad and he deducted it from his estate good for him that was part of the agreement you didn't pay it back so he did the the next right thing he should shouldn't have loan you the money in the first place but he did you live in a semi-porous and I'm going to say something's going to get me in trouble so I'm going to be quiet what do you think Jade I say go for it no I'm just I I hate this entitlement I hate this that's mine I hate this I hate I can't stand all of this I just it's nonsense nonsense nonsense nonsense as though my choice to drive a fancy car and live in a big house overrides math and it overrides character and it overrides integrity and more importantly it overrides my relationship with my Dad yeah you know what the most important thing is that I got expensive lifestyle shut up shut up debt never matters to people until it's debt that's owed to them and it's not debt it's not debt that's the thing like but I'm saying like for him it's easy to look at this 30 for Kenneth it's easy to look at this $35,000 that he borrowed and go I don't need to pay that right away like it's no big deal I can I'm only going to pay 7,500 of it but if the tables were turned and someone owed him $35,000 he'd want the money today well let's be real clear about this he my dad deducted the remaining balance owed from my portion of the estate this is not your your estate this is your dad's estate and it's his prerogative to Dole it out however he wants to he could give you a fish tank and a hammer and a high five and that's what would be yours you because you're an entitled brat looked at how much he owed you probably tripled it and then you spent that money in your mind and then when it didn't come to you in the form of a check you got uh you threw a little temper tant and you said well I want my money it's not yours it's not yours he could leave all of his money to your brother or to your sister which is what I hope he did and look at you and say you're not you were not a son that um honored your word and so I'm going to choose to spend my inheritance I'm going to choose to divy up my estate in a different way he's allowed to do that because it's his money not yours never was yours never will be yours so stop referring to it as your portion of the estate as your inheritance money it's not Case Closed if you can't afford to live in your semi-exptl planing about money that's not yours and that never will be yours and legally or otherwise um is a waste of your time and energy and I'll be quiet stand inovation good job that's my second Rihanna reference in a very short period of time that was goodn a couple of Rihanna references just to balance the world back out that was good okay you're right it just ah if you if you've been around me I don't get mad off joh I don't get mad about hardly anything I never do in fact I I don't I get too much criticism for not getting fired up about stuff enough I can see this bothers you I like it I can't cuz this this is our our our country the government owes me my Prof owes me an a no it didn't you didn't do a work you didn't do a work my I I I pay this whole attitude yeah shut your mouth be quiet I had a conversation with my son he's uh 14 he's going to be leaving um uh Middle School ahead and high school and so we're starting to have more Point we've been having breakfast together once a week for years and we're starting to move into more of a poignant hey here's kind of my thoughts on alcohol as you get into High School here's my thoughts on sex like we talk about sex all the time in my house as you can imagine but um here's some more specific thing like I'm going to start being more specific about like you know I believe in in God you know Jesus is important to me you know my faith is important to me here's what that looks like and here's my seasons of doubt and here's my Seasons when I walk to I'm real talk it's more intentional yeah real talk and we were talking about his grades recently and he said but I've been working so hard and I said I know but you are entering into a season of life that for the rest of your life effort does not as matter doesn't matter as much as the outcom MH and like we have to see it in front of us and this attitude of you just give me mine cuz I can choose I can do what I want and the effort it's not real yeah and this kind of nonsense is breaking up families it's breaking up culture it's breaking up communities and it's insane it's insane can Kenneth be upset that his brother and sister got more money than him sure be mad that's fine but move on with your life yeah move on move on with your life you don't get to just live in an expensive area and be like that's what I wanted no dude no yeah it's that's a really good point be mad and move on and and don't let it steal your joy or steal your peace because what He's listed here that's it's nobody else's problem it sucks that he's not in good health but that's not his dad's problem no you know and so there is something to that create your free every budget today the simplest way to budget for your life