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Hello, dear audience of Radio Vietnam, which is broadcast weekly on Nét Đẹp Truyền Thống channel. We hope that you will have a deep experience after busy working days. Today, we would like to send you a post on the page of MTD Vietnam, which has a question. After reading this post, maybe your family won't argue anymore. There are two families living next to each other. The house on the left is always noisy. Almost every day there is a quarrel. Not only the husband and wife argue, but sometimes the children also argue with their parents. This makes their family atmosphere always tense. Even the neighbors around feel uncomfortable. The neighbor on the right is a very harmonious family. The parents are kind and love each other. The children live in harmony and harmony. It is a happy family. One day, the husband and wife of the neighbor on the left asked the neighbor on the right. Our family argues all day. Why is your family always so happy? Not only do you not hear the noise of arguing, but you don't even shout at each other. What is the secret of your family? Please teach me so that my family can solve the problems. Actually, there is nothing special. If you have any questions, we will answer. Because many people always say that others are not good, but themselves are good. What does this mean? Parents, children, and brothers all live together. Anyone who does anything wrong will blame the other person. If you do the right thing, you think you are doing it. Your family thinks that only you are good. If something goes wrong, you blame others. But for our family, whoever does something wrong, that person is to blame. The other person is not to blame. Blame is on yourself. And take the initiative to apologize. That's how it is. No one is perfect in life. Everyone makes mistakes and has made mistakes. The most terrible thing is that you don't admit your mistakes, but you keep blaming others. So not only do brothers and sisters argue, even parents and children will argue. People in a harmonious family will say, I haven't done well. If I do something wrong, I will take responsibility. People in a family argue all day long will say, I didn't do anything wrong. It's all other people's fault. Another example, a cup of tea was left over. The brother put the cup of tea on the table. The brother ran over and accidentally broke the cup of tea. Then the brother was injured. The brother was furious. Why did you break my cup of tea? The brother rebuked. So why did you leave the cup of tea on the table? So the two brothers argued. If the brother saw you break the cup of tea, he would say, Did the cup of tea hurt you? It's because you put the cup of tea in the wrong place. The brother also said, It's because you were not careful and broke the cup of tea. I'm sorry. So will the two brothers make peace with each other? Everything in life has consequences. If you blame others, others will also blame you. If you blame yourself and take the initiative to admit your mistakes, others will forgive you and understand you. If you can keep this view in your daily life, you will feel safe wherever you go. When things go wrong, calm down and find peace in your heart. Instead of blaming others, this is the right way to live. Living in this world, admitting your mistakes is also a precious treasure. Making mistakes but not admitting them is the most annoying action. Remember this. Finally, I wish your family always harmonious, everything is prosperous.