No eres lo que te han hecho... Eres tu capacidad de sanar.

I have been dedicating myself exclusively to creating content for 4 years, mainly here on YouTube. You know why in these 4 years I have never run out of ideas because I use each and every one of my personal experiences. I take advantage of everything that happens to me. I am not much of a talker about myself. personal life I am not much for giving specific details yes I have told you about my past I have told you about my dark night of the soul how I had my spiritual awakening etc. But believe me that in these last four years a lot of things have happened to me especially in these last few months in these last few months I have experienced one of the ugliest and most traumatic things that I have experienced in my entire life and I am here and I have been here uploading content because the fact of sharing the learnings that I am gaining over time this inertia that I have gained Over the years with this resilience of always transforming the negative things that can happen to me into something positive or at least using it To add value to the world that is something that is already integrated in my brain, it is part of the gear of my mentality of my way of life. be my person because I know that the things that can happen to me, the disappointments that I may experience, the betrayals that I may experience, the injustices that may occur, that does not define me as a person, it does not define my value or my self-love or my self-esteem. But What I decide to do with those experiences does say about my character, my personality, my way of being, that is why I have been working for these months on this secret project that is no longer a secret, it is now public, I have already announced it to you. I am announcing Here and now, if you have n't heard yet, I have a free 4-day challenge in which I am going to teach you all the secrets, all the techniques, methodology and also the mentality that has helped me grow this YouTube channel. my own personal brand to tell My story to find my voice to shine and show myself to the world inspire many other people who have gained more clarity thanks to the content I have been sharing these last few years and I know that there are many people who want to do the same who also has his project, who also has a passion that he wants to show the world but there are many fears, many blocks, many insecurities. I know because I have been there, I have gone through all of that, the fear of being criticized, of being judged, of exposing yourself, creative blocks, burnout, everything. In other words, I have lived all of this and I have learned how to not only achieve success but also learn to maintain it over time, not to run out of ideas, not to get tired, as happens to many content creators over time, unfortunately, and a One of the things that I am most passionate about and that comes most easily and fluently to me is guiding and mentoring others in this creative process, so that they can find their voice, so that they can create a concept, so that they can express themselves and expand professionally in the field of social networks that are so complex But within that complexity I have managed to make it easy and simple and above all make it very fun and I am super delighted to invite you to the challenge So I am going to leave you the link in the description it is 17 18 19 and June 20 if you are interested if this has resonated with you if you feel the call you know sign up register Join the WhatsApp group I will see you there we are in contact and I hope this is the beginning of an inspiring story I know that there are many people who live with this backpack with this permanent chronic fatigue in their body in their hearts in their soul that they say enough is enough with canonical events enough with misfortunes enough with toxic relationships enough with Chaos because the same thing is always repeated I will be the problem there will be something that is I have something wrong with me that I have to fix as if it were some kind of broken toy as if it were a broken device. And this is something that, within the entire world of consciousness and spirituality, honestly makes me very sad when someone shares something negative. What has happened to you? You have been abused. You have been violated in some way. You have been betrayed. You have gone through an extremely toxic relationship. You have to rebuild the person from scratch. You have to rebuild your self-esteem. Your self-confidence. There are many people who point this out and He says Oh, you have to find out what part of you has attracted that and you have to heal it because when you heal, not when you reach this state of total healing, you will stop attracting these negative events, these toxic people, these dysfunctional relationships, that's not true in my opinion. humble opinion is a very ignorant comment and from a person who is definitely not connected with his spirituality and especially with his consciousness the healthiest people I know are in therapy by people who should be in therapy but who will never consider consulting a specialist, the most beautiful, mentally and emotionally healthy people that I know with the greatest emotional intelligence are the people who have had the worst experiences in life, the most empathetic people, the most compassionate, the most understanding within their relationships, are the people who have experienced the most disloyalty, injustice and abuse, you are not what they have done to you, you are your ability to heal. This is something that I have asked myself all my life and many people within the world of consciousness have proposed that perspective to me, but it was something that did not quite fit with me. The only thing that made me feel was responsible guilt And in some way as if I were deserving of bad things that happen to me and that somehow when I manage to heal that, not fix this mess that I have in my soul, metaphorically speaking, I will stop attracting those experiences and everything. It will be fantastic and wonderful in my life But what if it is precisely because of my ability to heal that those experiences come to me and if it is precisely because of my ability to transform everything dark into light that I attract those experiences to me those people to me those situations that I care about, I'm not throwing flowers at myself either. I have many imperfections, many defects and of course many things to learn and many things to improve in my life but it's not tiring to be constantly looking for your flaw looking for your fault of course the person who almost destroys my life months ago I did not have enough self-awareness to ask myself those questions to reflect on that So what am I doing Or rather why am I doing this to myself and if healing does not mean becoming a perfect being but starting to see perfection in Your being and everything that happens to you, even the most chaotic and disastrous, is perfect. Obviously I try to maintain a stoic mentality and be a stoic woman and understand the love of destiny and how everything happens not for something but that you can transform it into something. positive or negative depending on your state of consciousness depending on your conscious decision and I consciously decide to transform my negative experiences into something positive because I can and because I want to but not because I identify with something that is wrong or with something that I have to fix as if It was damaged as if it were defective, even my psychologist told me this. She told me this one day quite a long time ago. It is incredible that even at 28 years of age there are times when I doubt if I am a good person, but of course who else is a good person? I would question whether she is a good person, right, and she herself had to confirm it to me. I don't know if Pilar is a healthy person. Your way of relating is healthy and obviously it hurts when others hurt you. When others disappoint you. They betray you. They mistreat you. They take advantage of you. It hurts and it takes you by surprise because it is difficult for your brain to understand that because that is not how your mechanisms work. The truth is that this year my mindset is that you are not the problem and the fault is not yours, care, not because I don't want to take responsibility for the things that I have to take responsibility for, but because I already take charge of everything and I already have a tendency to put that weight on myself and put pressure on myself because once again I have a way of relating to others is healthy Because if I know that I have the tendency to empathize too much, if I know that I have the tendency to want to help everyone, to want to save everyone, to want to take responsibility for problems that are not mine and also if I know that these tendencies are cannon fodder for emotional predators because possibly the most beneficial thing for me right now is to think I am not the problem, it is not my fault and this has been so liberating for me because I repeat that is, within the world of Consciousness and spirituality bombarded me with this message of you are responsible for everything, everything is a reflection of who you are, what they have done to you, in reality, they have not done it to you, you have done it to yourself and you have attracted this into your life because you you were vibrating at that frequency well it may or may not be Or maybe this was simply a necessary lesson to align me with my purpose and to remind me that I am the love of my life and that I am the most important thing I have to learn that there are very very malevolent people in this life and completely chameleons that can infiltrate your life even when you already have a fairly high level of learning, I know that many of you have noticed it in recent months in these last videos Pilar, if you are not okay, if you whatever has happened you don't need to upload content focus on yourself healing recovering I know but I needed I needed creatively Talking cathartic Talking I needed to create that type of content I needed to express what I was feeling the things I was learning what I was understanding now not so much for those who see me but more for myself perhaps I have been a little selfish But it's okay because I needed that and for me it is fascinating for me it is incredible so magical that I have received messages from many people who have written to me Thank you for upload this video Thank you for sharing this content because I have realized that I am trapped in a relationship with a very narcissistic person because these toxic dynamics are being replicated and I was not seeing it clearly until now thanks for putting words and images to something that I was living and I couldn't see clearly without whatever has happened to me can make me gain an experience gain knowledge gain a pearl of wisdom that I know how to translate creatively into content or whatever in any medium and That can make a person on the other side of the world see a reality clearly, deeply understand something and that makes their life completely improve. That for me is the greatest indication that everything is perfect, that everything is perfect, perfectly fine with me. same with others, for me it is the greatest indication that this is what I am, this ability to heal, transmute and transform, this is me, not what has happened to me, not what they have done to me, this is me and well, this was the small reflection. that I wanted to share with you today I hope that it has been of help to you that it has been able to provide you with a lot of value and a lot of Clarity Remember that you are more than invited more than invited to register for the 4-day challenge grow with purpose Remember that I leave you the link in the description to register for the challenge I hope to see you there from the bottom of my heart remember that I love you very much Take care of yourself and see you soon In a next video Bye Wait, I'm missing a kiss