窮人家孩子人生中最大的阻礙其實是父母！

A 29-year-old Hebei boy who has been following me for over two years talked to me yesterday. He said that he met something annoying. He said that his parents forced him to die so that he wouldn't go to work abroad. It was more than three o'clock in the morning the night before. His mother even kowtowed to him on his knees. The boy said that he had no choice but to compromise and refused to go. I said, bro, your life is basically hopeless. In the future, when you get married and have children, all the choices in life will have to be made in your mother's way. If you don't agree, you will probably die again next time. Then you will marry someone you don't love, have children, and do a job you don't love. But you will get a very filial good reputation. I said, what should I do? I said, you only need to worry about your mother's death next time. Will you keep compromising like you do now and live your own life? Actually, I don't know what to say. Why are there so many parents who can't even solve their own retirement problems and have to interfere with their children's lives everywhere? They have been a coward for a lifetime, and then they have to pull their children together to be a scapegoat and be a coward with them. What did your children do in their last life? What did they do to you to make you retaliate against them so much? I read a passage on the Internet a long time ago that the greatest sorrow of a child born in a poor family is that you live in a very bad environment. From birth to death, you are surrounded by a group of incompetent and negative people who can't see your good side, who don't want you to live well, and who are not kind to you, and who drag you down. Basically, you can't get rid of them. I have been in the United States for more than half a year. Although I don't do any immigration business, I still have a lot of friends who want to get to know me. When I found out that there were a lot of people talking to me, I found out that the biggest obstacle for Chinese people to reunite was actually their own parents. Some of them were worried about their parents' age. I can understand this situation. But the other one is that they were strongly stopped by their parents. Some parents took out their passports to prevent their children from reuniting. They cried and shouted. There were also rumors that they were going to the committee to report it. A few months ago, there was a brother who wanted to sell his house to raise some money. His parents said, if you dare to sell your house, I will take drugs. People who really want to die usually don't yell. If you compromise this time, you can only listen to them in your life. Often, parents who stop their children from going out are at the bottom of society. They have no money, nothing, no background. They don't even have a pension. Some people say, there is really no way. If you don't compromise, your parents will really kill themselves. I said, what do you think we should do in this situation? What should we do? If this is the case, let's kill ourselves. Someone will definitely say that I am not filial. Only my parents have the right to judge whether I am filial or not. In addition, my parents will never force me to die in order to comply with their wishes. Even if I have such parents, I will never compromise. I am not just the child of my parents. I am also the mother of my children. My parents' lives are in the hands of themselves and their parents. But my children, my children and my children, are in the hands of me. Parents can't accompany their children for a lifetime. I don't have any money in my family. I don't have any inheritance. I must work hard to take my children out of the pit. I will definitely make my own choice. Are you going to give up your life just because your parents want you to die? Are you going to bet on your children's future and accompany them for a lifetime? This is called filial piety. Are you going to let your parents, who can't even pay for their own retirement, control your life and your children's? What's more, many parents are not just a problem of lack of judgment. They have always treated their children as a tool for their retirement. And they have always said, it's for your own good. It's terrible. Why are there so many stupid parents in China? Not just for the sake of their children, but also for the sake of love. There are so many parents who truly love their children. There is never a standard for judging love that forces you to die. This is not worrying about you. This is not love. They just want to control you. They think you are their private property, not an independent person. This is the sadness of many children in China. Of course, they don't rule out some parents who lack self-control and rely on their parents to live. They are not young anymore. They still have to let their parents pay for their own mistakes. Then you can't be too much of a parent. In the future, just inherit your parents' family business. Live your life according to your parents' wishes. There is nothing to say. There are some things you can't ask others. Right? The legs are on your body. The mouth is on your face. How to do it, how to say it, that's your own business. No one can be responsible for your life. Okay, that's it.