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Some time ago, a picture of Zhou Huajian, 63, and his wife, Tong, was posted on the Internet. In the picture, Kang Cui Lan was already full of gray hair. So many people say that he and Zhou Huajian are not like husband and wife, but like mother and son. This is not the first time Kang Cui Lan has been negatively evaluated. More than 20 years ago, he was disliked by many fans, thinking that he was not worthy of Zhou Huajian. Some people even called to persuade him to divorce. In fact, Zhou Huajian has never thought of divorcing Kang Cui Lan in his 38 years of marriage. A poor and down-to-earth young man became a killer in Hongkong. Maybe many people don't know that without Kang Cui Lan, there would be no Zhou Huajian today. In 1960, Zhou Huajian was born in a public family in Hong Kong. He has three brothers and a sister. He has loved music since he was a child. However, his family was not generous, and there was no extra money to support him to play music. Until junior high school, Zhou Huajian had his first guitar. Because he was too obsessed with playing music, Zhou Huajian's study was messed up. Once he was exiled, but later, with the encouragement of his sister, he decided to go to Taiwan to take the exam. Before he left, Zhou Huajian cut off his long fingernails for playing the guitar to show his determination to study hard. This determination did not last long, because the campus atmosphere in Taipei is very relaxed. Students can freely release their nature. At that time, Zhou Huajian often played guitar alone in the corner of the campus. When he sang a song, all the seats next to him were full of fans. His senior recommended him to live in Shilin Mingge Western Restaurant in Taipei. Do you know where this is? This is the place where Qi Yu, Pan Yueyun, and Xin Xiaoqi used to sing together. When Qi Yu and his wife Kang Cui Lan first met, Zhou Huajian had been a singer for a while. They met at a party. They were born in the same year, the same month, and the same day. This encounter may have been destined from the beginning. Kang Cui Lan came from the United States. At that party, basically all the guests were Chinese. Everyone chatted in Chinese. This made Kang Cui Lan feel a little lonely. At that time, Zhou Huajian's English was not bad. So he went to the front of the table and chatted with Kang Cui Lan. In the United States, he met someone who communicated with him in her mother tongue. Kang Cui Lan had a very good impression of Zhou Huajian at that time. At the end of the party, Zhou Huajian sent Kang Cui Lan home with enthusiasm. When Kang Cui Lan was about to arrive at home, Zhou Huajian revealed his identity as a singer. He invited Kang Cui Lan to go to the restaurant and listen to him sing. Before that, Zhou Huajian made a lot of friends. It's not a date, it's a deal. Kang Cui Lan is not like that. He not only went, but also came to the stage for several days in a row. Every time Zhou Huajian sang on stage, he listened quietly on the stage. The first person who stood up to sing a song was Kang Cui Lan. Kang Cui Lan applauded him. This moved Zhou Huajian. Many guests came to listen to him sing. But this didn't satisfy Zhou Huajian. Instead, it made him a little confused. Because he wanted to be a real singer. Actually, before this, he had joined a record company. He also agreed to help him release a personal album. But the album hasn't been released yet. The company closed down. He had a chance to sing on stage. Now he can only stay in this corner. At the same time, he lost his job for a long time. These circumstances made Zhou Huajian think about how to go in the future. At that time, he wanted to be a music producer. But Taiwan doesn't have a school that specializes in music production. If you want to learn, you have to find your own way. It also needs to solve the problem of living expenses, etc. It makes him very upset. When he didn't know what to do, Zhou Huajian told Kang Cui Lan about his difficulties and thoughts. Kang Cui Lan didn't hesitate and insisted on doing it. Because Kang Cui Lan's father was a playwright. Kang Cui Lan clearly remembered that many of his father's students brushed their plates during the day and went to the theater at night. He knew that doing art was like this. Although it is very hard, tiring, and tiring, but you have to keep going. You have to keep going to see the light. This encouragement gave Zhou Huajian a lot of confidence. He packed up and continued to perform all the way. While looking for opportunities, a year later, the opportunity came. One day, he also went to perform. He met a person with a moustache. Because he often came here to play mahjong. At this time, Zhou Huajian happened to perform on stage. This person with a moustache couldn't sit still until he heard a few words. When he came to Zhou Huajian, he asked him if he was willing to join the Rolling Stone record company. This person's name was Li Zongsheng. He was the record director of Rolling Stone at the time. But if Zhou Huajian joined Rolling Stone, he was not a singer, but a music assistant. A music assistant, to put it bluntly, is a mess. He does whatever he is asked to do. He may not be able to do what he wants to do. So Zhou Huajian began to hesitate. If you want to join Rolling Stone, you have to start from the bottom. At the same time, you have to drop out and give up your degree. Zhou Huajian's parents, of course, did not agree. It's ridiculous to be an unreliable music assistant without studying well. All kinds of pressure came in. At this time, Kang Cui Lan supported Zhou Huajian again. Kang Cui Lan said to him, My father is also an artist. Many people's choices for him are incredible. But he is doing very well here now. So you can't give up your favorite career. If you have chosen, then do it. Don't care what others say. That's how Zhou Huajian joined Rolling Stone. Rolling Stone's salary is very low. Only 5,000 Taiwan dollars a month. That's a lot of money to pay the rent. So he was an assistant at Rolling Stone during the day. He continued to stay in the restaurant at night. At that time, Zhou Huajian and Kang Cui Lan had been dating for a while. They were about to get married. Before getting married, Zhou Huajian took Kang Cui Lan back to Hong Kong to see her parents. Taking Kang Cui Lan to the seaside, Zhou Huajian proposed to Kang Cui Lan. At this time, Zhou Huajian had nothing. His income was in danger, and his future was uncertain. Kang Cui Lan still gave him a definite answer. Because of the end of life, Zhou Huajian stayed in the restaurant that night before getting married. In the rental house, Zhou Huajian and Kang Cui Lan got married. This was the turning point in their life. After getting married, Kang Cui Lan helped Zhou Huajian to manage his life. He put his whole body and soul into music. Soon, a powerful singer was about to be born. During that time, Kang Cui Lan paid Zhou Huajian seemed to be eating a meal. Zhou Huajian was very depressed. He often asked himself in front of the mirror, What do you want? Then he asked himself in front of the mirror, Do you want to make good music? Do you want to keep going? But he didn't even believe these answers. Because it was too difficult. But Kang Cui Lan believed. Kang Cui Lan told him seriously, That's the way it should be. Don't think about anything else. Finally, after six months in the restaurant, with the help of Qi Yu, Zhou Huajian began to sing commercial songs. After that, the goddess of luck fell in love with Zhou Huajian. The new direction of the commercial song he sang to Renault car was unexpectedly popular. With the popularity, the company decided to take advantage of the hot iron and let Li Zongsheng make a personal album for Zhou Huajian. In 1987, Zhou Huajian appeared in the air in the direction of the first album of Rolling Stone. The album was sold out and the sales reached 200,000. After that, the new album, The Realest Dream, sold 1.2 million copies in Asia. It won the Malaysian Album of the Year Award. The original song, This City Has Love, won the Golden Song Award. In less than three years, Zhou Huajian succeeded. But after being popular, he was hit by a strong sense of insecurity. During that time, Zhou Huajian often dreamed that he was either chased by someone in his dream or became a fugitive and was arrested by the police. After getting rid of self-esteem, confusion and oppression, he fell into a new depression. When he succeeded, he began to be anxious. Others could not understand Zhou Huajian's state, but Kang Cui Lan understood him. Kang Cui Lan said to Zhou Huajian, When everything is true, you are afraid of losing it. Fear is fake. You are afraid that it is very short. You are afraid that it is just a dream when you wake up. Because it's too good. It's so good that you think it's fake. Under Kang Cui Lan's guidance, Zhou Huajian slowly calmed down. He calmed down his emotions and accepted his success. After that, his career advanced steadily. Let me be happy, let me be at ease. The star of the night, the sun is shining. The album is getting more and more popular. Zhou Huajian also successfully became one of the most important singers in Taiwan. Fans called him and Wang Jie, Tong An Ge, and called him the four great kings of Taiwan and the four great kings of Hong Kong. When Zhou Huajian's career was booming, Kang Cui Lan continued to support him. In order to let Zhou Huajian have no worries, Kang Cui Lan alone took on all the responsibilities of taking care of the family. In 1990, the eldest son Zhou Hou An was born. Zhou Huajian wrote, Kiss my baby. Another big fire. In 1994, the youngest daughter Zhou Hou En was born. Zhou Huajian wrote a daughter's song for his daughter as a gift. Both son and daughter have a successful career. Zhou Huajian's life went up all the way. It's just that at this time, he didn't know that his wife's physical condition had secretly appeared. Because Zhou Huajian was not at home for a long time, Kang Cui Lan took care of the family and the child alone. Whenever the child was sick, Kang Cui Lan would have a very strong sense of helplessness. When he was pregnant with his daughter, Kang Cui Lan had an accident and miscarriage. Zhou Huajian was busy with work and was not by his side. He began to have the tendency of post-traumatic depression. After that, the situation kept getting worse. Kang Cui Lan's mood got worse and worse. His hair began to fall off. At the same time, Zhou Huajian also had a lot of bad rumors. Some media claimed that Zhou Huajian had an affair. As soon as he got this rumor, Zhou Huajian called Kang Cui Lan to explain. Kang Cui Lan completely believed Zhou Huajian, but he couldn't stop the rumors from appearing again and again. The news was getting more and more true. Zhou Huajian was getting busier and busier. Kang Cui Lan felt more and more like Zhou Huajian's extra life. A fan called Kang Cui Lan directly. He asked her directly, When will you divorce Zhou Huajian? She lived a peaceful life, but she was burdened with the pressure of life. She endured the loneliness of her husband's absence. In return, she asked, When will you divorce? Even if Zhou Huajian didn't ask her this question, she still couldn't say yes. Kang Cui Lan was in great pain. She asked Zhou Huajian to break up. Until then, Zhou Huajian realized that he had been neglecting the care of his family all these years. At first, it was his wife's unconditional support and assistance that he set foot on the path of music. Now it's time for him to take care of his wife and take responsibility for his family. So at the peak of his career, Zhou Huajian quit his job and returned to his family With the company of Zhou Huajian, Kang Cui Lan gradually regained health. Zhou Huajian's approach made those bad media shut up. In fact, when Zhou Huajian just debuted, someone told him, Don't tell the truth about your marriage. Anyway, Kang Cui Lan is an outsider. It can completely hide the fact of marriage. This can attract more fans. But Zhou Huajian refused. In his opinion, hiding marriage and feelings is a great disrespect to Kang Cui Lan. Some people laugh at him for being too honest. Some people mock him for being so devoted at his age. But only Zhou Huajian knows that he and Kang Cui Lan are not only lovers, but also confidants. 40 years of music For Zhou Huajian, there are too many stories in these 40 years. Instead of saying that after Zhou Huajian's success, he is not angry with Kang Cui Lan, it is better to say that without Kang Cui Lan, there would not be today's Zhou Huajian. From another perspective, the two people are not in harmony. Why is it not an extreme romance? I'm stupid for talking to you every day.