Hello everyone, I'm Wenny.
Hey, I'm Brenda.
We've been doing YouTube for a long time.
Today, we want to do a series of reviews.
Yay!
The first episode.
Two years ago, we made a video
about the 10 things we didn't do after the quarantine.
Two years later, let's see if we have any regrets
or if we have done them again.
At that time, we were at the first fast food hostel.
So it's been almost two years.
It's been a long time. It feels like it was 100 years ago.
The first thing we didn't do
was not investing in finance.
Not investing in finance.
Now, two years later,
we still haven't tried investing in finance.
Actually, I'm quite curious
about the purpose of studying finance.
Let's say, apart from wealth and freedom,
is there any other interesting reason?
Maybe it's because I'm interested.
I'm interested in this thing.
It's fun.
Or analyzing some basic aspects.
I think the technical aspects are very interesting.
So I just do it.
For example, I'm interested in how to draw
or how to invest.
Some people may be interested in investing in finance.
Two years later, I'm still not interested in this.
So we spend more time
on your drawing and my writing.
I think it's more important
what people think is important.
For example, I think it's more important to cultivate interest.
Some people may think investing in finance is more important.
Within a limited time,
you can't learn too many things at once.
You can only do it for two or three hours a day.
Although we don't invest in finance,
we don't spend money carelessly.
That's right.
We check every item
and every expense.
We spend what we should spend.
The second thing is not insurance.
I think insurance is similar to investing in finance.
After two years,
I'm still not interested in it.
You need to spend time, energy, and even money
So if you don't have enough reasons to hesitate,
it will be hard to do it.
And it's not easy to do it in this field.
You need to spend a lot of energy to do it.
Same as drawing and writing.
You need to spend a lot of energy.
You need to spend energy on everything.
Actually, it's hard to do everything.
There are so many important things.
You have to choose one first.
The last two things I want to do
are the third, fourth, and fifth.
It's already a bit difficult.
And I have to do yoga.
And go out for a walk.
Sunbathing.
Filming.
We think sunbathing and going out for a walk
are more important than insurance.
So we chose this.
Put the time here.
Distribute it here.
So these two things haven't changed much yet.
The third thing is not wearing makeup.
We still haven't bought any makeup products or skincare products.
Two years later, I'll still be bare-faced.
I think makeup is something you need to learn.
It's the same as investing in finance.
We really don't have any interests.
We don't have many interests.
Writing, filming, drawing, writing novels,
eating delicious food,
taking a walk, doing yoga.
That's it.
Watching movies.
But I'm really curious.
Why do people have interests?
Is it decided before you are born?
Yeah.
It depends on whether you notice it or not.
That's right.
So we don't have any interest in these three things.
This may be predestined.
Yeah.
The fourth is not using paper objects.
We bought a notebook at the beginning of the year.
Yeah, and a pencil.
Because I happen to want to learn to draw.
In order to test whether I will develop this habit
and whether it will continue,
I bought a notebook to test it first.
That's right.
Usually, if you buy a store-bought tool,
it will cost thousands of dollars.
So I used a month to make sure
that I really know how to draw this month.
Then I cut off the notebook.
Then I switched from a laptop to an iPad.
Then I started to draw with an e-book.
So at present, I still hope not to use paper books.
I think it's okay to have it,
but you can use a couple of books.
You don't have to use a lot of books.
That's right.
The fifth point is
not persuading others to accept your ideas.
Uh-huh.
I think we may have been like this before.
When I see a person,
his house may be very messy.
Or he loves to buy things,
but he doesn't need to buy them.
We may think it's not good.
Before the other party really wants to ask us
how to solve his chaotic situation,
I don't think we want to talk to him.
Because I'm afraid that the other person will find it annoying.
He may not be interested in the whole thing.
Why do you have to think about it?
I think the idea now is more like
seeing a person who is very messy or loves to buy things.
I think he is going through a great process.
Just like when we loved to buy,
we were very happy to buy.
It's a great experience to be very happy to buy.
And then it's a great experience to cut it off.
Because these two things have been experienced,
they can compare with each other.
So this experience is so complete and rich.
So it becomes that
you don't really need to learn from others.
Because he is choosing his most ideal life at the moment.
Yes.
After two years,
there will be more experiences like this.
When we study,
we share our own views
in our articles or videos.
The second is that we don't force ourselves
to eat out or cook.
The current situation is also
that our diet has changed too much.
Yes, we cook and eat out.
Then we cook and eat out again.
Now we eat out again.
We experienced eating out, cooking out,
eating out, cooking out, eating out.
It keeps fluctuating like this.
Right?
Because sometimes what we want to eat
is a bit different.
What we want to eat or what we like to eat,
what we prefer to eat,
keeps changing.
Yes.
That's why we go out to cook
and buy an oven,
a pot,
and sell it.
Then we start eating out
and eat different things.
From a wedding meal to a vegetarian meal.
Yes.
From a vegetarian meal,
we eat more raw food,
salad,
and fruits.
Yes.
It changes a lot.
But in this process,
we don't force ourselves.
We just eat what we want to eat.
Regardless of whether it's healthy or not.
Yes.
As long as it's delicious, we eat it.
That's right.
I think in our hearts,
we have that feeling.
Or in our body,
we have that feeling.
I don't think we need to
force ourselves too much.
They have their own thoughts.
We just listen to them.
Yes.
It's easier that way.
That's right.
And I think
when we eat with our family,
we become more and more
selfless.
When we eat,
we don't even think about anything.
Yes.
We just eat happily.
If there's anything on the table,
we just eat it.
We're all happy together.
Yes.
I think we're more relaxed.
Yes.
We don't get influenced by our thoughts.
Yes.
If we eat more starch,
we don't get confused.
Yes.
I think it's pretty good.
Yes.
This is a big change.
Yes.
A big discovery.
I'm very grateful.
Yes.
The seventh is
not to force yourself to wake up early.
We've never forced ourselves to do this.
Yes.
We've been doing this for two years.
We don't set an alarm clock.
Yes.
We just need to wake up naturally.
Yes.
Because I think
the situation is really different every day.
Yes.
Especially our diet has changed a lot.
Yes.
Diet has something to do
with sleep.
Yes.
In addition to work,
we also have some changes.
Yes.
For example,
when I'm in a bad mood,
I might be tired early that day.
Maybe I'll go to bed early.
Yes.
Sometimes,
I'm very happy when I edit videos.
Yes.
I'm in a good mood.
Maybe I'll keep editing until midnight.
Yes, me too.
Then I'll go to bed later that day.
Yes, that's right.
Actually,
one of our main principles
is to sleep until we are full.
Yes.
We only get up when we are full.
Yes.
Just hold on to this principle.
Because if you don't sleep enough,
you'll be sleepy in the afternoon.
Yes.
So it's the same.
Yes.
You need to sleep.
Yes.
If you sleep enough,
you'll be full.
If you get up early,
you'll be fine.
We get up early
because we want to have more time.
But
what are we going to do?
Actually,
this is more important
than getting up early.
Yes.
Do we have to be in a hurry?
Why do we have to get up so early
to do those things?
Yes.
We can't just relax,
get enough sleep,
and enjoy the moment.
That's it.
In this case,
we might not be able to finish it sooner.
Yes.
I think it's like that.
Yes.
So don't be obsessed.
That's the answer.
Just relax.
Yes.
Relax.
Your diet won't be affected,
and your time won't be affected.
That's great.
Yes.
Next is the eighth thing.
Okay.
Let's talk about the ninth thing together.
Okay.
They are
not eating health food
and not watching Western medicine
and not eating Western medicine.
I haven't done that
I haven't bought vitamin C,
vitamin B,
or anything like that.
And I haven't seen a doctor.
I haven't seen a doctor for two years.
I haven't seen a doctor since I left home.
Yes.
It's been more than five years.
Yes.
We have shared a book
on our membership channel.
The Real Life of Being Sick.
Yes.
If you are interested, you can read it.
The theory of this book is that
you get sick
because
you don't live
on your own path.
Yes.
That's why you get sick.
But being sick is just a signal
to tell you
that you can come back.
Taking medicine may not be the root cause.
The real life of being sick is the root cause.
That's why we follow this method.
Of course,
we choose
what we want to believe.
It doesn't matter
what we want to believe.
It doesn't matter.
As long as we are comfortable
and believe in that set of values.
Yes.
Everyone is different.
Yes.
The main reason is
that we are not interested.
We can't afford to go to the pharmacy
to buy things.
We have to choose the products.
I think it's a very
thick-brained thing.
I should say
that I think spicy food is better
Yes.
Health food is tasteless.
It's tasteless.
It's tasty.
The tenth thing is
not to do things
you don't like to do.
To be more precise,
it's to do
what you want to do
It's similar to
what I said earlier.
Why don't you
eat health food and take medicine?
Because it's true
that you are not sick.
If you do
things you don't like to do,
you don't make a lot of money,
you get sick,
and you spend money.
In this case,
why don't you choose
to do what you like to do
but make less money
and at least
don't spend money on medical expenses.
Yes.
This may also be a choice.
And there is less painful experience.
Basically,
we are not saying
that we follow
a few rules of life.
It's very simple.
I don't want to do these things,
and I want to do
We should say
that we are lazy
and only want to do
easy things.
Yes.
There are a lot of things
that I think are very hard
but a lot of people are doing it.
You don't say easy things.
Like learning to draw,
I think it's quite difficult.
But that's
what you want to do.
Yes.
It's what you want to do
or don't want to do.
Yes.
And what you really want to do
is that
if it's because
of fear
or fear
or you have no choice
but to do something,
I think
when you do these things,
you are doing
something you don't want to do.
That's not what you really want to do.
So I think
what you really want to do
is that you want to try
and experience
and be curious about these things.
You want to do it.
Of course, doing things
that you prefer
doesn't always make you happy.
But that unhappiness
is just a struggle
and a challenge.
Yes.
It's not negative.
Yes.
So sometimes
this feeling
can be a little confusing.
Yes.
You have to feel it carefully.
That's right.
But it's very fun.
OK.
So these are
ten things
that I don't do
So you still don't do it.
Basically, I still don't do it.
Then we'll see
if I will continue to do it
I hope everyone
can find
the set of values
that they believe in.
The values
may change all the time.
The point is
to make yourself comfortable.
Yes.
It's right to be comfortable.
Don't be stressed.
Just relax every time.
I hope everyone
can live
easily
Come to the park
when you are stressed.
If I found out
later that
I didn't want to draw,
I wanted to give up,
that notebook
would still be taken away by me.
Yes.
Even if I wanted to draw,
that notebook
would still be taken away by me.
Yes.
So their end
is the same.
So in fact,
the existence of this object
is a kind of impermanence.
Yes.
It's a kind of change.
Yes.
It doesn't exist
But at a certain point,
it exists.
But at the next time,
it doesn't exist.
So do you say it exists
or doesn't exist?
It's too philosophical.
That's right.
That's it.
Because in order to experience
something
in order to test
in order to do an action test
So
So it will appear
in our life.
It will exist when it should exist.
It won't exist
That's right.
It's just like that.
So it's a kind of tool.
Yes.
Material is a kind of tool
for us.
Yes.
So it's not that
life is very flexible.
Yes.
It's not that
I don't use a notebook now,
I just don't do it.
I don't use it at all.
And in the end,
I made myself very strange.
Yes.
Then I might have bought
an electric drawing tool
and spent tens of thousands
and didn't want to draw in the end.
That's even worse.
Yes.
It's not that
I used to say
I don't use a notebook
and then I bought
an electronic product
Yes.
Or some people
buy some electronic readers
but they don't have
the habit of reading
or drawing.
In other words,
it's a waste of money.
Do you think
this is in line with
the spirit of Dunsherry?
Maybe not.
But it's OK.
It is.