MOVING IN TOGETHER IN LONDON | our first night, unboxing hauls & furnishing | moving diaries ep 2
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It's Sunday 2nd of June and today is my last day in this apartment and in this city. And
weirdly it's a beautiful day for the first time all week. The sky is blue, the sun is shining,
it's super hot. I've actually been inside the flat all day. It just turned 6pm because I have
been editing all day. It's basically been a regular work day. My Moving Diaries part one vlog is
uploading as we speak. It took so many hours to edit and I did it so last minute because of all
of the moving hecticness that's been going on but I'm still on time. It's still going out on Sunday
so hats off to me. It's 6pm, I need to go to bed at 11pm to wake up at 6am to get ready and move
to London with my boyfriend which means we only have five hours left in the day to seize the day.
As you can see by the mess in the background, I've already been packing up my final few bits
so I just need to finalise that before I go to bed but other than that I'm pretty much free
to have some fun. I'm not exactly sure what I want to do but I have to take advantage of this
beautiful warm weather and the fact that I'm literally not going to be returning to the city
that I fell in love with over the last year so I definitely want to do one last hot girl walk
around the city that has been like the one habit I've stayed super consistent with every single
week and so it's just going to be nice to just look at everything, walk around. I'll probably
pick up dinner from out, listen to my romanticising live paste in my headphones and really just
soak it all up, how far I've come and reflect on the fact that I'm really leaving. So this is
officially Moving Diaries episode 2. Within this vlog you will see just the reflection of today,
how I'm going to be spending my last evening in this city, the entire process of tomorrow,
me and my boyfriend driving down to London, unpacking everything, how we're going to spend
our first night. If you haven't already be sure to check out Moving Diaries episode 1 which was
uploaded last week and there's also going to be a Moving Diaries part 3 and part 4 so make sure
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website or a domain. So before we start the very necessary reflection and just honoring this era
of my life and the flat I have to catch you guys up on what happened yesterday because it was so
fun and of course I vlogged it so here are some clips from what happened at our leaving party
yesterday. It's Saturday 1st of June which means it's our leaving party with all of our friends
before we head off to London in two days. We are currently at my apartment on the terrace, there's
little indoor room as well and all of our friends are about to arrive. My friend Kishan is over there
setting up because he's a DJ and he's going to be doing all of the music today. My boyfriend's on
his way with all of the food because we're also doing a big barbecue and then all of his friends
and all of my friends are going to join shortly and I'm so excited because I've never done anything
like this before and I'm really going to be my hosting element today. We have the first guest
who is just setting up. Hello, I'm very excited. I was born to do this. Yes, it's a party in your element
you know you know new new place, terrace vibes, sun. He's actually very offended I haven't brought
him here before. Could be in Ibiza, wouldn't even know. You literally, could be in Ibiza.
Birmingham, Ibiza, what are you saying? It gets cloudy in Ibiza as well. And then all of this seating for everyone
How do you feel that I'm leaving? I feel sad actually. I think it only clicked this week
when I saw your Instagram stories of you like with an empty flat and that's when it hit home.
But this is a celebration. Yeah, it's a happiness, it's a dedication. It's not a bereavement. Yes.
It's a celebration. They go really quick. Yeah, it's true, it's true. I had to change my outfit guys
because it's windy but people are coming and my boyfriend just set all the food up let me show you
I'm just going to spread out all over here
and then we have snacks all in here as well.
I'm not in the picture guys, didn't make the cut. It's important, they've got to put it on Instagram.
I can't wait to see how it's designed though, how you put the inside.
Oh, it's going to be very, very mud and foaming up. I expect nothing less.
We met the boy together at Barcelona. He was the shittest guitar player.
No, he wasn't. Oh, I remember, did you bite it?
It was so much fun you guys and then I got back to my apartment and I was literally editing
The Moving Diaries episode one vlog until like one o'clock in the morning. It's just been so
hectic but now let's reflect on everything that's happened in one whole year of living here and I'm
going to use my camera roll to help me do so. This was my first full day living in this apartment.
My friend came to visit me and she was at the leaving party yesterday. Then I saw my other
friend in the evening and we did a little girly night and honestly this has been the first time
in my life where I've made like really and cultivated really close female friendships
in my life not only in this city but I've grown closer with my other friends in other cities
because I feel like having my own space allowed me to host little things and just have more freedom
and really grow into my own. I'm just looking at these pictures of spontaneously going to bars
because they were a five minute walk down the road from my apartment but I just felt so free
and I was just having fun all of the time. All the date nights with my boyfriend as well. Guys,
it's only over the last year that we've actually been able to see each other more than once a week.
Oh my god, I remember this phase. So this is when I would push my desk and my laptop
up against my window because I was writing the book in this phase like every single day. This
was September 2023. I'd only been living here for a few months but the view just helped me like get
into a zone and then we're getting into things that I achieved while I lived here. I got my
first ever billboard. This was in London Leicester Square. I went down to go and see it. Around this
time my podcast was launching as well, Self Obsessed, in partnership with Spotify. That was
so huge. Like guys, I literally set up my podcast while I was living here. I bought the microphone
and everything. It literally never existed before I moved here. Oh my god, this is while I spoke at
a Birmingham University at their business society and I was invited to speak on a panel. That was
such a huge moment as well and I got to meet so many of my followers that live in Birmingham and
are students. One of my favorite self-love traditions while I've been living here alone
is whenever my routine started to get super mundane and boring, I would go on a hot girl
walk in the morning. I would blast my feel-good music. I would buy myself a bouquet of flowers.
I would go out and buy an ice matcha and drink it all on my walk and then I would come home. I
would clean the flat. I would do my errands. I'd go to the gym. Like I really discovered such a
good routine. No, I discovered the power of varying routines while living here because
when you live alone, everything's so quiet. You can get bored. Everything can feel very repetitive
and so I really took charge of my happiness while I was here. I hit 1 million downloads on my podcast
in this apartment which is now actually on 2 million downloads. I put out the promo for my
book and it was officially available for pre-order which is crazy. So many people are already buying
my book which is coming out this summer and I did it here. Like that was absolutely crazy.
I became an author in this place. There are so many other things as well. Like when I moved here,
I was on 100,000 subscribers. I'm now on 1 million. I set up my vlog channel while I was living here
as well. Like I worked hard enough and increased my income so that I could take myself traveling.
I've been on two solo vacations so far. When I first moved here, everything was in my hands. I
had no help. I was so stressed. I was supposed to juggle all the time and now I have a whole team
of people helping me and so to wrap up this reflection, truly living here and this first
year of my adulthood and having my own apartment has facilitated so much growth, so much more self
love, so many beautiful connections. I found myself a lot. There's so much more self-discovery
to happen but a lot has already happened and I've come miles and miles and miles away from who I
used to be. All of the struggles I had when it came to friendship or dating or learning to be
happy and taking care of my mental health. I feel like while living here, I learned how to solve all
those things. I learned how to stand on my own two feet, how to be responsible for my happiness
and one day I'll be sat making another video of everything that I will accomplish and experience
while living in the new flat. But right now, let's head out, watch the sunset and enjoy
my last few hours in Birmingham before I have to come back and finish packing.
So
it's half past eight. I just came back from a super long walk. I got my favourite dinner,
sat by the canal near my apartment and just took in the views. Honestly, the walk worked like that
really started to set things in for me that this is real and I'm going and I'm walking down these
streets right now that I've walked down almost every single day for a year and I'm never gonna
walk down here again. I'm never gonna have this view again. Do you know how crazy that is? But
right now it's time to tie up all my loose ends and get myself packed and also I need to throw
away a few things as well but basically get myself ready so that I can move first thing in the
It's 9.30. I've just been packing and sorting things out. I'm almost done and I'm ready to go
to bed to wake up nice and early to get ready to become a Londoner. So I just called my boyfriend
to just like finalise our plan for tomorrow and say goodnight and everything and we were like okay
yeah bye goodnight love you and then he was like wait wait wait and I was like yeah he was like
do you realise what this is and I took a second I was like this is our last phone call we're gonna
be nice to each other every single day and we're gonna get to do that we are never like we have
been on the phone before bed we still to this day fall asleep on the phone together
we've done that for almost two whole years every single night and now that's done
and that's it guys I'm all packed it's just about to turn midnight I literally need to
this is about to be my last sleep alone so good night guys and I will see you in the morning
it's moving day this is my quick quick breakfast mango and watermelon with a disposable fork
obviously guys take a good look because this is the last time you're going to see me sat on this
in this apartment I can't believe it I am very sleepy I wish I got two more hours of sleep
but I need to get a coffee in me on our road trip I also can't wait to catch up with my boyfriend
we've barely been able to like fully debrief on how we found our leaving party and everything
because everything's been so hectic so these next like three hours driving down to London
so let's go and that's a wrap bye first apartment
and that is the end of this chapter let's go to London
that's my last Birmingham coffee just got in the car my boyfriend's just in the back
loading up my final things and I have the best boyfriend in the world guys because if you were
much of my vloggers and you know me and my bestie Marnie would always go to the same coffee shop
which is actually located in a furniture store and we were supposed to go this week and then we
couldn't and I was so sad that I couldn't go for the last time because we've been going every single
week while I've been living here to do work to get drinks to catch up and so I get in the car
this morning and my boyfriend's like here you go and he stopped at my favorite coffee shop to get
me a peach matcha for the journey he got himself one as well and then he picked me up breakfast
from there as well this is about to be the best road trip ever
we've arrived home and now we're about to go on our first London date to grab lunch
and we've got apparently what are the most delicious tacos
one bite that is better than the taco place we used to go to in Birmingham all the time
we had our lunch and it was so delicious definitely a highlight of the day I can't believe
we've already found like a top restaurant which we love and now my boyfriend is driving us
to a big supermarket so we could do our first new job together which I'm very excited about
because to me this is a very romantic thing like I can't believe we're gonna go around
and get one of our things and we're gonna go home together we're gonna have to say goodbye
success now we're all stocked up the sun is out and we can get to our routine
it's 6 30 p.m on our first day and we're slowly making progress it doesn't look like much but we
have done a lot yet we do have all of this stuff to unpack we need to get food soon as well but
we're literally just trying to speed through it but I wanted to show you guys our bedroom
because we had some people come in yesterday to deliver it build the bed and we've also unboxed
mattress are you ready for this like the bed is too good this is our gorgeous new bed and if I
bring you closer guys all of the bed is made out of this really soft boucle material and just the
way it comes out and it's curved like this we looked at so many different bed designs but bouquet
beds are by far our favorite because we want our bedroom to be super minimal and cozy and the bed
just gives that like fluffy teddy bear vibe my boyfriend being very smart noted that the quality
of a bed is equally as important as the aesthetic which I normally do not pay attention to so
instead of going like the usual route and just ordering a basic ikea bed we got this bed from
a company on instagram it's called grandeur designs underscore and they basically came in
they deliver the bed they build it for you they fit it into your room but also they take extra
care in the ottoman so this actually lifts up and you have a bunch of storage so you put all
and it's basically super strong and durable I've honestly had two ottoman beds in my life both have
broken within months so I'm really looking forward to this one we actually found a very similar bed
online but we weren't sure of the quality of it so all we had to do was send them a picture
and they custom made this for us the bed was with us within one week and we got actually a really
good price on it as well for reference this is a king-size bed because we have a bigger room and
because my boyfriend is a very tall man we had to get a king-size bed meaning a new mattress as
well so this company emma actually kindly gifted us a mattress and I am so excited to try this
we're still unboxing my boyfriend just ordered us a pizza because we're starving and he's about
to unbox his dream louver that he would not stop talking about this is like a samsung smart louver
and what is it it like cleans itself out yeah so and i'm gonna keep unboxing i can't believe
what size did you get
it's the perfect size for the room i think
oh we decided to get the sofa from dolls and honestly it was really great and it got
delivered to us really fast because most companies were seven weeks and we needed
a sofa in like four days because we were so last minute we just went downstairs to collect yet
another big parcel our coffee table has just arrived and it doesn't need to be built so we're
about to unbox it and put it with our brand new sofa we have a makeshift tv stand and we've got
love island on the screen look how gorgeous this is mint chocolate okay let's dig in
that's crazy
i just had my first shower guys we watched tv and then i ended up having a little nap my
boyfriend finished the coffee table i actually feel much better now that i had that little sleep
and i got the energy to have a shower i need to do my skincare and then we need to put the
bedsheets on and head to bed everything is still very cluttered and there's not much
organization to anything but that is the entire plan for tomorrow we've had an extremely long day
we've both been up since 6am it's now one o'clock in the morning our sleep schedules are gone we have
no routine in sight so i need to wake up at 9am tomorrow get ready plan my day ahead and then a
builder is coming to build all of my walk-in wardrobes like this time tomorrow i will have
my whole room hopefully like somewhat ready i can't wait and while the build is doing that
we're going to be sorting out a bunch of stuff for the living room so i will see you guys in the
morning there we go yeah this is the duvet you chose yeah it's so empty good morning from the
new beautiful bed our bed throw came as well how cute is she literally only from amazon
so cozy and soft let's go see what the boyfriend's up to what are you doing
it's so pretty so this is the progress on the pack's wardrobe so far i have zach from task
rabbit who is kindly building them for me task rabbit is a really cool platform where you can
basically get someone to come over and build any ikea furniture or any furniture for that matter
so this is currently what the living room looks like and the hallway but the good news is when
you go into my closet room it's all done guys i kid you not that builder from task rabbit came
at 10 o'clock this morning and left at 2 p.m in four hours he did my entire custom wardrobe
and this shelf which i'm going to be putting one of my shoes or bags on so i'm super super happy
with that so i thought let me give you an empty tour of my wardrobe before i fill it so we have
one railing there for clothes and i've decided to have a little shelf in between just in case i need
the extra storage more railing underneath these are some more shelves once again you see they're
going to be shoes or bags then i decided to have two railings in this one small compartment
for mini skirts and then we have this tray once again but this is pull out and then underneath
my absolute favorite i decided to have three of these because this is all for jewelry you could
do sunglasses these are all ikea inserts everything here is ikea the only sad thing is this pack's
wardrobe came with the wrong lighting so i bought a bunch of lights that won't even work with this
so it won't light up at the moment but i'm gonna order some on amazon and each compartment will
also light up automatically so i absolutely love that it didn't even take up that much space
meaning this door can still be open everything is still so non-stop it's now 2 30 and i'm starving
so i'm gonna eat some cold leftover pizza from last night i'm so exhausted i'm literally eating
cold pizza out of tupperware and i'm loving it i'm gonna spend the next 30 minutes just sat here
unboxing all of the new stuff that we still haven't opened and the most exciting one of all
is a brand called simple human which i had never even heard of until my boyfriend introduced me to
them and basically they make all of these amazing essential home products that are smarter and make
your life more efficient and convenient so we were looking for a good bin for ages and then we end up
getting this one which has a voice and motion sensor on it we have the soap dispenser and sponge
caddy this is once again automatic so you can get your soap out super easy when you're washing
dishes and stuff you can get it in a few different colors i ended up going with white and although
this might look like your average soap dispenser it actually sits on a wireless charger it holds
50 more soap than any other soap dispenser and it's got anti-clogging technology in the pump
laundry baskets where did i get this from i think danelle you would be surprised how hard it was to
find laundry baskets guys like half of them were ugly or too overpriced or had terrible reviews
because they couldn't hold their shape i'm pretty sure i got these from danelle they are dual
compartments and they have this like wooden feature on them which really goes with our bathroom
aesthetics next up i got the simple human dish soap refill this is in the scent lavender mint
and then oh my god guys this is by far the thing i was most excited for i've never seen any of the
brands do this you just have this little machine that sits anywhere in your home you put your
iphone in it when you get back from a day out and it will clean all of the bacteria off of your phone
then we have what my boyfriend was most excited for i remember him sending this to me and i was
like it's a kitchen roll holder like what is so special about that and then when i looked into
this brand i was like no effing way you actually have a pump that has counter spray that slots
right in the middle of it which makes cleaning your kitchen super easy and more convenient
as you can see here it's just an all-in-one cleanup kit for quick little spills guys i'm
literally sat on a cardboard box filled with my coats right now because we have no chairs
in the apartment just say open can and it will open or you can wave your hand and it will open
oh wow you have bin bags on the inside that it stores that makes refilling your bin super easy
odors or pod wow each refill part will keep you odor free for 45 days open can that is so cool
the boy has successfully set up our matching laundry hampers look how cute that is
the next thing we just unboxed is this chair for my vanity which my boyfriend just built
so cute i have somewhere to sit it's like really nice it feels really good it's white vulva
i got this i think it was an independent brand but i got some wafer and it was a really good price
and i love that it has gold legs because those are going to be the accents in the closet room
okay next up something we're very excited about and we will need tonight for dinner
yeah we've got this i've wanted this for literally years and i'm so excited for it
being dairy and sugar intolerant and also both of us just being in a health journey we don't
really eat ice cream but with the ninja creamy we can make ice cream out of any healthy ingredients
we want in addition to our ninja creamy we also got the ninja air fryer we ended up doing dual
zone looks good we got this dresser from dolls guys we're going for like black and white in
the room as well and then against the wall yeah yeah and then it could cover all of that perfect
so i thought i would show you guys the lamps that i got for the bedroom i got two of these to go on
either side of the bed i only just ordered tables for each side of the bed today so i'll show you
guys them in a few days so i bought these from next i thought the size was perfect but the color
scheme also fits the aesthetic of the room perfectly just with a simple white shade this
table is built perfect fit my measuring works that is a perfect fit yes so the plan for this table
is i've already got a piece of artwork which we're gonna hang here then i'm gonna have two
little bowls that we can put our keys and wallets in and everything and then we're gonna have other
little deco pieces just to spruce up the hallway a little bit now that that's done it's time to
finish off dinner this is the pink sofa i bought for my closet room i also bought this sofa from
dolls i don't think it actually is that you know like pink cushions for my first flat that match
this perfectly it's one o'clock in the morning it's been a very long day yet again but i'm
actually starting to feel better and like we're adopting some sort of routine like i just prepped
a week's worth of chia seed puddings in the fridge so now my breakfast is up to scratch
we set up the air fryer we made our first dinner today so i'm actually feeling way better than i
did yesterday right now nothing feels weird or unusual or uncomfortable even though we're
literally in a whole brand new home i'm barely thinking about my flat before or my life before
this just feels so normal like i've been doing it for ages but i'm just gonna take that as a sign
that i made the right choice and this apartment gives me such a homey feeling and everything just
feels nice and comfortable and i just feel so happy although i'm also very exhausted i hope you
guys have enjoyed watching the last three days a lot has happened in this vlog and this is the end
of moving diaries part two but we still have moving diaries part three and four moving diaries part
three starts tomorrow but you guys will be seeing it next sunday and throughout that vlog you will
see how we're going to be finishing furnishing the apartment i'll go more in depth with that
all of the stuff like i've literally been ordering i think i've ordered like 10 things just today
so i'll be showing you guys all of that and also taking you through how the routine is developing
through these first few days of being in the new apartment and then part four which will come out
on the following sunday will be a finished apartment tour some clips of our housewarming
party that we're hosting this saturday and that is all for now thank you so much for watching i
appreciate you guys i actually posted a bunch of moving content on my instagram stories and my
reels and the amount of love and support i've gotten from you guys has just put the biggest
smile on my face i'm so grateful that we've grown such a beautiful community and you guys show so
like also outspoken with your love and support of me you spoil me so much honestly um i will
see you guys same time next week on sunday for a brand new vlog i love ya bye

