REACTING TO YOUR JUICY ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT US (& a little cooking w/ chef chad)

Chad talks a lot while being intimate in the bedroom. Well hello you guys. Welcome back to our channel. Welcome back. We hope this video finds you well. Yes okay y'all today is a fun video. We're actually going to be reacting to a lot of the like honestly low-key juicy assumptions. I did not read through all of them. I just looked at a couple and I have not seen any of them. Oh lord this is gonna be funny. Yes and yeah so we did something similar back towards Christmas and we had so much fun with it and there's a lot of new faces here in the master stance so we figured we would do it again. Oh yeah and we just want to give a quick thank you to the sponsor of this video which is Green Chef. We're gonna be sharing some juicy deals for some juicy meals but before that we're getting to some juicy assumptions. Well let's start out with an interesting one. You don't want to be on YouTube as influencers long term. Nope. Babe. I mean like I just don't think YouTube's the end goal. But I think we'll always be on YouTube. I just think that we're gonna have a lot of other projects and a lot of other things that I think that will still like be on YouTube. Yeah I see okay. I agree with that but I was more just kind of like we're gonna YouTube's gonna always be the thing. Yes. That was a good one though. I know right. Okay another assumption is that you don't fight. Oh heavens. We fight? Yeah 100%. I think we definitely fight. Who assumes that? Maybe is that what you get? I'm not gonna call you out girl. Because we have a YouTube video that's just like how we handle fights. Yeah how to fight well. How to fight well. I think that is important to make sure we spin that into a positive where fighting is is normal. Disagreeing is normal. She's her own human. I'm my own human. Different upbringings. Different feelings. Different everything. Yeah and but the way that you you communicate during a disagreement or a fight is so important. During the heat of the moment. Yes so yeah. But we definitely fight. But we you know we're learning and we're growing through all that. If you're not fighting as a married couple I would assume that you're like keeping things in. Yeah that can also cause problems. Either you're just the hardcore best BFFs ever or you're probably internalizing some things that you need to externally communicate. Okay next assumption. Oh gosh. You are good savers and never splurge at shops. Well I'm definitely the spender in the relationship. Our spending situation is different because I can go to Target. Oh yeah yes. And like I can spend some money. But it's like on 20 different items that are all like $10 and then you're like oh no. Yeah. And then Chad will just spend that same amount of money on one item. On one thing. But we also believe in like every dollar which is almost like a Dave Ramsey mindset where every dollar has a purpose and we do purpose some spending money. Yeah. And so we do a lot of investing not like in the market but in like. Ourself. Ourselves. This whole thing. Who would assume this? What is it? I haven't read it. What is it? Welcome back everyone to Cooking with Chad. I'm Chef Chad. Today's video is brought to you by Green Chef. Green Chef is a USDA certified organic company that makes eating well easy and affordable y'all. Plus they have plans to fit every lifestyle whether you're vegan, vegetarian, paleo, or keto. Today what we're cooking is a pesto panko chicken with mozzi. The mozzarella. Let's just jump into it. This is the intro part. Okay y'all but seriously I'm so excited about this meal because it has pesto and something else I love about Green Chef is they come with these pre-made perfectly proportioned little sauces and spices because we all know. Variety is the spice of life. So we have the potatoes inside and they're roasting and uh Tori's finishing up the chicken right now. The pesto mozzarella chicken. We're gonna throw it in there and now we're gonna make this little salad. Have fun. It's time to come out. Oh wow baby. I feel like you're massaging it better than you massage me. You actually did a really good job with that. Nice. Now for the moment we've all been waiting for. Y'all take a second to appreciate how amazing that looks. What do you think of this food? I love mozzarella and panko and you love pesto. It's so good. It's a dream team. My goodness you guys we would have never tried this recipe without Green Chef and honestly what's so cool is they have nine different recipes each week that you can choose from. So you'll get a ton of variety and a lot of flavor. This makes me happy that this is available you know that way I don't have to worry about like making a meal plan. Yeah. I don't have to go grocery shopping. Yeah. Well Chef Chad clearly approves of this meal and for you to enjoy a meal like this go to greenchef.us slash 90masters and use code 90masters to get $90 off including free shipping on your first box. I would consider choosing Green Chef. Yeah highly recommend. We hope that you will also consider. Yes we absolutely love it. Now back to the assumption that shook me. I think this girl maybe just like doesn't follow any of our content because she assumed y'all don't want kids. Hmm someone's new here. Someone's definitely new here because obviously we just posted a video that we're trying to have kids. Yeah yeah but it gives you homework to go watch more videos. As parents because this person does watch does watch our content Tori's gonna be the cool mama and Chad's gonna be the good cop. Uh well I originally thought that I was gonna be like the more assertive one the disciplinary like you can't do that you know. I think that I'm actually gonna be the pushover now and my sweet baby's gonna be the one who's a little bit more tough. But yeah I'm definitely gonna be a cool dad. Even look at my cool grandpa shirt I have on. Y'all I have to share a dad moment. I'm not sure if you saw my story but our good friends were in town and Chad is like the ultimate dad. He was waiting for them to come. He knew that they were like less than five minutes away and he just kept going outside to see if they were there or not. I was excited to see them. They're like literally gonna be here any minute and he like paced the house and he's like I'm just gonna go check the mail. I'm like you're not you just want to go outside. Also why'd you say literally like that? Literally like you are literally the best and Perkins. Next assumption is you guys always live up to each other's expectations. Three, two, one. Negative. That's gonna be that's gonna be a no for me dog. I feel like we're like not being nice but it's just true. Yeah well I mean like I think having high really high expectations is just really unhealthy in general. Like that doesn't mean that she doesn't do an amazing job that just means that you know when you're only looking at this person for what they can do for you it's very selfish and you're expecting too many things and then you're putting too much weight and pressure on somebody to be someone. Like they're the wrong person. Yeah. You know let them be who they are. Yeah. I remember when we were engaged we were actually over at Jess and Gabe's house and I remember Gabe saying this and I thought it was so good. Yeah. He's like Jess always exceeds my expectations because I have zero expectations and I'm like that's a good word. He talks about it in the podcast too. It's just a real thing. Just and not to say that I don't have high standards for what I desire out of my wife but I'm not gonna like hold her hostage to do to be this person I expect her to be. That's just not healthy. Okay the next one is you guys are always dressed like models. No absolutely not. I pretty much live in sweats. If you if you were to well I mean I guess you see the models nowadays that's pretty much all they're wearing. That's valid. Like they're wearing sleepwear out in streets. That's also valid. Anyways but no to answer to answer your respond to your assumption absolutely not. No. We um the reason why we're filming to get a little dark outside is because we had to get ready to film because we looked like ready in casual clothing. Yeah so yeah yeah absolutely not. Chad talks a lot while being intimate in the bedroom. Next one. Next question. Neither one or never had body image issues. Oh yeah we both have had body image issues. Yeah yeah lots of them. Especially like I would say models are some of the most body image insecure people you've ever met in your life and like of course look at these people they're so thin and so jacked and so tan or this this isn't that and like no they are incredibly insecure and like when I say they I mean like because you show up at a casting and you pick yourself apart. This person has a stronger jawbone. This person's taller than me. This person fits the clothes better than I do which is important because you have to the clothes have to fit well on you. You just pick yourself apart and yeah yeah it's just unrealistic expectation on how you should look. It's not good. Yeah I mean what's so crazy to me is I had the most body image issues after I won Swimsuit Miss America. Like literally I don't know why I keep saying literally in this video but it's like you would think that that title would have given me like oh wow I'm never going to struggle with like my body image because I like had that thing and it actually caused so many more issues because I like thought I had to maintain that. Yeah so it was a lot. You guys weren't believers when you met initially. False. False. We both were believers. Yeah. See right there. See this thing. That wasn't there. Yeah it's just doing its thing. The next one is you coordinate your outfits a lot. Yes. Not on purpose always though. No sometimes I'm like babe you cannot wear that because we're Why do I want to say that word so much? We are lit but I'm gonna say literally again. It's like it's stuck with you. Oh gosh. You are literally saying it a lot. You are literally twinning and that was like a lot. Yeah. So anyways we do like to coordinate though at least on the same level like oh you're going cozy I'm gonna go cozy. Oh you're dressing up I'm gonna dress up. Yeah we definitely don't want to like clash. Yeah. Okay here's one that I thought was kind of interesting. This person assumes we both struggle with vainness slash concentrating too much on what we will on what will look good due to our job. False. Absolutely not. Like what you see is what you get. I remember there's this funny random story whenever we were back at our old apartment in LA and I wanted to hand squeeze orange juice. I went bought this organic oranges and I laid them all out my counter and I cut them all and I was fresh squeezing them by my hand not with like a professional juicer or whatever and Tori came outside she's like you should be filming this. This is so like aesthetically pleasing. I'm like no this is just this is for me you know and so the way we design our house the way we dress is all because that's what we like. Yeah. If I really cared about the way I looked on camera in terms of like I wouldn't wear a shirt that costs like seven dollars and it says grandpa on it. I do love the shirt though and Tori wore that outfit yesterday. So not calling her out. And I haven't showered so I shampooed for a while. You get annoyed with each other more often than you let on. Potentially. I don't think we'd ever seek to hide getting annoyed with each other. I just think that because we work together we have to squash it. It's not like we work through us feeling annoyed with each other. Yeah. We have to like talk about it and then we get back on the same page and then we then we work and so what you get to see is us having already processed feeling annoyed with each other. Yeah. Versus like low-key being upset like I can't do this. Anyways. Yeah we cannot film so you will never see us on camera if we're like upset with each other because we cannot fake it. So I don't know. I don't know if Tori wants me to ask that one. Just ask it. Assumption. You got jealous in the past about each other's exes. Yes. No. Maybe it's a girl thing. I think I had reason to be jealous about your ex but I think I had just like been brought so low in so many places where I was just like we each have our own pasts you know and I can choose to try to judge you for it or make myself feel bad about things or I can just be like I'm choosing to like trust you and choosing to just like understand that God's been holding your hand throughout your whole life and you've had to go through certain things and you know and what am I going to do not hold your hand because I'm jealous of somebody? No. Like I love the way he said that and I totally agree but it did not mean that when we initially started dating I was like I think sometimes as girls it's just like hard to not compare yourself to an ex. Yeah. Yeah I do think that if you dwell on it it makes it so much harder to not think about it but for me it was always just thinking about like the future stuff and so it wasn't. That is a much healthier mindset. Yeah. Take that one and run. Well and it's so easy to focus on the past too and so I think I had to kind of train myself to not. Yeah. And I think it was kind of like I didn't want you to I didn't want you to dwell on my past so I would purposely not dwell on your past you know what I mean because like yeah. Y'all get the real real. You regret wearing some of the outfits you did while modeling slash being Miss Florida. Yes. Absolutely. Yeah. A lot of regret there. Yes. Yeah. Would have been nice if there was a class in school on modesty. Yes. 100%. But we do have a video right here. Here's an interesting one. You are comfortable with where you are in life right now. Yes. I think getting older can be scary for a lot of people. I think feeling stressed about life stages and feeling like you're not where you are or feeling like you're not where you want to be right now. There are so many pressures and I think that we're doing the best we can to not let external pressures affect how we feel internally. Yeah. So. Yeah. This is interesting. Chad Loki hates how you sing every intro. Welcome back to our channel. Do you? I gotta be honest. I think it's so adorable. Aw. Like our patrons we have a discord chat and now whenever someone joins people say welcome back to our discord. It's so cute. Cutie. I think it's super adorable. Here's an assumption. We're pregnant. Well if we were number one this is not how we would announce it. Yeah. No. Number two we never know until I start my beard or not. Yeah. And she's just getting over it so. So we don't know. Let you know in a month? I don't know. How do we even you know because then you have to wait a couple weeks. I don't even know. Tell people. I don't even know. As of right now there ain't no news to share but prayer's up. Seriously. Thanks for the prayers. You would think of adopting soon if you don't get pregnant soon. I guess define soon you know. Yeah. Because we're actually big fans of adoption regardless of when we get pregnant. Yeah. And so. I think in our head it's like we'd rather have two kids and then adopt. But I feel like we're open to adopting whenever God like lays it on our heart. But I also feel like we're gonna have way more like clear minds once we're in a home that we can actually like have space for children. Because obviously right now we don't. And so. This is gonna be a good one. Okay. Assumption. Tori thought Chad was a f-boy at first. Oh my gosh. They didn't write that the f-word. They put like just letter. No. No. When you first met me. No. Remember in Orlando? Yes. You didn't feel that way at all? No. Well that's good news. We spend a lot of money. Tori and I are in this place right now where I saw this quote by Elon Musk and it changed my life. He says I don't I don't believe in 10-year plans. I believe in like a 10-month plan or 10-year goal. I believe in a 10-month goal. He's like try to accomplish your 10-year goal in 10 months. You're probably not gonna be able to do it but you're gonna finish your goals a heck of a lot faster than you would otherwise. And so Tori and I have been on a contracting spree where we've now hired four people. Yeah. To to work with us which is super exciting. Which is not cheap. Yeah. But we're. Everything we make we're like putting back into our little business. So we like have our assistant now who helps a ton. We have Zach who's editing this video and then we just brought on some project managers to help us get out all those projects that we have been telling you we want to do this year but we're just at capacity and you can't get it all done by ourselves. And so in an effort to get you guys the master spam more of what you want we need help. Amen. And honestly the best investment you can make is one in yourself. Yeah. And so don't be afraid to invest in yourself. What is this hair doing? It's just bobbing. You guys are not embarrassed by PDA. I am. I mean like I'll kiss my wife you can't you guys master am you you see us and sometimes we have some really sweet moments but I'm definitely very like self-aware. I'm not. That's my throat. I am. I'm not saying it's bad or anything. I'm just I tend to be a little bit more reserved in that way. This one's kind of juicy. When I say kind of it's very juicy. We don't know if we're actually going to answer it but your wedding night was so intimate because you were able to wait for one another. Yes. But it was different than what we thought it would be like. Yeah. Yeah. And if you guys have watched our Let's Talk About Sex series then you kind of know our history and all the things but Chad and I did not have sex until our wedding night and it was really special and I'm so glad that we waited for each other. Look at us. So that's my form of PDA. He does this and I'm like you guys are really private and reserved people in real life. No. No. No. This is we share things that we share with our everyday friends and family on here. Yeah. Yeah. So like there's not much that's not on the table. Yeah. I saw another assumption in there that talked about how you're not afraid to share embarrassing things about your life. Yeah. I think it's only embarrassing if you like allow it to embarrass you. And like who am I trying to impress that I'm not going to be embarrassed in front of. Yeah. I'm an imperfect human. I'm allowed to make a few mistakes and learn from them and laugh at myself. Yeah. And so I feel like even when you read the Gospels there's embarrassing details in the Gospels which make people believe that it's real. Yeah. Because if you were to write a story you might leave out some of those embarrassing things but these things make you relatable. Yeah. It's humanity. You know what I mean? It's like okay well if we're going through something then we're probably not the only ones going through it. So let's talk about it. Yeah. Tori secretly uses the little hands when Chad is not around the house. Go on babe. No. Show them. I don't. Show them what you do in your free time. I don't. Show them. What? They're so creepy. Y'all they're literally all over our home. I was cleaning our house earlier and I like find them in the most random places. All right fam I think that is all for today's video. We hope it entertained you like it did us. And also just another quick thank you to Green Chef for sponsoring this video. You guys make sure to follow the link below and use our code for a great discount on all their yummy meals. And yeah I think that's it for today. We talk in the next one. See you next video.