This Week: Kimberly Bonati, Ethan Youker and Spine surgeon Alfred Bonati, M.D., discuss how caregivers can encourage moments of lucidity in dementia patients. Dr. Stephen Post explains sparking fond memories can trigger temporary moments of clarity and interaction in "Dignity for Deeply Forgetful People." Then, Scott's back pain radiated down his legs causing weakness. After his exclusive Bonati Spine Procedures, he is back to his normal routine pain-free. (Original airdate 2-15-25)
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>>Welcome to
American Medicine today.
I'm Kimberly Bonati alongside
Ethan Youker.
We have a jam packed show.
Let's get right to it.
A recent national prevalence
study has estimated that up to
44% of dementia patients
experience unexpected moments of
lucidity.
So how do we as caregivers help
encourage them?
Joining us to discuss is Dr.
Steven Post, founding director
of the Center for Medical
Humanities Compassionate Care
and Bioethics Center at Stony
Brook University.
>>Thank you for joining us,
Doctor.
>>You're welcome.
Kimberly and Ethan, too.
Nice to see you.
>>So tell us more about this
study.
You surveyed nearly, what, 6000
caregivers for those with
dementia.
What were those findings?
>>Well, we used the Gallup
organization and we did, in
fact, identify 6000 active
primary caregivers.
And our intent was to understand
how they as caregivers responded
to these wonderful moments of
unexpected lucidity in their
loved ones.
Maybe they thought their loved
one was completely gone, a husk,
a shell, dead and so forth.
But they come back into
themselves.
And sometimes it's stimulated by
music, familiar music or art or
the smell of something that they
love from the kitchen.
It could be a lot of different
things.
It could be the fall leaves.
It could be the sound of the
ocean.
Who knows?
But they can be stimulated.
And it's quite dramatic at
times.
And then sometimes it's just
sporadic.
Sometimes it just happens.
But it's very important because
we wanted to know how the
caregivers respond to that kind
of moment.
And it's actually quite
positive.
About 90% of them have very
favorable responses and it gives
them a sense of meaning and
purpose and hope in what they're
doing because they don't feel
like they're just wasting their
time.
We're spinning their wheels.
They feel like their grandma is
still there and grandma still
needs them.
I personally have a have a
family member who's I mean, he's
not well, he's literally not
there all the time.
And so I think that's what
sparked my interest when I saw
this, that these moments of
lucidity are possible because
collectively, as a family, we
all yearn for those moments
where, you know, it's my father
in law where he returns.
Is there any indication how
those are sparked?
It's completely unknown.
Do you know how long these
moments typically last?
>>Well, we surveyed all of those
kinds of things.
I think music is the most
important intervention.
So there's quite a lot of work
going on around the country in
the area of music and memory,
particularly music that's
familiar to the individual as he
was or she was in life and
developing.
Maybe it was the Beatles, maybe
it was Bing Crosby, who knows?
But something that was
meaningful to them.
And usually it's more effective
if it's applied with an iPod.
It's something about being
singular, about them, about the
most important impression.
And so they don't just sort
things out with their background
environment.
But that's a long story.
And it's also it stimulates them
in terms of of who they are.
I have a book called Dignity for
Deeply Forgetful People.
I don't much like the word
dementia because it invites a
lot of negative metaphors.
Gone husks show all those kinds
of things.
I was mentioning.
But deep forgetfulness is
something that is more
continuous.
You know, I'm certainly one who
has those experiences in the
parking lot at night when I'm
going home.
Where did I park my car?
So it's okay to forget where you
parked in car.
It's not okay to forget that you
have a car.
That's park.
That's actually a pretty good
diagnostic fiction.
Yes, music is important, but.
But art is important.
We had a we had one case of a
gentleman who would come into an
art therapy class in the early
mornings.
He was quite severely forgetful,
would say, for a long his
dementia.
But he would in fact sketch
things out on a piece of white
paper with a black crayon.
And it was chaotic, but there
was always this one line in the
middle of the paper.
It looked like a little bit of a
street maybe, And we would ask
him in the morning, So what is
this?
And he couldn't respond.
But then one morning he'd
volunteer and he said, This is a
map so my daughter can find her
way to my house.
>Hmm.
Wow.
>And these are anecdotally true.
Many, many people report them.
In fact, the National Institute
for Health is even funding
research now, trying to wonder
what's going on in the brains of
people who have these moments of
return to use the word Ethan.
And I think it's it's really
important.
>>We're going to take a quick
break.
We'll be right back with Dr.
Steven Post after this.
You were watching American
Medicine today.
>>I went to Dr. Bonati and he
went ahead and looked at my
pictures.
He told me, You have pain here.
You have pain here.
And I was like, Yeah,
absolutely.
I'd been to others, but he was a
doctor that didn't want to
fillet my back open
like a fish and do like
open spinal surgery because
everybody else wanted to do that
and I was not having it.
The anesthesiologist who was
working with me, I was like, how
in a conversation with this guy?
And then I was watching on the
monitor as Dr. Bonati is fixing
my back, I really felt like I
was in good hands.
>>Bonati succeeds where
others fail.
>>Welcome back to
American Medicine Today,
we're continuing our
discussion on dementia and
Alzheimer's with
Dr. Steven Post.
>>I think what I what I have
personally encountered with my
father in law is that it's
almost like he he's I use the
term locked in.
He's locked inside his his mind,
really, because we've found that
he does hear and can process
what you're saying.
You know, you'll say something
to him and hold his hand in
yours and he'll kind of smile
and might squeeze your fingers,
but he can't communicate back.
What are your thoughts and
sort of that idea of being
locked inside?
>>I've been writing on that for
30 years and
it's so important to
learn to use language
appropriately.
So, for example, you never ask
someone with dementia, What
would you like for breakfast?
You know why?
Because you're putting pressure
on them.
You're forcing them to dig back
and try to remember words that
they may well have forgotten.
But if you give them choices.
So those are called closed ended
questions.
Would you like Post Toasties
being named?
Post?
Of course.
Post Toasties or Ham and Eggs?
You'll be surprised that same
individual who had no response
before it was anxious because
you ask the question, suddenly
they'll say, Oh, ham and eggs,
and they'll have a smile because
you help them remember.
By the way, you used language.
>>My grandmother passed away
from dementia, so this really
hits home because we didn't know
how to deal with it at the time.
And then we had a great uncle
whose wife was in a home with
dementia, and he would visit her
every single day.
And there were times where she
remembered him.
And even when she didn't know
that that was her husband, she
said, I know your heart, your
good heart.
And so they had that loving kind
of connection, even though it
wasn't immediate recognition.
But this is so difficult not
only for the person who's going
through it.
And like you and Ethan said,
they're kind of locked in for
the family members.
Do things like photographs help
at all, or does that just make
them more anxious?
>>Oh, no, they help a great
deal.
In fact, most of the experienced
caregivers that I know utilize
photography quite adeptly.
They'll typically have a book of
photographs that is appropriate
for the age cohort.
Could be Mickey Mantle.
It could be Joe DiMaggio, could
be Marilyn Monroe.
Who knows?
But those kinds of things can be
very stimulating.
And so there's more there than
meets the eye is what I like to
say.
And we're discovering some of
the techniques that are very
helpful in reconnecting with
individuals and kind of freeing
them from that, locked in, I'll
use Ethan's language of that,
locked in feeling.
I think it's very important that
we do so, because honestly, you
know, the medications are, you
know, let's hope they come
along, become more and more
successful.
Right now, they're not too
great, but you can bring someone
back into themselves with the
right use of these stimulants,
the music, the art and so forth.
And suddenly, you know, they're
kind of there bit now.
It may not last and the cynics
may say, well, it's meaningless,
but it's not it's not going to
those individuals and certainly
not to their caregivers, because
their caregivers say, you know
what, my life as a caregiver is
meaningful.
It also shields them somewhat
from depression because there's
a slightly higher depression
rate globally among caregivers.
That's why they need respite and
so forth.
If they are attentive and
willing to notice and engage
with these moments of lucidity,
they tend to be happier and more
relieved and find more meaning.
You know, meaning is the key to
life.
If you just feel like you're
wasting your time going through
a kind of external routine that
doesn't have any value at all,
it's hard to be very fulfilled.
But we find that when people are
trained to notice these
episodes, they feel more
complete.
>>I know to get back any time
with your loved one, even if
it's mere minutes, is
worthwhile.
Thank you so much for being on
the program.
Dr. Stephen Post.
>>Thanks, doc.
>>It's a pleasure.
>>Take great care.
That's all we have for this
segment.
We'll have more after the break.
You were watching American
Medicine today.
If anyone deserves the number
one Grandpa award it's Scott
from Tampa, Florida.
>>I have an office upstairs and
I recruit nationwide in the
oncology field engineers to fix
the cancer treatment machines
like variants.
And for a hobby, I love to make
cosplay outfits for my
grandkids.
I've made Ironman and Batman.
I had pain in my lower back that
it radiated down into my legs,
through the sides of my legs,
into the back of my legs.
They were always really tight.
And then there was the shooting
pain that was like electricity
right down my legs, the side of
my legs and the front of my
legs.
And depending on what I was
doing or how long I was on my
feet.
It could be incredibly strong
shooting pains or just
lightning.
The car was not a friendly
environment for me.
You think I'm sitting?
No, moving my foot back and
forth.
It was not a friendly
environment and trying to get in
and out of the car.
Very difficult.
Many, many times.
I just had these these cramps in
my legs while I'm driving and I
had to pull over and stop.
I had some struggles with the
stairs in my house when I would
wake up in the morning and I'd
be ready to go down stairs, I
would stand at the top of the
stairs with both hands on both
sides and just look at the
stairs and go, I don't know what
my legs are going to do.
Gingerly, carefully put my leg
down and make sure my legs
were there.
As I walked down with holding on
for dear life going up, I had to
bend over completely, you know,
lean forward in my freezers full
of ice packs.
It's amazing.
I went to a chiropractor who is
a great guy.
He was very helpful up until the
last year or so.
>>No matter what he did, the
pain was still there.
I have a sister who lives in
Santa Barbara and she had back
surgery ten years ago where they
went in and did pins and screws
and a fusion and, you know,
cutting things out and all that
stuff.
She went through a year of
recovery so that really gives me
pause to think about that.
And when I was making my
decision of what to do.
>>That's when he saw a
commercial for the Bonati spine
Institute and made the Call.
>>The day of the consultation.
Less than a minute somebody came
out to get me, put me in the
office, and I met with the
doctor and it's, wow, that's
like clockwork.
That's not unusual.
I've never had that happen
before.
I met with the doctor.
He was very relaxed and
interested in my experience up
to this moment.
Asked me about my symptoms.
Asked me to explain where they
radiate from, had me stand up,
sit down, you know, do all these
different things.
And he looked at the MRI and
then this is the avenue
of concerns
>>The Exclusive Bonati spine
procedures are performed
incrementally using conscious
I.V. sedation.
This keeps the patient alert and
communicating with their surgeon
to ensure the source of their
pain is eliminated before they
leave the operating table.
>>And you're asking me some
questions.
Do you feel this?
Do you feel that.
It wasn't uncomfortable
or anything.
I think it was just information
that they needed?
Okay, great.
That's what we needed to know.
After the procedure, I went into
the recovery room.
So when I sat up knowing my my
legs, you know, were just like
leg day on work out day.
Right.
They were always real tight.
I just reached back to my legs
and I felt my legs and they
weren't like tight as a drum.
They were relaxed.
So that's new.
And so when I stood up, they
said, You feel your pain.
No, I don't.
This was unusual.
Everything was just gone.
You know, all the all the
symptoms were gone.
I can't even describe you
know, what that means or feels
like, you know, to stand up and
not have any pain.
Your legs.
I can go up and down the stairs.
You know, I was feeling pretty
good, actually.
>>We sat down with Scott just
three months after his
procedures at the Bonati Spine
Institute.
He is already back to his
routine and doing the things he
loves most.
>>Well, I've been walking.
I've been lifting things.
I've been doing things around
the house.
I've been going back to my
normal activities I used to do
two years ago.
I am getting stronger and
stronger.
And, you know, you get out of
shape when you don't do these
things.
And so getting back in shape, I
am just a believer and I'm very
thankful that I went through
that and I'm living the dream
right now.
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