SUCCESS HITS DIFFERENT WHEN NOBODY BELIEVED IN YOU. - Motivational Speech

that's the thing about being an individual as an individual you have a light that you have to bring into the world and that if you don't bring it into the world the world is a dimmer place and that's a bad thing because when the world is a dim place it can get very very very dark and so it's not just so that you feel better you need to take care of yourself because you're in the best position to do that and it's necessary for you to take care of yourself don't be afraid to reinvent yourself and don't be afraid to be different man you ain't got to fit in the crowd why are you following everybody when you were clearly meant to leave it's always better just do your thing and i don't care what situation you to got your life in you can turn your life around cause it ain't never too late easy choices hard life hard choices easy life the hard choices what we most fear doing asking saying these are very often exactly what we most need to do you know sometimes you get that feeling in life that things aren't going my way listen things just don't go your way that's not the way the world works you gotta make them go your way it's not just gonna happen you gotta make it happen situations that happen that was out of their control and when you think about when things happen the first thing we try to do as individuals how can i control it and how can i manage it and if i can't control it and manage it now i'm frustrated and i'm mad about it in the words of an older gentleman he told me one day he said young man you can't speed up the river and you can't slow it down at a certain point you gotta have some faith kids you can't ever give up most people on the planet today are not living in the present they're certainly not living in the future they are stuck in the resentments the bitterness the pain the frustration the disappointments of the past know where you align with what you want to do in terms of your life and your goals and your dreams but i say what dr miles monroe said live full die empty and so during the adversities of where we are and what we're facing you want to have some things that you're doing and that will give you the tools the mindset the mental resolve to handle whatever life throws at you why lest because whatever life throws at you you have in you greater is he that's in you than he that's in the world you have in you to handle it just the difference between winning and losing in life and everything of being a great mother and not a great father and not a great leader and not wealthy and not a big business and not making a difference or not is so small it's almost too scary to talk about in that small thing all my life i've been trying to figure out what's the thing what's the separator i know what it is they do exactly what everybody else does and one more they read one book a month they read one more they do 30 minutes on the treadmill no they do 30 plus one more they do 10 reps on the bench press no 10 reps one more when you set that standard your entire life begins to shift and change about the impossible task nothing is impossible the more you believe in yourself the more you believe if one man or one person can do this another one can you think things are gonna just go your way well they're not gonna just go your way you gotta make them go your way you think things are gonna just happen for you well they're not just gonna happen for you you're gonna make them happen go make things happen we all have that monster that monster that lives in our head and that monster is the thing okay these are the things that keep us up at night these are the things that discourage us and cause us anxiety and cause us fear if you don't slay the monster the monster will eat you a lot you will live a life of anxiety of fear of confusion of frustration if you don't make a habit of slaying the monster we the longer we allow that monster to live in our brains and our minds the bigger and stronger it gets the scarier it gets [Music] you you have built in greatness you have built in power authority and dominion to handle whatever life throws at you and life is going to be throwing a lot of stuff nobody's going to be spared that's why victor franco called it unavoidable suffering when you can be happy in the midst of hardship then you see the true potential of the mind when you can't control what's happening control how you respond to it that's where your power is control what you can control i can control my attitude i can control my words i can control my perspective i can control the lens of which i see it because if i can control what i can control in the moment what's happening externally is not going to affect an impact my true potential and my true advancement as a person if you let people's perception of you dictate your behavior you will never grow as a person but if you leave yourself open to experience despite what others think then you will learn and grow you don't work through what happened in your past you are resigned to spend the rest of your future stuck in the past if you want to play it mastery in your craft you want to play it mastery in your thinking you want to play it mastery in your performance you want to play it mastery in your income you want to play it mastery in your service to humanity you owe it to yourself and the best within you and the talent that resides within you to do the work required to let go of the past you gonna wait another 30 seconds gonna wait another minute you're gonna wait another hour you know what how about i just wait till tomorrow you gonna wait till tomorrow you're gonna wait another week you're gonna wait another month how much longer you're gonna wait [Music] i say no more waiting [Music] [Music] do [Music] you