Explore the latest episode of Baghban, delving into the topic of “Parenting of Academically weak children” or “Parhai me Kamzor Bachon ki Tarbiyyat”. In this episode, the program's host, Mr. Syed Arif Rizvi engages in an insightful discussion with esteemed guest Ms. Sadia Amir (Educationist) addressing the following concerns in depth:
• What are the fundamental reasons for academically weak students? • Possibility to improve academic results • Understanding specific academic challenges • How to motivate academically weak students to improve in studies? • Assessment of academically week students? • How school administration assesses academically weak students? • Is class differentiation the reason of academic weakness among students? • What strategies should parents adopt to improve academic results of weak students? • How to develop curiosity among weak students for questioning and learning? • Are weak students neglecting their studies because of excessive screen time? • Screen time: The source of educational learning and developing skills Ethical content is immensely beneficial in children's upbringing!
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Parenting | Parenting Tips| Gentle Parenting | Parenting Styles | Parenting Hacks | Parenting Videos | Positive Parenting | ethical parenting | Responsible Parenting | Parenting Strategy | Parenting Tips for Toddles | Bad Parenting | Focus on Parenting | Family Values |education of weak students |learning challenges of weak students |experiential learning
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So will this child remain like this or
what are the possibilities that his level can be
brought up again and he can be made average or above
average?
Why is he not motivated in studies? Is
n't it necessary to understand
why he is not motivated?
What techniques does the school have for studying? To assess
such children? Are
teachers really concerned about which child is weak? Do
I need to give him personalized
attention? What can I do
at home so that the child can do better
in education? Shouldn't parents encourage children so that
curiosity and questioning develop in them so that the
child asks questions? The child of today's era is
spending more screen time. Doesn't
this distract the child
from studies? The content that he is watching is
itself educational, which is creating motivation in him.
Exploration is coming in him. Is
n't this a technique
through which the child can cope up and move forward?
Aju Billa Min Shaitan Razi Bismillah
Rahman Rahim Assalam Walekum Viewers once
again in the program Baghban, Khushamdid
you have been watching our programs continuously
and we also get your very positive
feedback and comments in which
our viewers also request us to
hold programs on the topics of their difficulties and I would just like to tell you
in the beginning that we take your comments
seriously because our purpose is to
warn parents about parenting, to
train parents and definitely
we will talk about those topics which are difficult for you. Our
topic today is also
similar which is related to education,
education is a basic need of a human being and
no one can deny this and
Alhamdulillah this is an important thing for our
nation also that in our nation also a large
number of people are inclined towards spiritual education, it is
another matter what kind of education we
want to acquire and from where we want to acquire it.
But there is a trend towards education and
many parents are concerned about how
their child is
getting what kind of education, whether he is
progressing or not,
again it is another issue that what is their limit. The limit is that the
child should study, get a position in a
good college, a good university after school
and then get a good job
or do some business in which he becomes
successful in worldly terms. In our
country education is
considered an important reason for worldly success, which is also correct, it is not
wrong that if you want to be successful in this world in
terms of effort then you
need a good worldly education, that is why parents
send their children to schools from where the
education starts and now
even before school there is a pre-schooling system
where the
burden of education starts on the child at the age of 2-3 years,
but when the child goes to school, the
problem is not solved by going to school, the problem
starts from here. Now the parents are
worried about what the school is teaching the
children. If they are not satisfied then they
send their child for tuition, get them home tuition,
send them to academies, work
hard at home, get them to do their homework, remind them,
teach them so that
somehow the child becomes
successful, gets good marks in his studies, gets a
good position and gets
educated but at times it is also
seen that many children are
weak in studies,
many children
go to the same school to achieve success, some children come out ahead, some get
good positions, some do not
and there are some for whom the
parents try their best, send them to academies, get them
tuitions but still they
remain weak in studies and we were
also asked what should be done with such children who are weak
in studies, what
kind of behaviour should they have, what
techniques should be adopted so that they can
excel in studies and move ahead.
Our topic today is
what should be done to bring weak children ahead in terms of education
and to talk on this topic we
have a guest who is present there and he is Miss. Sadia
Amir who is an educationist as well as the
principal of Pak Turk Marf School
and we have given her the trouble earlier also, she is again
present with us today Assalam
Walekum, we greet you
in the program and because you are an educationist as well as the
principal of a school, we think
that perhaps you can have a good discussion on this topic
and our parents who are
concerned about this can get a practical
solution to these problems in which they can
solve this problem or
understand its basic aspects. Not every problem is
solved the way we want it to be, sometimes the problem is
different and its solution is found somewhere else.
Our criterion of weakness is
that the child fails in the test, fails
in the exam, is unable to study,
complaints come from the school that this child does
not remember, does not do the homework properly
and parents get worried that
what should be done with such children, Miss Sadia
you This issue of weak children, so is it that the
children who are weak in achieving education, is it a
genetic issue,
environment or mental issue, what are its root causes,
Bismillah Rehman Rahim, first of all
I would like to appreciate Kavish of Hura TV
that the
role you are playing in the society for the awareness of parents is a
very positive role and the
different speakers who come and speak in it, we
really want to guide the parents
and through your platform
our voice can reach the people, we can
tell them that your topic today is very serious and
very much as per the need,
really the factors that you mentioned, whether
it is genetic or something
environmental, there are many factors in it,
evolved, I just want to say that basically the
basic problem that I see in it right now is
first of all our education system
and then no doubt our environmental
contribution, then the attitude of us parents,
how do the parents adopt it in it
I will talk beyond that
and I would like to tell you that
you have tried to touch it a little bit genetically also, so
if there are
24 students in the class, then the
children who have genetic issues, in my experience till now, there can be
two students out of 24
in the class who have
only genetic issues, mostly they are because of
environmental issues and
because of our education system,
our education system is very traditional like
in this continent, a system was
created that only Muslims should be able to write and
apply, and
philosophers and scientists are
not born or developed among them and they were
put in the race of passing marks and marks and we are
following the same system till date, whereas
what is education in reality, if we
look even in the Quran, it is attention and concern, learning to teach things,
learning to promote it,
critical thinking, analytical thinking,
problem solving skills for that.
Unfortunately, we have totally ignored this thing in our education system,
but if we keep blaming the educational system for this,
then we are
absolved of our responsibilities. We have to
see that how we as parents can bring about a change in this system
in our homes or if there are some arrangements in the classes, then it is that
first of all, in the
first six years, I think if the
children are weak in the field of their education, then the
reason for this is their base which is weak, the first six
years in which
holistic development, brain development up to 90%,
and the level of class one,
from pre-nursery to six years like grade one
and two, okay, this time period is very much
important, in this we
start making the children do only writing, the
parents have this stress that my child has
not got AC yet, my child does not know how to
write teeth, he does not know Alif Be,
whereas at that age our foreign
countries, which are successful countries, are in the In the
field of education, they are making a difference in such a way
that in those six years, they are
working on those tips for the children which
help them out in being result oriented in their practical life in their senior classes. For example,
in these years, we have to develop the children's listening and
speaking, after that
comes reading and writing, but unfortunately, we take
start from reading and writing or
develop the cognitive learning skills in it. During this time period, the
children's tension span develops,
children learn to focus, we have to give independence to the children, there should be
a
fun based learning, play based learning,
in that, the children's skills develop.
Unfortunately, we, our education
system and also the pressure of the parents, you people
only make them draw in school, you
only make them colour, whereas these are the
activities like colouring, drawing,
painting, listening to a
poem, then explaining it, show and
tell the child about it. Let me tell you something,
confidence comes, speaking skills come,
so these are the skills that
develop quickly in children at that time and
parents complain that you people have got
only this done, okay, they want to
see a product, whereas this is the
time of booking of the product, the
pre-procedures of the procedure,
this is that time period in which the attention span of
children needs to be developed so that they
can focus on something for a longer time, if we are unable to develop the
basic factor when we are
not able to develop focus in children in the first six years, we are
not able to develop their attention span
and that comes from playing games when they are
happy to learn something, that is,
educational games, learning games, activities, hide and
seek, how much we play in childhood,
if we focus only on that, then in that
children learn, socialize,
learn, communication skills,
exploration, they
search for each other, okay, curiosity
develops in them and these are the things that
we also find in the Quran. Orders were given and
these things are being developed in the education systems of our successful nations as well.
Parents are your clients and
we have to develop these things when we are in a commercial system,
parents are your clients,
but we have to bring some change in it,
we have to bring change in it and
we will drive it through this only, then you will have to do
exactly what they want,
otherwise they will take you to some other school
which will fulfill their demands,
but at the end of the day, when the same child is
not able to study, then the same parents come and
complain that our child is
not showing progress, he is
slow in studies, so the fundamental reason
or in majority of the cases, the reason is that the
child is weak in studies, this is the
initial class one to prep preschool
level where those learning
skills are not developed in him, the fundamental
problem is of learning skills development and
not that he has to learn to read and write, this is
a
fundamental But the child who became weak,
this child turned 8 years old, 10 years old,
came to elementary school, now
came to secondary school, now the
load of more subjects is increasing on him, there is science,
maths, he is not able to cope up, so will
this child remain like this or
what are the possibilities that his level can be
brought up again and taken to average or above
average, why not, there is
a solution to every issue, okay, and
parenting
can be very useful in this, in terms of parent's
patience, if we see in such matters, if
in our culture, parents are just
asking the results and marks and making
the kids answerable that why did this happen, why did you get low
marks, why did your teacher call me today,
first of all discussion
lacks a lot between parents and children, okay, if they are
facing any problem, parents
never want to listen to the child, when I did
not have any awareness, I was also one such
mother. But I have learnt with the exposure and
experience that the child needs to be discussed, their
problems need to be discussed. Parents should
sit together and listen to their problems and
we have to explain to the child that you
can convert these into your strengths, we are
with you, we have to support them. We have to give them
confidence, we have to listen to them, so
first of all listen to them. There must be
some problems in their classrooms as well, there is bullying
in classes, some problems of teacher's behaviour from the teacher's side,
what is the specific challenge with the child due to which he is weak
in studies, it needs to be understood
properly, that is, the school should also understand it, the
parents should also understand it and by evolving it is possible that
a child may be weak in one thing but may not be
weak in other things.
Parents need to understand that too sorry for this diversity,
a child may be good in Maths but
may not be good in English.
It is related to right and left
hemisphere. One part of your brain is
better for English than for language.
And it is better for a mathematical portion.
Now, it is different for everyone. So,
first of all we have to accept this diversity
that children at the same time
cannot be perfect in all the subjects. And
then we have to listen to them. Then we
prepare their routine. They are facing problems in the classroom.
Maybe they are not able to discuss with the teacher.
They have pressure.
Some children are dominant in the classroom. If
we listen to the children in the class, then there are
problems. We have
experienced more of such psychological problems that so and so
demotivates me.
He insulted me and I
could not muster courage to ask. Parents should listen to those things, understand them,
back them up, give them confidence and
bring it to the notice of the teacher. Children should have a routine of
studying at home and
we have to sit with the children from the young stages.
If parents say that the children should start
studying on their own, then this is impossible in the first two
to three years after grade one and two.
Even after you have to live together,
you should discuss their timetable and homework. There should be
a routine plan. There should be an
educational plan with the child at home as to
when you sit with him and
how you do it. Here a question arises
that for doing every work, whether the child is small
or big, there is a motivation.
There is a motivation. The motivation
level of children is of a low level. They need rewards. They get
attracted very quickly to such things. So, if a child is
weak in studies or does not want to study, the
parents force him, beat him up,
scold him but he does not
open the book, runs away, does some things here and there. Then
why does he not get motivated
in studies? Is there no
need to understand why he is not motivated to
study? Because we have very
unrealistic expectations from him
that he should get high grades in every subject
and we only talk about grades.
If instead of grades, we start talking about
learning, what have you learnt from
this, this is also my experience. I think that the
children who are struggling students, who are weak
in studies, believe me they are good at
sports, they are good at arts,
they will be good in maths, the exceptional case is that those
children are good in mathematics, so
if we
work beyond their strengths, we should tell them, we should
accept this thing that yes you are a
human being, you cannot be perfect for all the things at one time
and we are with
you, so I think we can solve this issue, during
this time period there is a
gap in the
development of the children, the child does not achieve one milestone,
then does not achieve the second, does not achieve the third
and we keep on creating that gap
with our strict behaviour, the
second reason for this is that after school time there is a very
inflexible timing timetable, the
children have a schedule, after that the children have to go for tuition,
then the teacher has to come and then
after that the parents have to teach themselves, the child, a
small child, a child of five to six grades, they need to do something, they
need freedom
He gets mentally tired and automatically gets
demotivated from studying, especially
when his learning skills have not developed in him
in his primary classes or at the initial
level, and
he is already struggling.
After that, if you put a pseudo pressure of
tuitions and a routine on him, then
he gets demotivated and
loses interest in studying because
the child feels that I cannot do this,
why should I do it. With such a
restricted result of our plan, we are
telling the child that we don't trust
you, our everything plan is too trust oriented. The
child
cannot tell his point. We are always in the
thinking process that I have to
do this now and that too. There is so much pressure. There is
so much pressure on our children that we are
in the process of achieving too much and because of
that the children are losing their real learning,
their real strength. Basically, the
parents are making a mistake. We would have also come into a competitive state
that look how intelligent my sister's child is, that
neighbour's child is so smart,
why is my child so weak, he
cannot study and what you said was a
great thing that we have a
doctor, is he weak in everything overall
or does he have interest in some area, and then we should be
far ahead in identification, why don't you support him in this area so
that he can move ahead in this and
God himself will
support him, here this is a good
point that every child cannot be excellent in everything, we are
humans in the same way, if every person can do everything then
we will not be dependent on each other, then
in the society we are dependent on each other that not
everyone can do every work, hence in the
same way in children also and we
need to understand before the parents that we should see
in which area your child is weak and
in which area his strength is, according to that
we should analyze it and
move ahead, we take a small break here,
Nazreen, and after the break Then
we will be back with our series of questions and will
try to come to practical solutions that for
children who are weak in studies, are there
any practical techniques
through which we can create motivation in them at home as well as in school so that
they
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next question to you will be what techniques does Miss Shadiya's school have to
assess such children and then to develop them,
because parents must first
come to the school that their child is
not studying, so what do you do here,
what techniques do you apply, see,
no doubt, I also gave you an average
that the ratio in a class is some
average, there are some such numbers of students,
first of all we try to guide the parents that it is
okay to take some time because everything has results.
Some children learn quickly and
some learn slowly. The second
stage is when we
try to see the background reasons for the same.
Believe me 50 to 60, but family issues
come into it. There is no proper sleep time in the homes, there is no
healthy food, and God forbid, there are
broken families, the parents do not have a
good relationship with each other, due to which the
children get disturbed a lot. Then other
factors come in, there is peer pressure in the class, there is
bullying and some children are
suffering from it. The third factor is a
little least. Till now, in our experience, the
teachers' behaviour is that the teachers are not
ready to listen, they just deliver the
lesson and they behave strictly with the children,
so the children are
not able to communicate their point, the concept is
not clear, they are not able to ask
questions, so when we understand those reasons,
after that, if even after that the problems are
not solved, after working on these strategies,
then we A psychiatrist or a psychologist is
called in, he observes them in the class,
we tell some techniques to the teachers, the basic role in this is Nana, if
we look at the classroom, it is classroom
management. Management is that if a
child is not participating in the class,
he is not answering the teacher's questions,
his homework is not getting done on time, he is
also silent in group work, then the teacher has to make them make that
student alert,
for such type of students, the teachers have to alert them,
like you tell them to do jumping,
come on, everyone should clap, sometimes such
students are mentally somewhere else but
physically they are in the classroom and they are
upset, so you can improve their
group work in the socialization class, through group work we can improve it
and in that we also
tell the parents that you should tell the child to
bring some tips or gifts for his class fellows,
you can have a party at home,
call the children home and
I would definitely recommend some personality tests for them, this is very
important in outside schools now
Personality analysis tests are being done that
after four years of the child it is very
clear. I just got
this done through an organisation and through thumb
impression, the entire
personality of the child is analysed as to what are
his strengths and weaknesses. From
that, the teacher in the classroom is given some guidance on lesson
planning and classroom management.
Medical test, yes. And then the parents get to know
that I
want to make my child a doctor but the
strengths in my child are that of a chef and that of a
painter. So,
if we go to FSC and
see that the student at 90 says that
I did not want to become a doctor, I
am here on the wish of my maternal uncle. It was the
wish of my father. Because of him
I am becoming a doctor or an engineer. We
can control those things at an early age. The
direction gets set for us, the
work becomes easy and
the pressure on the children can be reduced to a great extent. So, this What you are
saying seems like it is a
good thing that a school is putting so much effort to
identify the weak children, understand their causes and
then find solutions for them. But in
general, our education system, where
schools are built on 5 marla or 10 marla in every street and locality, do they
even think that there is a weak child in our class,
how to bring him up? Are
teachers really concerned about
which child is weak, do I need to give him personalized
attention? I am talking in this way,
specifically, there might be some
schools, maybe 20 or 20 schools might be doing it,
but I don't think that 80% of
schools have any such behavior.
I second your point and
you will remember that I started my discussion
with the education system. One of its
factors is that teachers are de-motivated. They do
n't have the training of teaching methods that should be given to them related to 21st century skills.
If a
teacher is writing an answer on the board in the class
and the children are copying it,
then it is an educational crime. According to me, it is
a crime. That is, you are saying
that if the teacher is writing something on the board and the
children are copying it just by looking at it,
then it is an educational crime. Yes, in what
sense, that is, what is the fault in it?
Through this technique, the
teacher should develop the thinking and understanding ability of the children.
That question should also not be a factor question that has a
one-word answer, a
question that has multiple answers. The
children should think and then discuss among themselves in the group
and then say that they should write
them themselves, they should not copy the
answer of the question from the board. So it is
easy for the teachers to do that. Sorry, many teachers will be
angry with me about this, but it is
easy for them to do that. Some book publishers have even
given guides that this is the
answer to the question, which you have to write on the board.
Here again the same thing comes up,
along with the educational system, teachers training, we could
not change ourselves.
We did not bring changes in our education policy which is very old. And when
we bring changes, it becomes very difficult to
change the mindset of the people and bring them towards that
because resistance,
reactivity is a
technical process. But we have to work on these things.
We have to develop creativity, problem
solving skills. Now see
as a nation, the crises which we are going through, we do
not have solutions for them because it is our education
system which provides solutions. Yes, the mother of
all systems is the education system. The
product which will be produced will
solve the problems of the people. We have
people who do not have confidence, they do not have
flex, they are
not flexible. Some times we have to
change according to the situation. The same thing is there
in parenting also. Now as we have said,
parents impose everything that you want on your
children. You want to bring them into a routine and
develop it in them, you should
discuss with your children, believe me, the solution, the
suggestions given by the child, you should
modify it, you should convince him a little
for yourself but also listen to the child, unless the
child owns it, you cannot bring any change in the plan you have made
or the timetable or the
instructions given by the teacher,
you cannot teach him,
you are just imposing it, you are
dumping it on him and he is getting it done
or not, this is the coming back to the school point,
I will now come to the parents, to the
question which I will discuss in my next last part,
but going back to the school, isn't it that
we have created a class system in education also
that a child who is
good for some reason, is above average, maybe he is
getting tuitions or has gone to a good school,
he will move ahead, but a weak
child will remain weak from start till the end,
then we have
seized his opportunity,
he had the ability to move ahead,
but our system Our methods, our
teaching methods have stopped the progress of that child, did
not let him
move forward. Similarly, if a person is a patient
but the doctor is not treating him,
then the disease will keep increasing
inside him, the disease will not get cured on its own, so
this is a class C situation where a child who is weak in education will
remain weak, just like a poor person will remain poor, the rich will keep getting richer, the ones who are
good, smart, genetically smart will
move ahead and the ones who are
behind will be left behind. We will
take a break here, after that I will
come to you with the next question, this is about schools,
now the children who are weak, we cannot
change the education system overnight,
now the children who are weak and the schools are also
not able to work hard on them to
take them forward, so what can parents do
at home so that the child can improve, there is a
very simple solution to this in education,
which I said in the beginning that we have to come out
of the grade system or the marking scheme,
if we really want that
every child of ours becomes something, then we have to take into account the
diversity of their learning. While accepting this,
we have to work on his skills. If
parents do a personality test of the child or
research their child's personality, then they will come to know what are the
strengths and weaknesses of their child.
We definitely have to send our children to school,
but unfortunately if the schools do not help us, then we have to
work on those strengths of the children at home. For
example, your child or ours, there are some parents
whose child is not getting good grades, but
he is good at singing and group
work, he is very good in team work and
he is very good in sports, so you should
try to sharpen these skills of his. It is
okay, because when we promote a skills-based
system, then no child will be
called a weak or struggling student. This is what I want to tell anyone
that we have to
come out of the marking system and grade system. Parents
also have to stay away from giving this pressure to the child.
Parents should ask the child, did you
learn from what you read in class today?
What did you learn from this?
Tell me in your own words what you have learnt. Do
n't you think that when we
remove the child from the pressure of marks, then the child develops the
confidence to tell. Then, whatever
failures the child is facing, you should
tell the child that we have to learn with it.
For this, we need a routine, as I mentioned earlier, it is
very important to have a routine. There should be an environment for the child to
study at home, an environment in every room,
he should be away from distraction. An
environment has to be created for
educational games. Parents should develop him.
We cannot stop him from screen time. There should be
a specific time for it.
I consider discussion to be very
important. There is a solution to every
problem in discussion. Discuss with the child.
Avoid discussing with the child.
Discuss your plan with the child and
come to an agreement and then execute it
with the child. And our effort is to
somehow force the child who is not studying to learn by rote. There, you should come under
pressure and
put the child under pressure as well. Instead of that,
use real life examples.
Use educational toys with the child through which
his skills are developed and his
interest is developed in it. One more thing
I would like to add here is that it is
very important to develop the habit of book reading. The
exposure that we get for our children
cannot be given even by syllabus books. As far as
I have seen, the
high achievers in our grade system are not
successful in their lives. It is very rare
because they consider themselves superior.
Then they cannot function in society or in group work or team
work. And then they do
not try to learn anything new because mentally, they have this
idea in their mind that we are the best
ones. Therefore, we should promote the habit of reading.
And you should
not tell the children to read. You should
set a time in front of the children. It should be family time
and in that time, you should read in front of them.
You should hold the book yourself. The connection of the children
with the book. Develop the imagination,
vocabulary and learning of children
and it should not be only story tales,
it should be some grooming topics.
From childhood itself, we should look at these things in children about
manners. We
should teach children about our Islamic
history or any other history.
Book reading is also a habit that our
children are weak in studies. Actually,
this weakness is because our education
system is based on marks and grades.
If we focus on skills and learning,
then no student is struggling, no
student is weak. And if
parenting techniques are changed a little, even if
a child is weak, he still has
curiosity, he will have his own
questions. It is possible that his questions
may not be of that maturity level because
his level has not yet come up. So shouldn't
parents encourage children so that curiosity and
questions develop in them so that the child asks questions?
Our system is such that when the child asks questions,
we get scared. It seems he has not learnt anything,
why is he asking me
what was taught in school. I appreciate this to my teachers
when I observe their lesson
that if no child in your class has asked
any question, then
your lesson is a flop. If you did not develop any
question mark in the student's mind,
then the same is the case. When children ask questions,
we should appreciate them, motivate
them, tell them the
importance of asking questions and
give them the confidence to ask questions.
These things are very important for a
teacher and for a parent, there is a
triangle between teacher, parent and child, and
at the centre are books and the education system. If
we keep sitting and crying about the education system, then
this is what we will end up doing, which we have not been able to do till now in the last 74 years.
We have to remove it. Parents have to
evolve a lot. There should be
a concept of learning together. Now here
another concern comes up that the children of today's era are
spending more screen time. So this screen time in which
There is so much attraction, fun, entertainment, doesn't
it itself distract the
child from studies that he is
not inclined towards studies because his attention is
focused on games, on the content on the mobile, isn't it?
A
child is becoming very weak in this at this
time, so this factor is working at 90% because it is
disturbing the child's health, the
child sits and watches the screen for a long period of time,
their
thinking skills are finished, they are becoming
damp and then they have pain in their eyes and their
health is getting affected, these are all the factors
which are affecting them in this way,
we cannot completely stop the children from this distraction, we have to give them an
alternative, what is that, we should give them
projects, parents should play with them,
if I play with my children, the
children will not go towards screen time, they are
happy that parents are with us, you should
give them book reading, you should
make projects with them, then you should
also search for them for screen time, what do you want to
watch. They should make research, they should
study articles, they should go for research, in
this way we can develop those skills in them
which are actually needed by the education system for
contribution to the society, that is,
when the child is on screen time, will it be
his screen time? Can't this thing
help that the child
watches entertainment or educational content along with entertainment? Will that not
help if the content that he is watching is
educational in itself, which is creating motivation in him,
exploration is coming in him,
he is also learning skills in it,
if it is a small child, then he is learning basic things
through the same fun, which the parents are finding
difficult to teach? Is
n't this a technique through which the child
can cope up and move forward? As
I said earlier, learning with fun is very
important,
children never forget what is learned with fun, and that
learning with fun is the child's own strength,
learning, especially for such children who are weak,
you have to make it pleasurable so that
they enjoy studying. Feel and a
child gets pleasure in
eating chocolate biscuits or he gets
fun in playing because his mind is
not matured, it goes towards fun, that
is, a suggestion and technique for such children
here is that
parents should take them towards learning with fun,
towards play, sports, whether indoor or
outdoor, even if they are watching for a limited
time, then that too should be some
educational content which he can learn so that
he can develop something further in
it, that is, overall if you see, the
school has to work hard on a weak child
and the parents also have to work hard, the
only thing is that the parents do not have any such button
that the switch cannot be pressed and the child will be fine, so
parents should also learn with the children whatever the children have to learn,
this also makes the children
learn in a very relaxed way,
connectivity develops, so sports
is the best technique in which
we release the negative energy of the children,
we relax them, they
get motivation. Either they win or they
learn. We tell them that someone has to
win, someone has to lose. We can manage their
psychological problems through many sports
here because
we don't have that much facility for sports.
Now, a concept that
comes from the outside world is using
assistive technology in education. For example, a
child can understand something that you cannot explain
through virtual reality. That
is, he will put on glasses and whatever
scenario is inside, you have taken him to that world, you have taken him to the
concept of science in
which he is visualizing by
going into a reality, there
in a virtual reality, this is also a technique
that can be used so that the child can
develop things easily.
Nowadays, children learn a lot just by watching content
without explaining anything. That is, we should
also use technology in a positive way
to help the
children so that they learn it and
move forward by using it. So,
Alhamdulillah, this has been a good conversation
here, from which we hope that
I want to send
this message to parents, teachers and Muslims because our guest has
also stressed on this
in this conversation that there is a problem in our education system.
No matter who has made the education system, the one who has
access to it is the teachers, they are the
Muslims. Whatever the system is, the
teacher can change it. The teacher
can change it if the Muslim has the motivation
that he has to make his children successful, he has to
solve their problems and if he
comes forward as a savior, then he can free these children from these problems
and at the same time parents
need to understand their responsibilities
as it was said that do
not put unnecessary pressure on children if they are weak in studies,
rather find ways through which
they can progress further. As it was
also said in this conversation that the
best way is to play with children,
support them, evolve with them,
sit with them, read books and
sit with them. By doing this and showing educational content,
you can support children in this way
and another important point that came up is
that not every child has all kinds of abilities,
some children are very smart in some things,
this is
also the skill of identification, it is the gift of Allah, it is the
attribute of Allah that it is the
hearing of Allah that the beauty with which Allah has
created this system, it is his creation,
if your child excels in class eight, then
it is a very good thing because
Allah is also a great artist
who has made this world so beautiful and beautiful, so
we should not panic,
try to
understand the problem of the child, listen to the child himself, as
our guest also said, listen yourself
what he wants, how he wants to move forward
and Insha Allah with courage and determination
you can solve these problems yourself,
we will keep appearing
in your service with similar topics, keep watching our
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