Johnny Depp, Ezra Miller, & Hollywood Hypocrisy - Unapologetic LIVE

[Applause] [Music] [Music] hello ladies and gentlemen and welcome to unapologetic live i'm your host dom lepanovi and today we are having a i don't know if i want to call it a fun episode is it really fun to talk about domestic abuse i don't know but we're going to talk about the johnny depp and amber heard defamation trial that is happening at this very moment uh our most recent testimony is from johnny depp who has taken the stand to talk about his relationship with amber heard all of the turmoil all of the good points which i can imagine is a very difficult thing to have to go through to air out the not only your life and your upbringing which i imagine is very difficult to talk about for johnny depp but also your relationship and the personal intimate details of being with somebody who you married and then went through a divorce and all these things so we'll go through the timeline we're going to talk about the backlash that johnny depp received with the allegations that amber heard made and compare that to some of the backlash we're not seeing for actors like ezra miller who is known to assault women even we have a video of that happening and is now recently been arrested in hawaii again and not seeing anywhere near as much backlash for him as we did with johnny depp plus the downfall of netflix are we seeing the death of this platform netflix has lost 200 000 subscribers over the past few days and is projected to lose 2 million more by the month of june so crazy stuff happening there elon musk hopping into the discussion around netflix and what's happening plus we'll go through some of the woke ideology and the woke marketing and products that netflix has been putting out recently and ask whether or not it's really worthy of having our subscription money and we'll talk about that maybe i'll put down a poll below do you guys have netflix are you subscribed any longer or is that something that you let go of at some point in the netflix turmoil which there are several points where netflix has been in the hot seat for the things that they've put out and just the sort of woke engagement that they've had as a corporation now let's talk about johnny depp and amber heard i never thought that i'd be doing this and that this would be what the podcast is about but it is and here we are so i feel like in order to get into this we have to talk about the background we have to lay the foundation in the timeline of this relationship of the allegations and of the pending court battles that are happening right now between actor johnny depp and actress amber heard so i've got this article here from independent in so speculatively i guess is what people are saying johnny depp and amber heard mets on the movie set in of the rum diary in 2011 i feel like a gus so anyways johnny met amber yeah me and taylor were talking earlier we're like uh stefan from snl weekend update so johnny depp met amber heard on the on the set of the rum diary in 2011. so this is where their relationship was sparked uh either through friendship or you know going straight into the whole relationship stage and they were very spent with each other okay so 2011 they meet in 2014 johnny depp and amber heard get engaged and we'll go through what johnny depp describes as this beautiful honeymoon phase of their relationship within the first few years of it uh from 2014 to 2015 we see johnny depp and amber heard get married beautiful we we love a good marriage uh we're gonna find out it may be was not so good in 2016 only a year later amber heard files for divorce and alongside this divorce comes a court-ordered restraining order against johnny depp due to allegations that amber heard made against him of domestic violence apparently in a dispute amber heard alleged that johnny depp threw a cell phone at her face striking her creating damage a bruise underneath her eye and on her cheek so that was the allegation made and apparently at some point in 2016 were in that area of their marriage a police call was made for a domestic dispute when the police arrived they saw no evidence of such abuse being committed against amber heard no marks uh no testimony of that yet we saw that in the court with the proceedings for the restraining order so this is what amber heard alleges the divorce goes off i'm i'm gonna say without a hitch but i doubt without a hitch when it comes with these domestic abuse allegations but i believe it was a seven million dollar divorce settlement correct me if i'm wrong but i believe johnny depp paid seven million dollars to amber heard after the divorce was settled so divorce becomes official in 2017 and things go quiet for a while you'd think okay the relationship's over we've gotten divorced there's nothing gonna nothing's gonna happen after this point wrong wrong wrong because uh after this happens after the divorce is settled in 2018 amber heard writes an op-ed for washington post washington post we're talking about them again we talked about washington post yesterday for their journalist we say in air quotes taylor lorenz doxing the woman who runs lives of tick tock now we're talking about this op-ed so amber heard writes an op-ed for the washington post saying that she is a victim of domestic violence and coming forth and being open about that victimization actually hurt her career in some way shape or form several casting directors i guess reached out to her to discuss whether or not it was right for her to be a part of the movies that she was cast in because she came out as a victim of domestic abuse uh i'm not sure whether or not that happened or why that would happen that'd be a very strange thing if i came out and said guys i've been a victim of a crime that somebody committed against me and here's an op-ed about it and and here is the situation and here's everything and all the ways that i was victimized and then suddenly i get a call from prayer you're going i don't know after you were victimized by this crime i don't know if we want to work with you anymore questionable i don't know the details of that so i am simply speculating but this is what amber heard alleges in this op-ed and after this comes out of course there is just an onslaught of hate directed towards johnny depp she never explicitly mentions his name in the article but it's quite clear when you read it that she's writing about johnny depp and this relationship that she had with him and the marriage that she had with him so of course johnny depp isn't happy about this but who else isn't happy about it the general public and all the people who have deals with johnny depp we see dior drop their sponsorship of johnny depp in their collaboration with johnny depp we see him get ousted from all the franchise movies that he's in uh the one being what was what character was he playing in that harry potter uh grindelwald grindelwald grindelwald yeah so that he was dropped from that franchise well what powers of course and pirates of the caribbean so all the major franchise deals that he has the dior deal that he has all dropped because of an allegation from amber heard and specifically this op-ed written about him so of course what do you do in this situation you've seen somebody who's alleged something against you and you view that to be false johnny depp sue's amber heard so he files a defamation case against amber heard for 50 million dollars i imagine that involves all the money he would have gotten from the movie deals he had the deordeal plus i'm sure they could sue for what emotional distress in that case and any future damage that they can speculate was caused by these allegations so 50 million dollars they are now in court for and the lawsuit has started and started publicly which is an interesting thing i don't know much about the inner workings of court cases and whether as to whether or not they go public for people to view uh and i don't know if there was some sort of agreement that they said you know we can televise this for everyone to watch and see i'd be interested to know what the deal is and how they decide whether or not this is going to happen because of course everyone's eyes are on this and i can imagine it's a very difficult thing to sit in front of everybody whether or not you're amber heard or johnny depp and talk about your livelihoods the relationship you had together and the doom of that relationship and the downfall of that relationship i imagine that's difficult i wonder if there was some sort of agreement they came to that it would be televised or this is just something that was pushed on them because of the status that they have within our society so it seems through a lot of the testimony and a lot of the witnesses in this trial that amber heard was making false allegations about johnny depp i'm not going to go as far as to say that all allegations she's made against him are false because all of this is a legend i i could not know the only people who do truly know are johnny depp and amber heard uh we have seen some witnesses testify that there have been moments of direct aggression from both parties both johnny and amber directed at each other as far as violence there is very little evidence to show that and we are going to go through some of the videos that are coming out from this trial because they're they're being posted here now here's johnny depp testifying about the beginning of his relationship with amber heard in the beginning of my relationship with ms herrera there was from what i recall and what i remember she was she was um it was as if she were it was she was too good to be true um she was attentive she was loving um she was smart she was kind she was funny she was understanding she um and we we had many things in common um it's very sad to see this although you know you have to be honest about a couple things both of the people involved in this case are actors always keep bear that in mind and very well accomplished actors so always bear that in mind when you're watching these videos and they make you emotional or anything like that but there is a sense of sincerity that you get here that where i make that deduction is that you're here for a defamation trial for somebody who probably you don't look too kindly at uh anymore from all the things that have happened during this relationship and to come up and say well no there was a time where she was lovely and gorgeous and caring and i truly loved her and the beginning of our relationship was great is a kind and honest thing to admit and i think speaks to some underlying truth between their relationship so weird talking about somebody else's relationship but it's an interesting thing and it happens a lot with people that they start these relationships with another person and it's beautiful and great and wonderful and he or she is everything that you've ever wanted and you have so much in common in fact everything that i love they love and we never fight we never bicker it's always great and then all of a sudden things start to change or you get a little twinge or a hint of something and you go there's a little red flag but i'm going to ignore it because look at all this other beautiful stuff and look at all this amazing stuff that they do i'll ignore that little biting feeling in the back of my head because everything else is beautiful and a lot of people will cover up who they are and mask who they are in the beginning of a relationship in order to protect that relationship to keep that relationship there to get something that they want and will only way further down the line we're talking what he said about a year and a half into their relationship did she start to show who she truly was terrifying absolutely terrifying to have that happen to you and it is a very it can be a very strategic manipulation in relationships to have somebody build that trust and that direct sense of love and often codependency on you and then boom rug pull them with all this horrifying abuse and both emotional and physical abuse and have them just sort of be shocked but still attached to that person that they thought you were so it sounds like that is what happened here again i am only speculating here are some other videos of coverage of this trial amber heard and johnny depp's doctor testified today in court and it's pretty damaging for amber heard's case he was asked about and referenced text messages that johnny depp sent to him in which johnny depp told him that he was being verbally abused all the time and couldn't take it anymore and he described how amber heard was venomous and degrading towards him the doctor then was asked about johnny depp being physically abusive towards amber heard and the doctor said that amber heard had never mentioned to him that johnny depp was abusive and if she had then he would have noted it he was then questioned about the infamous fight amberhead and johnny depp had in which johnny depp's finger was cut by a bottle that was thrown at it he had personally flown to australia to treat johnny depp for the injury and when asked if he had noticed any signs of physical violence against amber heard he said no so it seems that the testimony from both of their doctors seems to back the fact that johnny depp was not the abuser in the relationship and as you can imagine amber heard wasn't too happy about it [Music] and this is this points out something interesting for me and taylor i'm definitely going to want your commentary on this of this dynamic between men and women where the woman is the abuser which is not the dynamic that you typically hear about and i can imagine is very difficult for a man to deal with and secondly admit because that's that's a terrible thing and it's something that you don't expect for the woman to be the abuser oh my goodness you always hear men being the ones who perpetrate abuse onto women because they're so much stronger and they they they carry more weight they carry more power you never expect the woman to be that and i think amber heard obviously knew that we've heard videos and you guys can go and look up these videos i won't show them today of amber heard saying you know i did this to you and you can go and say that i abused you but i'm a woman and you're a man who's going to believe you are they going to believe you are they going to believe me and abusing that and i imagine that happens quite often and men just don't come forward about it yeah um it would have to be and it's true that you know in the in the metoo era the the deck is kind of stacked against you as a man that it's no longer you know if abuse occurs then we should surface that and the abuser should be uh the evidence should be borne out and the abuser should bear the consequences of that um and but it's not about the truth anymore it's about these this uh faux reality that the the the mainstream narrative of patriarchy oppressive men and trying to like recorrect all these past wrongs and and uh it's not about what actual justice is that's based on truth it's about this new social justice feminism reality um rather than just the simple truth facts at hand so yeah as a i guess as a man the death the deck is stacked against you in these scenarios right and this i this angers me this trial in particular just because imagine being in the in the just thick of that as a man and i know this has happened to so many men because of the metoo movement of a woman coming out and making allegations against you that are not based in reality and then you having to deal with the just sheer and utter weight of everyone and everything that comes down upon you because this one woman decided to come forth and do something that is truly malicious and vindictive and he had to deal with it not just in his own personal life it's not like a woman telling everybody in your town oh well he hit me and oh my gosh that's why i left him and that's why we're divorced this is a woman doing this publicly for the world to see an op-ed in washington post doing interviews about it talking about it uh and allowing the world to just be led by what is allegedly a lie that you've stated against this man and that's such a horrific thing to do to somebody and to deal with and to be a man who has to just you as a man you have to sit there and take it there's nothing there's virtually nothing you can do other than bring them to court and even when this is brought to court luckily johnny depp has the privilege of having a massive fan base and having a following to where the world's gonna see it but average men don't have that so now you have a woman who's made allegations against you they've spread all through your town everywhere that you go if you try to get a job people know about this and then let's say you take her to court and you sue her for defamation and you win that lawsuit who's gonna know about it who's gonna care they're just gonna know you as the guy who you know was accused by that girl that's what you will always be so i can't imagine what this is like for people who don't have the audience that johnny depp has i want to show a couple more videos here there is some amazing testimony from amber heard's assistant which you guys can go and watch i won't show it today but she just goes off about how horrible amber heard was to not only her to her sister to her mother to johnny how she had this just suffocating grip on everything that he was and everything that he did and this deep founded codependency which i'm not here to just attack amber heard a lot of people who are abusers in relationships have been through abuse themselves in some way shape or form and that's how they have this sort of learned behavior from their own experiences or from some other deeper level maybe it's from your parents maybe it's from other relationships you've had maybe it's from friends and peers maybe you just did not have a clear depiction of what it means to love somebody and care for somebody so i do have sympathy in a sense for people who do these things because you know monsters and people who commit bad acts don't are not just born out of nothing there's often reasons for the things that they do underlying whether they're conscious of it or it's some sort of subconscious driver so i'm not here to just roast her and spit on amber heard because there's a lot of people who are already doing that but i am here to talk about the inner workings and things that you can see and notice in relationships that are signs of future abuse so that maybe you guys don't fall forward or maybe you're in a relationship where that's happening now and you have not recognized it until you've heard about this case and things that have happened here's a video of a seemingly sort of normal dynamic in a relationship where johnny depp is talking about just a little thing that he noticed with amber heard he starts up this video by saying when he would come home from work he would sit down on the couch and amber heard would take off his boots oh what a sweet nice caring thing to do but here's the follow-up to that video but she did it's kind of routine and remember one night i came home from work and i think she was on the phone or something busy doing something and um so i sat down on the couch and i took my boots off and um suddenly this real approach with this look on her face that she and she just said what did you just do what did you do what do you mean you took your boots off yeah is it dead you you you were busy you know no no that's my job that's what i do you don't do that i do that okay all right then and then she said let me get you a glass of wine she brought me a glass of wine so this can seem like taylor what is your i see your face what is your initial reaction to this because i might have a different oh very weird like this weird power dynamic of like i'm going to tell you how i'm going to serve you but i'm going to serve you in these ways but it's like if you don't submit to how i'm serving you and what i how i want to do it then we're going to have problems it's like this weird form of manipulation through faux servitude right because imagine being the person going through this relationship and then being like like trying to express to people how that's crazy and they're like dude so she takes your boots off every night and she gives you a glass of wine and you're complaining right now yeah but if i take my own off then i get in trouble right and then she scowls at me and then brings me a glass of wine so i'd be like what's in this right right i i sat here just thinking about it like okay this i could see how somebody could be in a relationship like this and be like no it's just because she loves me she just wants to do things for me and that's what it is but i'm like what could be the underlying manipulative factors of this is that coming home and taking your shoes off is a pretty normal standard thing to do and to always have to rely on your spouse or your whoever you're in a relationship with to do that for you is a very strong sign of codependency it seems to be a sign of codependency on amber's part in this case because johnny was perfectly fine with just taking his boots off on on his own but it seems like she wants to build that sense of codependency like you need me here to give you your glass of wine at the end of the night and to take your shoes off and if i'm not here that doesn't get done and eventually if you hone that in enough and it becomes a regimen and it becomes just socially conditioned sort of like this pavlovian response to getting home every night from work you will become dependent on that person and it sounds like in a lot of this that amber heard is very starved for love and affection and lashes out when she doesn't get it in exactly the way that she wants it which is just a sad way to live a very sad way to live when i look at people like amber heard and you hear about just the horrible manner that they treat people in and the way that they abuse other people for the first emotion that you feel is just oh that's so upsetting so disgusting you're so frustrating and secondary to that it's just this deep pity that i feel for people like that because you know that if that person cannot grow and change and learn to accept things and accept themselves they're never going to feel true love they will never know what that feels like and they'll be deprived of that for the rest of their lives so as angry as you can be at somebody like that and there's anger there certainly i just feel bad for them at the end of the day if you don't grow out of that behavior and out of that way of looking at the world and treating other people you're gonna be miserable and it seems like she's miserable and just wants to make other people feel that way and to go as far as to make a false accusation against somebody in order to bring them down cuckoo for cocoa puffs cuckoo for cocoa puffs and you can see during the these trials if you go and watch the videos there's so much more testimony that you can go and watch security guards backing this up assistance backing this up a therapist saying you know i saw johnny and amber in tandem and i witnessed the levels of abuse and heard it from the firsthand perspective of what was going on there one interesting piece of testimony is their therapist their marriage counselor saying during our therapy sessions amber would just steamroll johnny in conversations he would try to explain himself she would express his feelings for him she would not let him talk she would interject in his conversations and that she felt like johnny had no sort of voice in their marriage a in their marriage or in their therapy sessions whatsoever to be able to express the issues and the things that he was experiencing and it's got to be just a horrible thing especially to experience as a man i can't imagine how weak you feel as an individual to have to go through that and it makes you wonder i me saw this stuff and heard all this testimony and i immediately thought of will smith and jada pinkett because it seems like the same thing and it's interesting to because these are men that when you think about them when you think about will smith and johnny depp you think of just like these big powerhouse actors entrepreneurs businessmen rich successful who have gotten rich and successful through using their voice through communicating and through reaching some sort of visceral emotion in other people that makes them powerful and successful and to see them in their relationships be the exact opposite of that and have that sort of strip from them is so strange and i have to wonder like who are these women and what are they like not that i want to meet them because from what i'm hearing they sound horrible and everything that i've seen about jada pinkett smith sounds horrible but who are these women that are able to just get in these men's lives and completely destroy them i don't know have you ever met a woman like this or like ever had an experience like that i mean i've i've witnessed people being manipulated before and i've seen manipulative men and women um but yeah this whole thing just reeks of just dysfunctional humans you know the old saying heard people hurt people like there's clearly some some messed up trauma or just dysfunctional psychology that's going on on both sides but especially on the side of the manipulator at least they should be more at fault in in these scenarios but yeah just it just goes to show you that that uh you know the money and the fame doesn't uh exempt you from uh the dysfunction and if you don't have good virtue good morals good character good values um and you're not careful don't apply those in your relationship and you're in who you uh end up with uh you can end up in a very bad situation it can happen to you no matter how much money you have right and a lot of this i feel like it's got to be somewhat attached to this feminization of men and this hyper masculine female era that we're going through right now that i'm just ready to end i i hope it ends very very soon because i have a feeling this is going to become a trend we're going to start seeing this pattern of just and we kind of already are if any of you are in the dating scene right now just like hyper masculine women just walking all over men what was your what was your tweet that you did a while ago that like the feminist movement has turned men into subpar men and women into subpar men yes yeah yeah the modern day feminist movement has turned men into subpar men and women into subpar men that is exactly what is happening so we're all just these sub-standard semi-masculine beings that are just walking around trying to build relationships with each other and it's not working and it's not working because it's really not natural you have to as a woman in many ways there are some naturally masculine women who just go about their day and that's how they are and i've met plenty of women who are like that uh and most of those women when they find men find men that are more masculine than them i think honestly i haven't thought about this enough but in i have a proclivity to believe that if you are a woman you should just gauge your masculine tendencies and then you need to look for a man that's more masculine than that but right now we're in a culture where women are building up this masculinity and all these masculine traits and trying to adopt them as hard as they can and hold on to them and then they're finding men who are less masculine than they are and you know this sort of whole simp culture thing and subjugating those guys and being like oh i love this this is great even though deep down women want masculine men i know some of you are gonna say you don't or whatever and there are women who don't but they represent outliers to what is a general rule of women wanting masculine men i'm just i'm just saying say it and you're right it's part of this war in general on any kind of norm or any kind of ideal okay an ideal man has masculine traits you can't say that anymore that can't that's like not an acceptable position to have and so the ideal has to become okay well now i want a male feminist as my husband that's the ideal man i want an e-boy i want a timothy you know not a you know braveheart mel gibson or something right that's probably a bad example yeah some of the things that come up since but you know what i mean like this it's and then the women on the women's side too you're supposed to be this masculine woman who is only career it's like you don't want kids all this stuff and you can't just be like this nurturing feminine woman yeah those aren't the ideals anymore and when you destroy that then it's like then like the the mainstream media and the mainstream narrative is normalizing these other ideals but they're contrary to human nature and it just creates this giant mess absolutely it it really does i feel like we are just in a giant mess right now and by all means everybody live the way that you want but you can tell when we've deviated from what is natural and what is patterned and what is true because it's just so difficult it's so unsustainable which is why we see these like fluctuations in craziness and then it weans back and then it fluctuates again and then it weans back because we try every generation loves to look at the case the sense of the world and go this is not right this is not we need to go against this we don't need a natural learner we need to go again so we need to go against it happens over and over and over only to just whip it right back every single time and then you have this new generation who constantly wants to rebel and has to learn again and again and again that this is it doesn't work you can't just rebel from everything that is true in reality uh and uh this generation will be learning that hopefully very very soon if not we are in for a mess now if you guys are watching on prageru right now printer use youtube or facebook we are going to cut off the show and go just to unapologetic amla epinobi you can find that on youtube you can find that on facebook you can find that on getter and rumble so just go to unapologetic or type in my name amla binobi and we're going to close uh we're going to do the other half of the show there we're going to be talking about ezra miller we're going to be talking about netflix elon musk and just all of the new propaganda that netflix is putting out on their platform so bye to everybody on prageru and let's continue the show on omwepinobi here we go so