How To Be Cold Hearted Person

how to be cold-hearted so being cold-hearted is a very interesting subject some people want to be cold-hearted because they just simply want to be left alone while others want to be cold-hearted because they've been hurt in the past i want to prevent that in the future whatever your reason is being cold-hearted obviously has its benefits because if you're cold-hearted it actually portrays authority and people will respect you more so obviously in this video i'll talk about how you can become more cold-hearted and i'll go over actual actionable steps to help you become more co-target so obviously if you're someone that's new to this channel and want to see more content like this please consider hit the subscribe button and help your brother out with that said let's jump into the video alright so the first thing i want to talk about is something very powerful it will actually allow to gain a lot of authority so number one make your decision and stick to it so whatever the scenario is if you make a decision stick to it and obviously understand that not every decision of yours will be your best decision but even then stick to it as long as it doesn't harm you you need to stick to it the reason for this is that if people actually see you stick to your decision even though you still don't know what the best decision is people will still respect you because you've made your choice a lot of people in this world don't know what they want so they'll actually follow the person that's the most convincing so if you're someone that's the most convincing that's how you actually gain authority it's not always the best choice that actually helps you out but the choice that most people follow because cold hard people make their own decisions they don't rely on other people to actually tell them what to do and if you're someone that wants to be more cold-hearted you need to make your own decisions because this way you'll be able to actually be more cold-hearted obviously not every decision will be your best decision so if you're someone actually noticed that it might be quite harmful actually get rid of that decision and obviously explain to other people why you got rid of it because this way everyone will understand your perception and obviously this will also help you to gain authority and the second thing i want to talk about is something that a lot of cold-hearted people do so obviously if you want to be more cold-hearted you need to minimize the contact that you have so therefore number two cut off contact quality people try to minimize their contact the reason for this is that the more contact you've got the more problems you actually get and obviously as a cold-hearted person you want to minimize your problems so as a cold-hearted person you only keep contact with people if it's really really necessary and obviously if you don't have to keep any contact you'll try to minimize it and even if you keep necessary communication you still want to minimize it and obviously that brings me to the third point short communication so as a cold-hearted person you want to avoid unnecessary communication so by actually having short communication with people that are actually necessary you avoid most contact in general and therefore the next time you speak to someone and you're talking to a necessary person try to communicate by giving a short answer so if they're asking close questions say yes or no and if it's an open question just be a bit more direct and obviously this brings me to the next point number four be direct the reason you want to be direct is because this way you actually avoid a lot of unnecessary communication if you're direct the other person gets the answer and you'll be free to go and vice versa and another reason for this is that a lot of people aren't direct so if you're direct most likely the person won't expect it and therefore they'll have a mind freeze for a few seconds and therefore they probably can't think of anything and that way you can actually end the conversation and another cool thing about this is that only powerful people are direct because if you're someone that has authority you're not afraid to be direct and therefore if you're direct to a particular person it portrays authority another thing that very powerful cold-hearted people do is that they don't express their thoughts or feelings they usually keep it to themselves or just to a small group and that brings me to number five don't express your thoughts or feelings so if you're someone that really wants to be cold-hearted it's unnecessary to say sorry when you don't have to another thing is that you don't have to express your feelings or thoughts just keep it to yourself it's unnecessary and therefore if you actually do actually express it this way you only increase your communication and therefore you have longer conversations and that's something that cold-hearted people try to avoid and i obviously understand that you might be someone that has a urge to actually express their thoughts and feelings well if you're someone that's like that you can obviously just express it to a close group or someone that you actually trust rather than to express to anyone and everyone because this way you won't maintain your cold-hearted persona and you know what cold-hearted people try to make a good decision and obviously said at the first point that you don't need to seek for the best decision if you already made a decision but cold-hearted people do actually try to make a good decision by using the logic and that brings me to the sixth point logic of emotions hey look i understand that emotions can get in the way and obviously if you didn't know emotions play a bigger role on our decisions than logic but even then a cold-hearted person tries to maintain a logical decision a cold hard person doesn't think back at the good times he or she actually focus on the now and the future and actually tries to make a good decision regarding that to actually get a better future another thing is that cold hearted persons think high of themselves and obviously i understand that not everyone thinks high of themselves 24 7. and therefore this brings me to the seventh point remind your success hey look i'm not telling you to be a jerk but you need to actually remind your success because as a cold-hearted person it's very important that you actually know your value so therefore actually think about all the achievements you've achieved maybe you've got successful business maybe you achieve something that the average person doesn't and just think about those things that way you can actually remind yourself how valuable you are and therefore you can maintain your cold-hearted persona i just want you to think about something you achieved because if you think about it again you trick your brain into getting those emotions again that you actually felt at the moment and this way you'll feel a bit better so now i want you to think about something you achieved just think about the moment how it made you feel just think about it i'm waiting so how did it make you feel most likely it reminded you how valuable you are and how you felt at the moment and most likely even though it's something you're really proud of nevertheless sometimes you don't have something you're proud of and moreover a lot of people have something they're really angry about and that brings me to the eighth point turn your anger into fear hey look as a cold-hearted person you've probably got past that actually made you turn this way and in this scenario if you got anger you don't want to actually hate on it and just let it push you down you want to actually use it as few to actually achieve the thing you want and hey look i've been angry and betrayed but that's just a part of life you shouldn't actually let it push you down you should use it as something that will help you to get up use the anger as fuel and just look back at it and use the power that you get from the anger to actually fill your dreams and the real truth about a co-target person is that they actually use this to gain their power the authority and their knowledge whatever they want they use their anger to actually feel their dreams but hey look most of the times i want you to avoid this option because it's not the best option out there it's not really good for yourself so obviously only use this option if you really really need it and you feel down and other than that try to avoid it and how can you actually avoid it well that brings me to the ninth point keep yourself busy and there's where the truth relies as a co-target person if you keep yourself busy you actually maintain that cold-hearted persona because you don't actually focus on your emotions broadly actions and if you're someone to actually focus on these actions on the long term trust me you'll see some significant gains but hey look i don't want you to be someone that actually follows the social media hustle culture because it's very toxic and bad for your mental health and therefore i want you to also focus on other things and this brings me to the 10th point focus on your loved ones a cold ordered person always has a why so what is your why for some people it's their loved ones so like their family and friends while for others is to actually prove themselves regardless of what your why is you still want to maintain your why and not only focus on hustling and get yourself into a very very mentally bad environment and that's a very important thing you need to avoid getting yourself in a very bad mental environment and that brings me to the 11th point self-care routine look you need to have a good self-care routine because this way you can focus on everything else if you have some kind of discipline and it doesn't necessarily have to be that you have to wake up a certain time but it just has to be something that helps you to be more disciplined so for example it can literally be that you go to the gym every day and it doesn't even matter what time it is just so lightly based on the fact that you go every day that will actually create a whole disciplined environment for yourself self-care is very important and unfortunately when we feel less of ourselves most likely that's something that we don't focus on because we don't feel like it unfortunately when we feel bad about ourselves most likely this is the main thing we don't focus on because we don't feel like it but self-care is very important because if you can take care of yourself you can take care of your life and obviously understand that at certain times you can't take care of yourself and that's perfectly fine we're all human and this brings me to the 12 point get help from trusted ones we all like to think that we're some kind of superhuman and that we've got the ability to do whatever we want but that's far from the truth and unfortunately this is something that actually causes a lot of mental health problems for a lot of guys because nowadays there's pressure all around the world and this causes men aged 18 to 30 to be the most suicidal group out of everyone and i obviously understand that we as guys try to actually do everything ourselves and if we can't do it it really puts us down but if you're someone that actually can't do something at a certain time try to actually talk to someone you trust because you don't want to be someone that's cold-hearted 24 7 and for the rest of their life and this actually brings me to the 13th point don't be cold harder towards the world hey look i know sometimes you're in pain but if you're cold harder 24 7 it will actually cause more pain rather than actually prevent it so the purpose of being a cold hearted person isn't to actually be cold-hearted 24 7. it is actually to gain power and authority to actually achieve what you want and obviously focus on your why and obviously in this video i've covered a lot of life changing information so if you're someone that's really serious about being a cold hearted person please re-watch this video again and make some notes regardless i hope that this video really helps someone out and if you're someone that's actually new to this channel and wants to see more content like this please consider hit the subscribe button and help your brother out and obviously please smash the like button for the youtube algorithm and that's it for me i'll see you on the other side bye bye [Music]