PLEASE FOR ANY COPYRIGHTS ISSUE CONTACT US FIRST ON : [email protected] ---------------------------------------------------------- New Videos Everyday .. Stay Tuned... ---------------------------------------------------------- Getting your kids to listen and really learn lessons when they've done something wrong can feel impossible. One Ohio father tried the long talks and emotional exchanges with his daughter. They just didn't take. So when her principal notified him she'd been involved in a bullying complaint, he went old school and came up with a punishment that required some legwork neither of them would ever forget.
ten-year-old who bullies a classmate
gets swift dose of karma
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done something wrong can
feel impossible one ohio father tried
the long
talks and emotional exchanges with his
daughter they just didn't take
so when her principal notified him she'd
been involved in a bullying complaint
he went to school and came up with a
punishment that required some legwork
neither of them would ever forget
when matt cox's daughter came home from
school on a friday afternoon
she handed him a note from the
administrators along with her note
she guiltily explained she needed a ride
on monday morning
see kirsten was suspended from riding
the bus for several days
administrators doled out the punishment
because ten-year-old kristen
continued acting out on the daily bus
route
her crime was a heinous one according to
administrators kristen was bullying her
classmates during their commute to
school
unable to curb her aggression the school
just
outright banned her from the bus for a
few days
reading the suspension papers matt was
disappointed in kristen's behavior
though unfortunately he wasn't entirely
surprised
this marked the second time his daughter
had faced the same punishment for the
same infraction
she was developing a pattern of bullying
in his words bullying was unacceptable
the reality that his
child was the source of the problem made
him angry
yet determined to nip it in the bud matt
had to come up with a powerful way to
teach kristin a lesson
the punishment needed to leave a lasting
impression so he reasoned it should
match the gravity of her mistake
this is my small way of trying to stop
it in my household
he said so matt devised a plan and
launched it
into action monday morning arrived and
keeping to their normal routine kristen
got ready for school
ate her breakfast and put on her
backpack they walked out to the car
and that's when matt broke the news
instead of the typical
parental lecture met with pouty facial
exchanges in the rearview mirror
matt climbed into the car and told
kristen to start walking
that december morning she would make the
journey to school
solely on her own two feet for the next
three days
kristen walked five miles to school matt
wanted his daughter to think about the
consequences of her actions
every step would be a reminder of how
her words had made other people feel
and matt hoped she'd gain an
appreciation for riding the bus
feeling good about his hands-on
parenting technique
matt uploaded a video of kristen's
punishment walk to his facebook account
the video caused a lot of stir fairly
quickly
with many of matt's friends commenting
and sharing it
soon it had gone viral to very mixed
reactions
tons of parents praised matt's
techniques
cheering on his punishment as effective
tough love
they agreed matt had properly held
kristin accountable and ensured her
safety
by trailing in the car behind her others
were less impressed
a large number of online spectators
criticized matt's
chosen method of discipline they pointed
to the fact that it was only 36
degrees on the day of the big walk
saying the punishment was overkill
bordering on cruel others pointed out
the act of filming kristen's walk and
posting it online
qualified as public humiliation
ironically a form of bullying in itself
this vein of shaming kids has caught on
in the current age of viral stories
leaving parents to wonder about the
lasting emotional effects
borrowing from past practices like the
stocks judges across the country have
participated in this recent uptick
in public humiliation by including it in
their sentencing orders
usually it involves the guilty party
wearing a sign that describes their
misdeeds
some people like matt have integrated
the tactic into their discipline arsenal
he absolutely disagreed with those
dragging his strategy online
in his opinion many parents don't take
matters of bullying
as serious as they should
determined to rip the bullying problem
out by the root
he vowed that his children would face
consequences for their actions
he wouldn't lump their bad behaviors
into a kids will be kids mentality
given the surge in anti-bullying
initiatives in schools across the u.s
matt felt this issue qualified for
memorable disciplinary action
kristin is on the cusp of transitioning
into middle school
the age group most reported to struggle
with bullying
studies show that one in three children
in the us experience bullying
in their schools with 70 percent of
students overall witnessing
incidents of bullying in matt's mind he
was doing his duty as a parent to combat
what's been labeled as an epidemic
in response to the negativity matt
posted an update on kristen
still has all her extremities intact is
happy
and healthy and seems to have a new
outlook on bullying
as well as a new appreciation for some
of the simple things in life she used to
take for granted
kirsten admitted she regrets her actions
and that her punishment did make her
think things through
noting how it makes her feel when people
aren't nice to her
so far she hasn't expressed any anger or
embarrassment about her father's sharing
her walk
to school on social media in fact the 10
year old admitted she too
has felt the negative effects of being
bullied in school
matt read comments on his video that
detailed the experiences of others
who had been bullied by all three of his
children the truth is with the
prevalence of technology
kids have to worry about being targeted
not just at school
posting nearly anything on social media
can prompt completely
unwelcome comments so teens are coming
up with creative and powerful ways to
respond to their bullies
when a video of teenage explorer jade
hammester
was posted online internet trolls
couldn't help but leave sexist jokes
in the comment section rather than let
the haters get her down
jade made them eat their words you might
think only normal kids like kirsten cox
face bullies on a regular basis
but that's far from the truth australian
19 year old
jade hamester was a prodigy and she
still
earned plenty of critics jade's dreams
have always included travel but her
version of travel doesn't involve
luxury resorts tourist attractions or
even tour guide led
expeditions jade is more interested in
pushing herself against whatever mother
nature has to offer
jade has been drawn to adventure since
she was just six years old
as her and her father journeyed to the
top of australia's highest peak
mount cosiosco jade was an ambitious
girl from the get-go
and that drive to see and change the
world only increased as she grew
i have been brought up in a very
adventurous family jade said
in an interview with jakarta travels the
explorer magazine
while i was a young girl growing up my
dad was off climbing the seven summits
and both my parents took me and my
brother on little adventures every year
at 12 years old jade completed the
everest base camp trek
an arduous hike at high altitudes that
typically takes
two weeks to finish i wanted to see what
dad had climbed to the top of in 2011
jade said regarding her motive and
though jade has always been inspired by
her dear father
she particularly looked up to women who
followed their guts and defied the odds
while in the midst of her journey to the
everest base camp
jade befriended two women whose
accomplishments wowed her
one of the women had once skied to the
south pole alone
and the other was the first woman to
summit everest without supplemental
oxygen
but rather than simply applaud them
their achievements
inspired jade to embark on her own
expedition
according to jade's personal website in
april 2016
she became the youngest person to ever
ski to the north
pole from anywhere outside the last
degree
at just 14 years old she was then
recognized by the australian geographic
society
as 2016's young adventurer of the year
national geographic documented her
physically and mentally challenging
journey
to the north pole for its documentary
jade's polar dream
but even this wasn't enough to satisfy
jade's need for something new and
exciting
because jade was kicking butt and taking
names the little trailblazer gave a tedx
talk
in august 2016 which highlighted her
belief that young girls
should never be discouraged from chasing
their dreams
the world record breaker wanted to act
as an example to girls around the world
in her talk titled my journey to the
north pole and beyond
she asked what if the focus shifted from
how we appear
to the possibilities of what we can do
this was just her intro
as a young woman i live in a world where
i'm constantly bombarded with messages
to be less
to eat less to wear less to be skinnier
to shrink my ambitions
to fit in to wait for my prince charming
to come and save me
or to avoid activities that are for boys
she continued she voiced that the
world's future would be much brighter if
women decided to ignore these societal
messages
and refuse to play it safe using her
accomplishments as proof of what's
possible
not everyone was on board when jade's
talk was uploaded to youtube the video
garnered many nasty comments that said
make me a sandwich in case you haven't
heard the blatantly sexist phrase
it references the outdated idea that
women belong in the kitchen
though these comments and others like
them were at first disheartening
jade wasn't one to let internet trolls
win
in fact she was preparing for another
adventure
one that would capture the attention of
kids everywhere
in january 2018 jade hamester became the
youngest person
to complete the incredibly difficult
polar hat trick
which is a three-tiered feat that
entails skiing around the north pole
crossing greenland's largest ice cap and
around the south pole
throughout her 373 mile journey on skis
while pulling a 220 pound sled she
couldn't stop
thinking of the ridiculous sandwich
comments on her old tedx talk even
considering bringing a literal sandwich
to the south pole as a joke
she needed to do something but the more
jade thought on it the more she realized
it was an epic way to respond to her
ghastly internet trolls
the camp we were staying at was less
than a kilometer away from the actual
pole
so we were like let's just do it jade
explained to cnn
she posted a photo of herself standing
tall at the very top
or bottom in this case of the south pole
on her social media profiles
hysterically captioning it i made you a
sandwich
ham and cheese now ski 37 days and 600
kilometers to the south pole
and you can eat it xx