Surgery Day: No More Babies 😭 + $300 At Aldi's = ONE MONTH Of Groceries for My Family of 5 | VLOG

The Reality Of Ming
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and back the [ __ ] up about my man face.
The [ __ ]
I felt a little uncomfortable,
girl. I lifted myself up like what are
you doing? Give me a five. We said 300
hours. I'm ready to show my ass. I'm
ready to have fun. I'm ready to turn up.
Y'all, when I tell y'all it's been a
time like, and not in a good way, okay,
I look a mess cuz I just had to come and
get me some coffee. But I didn't even
like brief y'all on everything that was
going on. So,
y'all know that every litter I've been
like, not every litter, but the past
like two litters I've been like, I need
to get designer fix. I need to get her
fix. So, y'all, we ended up going to go
do that. Why? I went to go pick her up.
I go to pay and they say that it's
already paid for from an anonymous
person.
Mind you, other people are in there and
they're paying. So, I know that it's not
like they paid for the whole place. It
it I don't know. It was just really
weird. But y'all know I'm not asking no
questions. Okay. Like what? That was
hundreds of dollars. Let me go ahead and
get my dog and go on by my day. Okay.
So, that was the first blessing. That's
a blessing. Okay, that was a blessing,
right? Let me get to the second
blessing. But that one that one threw me
for a loop because that one was early
early early in the morning. Uh, let me
put this stuff together. Oh, it's hot.
So, y'all going to have to y'all have to
hear this AC. Hold on. Went to Dutch
Bros. Okay.
Went to Dutch Bros., right?
I'm in line.
I had pulled up and I'mma break down the
whole scenario y'all. Right? So sitting
in line, had just dropped off my dog,
right?
I'm sitting in line and I'm trying to
figure out like what I want and I'm
like, "Okay, let me just cuz I always
get the Golden Eagle and I put extra
caramel drizzle and I put whip on top."
So I'm like, "Let me go ahead and just
get that or whatever." And I get it
large because my kids be seen and and
acting like our kids and they just act
like they can get a sip when they only
get a sip, okay? Cuz we're not trying to
have to bounce off the wall. And back in
my day, they used to tell us that coffee
makes you short and stunt your growth.
So
that's what I say, okay? To enjoy my
coffee and peace. But anyway, go over
there. I'm in line. Literally, when I
said there was like six cars in front of
me and y'all know how Dutch Bros. Well,
if you don't, now you know. It's like a
split off driveway. So, I'm in the long
like we're just in the one. Okay. The
second one, nobody's in it. I had seen
the second one and I was like, "Nobody's
in it." But that would mean I would have
to cut like all these people or wait
till the line ends cuz I'm a good
person. So, I'm like, I'm not going to
do that. So, let me go ahead and get
behind all these six, seven cars in
front of me and this line over here,
right? That's a normal thing to do early
in the morning. Okay. So, a car comes
up. She pulls into the second line. Now,
mind you, I'm still like, well, maybe
she'll wait until, cuz I'm the last car
at this point. So, I'm like, maybe
she'll wait till I get up there and then
get, you know, behind me. And then in my
head, I'm still thinking like, well, I
mean, if she cuts in front of all these
people and they let her cut, I can't I
can't really do too much or nothing. You
know what I'm saying? Like, I can't act
crazy. I can't go off. I can't do none
of that. So, I'm like, whatever. I'm I'm
like, let me see what she going to do.
And I'm inching up like behind the car
in front of me cuz I was not like it
wasn't going down the way she wanted it
to go down and she was trying to cut me
leg. Okay, so I'm inching up. I'm
inching behind. I'm inching. I'm
inching. I'm in. Hopefully y'all can
hear me. I'm sorry. Like I said is on
hell 90° in Houston right now. Frontal
lifted. Okay. Like girl, she's had a
day. So I'm scrolled up. I'm scrolled
up. Yes. This is my second one for the
day. Don't Don't do it. Don't Don't do
it. Let's not Let's not do that. Okay.
But anyway, I'm scooching up. I'm
scooching up. She lets everybody go and
then it's like gets to me. First of all,
you see this spaceship? You see this
bling blow? Like we all chrome out over
here. You see it? The sun's hitting it.
It's glistening. Ting ting ting ting
ting. Looks like diamonds. Shine bright
like a diamond.
You see it? She going to try to cut.
Literally, when I say she threw this
beater, and when I say beater, that's
the only re the only way I can describe
it because I had to let her come in
because she was going to either she was
going to hit us. She was going to hit
the car. And mind you, I'm staring at
this. I'm looking at her dead. I'm I'm
not looking at her dead in her eyes. I'm
looking at her dead in her face because
I'm like all in the windshield like
girl, I lifted myself up like what are
you doing? But she would not look at me.
She kept looking at her phone. She
looking at her phone inching in, inching
in. This is the This is what like what I
can see right here. No tint. Fishbowl. I
am looking into your soul into your car
into your whole car vehicle region.
Okay. And she inches up inches up and
she's inching in. Inch in looking at her
phone. Did not want to look at me. All
you got to do, girl, was look to the
left. She did not want to look at me at
all. So, the guy had came out. Sorry,
y'all. It's getting dark and everything.
It's a lot going on. Hold on.
The guy had came out and he went to the
person in front of me. So I rol I kindly
rolled the window down and waited for
her to see if he's going to come to me
or come to her. Of course he going to
come to her because she's inch in
between me and the person next and she
looks like she's next. So I had roll the
window down. I said, "Excuse me. Excuse
me, sir.
Excuse me." Mind you, this a black man.
He come over and he's like, "Yes." I'm
like, "Uhuh." Cuz she's cutting me. I I
when I said it, I felt instantly like a
carrot. Me and Ri when I told him the
story, he was like, "What? What?" I was
irritated because usually I let things
like this go sometimes because it's like
it's not even worth it cuz then she get
the car and I got to put her down. You
know what I'm saying? Like it's just not
worth it. And then I had the baby like
it's just it's just not worth it at some
point. But this is early in the morning.
I'm irritated. I already drove an hour
and a half in the heat to go drop my dog
off. I had to drive. I don't have back
then. I don't have back ticket to get
her that I don't have back home. Like
girl, give me my coffee. Let me get my
things together today. Okay. So, I'm
telling him like she's cutting me. I
said I sat here in this line, this long
line. It was like seven cars in front of
me. I sat here like being a nice, you
know what I'm saying? A nice citizen and
I didn't cut nobody. I didn't do none of
that crazy stuff that she's trying to
do. I'm sitting here in this line
waiting for my turn. And she comes and
knows I've been sitting here before her
and she's tries to slide up in between.
Like it's not happening like that. It's
not going down the way y'all think it's
about to go down. Irritated. So he
giggled like he he did a little once a
little I said in his head he probably
do. You know what I'm saying? But I
couldn't even I I was like I'm already
committed. I had to go full throttle.
Like you are not it's not happening. So
I'm going to have to give you my order
now. Like and and we going we going to
do however y'all going to do it. I was
like, cuz the way y'all have this set
up, it's like anybody can just slide up
in between people and that's not fair.
And I've been sitting here waiting like
it's not going down. So then he like,
"All right, what's your order?" I told
him my order. You know, a tour glass.
I'm going to take a
caramel drago with a little web. Why? He
proceeds cuz I'm I told I showed him my
military and I'm like military cuz they
got military discount. If you didn't
know, you know that girl, they got
military discount. Dutch, bro. Hello.
I'm like, "Uh, yeah, military." He was
like, "No, no, don't worry about it.
It's free." I said, "Hold on, hold on,
hold on. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,
whoa, whoa. Hold on." Cuz that's not
what I was trying to do. I didn't even
told him. I was like, "That's not what I
was trying to do." I was like,
"Literally, I just wanted to place my
order, pay my tab, and go on about my
business." Like, I just did not feel
like that was like I feel like she was
doing it on purpose. Number one, I feel
like if you was really trying to get in,
you could have easily looked at me and
been like, "Hey, I'm trying to get in.
Like, are you like, you know what I'm
saying? You know how people like
silently ask in their car like, "Hey,
can I you know, can I?" And I would have
been like, "Yeah, girl, like, come on
in." Cuz like you asked politely and I
would have been polite to you. But if
you're not polite to me and you're just
trying to do whatever you gonna do and
look down like that's what it is, girl.
No, it's not. Okay, we going to both be
up in here ting ting ting ting ting
playing bubber cars. No, we're not
because you're out killing me. But
anyway, that's besides the point. That's
how I felt in my brain region. Y'all
know Geminis's we're not all there
sometimes. In the morning time, we're
definitely not there. There's not
tutors. There's about four of us. Okay.
So a lot of voices in my head is like
beat her ass, hit her with the car, run
her off the the line. I don't know,
girl. It was a lot going on. Okay. So
he's like, "No, it's free." D. So I'm
like, "What?" So then he's like, "Okay,
you're next after this the truck in
front of you." So I'm like, "Okay,
cool." But the way she pulled in, cuz he
went over to her to get her order and
then and then the car in front of me
drove up, but I couldn't even drive up
because the way she had pulled in, like
you was really trying to like like bog
guard your car up in between me and this
car in front of you. like it was just
ridiculous. So he looked and seen how
her car was. So he was like um he said
hold on one second. He let her come in
front of me. But mind you, he said my
dash was free. So I ain't had I couldn't
even you know what I'm saying at this
point.
He shut your girl up. I have nothing to
say. I was like okay whatever. Like girl
girl he ain't pay for your little
coffee.
You feel me? So
he goes and he gets her order. Then he
goes in. He gets my drink. She's still
in line. She's not even at the front.
She ain't get her drink nothing. There's
somebody in front of her. Okay. She come
He comes out, brings me my coffee. I'm
like, "Thank you." I slides to the right
and slides around her ass while she
stays in her little where you wanted to
be in the line. I left her where she
wanted to be. Okay. Slid around her,
slid to that. Look it all up in her
fishbowl. home girl still wouldn't look
and drove off like girl
honey. But then after all that I'm like
hold on is today free day because that's
the second thing I got for free. But it
was traumatizing. Okay. It was a
traumatizing way to get something for
free because like I said usually I don't
really do all that all the time. But I
don't play all the time neither.
Y'all know I don't got to tell y'all.
Y'all already know what it is. But I'm
saying some people don't. So I had to
show my ass a little bit. Okay. to get
to get where where I need to be. But
anyway, long story short, your was like,
"Is it free day? Go ahead over to the
Apple store and see who get
y'all. It's been So, I did go get a
second one because this one wasn't
free." Okay,
this one was what I was supposed to have
paid for earlier. You know what I'm
saying? So, it all worked out in the
end. Is okay. Everything's good with
that, y'all. Yeah, I'm just blessed that
it's all over. I don't have to really
stress too much. I have to give her
medicines. She has to wear a cone for I
think it was like 7 to 10 days. Um, and
yeah, we just have to watch her. Yeah,
I'm ready. I'm ready to be grand
dogless.
I'm ready to show my ass. I'm ready to
have fun. I'm ready to turn up. And I
feel like I can't do a lot because this
granddog is not pipe train. The fixing,
the spaying is done. Okay. Um, Javanchi
is still available for like studying, so
he's not he hasn't been neutered or
anything like that. He can still have
puppies. So, if anyone is interested in
that, hit me up. We definitely provide
those services. But, as of right now,
we're pausing on the puppy situation
because girl, it's a lot. It's It's
definitely a lot. And then they just
wouldn't stop. It's just it just kept
going with me going.
I'm like, what is what is happening?
Girl was multiply.
Jesus.
All right, y'all. That was it. I had to
literally pause my car and let y'all
know that I've had a tag. Okay, but I
might as go home and edit and get my
life. So, talk to y'all later.
One eye is open on the other side and
one eye is closed right there.
Oh my god.
He said one day she going to be able to
get out and he get
right now they ain't there yet but that
day will come.
That's what happens when you have an
11year-old that don't want to get hugs
like kisses and hugs and love and
affection.
She too look she too good to play in
there with the other kids. They in there
playing. Too good to go in there. What?
That's what they do.
That is so nasty.
She thinks she's a big girl.
So nasty.
She don't like bows no more. What else?
She always wearing sweaters,
turtlenecks
and um so weird
sweaters and um jeans
and big t-shirts,
right? That's her her attire now.
She thinks she she thinks she big.
She her excuse is she cold. She say she
cold.
You she's anemic all of a sudden. Have
kids they say and then they get big. Get
the [ __ ] out my man face. Uhuh. Right. I
had I looked at We didn't even She
didn't even look at me. She didn't even
see me.
And back the [ __ ] up out my man face.
The [ __ ]
I felt a little uncomfortable.
She made strong eye contact with him.
Back the [ __ ] up.
I thought something was wrong for a
second.
Oh my god. Screaming,
right?
Zero.
Are you counting?
No. I was just telling her how she's
going to have pep rallies in middle
school. I think it starts in middle
school.
Never been in a middle rally.
And then he just agreed that he got in a
fight at the pep rally when we was in
high school.
Arguments like yelling.
Oh, arguments.
Just a little scuffle.
Oh,
right. He like Your dad likes to fight.
I never
There's no reason to fight.
You should never fight. It should be the
last resort to fight.
The people are fighting at the right.
I know that was crazy. Mimi talking
about Let me see. Girl, back up.
See, I'm going to be one of the people
that they like don't
No, you don't want to be the cameraman.
What's the bystander?
Uh, I forgot.
You don't want to be a cameraman cuz
sometimes people don't fight. Sometimes
they start shooting.
Cameraman never done.
I know.
And mine not even going to be shaky or
nothing. I got the stabilizer.
But for real, my friend tried to be a
cameraman when your dad was fighting and
she got beat up.
How?
Because she was in the middle of it.
How did you throw a punch at her?
They didn't see her. She was in the
middle of it.
Back up.
She was too close.
Make sure I back up.
She was too close. Lost her leg.
Lost her leg.
Her leg was all beat up and bruised and
she was limping the next day.
I told her to back up. Shane, listen. I
was on the bleachers.
You just don't You were the one causing
I was not the one that I did not cause
any of that.
She caused
any of that. I didn't cause nothing at
all. I tried to stop it and he didn't
want me to stop it. So, I said it's out
of my hands.
Crash out mean?
That's a picture of him.
In the dictionary, there's a picture of
him under crash out.
Guess I know what it means. Guess what
it means?
It means this,
right? Dad,
you scared the lady.
You hear me? You scared lady to walk by.
She said
right now shopping. I asked DBT to like
curate some meals. So, she made like 16
different meals and we're going off of
that.
Mashed potatoes.
Daddy said there's no more.
There is no there's no more.
I did not. What?
I did not say that. You asked me if I
can make you some noodles.
Frozen can.
They said there's no more. We got to go
to the store.
I didn't say
some corn.
Fetuccini, spaghetti.
Those are more expensive than Walmart.
Pasta.
That's the reason why I even came here.
That's why
I said I mean we
go.
This is pretty cool though. We said a
family of five. We said $300 and she
literally gave us 16 meals.
That's crazy. So, we're going down all
this. She's literally like writing what
the prices are and all that. Like, um,
yes, ma'am. I'm going to start doing
that for like really everything because
sometimes it's hard to like make a list
and think and really like, you know what
I'm saying? So, to have like it's like
having a little mini assistant like
girl. And ignore this y'all.
I'm I'm redo my hair when we get home.
All right. Mind your business. You're
all mine. How's your lace looking?
Okay. Awesome.
It's not me.
No.
Oh, they chipper cheaper.
We should have been there.
How much is
like $20?
Are you guys good?
Does it look good?
Does it look good?
No, it looks like
like an arm face.
Because I can't
behind you.
Girl, what did she say? She didn't say
nothing about you. Go that way.
What did I talk about?
Nothing.
I really need
to be 860.
It's
okay.
Stop touching.
It might bend right there. She looking
at their their seat,
girl.
And then you get your 25 cent back when
you take the cart and put it back right
there.
See, look at your dad. He's in the 25
bag.
So you can get a cart. Oh my god. He
threw it up in here. Was
it tails?
Heads.
Did you say heads?
Yeah.
It was a good one.
All right, y'all. So, as you can see, we
went to Aldi's. Then we went to Walmart.
I'm about to clean that fridge because
one thing I don't play about is when I
go grocery shopping, I need to make sure
that um the refrigerator is clean cuz I
talk about fresh groceries and a clean
refrigerator.
It does to me every time. So, we have
our Aldi's haul.
All this stuff here and then all this
stuff over here and then all of this
stuff here was from Walmart. So
technically, we really did spend I think
we spent like $18 at Aldi's and $180
at Walmart. So $300, y'all. $300. Like I
think we was like $10 short or something
like that. So it was like $2.90. Um
hopefully this stretches and if it goes
well because 16 meals um should be about
like over 2 weeks, a little over two
weeks. So, and then maybe with
leftovers, even a day of leftovers with
each, then that's a month of groceries.
So, we'll see if this is a month a month
of dinners. Not a month of groceries,
but a month of dinner meals. We'll see
how this goes. I'll let y'all know. The
puppy pissed. See, this is what I'm
talking about. This I'm talking about.
She pissed. Y'all can't see it, but she
pissed right there. I promise you, she
pissed right there. She over here now. I
just groomed her yesterday. Gave her a
little cut. What is she eating? No.
No. Give her a little cut. Give her a
little ponytail. Shante. Shante.
Fix your ponytail.
You said take your time.
I said, "Baby, I'm
take your time."
I said, "Baby, I'm down." I'm a
I smoke on every so in my blood.
I see pretty things so I got trouble
trusting
my guard down for you. I put my guard
down for you.
