HOMELESS UNTIL CLOSING EP. 14 😱 Final Walkthrough, Blue Tape Our Empty House + I Can't Believe This!

My husband's taking me out. What you want me to do? Lift the washer and dryer? I think not. On cloud nine. Do you hear me? My mama said, I could whoop your ass. Did her mother say that? Perhaps. That's not, that's neither here nor there. For me to have the patience to sit in my mama's house for eight months, like y'all don't even understand. Miss Mimi is cussing a girl out. Excited? You ready for your makeup? You ready for your makeup? It's a you, you, and everything's so cute. Dating parties are starting. Wake me in your trap and make me wonder who makes me wonder who Put a pool back there It's an alarm system I love that it's a door This is a door we picked Hold on mommy I didn't know that it came with one of these I literally was gonna buy one I love that Yes, don't touch the walls please Good, then we don't gotta be fixed Now we are at our house walk-through right now We are talking with the builder Or like the person who runs the company who built this house and he's basically just going over everything that we need to know about the house our warranty and i'm upstairs right now looking at the kids bathroom is so cute like everything is shiny everything's brand new oh my gosh this is um isn't our final walk through because final walk through will be on closing day but we are literally so excited oh where are my manners hey girl hey welcome to the way if you're new here girl my husband's me out it's our first house ever and we're just basically going over that whole process we have been unhoused for eight full months waiting on a house before it to get built it's finally done it's finally built i left the finish line and just like looking at all of that letting it all come in oh my god y'all this is just so bittersweet so come along for the ride if you're girl you already know what it is y'all know where we came from y'all know the struggle y'all know that this is such a big deal for us we are going to become homeowners which is one of our biggest goals and we wanted to hit and we were ready of course and now we are it just feels great like our family is just growing like i don't know just like oh come on this is all our special memories about us we're gonna rock this away we'll come back to this when we buy like 15 houses we'll come back like this is our first boy low-key this is like I guess this would be called our starter home because it's not a starter home but for us this would be our starter home so it's our forever home this is the beginning to the beginning to the beginning to the beginning so look at these look at how shiny this is look at how new it looks like oh everything is so shiny clean brand-new I love it these are the same color basically as my countertops Hey hey, you go to that QR and you do, it'll get you into your warranty, how to submit warranties, your home owners manual and home owners manual will also give you just the process what that looks like, there'll be a test at the end I'm probably gonna fail it. But I'll take the documentation just to be able to refer back to That's what the Army always taught me. As long as I can refer back to it, I'll be all right. You can, and then there's a video going over what we're going to do. Okay, so what is the foundation? That's everything that's on your list. So that includes your back porch, front porch, your garage, of course, and your house. Okay, that 10-year warranty. I might be looking at my phone, obviously, it's 2026, so I'll be just taking some big notes that I want to be able So I'm not being rude and just looking at my phone. So those are notes and not answering phone calls? No, no, no, no, just taking notes. See that 10-year warranty slap don't they? Okay I think he was going to send me one, he didn't do it. Oh, okay. So I don't have it. Okay, and you spoke to him? Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. He was injured. He was a character. No, he was a young, young, active man. He's Mr. Gadget. Get up there, there's a platform. You can't add to the platform. You can't put another room in up there. You can't store things up there. Right. Because it's engineered for the weight that's up there for a couple of miles up there. It's not engineered for that. How would they ever even know? That's technical. They'd be like, check here, check here, check here, and sign it. They wouldn't know if you ever needed to get something big. You'd be surprised at what they'd experience with people storing up there in their attic. And only one, yeah, the day's date. You want me to put the day's date actually? This time of year, as hot as it is, of course, these guys, when they plant this sod, they water the same, seven days a week. But once you guys move in, and we can adjust it when we're out there, I'll show it to you. I can adjust it right now. I'm watering my yard right now because of the heat. I'm watering it four times a week. The grass needs water. anything needs to be fixed i just have a little bit of things that i see that like the paint has went over a little bit but they've already put tape on it so like keys on that need to be fixed he just didn't it wasn't like he rubbed me wrong when he caught me doing something i really really I'm going to put a door in here going into the garage, or not the garage, into the laundry room. So basically I'm going to open up this so I can go into the laundry room from here. I think you're safe on that wall. I was going to ask you if you knew. But you'd have to go around the other side and see if there's any outlets. Yeah, there are. You might run into some electrical wiring Well, Chuck can move that. That's easy. As far as like something else like i don't know water pipe line i think so because you're all your all your plumbing over on this wall okay yeah that's what i figured it's against the back i know i'm gorgeous i don't need no rich off these endorsements while i'm playing my switch Hmm, niggas found out I feel chubby, I look good slim Hmm, ignoring the haters that speak on my body In front of them, aren't you? Tune in, you spotted me mostly A bum bitch can't get in my car Rounded by stars like I'm reppin' my country Next year, whole lot of projectin' You do the ---- that you put on the next bitch But it gets me fucked up, you parlay These niggas know I'm the biggest investment Hmm, I'm at the top of my game I'm who they hate, this ---- come with a horn I'm gonna show you guys what I want Hot filler Installing that soon this whole kitchen i'm showing y'all now but it's gonna be redone probably we're gonna have um probably gold gold accents going on here it might not sound right because gray gold but trust me y'all when we get done with this project it's gonna be gorgeous especially in the kitchen i mean light fixtures chandeliers we already bought our chandelier you guys gonna install it right there it's going to be gorgeous in here we might change the color of the cabinets not sure yet I need to look in this closet so this closet is a smaller closet there's no bugs spiders in there it's me, how do you feel about your house what what were you saying about the house how do you feel about your new house let's talk to mr fly he's been here for feel about the house would he stopped he's trying to tell me something oh my god is that all y'all have to say you're excited you're You're ready to do makeup? You're ready for your baby to do makeup? Oh my goodness, you guys are ready. It's been eight months. It's been eight months. It's been almost a year of us not having a house, of us not having a place to put your stuff, of y'all just having to be quiet and be cramped up. Y'all literally get... What are you doing? What does it have to do with the... A bite? There's a bite in your... Oh, you bit it. Girl, you said there was a bite. Like something crawled in your mouth and bit you. Do you remember your things? Do you remember what you have? Yeah, do you remember what you have because you probably don't I might come I have my comfy pillow your comfy pillow So what's one thing that you that's packed up that you can't wait to? Unpack my makeup your makeup makeup in Out of all the things yes, it is. It's a deer bro What's one thing that's it. I was your one thing It's something that you're ready to unpack that you haven't seen in almost a year The iPad's not in the storage. I'm talking in the storage. Mimi's in trouble. That's what she's not failing to tell y'all. She got in trouble and got her phone and her tablet taken. So she's stuck on that. We're talking about what's in the storage unit. The iPad's not in the storage unit. What is in the storage unit that you cannot wait to unpack? That's you. London, leave the flyer alone. He's going to report back. Let us know how everything goes. So yours is makeup? Yeah. yeah we're not we're not leaving yet do you like your door look at your door you can look out the door you can't look right here you can't see nothing here but you can see through here that's the that's the uh what's it called the peephole but then they can look, they can do it, why would they be on the door like that, I would hope not get your face off of it, fingers, fingers wow so cool, I'm gonna give them a tour of my kitchen so they know what to touch and what not to touch, okay? Know what to touch. Okay. So this right here. Don't touch it. Do not touch. Do not touch. Do not touch this. I can touch it. This right here is going to be the point of business. Listen, I already told you, don't touch it. I'm telling you now. It better stay right here. Then you're not kicking it here. Nope. I'm done. Bye, Mimi. I say dye the counter, oh no no, and I rebuked that because ain't nobody and we all living up in this house, we're living all of us, yes ma'am, yeah we're about to go get some food after this and um yes, the builder in the garage um going over some more blue tape, I didn't even use a lot of my, most of my blue tape was in the kitchen, honey y'all know how you know I feel, oh let me show you something else this is the refrigerator, look how deep it is, mimi no you already showed them the house mimi showed y'all a big tour empty house tour you did you show them everything the what what's that what that is come on show me show okay show me what you're talking about the oven you said the oven show them the oven i thought you said the evan i'm like who's evan the oven how this goes mariah but look though open up open up open the thingy you're gonna be flipping what girl flipping burgers no open open that open that oh girl open it look inside there look how big it is it's a fly mariah get off of there look how big isn't that cool that's not big girl that's bigger that's big yeah and it's your height that's the crazy part y'all can like london can can use it okay close it yeah it's like yeah look Milan's favorite place is like yaya's exactly like yaya's look how big these are the drawers isn't that cool the drawers are huge and then we got drawers in front of our stove we never had that yeah those are those are cabinets yeah and then right here look how much space we never had an island this big that's crazy come on London I mean what's your name London you don't have to be dramatic we're gonna go eat okay but just think about this the house look at the fireplace that turns on look at the crystals on inside of the fireplace isn't this cool maybe gonna have to do the top you should get it okay see and then look at this when you go right here you go like this that's how you open it so go like this stop and then go like this but if you're going fast like that then it yeah to do to slow to open it. Isn't that cool? Okay, let's go outside. Can I try? Yes, push it up. Push it up. See how heavy it is? I know. Oh my god, it's so heavy. Yes. Okay, go to your new backyard. Your new backyard, girl. Designer and Javaji gonna look. So you don't think a pool could fit out here? Let me see. No, pools really only take about five days. Yaya just made it longer because she didn't want nobody in it but we're not doing pool right now i'm just saying you think it could fit out here yeah leave that stick leave that stick there let's just rinse my face you would take the grass up over here put a grill propane gas right here yeah so cool right i'm gonna do my my hand name oh god anyways no talking about he goes that's how he's gonna do the pool by himself yeah look at this i'm like sinking in the grass because they just laid the grass down if y'all can see there's like patches and holes in the grass fence brand new everything is looking beautiful this is where you go out so if we did get a pool we'd be able to see it from our room which I love do you hear me he'll make sure nothing happened let me see my water okay hook it up there i ain't show y'all nothing but london devour all the wings no she had a lot of wings though y'all it was crazy would you say london she wanted to see it before and after because she looked a mess we missed it though i had to clean my girl up but when she eat that girl is messy no oh yeah y'all listen i did i feel like i haven't talked to y'all in so long so we have a lot of catching up to do but hi girl into the vlog i believe this is the beginning of the vlog if not if it's part of another vlog girl hey because i know i ain't saying hey i just been moving and grooving and going and going and going and going like non-stop and i tell y'all i am exhausted i am tired but we ain't even got through the most exhausting part moving tomorrow oh my goodness we get a truck we get movers we get to that storage unit we get everything hauled onto the truck and we drive down to dallas for the very final time like aesthetic isn't even the word okay aesthetic really is not even the word it's just coming down to an end it's coming to a close closing day is thursday wait so today's tuesday tomorrow's moving day thursday's closing day and then we move into the house on friday y'all like i am so freaking happy all the long hard work the long the dedication the the struggle girl the unhousedness of it all the kids just not being where you know they're comfortable at like them not for eight long months not being able to really run scream play like they can at our house like we don't mind that you know what i'm saying so it's like having to just be super duper quiet like hats off to the children because they really really did their best they had some little you know what i'm saying some along the way mariah's grounded i have to get into that with y'all later but they've had some hiccups but they've done the best that they can honestly like i i really really really am so happy how everything played out so when we get down there um like i said we have closing day but we also have to do our final walkthrough y'all when we did um one walkthrough where we just went through and like blue taped the house and stuff so now we have to basically go through and make sure that everything that was blue taped or that texas ain't no joke when it comes to heat i know august i don't know why i feel like august should be a little cooler but it is 100 and some degrees and i think that that is just ridiculous anyways um y'all died because i ran out of storage but i wanted to finish telling y'all so basically i don't even know where i was at but basically two more days and we are officially homeowners so we're just basically getting everything done i need to get my nails and my feet done um i did my hair i changed my hair to this color i thought i don't even think i told y'all last time y'all seen my hair this color but i just i changed this color for closing day because i wanted something different and um what else when we saw the house and we did the walkthrough majority of everything was done already because we had an inspector come we've had the va inspector come we had two inspectors the va sent their own we paid for one then we had the va sent their own appraiser then um our mortgage company paid for one so our appraisal is right around the same for both sides um the inspection was good on both sides um what else the inspector that we picked was actually someone who's on social media so it's just super duper funny he happened to be in dallas and we saw all of his inspection videos online and they're so funny and hilarious so we had him do our house i'm not gonna tell y'all who because i feel like then y'all gonna be able to go and you might be able to like put i don't know i don't know he know where we live so i you know what i said you know what i said so anyways um yeah so that was fun and hopefully if he does post then we'll be able to like see his full like walk through but we got his list of things um that he didn't like and that we needed to get fixed so we told the builder and everything walked through the builder um everything just was a one y'all like everything is going smoothly thank god y'all know we've been having like little hiccups little bumps and for it to just run smoothly finally it's just nothing but god like i give it all to him honestly because i we couldn't have done this without him like we couldn't have like for me to have the patience to sit in my mama house for eight months like y'all don't even understand i'm not being ungrateful because she did let us stay there for eight months but when you're used to having your own when you're used to you know i'm saying just taking care of things by yourself when you're used to not having to hear from someone else about whatever the case may be like my mom went off on about bread last night like you know i'm saying like stuff like that and we and i have been so anal i have literally my anxiety has been on 10 because i have just been running behind the kids trying to make sure that you know everything is clean and not saying that our house isn't clean when you have kids here's a tip for y'all don't go crazy running behind them all day long trying to keep things clean honestly tidy up throughout the day but at the end of the night do a deep clean that's how i function in my house my mom because she doesn't have any kids and she's not used to having kids you know i'm saying i didn't want to feel like it was just a lot going on you know just just throw that on her like just children running around touch walls and do it you know like the kids stuff so I tried my best to alleviate any types of stress when it came to them which put a lot of stress on me because that's not how I usually run my household then having to tell them you know to be quiet and to not be jumping around they're not apartment kids my kids don't know nothing about not jumping around and not having a good time you feel me so it was just a lot of different things when it comes to other people's in their space and how they like their space it's not nothing against anyone it's just that I'm ready to go I'm ready to have my own space I cannot deal with it any longer and I'm so blessed to have parents who allowed us to stay with them but honestly we was only supposed to be there for a couple months the reason it got longer and longer is because we ended up putting the kids in school we ended up having an issue when we were looking and then we couldn't find the house that we wanted then we ended up finding the house and that house wasn't right and then we had to switch houses like it was a lot going on then we had to wait for it to be built like it was just a lot going on all at once and it took eight months so I'm telling y'all now if y'all have ever jumped into the buying process you already know the hecticness of it all and if you haven't i'm telling y'all it can get chaotic just do a lot of research be patient don't rush into it because it could be a long process and honestly it should when you're investing this amount of money girl hundreds of thousands to millions amounts of money like you want to slow it down you want to be able to make sure everything's right you want to make sure you're not getting into some crazy deal you know what I'm saying you want to make sure that your interest rate is where you want it to be especially in this economy we actually got a really good interest rate our interest rate is actually 3.99 not not 3, not 4, child 3.99 and it's crazy because a lot of our friends and people who've also bought this year or last were like you know that's an amazing deal they've gotten like i think five and fours and things like that so it was really really good like what we found was amazing the area that we are moving to is an up and up so right now super duper country hands down like i mean like mom and pop shops things like that so we are excited because we only want to stay in this house for about three to five years depending on how fast they build this area up so we're excited to get in where we are because the price point that we have like when i tell y'all this investment is just it i'm like i came from the heavens like i'm not even playing y'all it really honestly did because everything lined up perfectly everything was what we wanted it to be we're gonna be able to flip this house and make so much money off of it at the end of the day when we're ready and it's crazy like our kids gonna have a great schools you know like they're gonna have memories like they're able to see a house i never got to see a house being built or my parents buying a house when i was this little i am just so blessed like in this whole process and um shout out that's all to my husband my husband shook me daddy did the damn thing y'all like when i say he has been working non-stop non-stop no breaks like he has been pushing it to the limit to make sure we can get everything that we want he has been on top of everybody doing all the things i have not had to lift a pretty little finger for much of anything but to sign some documents you feel me like when i my husband showed up and showed out like he did that he did that and i love him damn like i loved him before this but that right there was a little sexy i might have to throw these ankles back after this after i get my nails in my and my toes done because uh baby i cannot repay you for everything that you have done oh my god like biggest island i've ever seen one of i think my granny's actually is bigger but i've never had an island this big i haven't been you know what i'm saying just living an island this big like this island is huge the kitchen is like damn near as big as the bottom of the house like i'm just like oh my god y'all i'm just so blessed i feel like i've waited long and all the hard work is paying off like that's all that matters at the end of the day i i can see the struggle that we went through you know all the trials and tribulations but we stuck it through y'all and i wanted to give up so many times i got into it i got into my feelings a few times and i want to just be like you know what just forget it let's just go rent because i was just so tired i was so drained and then also right now going through the whole summer i thought i was gonna at least get the summer in my house and then be able to get the kids ready for school like going through the whole summer not having a place now it's ready but when we get in we gotta get in get serious the kids gotta get into school like we have a lot that we just gotta do like when i say the first like month is gonna be chaotic and crazy but y'all y'all here for the ride i'm not gonna talk y'all head off too much longer another feature that i love about the house is that we have it's like endless heat for our water so our it's a water softener it's like the hot water tank is like it doesn't it's never not hot like you'll never run out of hot water love that we have a 10 year warranty on our house like oh yeah it's just like i said everything just lined up perfectly and it was just a blessing and i am just so grateful so let me get in here and get pampered before the move girl i'm still not lifting a pretty little finger i'm just a girl my husband knows i'm just a girl when we do moving he already didn't he look he prepping me he's talking about i know you're not gonna be much help i tend to the children when we have this when we have moving situations and things i let i let the men's do the hard lifting and the sweating and stuff you know what i'm saying what's a girl to do like what you want me to lift the washer dryer i think not let me go ahead and get these nails done before he changes mind okay before i got these man hands before i start you know what I'm saying let me go ahead and turn it to that girl that I'm talking about let's get it actually went live while I was in there for a little bit y'all my hair is like you're seeing me I feel like when it's a color you can like see like all the imperfections a lot easier than when it's like black anyways um here is my nails I did like a black tip hold on I did like a black line and just like frenchies just with a little black splash because I told y'all I'm wearing black and white and then I'm really wearing like all black and then like white like a white line so I wanted to do like the opposite on my hands because I don't really I'm not a fan of like black tips I don't know that's just me so he actually free handed these and did amazing I really love the color that he matched with my skin tone to make it look like a natural french and then my feet are french also let me show you my feet are frenchies too oh yeah on the way back home I did stop because over here they have a lot of different little like food spots so I did stop and get me a little sandwich at Jersey Mike's and I'm about to head back into the chaos of it all we were packing doing laundry just basically getting up getting a little bits and stuff um in my mom's house together we have to go through the pantry um it's like low-key like mini packing all over again like we spent like all day packing yesterday but today I had to take a break and get me together okay all right had to put me first lucius had to put me first we don't that's exactly what the house is like couldn't get it i missed it y'all it looked like lion king we in every goddamn movie and scary movie and all types of stuff cartoons like we in the back roads okay one second it's not working because where we are baby where black folk don't go it's so hot yeah the trees that's what the leaves are dying is that what you're saying yeah the trees are dying but if we like got stuck here we don't got no food no water that's the last like i'm gonna walk back you know i mean obviously i've been we've been seeing houses so i have to plot the last one i've seen at this point it's been a mile away yeah the last time oh look look this is what i was talking about we're about to let mufasa go right over there look at it it's like a valley and everything somebody's like land the road made this road right in the middle of the wood yep let's go make a room down there no stop lights no no stop signs no nothing you just drive it right there's no laws there's no laws out here it's like fresh freshly painted right campground yeah i'm on the table zero seven four you'll probably bring it up like when it gets not this hot like probably deserted right now that's the type of that is somebody over there working for real look Look at that, the tables is all the way back here and this is where ---- go wrong Right here, mystery person, gone Cause they wanted to come to that abandoned campground and do it with sharp teeth Sharp teeth? And drag them into the lake We are at another one, bruh Another one of what? I swear to ******* god. Hell, keep out Riverside Park Picnic Ground Bruh. It is so freaking hot. 100 some degrees we're in the middle of you got a pretty mouth in the country trying to get this because i guess it was a close i don't know child i i don't know i just girl i just didn't that's my that's my that's how i participate and and give give my guidance so he's about to get the truck and then i have to follow him in the van basically i'm gonna be his little assistant today i'm probably gonna get the lunch um what else do we need i think we both have to drop something off at the post office i have one of my friends diploma so i need to mail that to her um and then he has something to drop off i think for the va or something like that and then after that oh and then i need to take something back for um one of my amazon orders that i did not that i wanted to return and what else do you need to do something else i forget but i'm gonna be like riding around today he's going to take the u-haul to the storage unit he has movers there who are gonna help him load the u-haul then we gotta take the u-haul to my mom's house to get a little bit of the things that we have there pack this car he's gonna hook the maserati to the back of the u-haul like we did when we got up here and then we're gonna head on the road to dallas it's been real san antonio it really hasn't i've been here for way too long my mom corrected me yesterday i was saying eight months we've actually been here for 10 months i just realized i don't know why i wasn't counting at the end of last year because we got here in november so we've been here for 10 months y'all almost a year i live with my mother for almost a year it's insane to me like i never would have thought never would have thought and i didn't think when this all this whole process started like this was not how it was supposed to go but it came out it we conquered it is what it is and it did what it needs to do that's all that matters i don't even care if it was two years three years four years the fact that it's been that long though is mind-blowing but we just gonna slide past that okay shout out shout out to my parents because they were g's in this situation and let us stay with them and we are forever grateful y'all i today hopefully we get there in enough time to where we can have a good night's rest because we have to get up in the morning we have to go through our final walkthrough and then we have closing day and yeah so we have a lot going on it's back to back to back to back jam packed like we we can't even have one little hiccup on the road or like one you know mishap or deterrence because we really need to get back and be able to sleep i don't know if maybe we'll get a hotel room or something um along the way if need be or something i don't know but i don't know how long it's gonna take to get there it's a four hour drive to Dallas so hopefully it doesn't turn into like six moving completely sucks i just want to let y'all know more so for my husband because he and me he gonna be you know stay but moving traditionally sucks i cannot stand it if i did not have a husband to do the heavy lifting and all the plans and all the things girl i don't know where i would be in life like i'd probably be somewhere cross-eyed with a little bit of white girl across my lip you feel me oh i wanted to tell y'all why me me got grounded and this is a good time to tell y'all because ain't no children in the back but the little ones so let's get into it so every so often probably about every two weeks or so maybe every other week every week it just whenever i feel like it but right around there i like have a mental note to check iPad devices phones messages all the things right on Roblox i do not allow them to communicate at all they're not able to chat i cut all communication off you don't even talk to nobody if you know somebody in the game then that means that you have their information and you're able to like FaceTime them they will do FaceTime calls so i can hear the conversation you know i'm just real girl i'm raising girls in 2026 you feel i'm saying so i'll be on the edge i'll be on the edge okay what you what you watching i can hear it when she be on um her little shows and stuff more i know if i'm like change it now click clack we're changing or blocking or delete you know we're figuring it out the algorithms uh-huh because sometimes they just be doing too much if we do it too much so my girls my kids they notice they know how i am they know i don't play apparently mimi has been deleting messages simmer i really hadn't gone through like the deleted messages just yet y'all know mimi got a phone for christmas so she hasn't even had a phone a good seven months when this happened okay so about six months of her having a phone i'm like you know i'm not gonna i'm not gonna i checked the deleted before check the deleted before right but it wasn't nothing crazy it was some things i kind of was like but i didn't really want her to know like i could really get down and dirty and see it all you feel what i'm saying i also have this protection thing parents through it's like some type of uh it's like a parent safety it'll let you know if they're on harmful websites or sending things that they don't need to send like videos pictures things like that they're on facetime and any body parts that should not be shown are shown it will cut the facetime log off they'll have to contact a parent all the things i have that on the on on yes i do yes i do i have that on their ipads and on her iphone so she knows that she knows that right so she's probably figuring like oh you know if something goes wrong it sends to my mama but if i delete messages writing she doesn't say nothing she doesn't know nothing about it so i let her i let her think that i let her have it i did say at different points and times whenever i would like yell them about something i'd be like y'all know i could see everything like you can't like you know what i'm saying you can't get over on mrs and mr get over okay we've been did this like teenage years we've been locked in we we did it all okay we ain't your dad all parents i really feel like when y'all hit the teenage years y'all don't want to play with me and you're dead because we was too bad into her phone and she was in the shower and I was like oh let me just like because Uriah had asked for some kind of code he had sent to her phone so I went in gave him the code when he got the phone I'm still scrolling through the phone right so I'm seeing stuff where I'm like wait something's missing here in this this text thread so I go in I go through the delete it why miss Mimi miss ma'am where'd she get it from me where'd she get and there's another part where it's like your role player but she called her that and it was very offensive okay she has sent some to one of her friends and she didn't feel like she responded fast enough and she was like girl what the fuss at you not once did she call her out her name but maybe to call her everything but like this little girl had been bullying her in school and all this stuff she had got got on her in school i don't know if i told y'all but this little girl it was a little girl who was messing with her and she was like taking her water bottle i had to end up going to the uh to Ross and buying my baby a Stanley because um what you're not gonna do is touch her ---- and the water bottle before that was just like a generic water bottle and i said we coming back bigger and better baby make sure she don't touch this and if she touch it we got a problem at school i had to get on her about this she didn't tell the little girl at school if you touch my water bottle my brand new water bottle she showed her my brand new water bottle if you touch my water bottle my mama said i could whoop your ass and you won't have to worry about that kids if they tell y'all from Philly like i was raised by Philadelphia and this is this is the way that i was raised okay and that's it and that's it if you put your hands on my kids my kids hands on you but i'm like you don't be the bully you are gonna be the one who finishes it if someone messes with you let them know so they don't mess with you again but you don't go up to nobody you don't start with nobody all the things right so she knows this so this little girl had been messing with her messing with her hiding her water bottle saying she ain't doing now she ended up doing something crazy to some other little girl she gave her medicine i still don't understand how she i don't think she's coming back to school this year but i still don't understand how that wasn't like a whole big thing because listen if one of y'all if somebody give my baby medicine oh i'm owning the school it's gonna be the bell academy that's period point blank i don't care about none of that parents teachers whoever was in the building needs uh needs to be accounted for if you was in the area when this happened and you what girl but they were like foreign so they ended up just taking their daughter out of school and going to another school i guess but that's how you heard on there y'all long story short it has been a lot going on at the school with this little girl and mimi right so mimi had already told her like don't touch my stuff or it's up and after that she did it which was great so we ended the year i didn't have to cuss nobody out it was real copacetic then the summer comes she the little girl ends up cussing at one of mimi's friends one of mimi's friends puts it in the group chat mimi says hand me that phone because she don't even know this girl she don't have her phone number they're not friends they're not acquaintances none of that you and then she deleted that that right there because when i said how did you get her number she was like oh one of my friends gave it to her talking about she made it seem like the little girl had texted her and started cussing at her and that's why she had to cuss back because she knows her mama and she knows that if somebody does something to you if you do it to them it's not always it's not always right it's not right but it wouldn't have made me as mad as it made me knowing that my baby was the one who went the okay no there was no types of provoking there was no reason for it there was like you did not need to do that like just because she's going off on one of your friends does not mean you need to be captain save a girl and come on in there and and and get some straightening because it wasn't nothing for you to straighten okay what nothing for you that you didn't have to say nothing about nothing about nothing she told a little girl when she texted mimi's friend she was like uh something about she called her a bitch and and some something something and mimi was like oh oh she wanna be tough girl she she did get a little squabble with a little boy in third grade and i feel like it's getting to a head and listen here i said you we done we're done with the phones the devices all the things right now it's been about i think about two weeks I think that Mimi has been grounded and she will continue to be, I don't know how long she may not get a phone back, I really we don't think she's getting the phone back at all, she may, she'll get her iPad back eventually but her phone, I think that she's not ready for it, she's shown that she is not capable of having one because number one you're sneaking, hiding, deceitful because you're you're deleting ---- not telling me mind you you didn't tell me about this whole little fight that y'all got into the girl's mother baby phone leaves a voicemail, not nothing crazy, not like that but she was just like, hey you know I'm gonna tell the home girl over there to stop and I'm gonna need you to stop and you know such and such such real nice, real real demure, I was surprised because her daughter had is rough but she was very very nice on the on the on the thing she was like, hey I just need you to you know stop, we're gonna block your number, you don't need to have any more communication because I guess she knows that this little girl is going to another school, there's no reason for having any communications with the kids from the past when she's been you know who she's been terrorizing okay, but fact that you didn't reach out to your mother when another parent was involved even though you didn't talk to another parent she left a voicemail you listened to the voicemail, you know what was said, what was going on and you did not alert me at all that shows me that you knew what you were doing was wrong and you knew that if it got back to me it was gonna be a problem and you did not want that problems at all so you try to hide it and now that you try to hide it you're getting an even worse problem so y'all homegirls locked down clink clink in the jail like ain't ain't no ain't no roblox ain't no ipad ain't no ain't no apps she could just watch tv that's all we got for her and only reason she got that she lucky we wasn't in our own house when this happened because she would have got everything deleted and taken away she lucky she gotta uh be able to watch tv because your i was like you know we're not in our own space i don't want to just kind of like shock her nervous system by taking everything um she can just you know have that little bit of freedom but girl who she think she is cussing like a sailor she's gonna tell me but mama it was just through text i don't do that in real life i thought it was okay because i didn't i don't i don't do that in real life i was just texting it so i didn't say it out my mouth girl listen you have to be 13 maybe it's about to be 13 years old y'all she's about to be a teenager we have to nip some things in a bud okay we have to nip some things in the bud so she is now restricted and london also just got in trouble yesterday it was yesterday or the day before yesterday because she found a way around my roblox block i told y'all they can't communicate can't talk to nobody nothing she found a way around that by going into some kind of chat that allows them to chat in the game she found a way in a place where she could go into this specific game and chat oh you got me messed up too okay give them here give me this one right here and and probably only because she can't read when she when she proceeds to start reading i'm sure she's gonna do something that's gonna get her device taken but as for right now she's the only one that is is able to be on any device at all so devices gone i have some ipads girl i got a i got a phone two phones uh what else i got i got i got all types of things the gadgets the gadgets okay like they got me all the way i said as much as we pay monthly as much as we do for y'all y'all have everything like why does a what does a 13 year old need with a phone an ipad a computer like girl you got oculus like girl what are you doing you're asking for a nintendo switch for christmas like please sit now is these these day and age they so tablet savvy that they have so much like access try my best to put all the locks and all the the things and all i'll be in there and they be like we who's calling us their business is my business but it's still and still they're still able to have a lot more freedom than when we were little so it's scary so i have to really just be on them and i have to make sure that they know like it is serious over here like we ain't playing like ain't no you know i'm saying sugarcoat nothing ain't no letting it slide ain't no none of that i don't care how small or how big i care about how big but i'm saying like even how small i you you're getting it you're getting it it's done it's over with like until we can get some some figuring out around here you know what i'm saying so y'all understand what you have in the tip of your hands y'all gonna have to sit it down okay they need to focus on go to school anyway so that's the next step after this is getting them in school after we get into this house oh child pray for me babies please pray for me and let me know below if y'all dealing with the same stuff like teen moms are we okay because i'm not i'm really not