LIVE HANGOUT Q&A! Anything BUT the baby 👶🏻

The Murrays
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where's the light remote we need lights
oh we need lights you're a alive hello
everybody hello one person that's
watching right now one friend we have
one friend while we have one friend can
you get the light
not oh yeah here you hold this real
quick oops that's my hand
everybody um hey we have 11 friends now
nice I just I'll take it so we we're
here here and we're hanging out can you
hear us very quiet so Jude doesn't hear
us yeah judee's still awake we're trying
to kind of uh keep it low profile over
here so that she doesn't come barging in
our room the other girls are sleeping so
we're going to try to like once a week
or so do live YouTube Hangouts with you
guys so tonight's the night maybe we'll
make Tuesday the night um does that
sound okay to you I'm not going to
commit to anything right now because our
life is really unpredictable
she doesn't commit we were going to go
for a neighborhood walk today like a
walk we were going to take the kids to
walk around the neighborhood and that
didn't happen because they were all so
miserable and crazy and they had bad
attitudes that's right our sweet little
girls have bad attitudes of they do um
and so that didn't happen so that's what
I'm saying like once a week try but it
it might not be
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anyways the questions go ahead and start
rolling them in oh is that what a nice
surprise thanks
Courtney I am feeling so much better and
I am glad to be feeling better and I
hear Jude right now I think she might
have jumped over her
gate you hear that it it's literally
like hearing like Godzilla like Bo or
you know in Jurassic Park when you see
the water shaking that's what it feels
like I hear that is what it is
like okay let's see the first question I
saw was tell us about your first date
and we're going to keep this short maybe
like 15 20 minutes so we're going to try
to roll through through these so yeah we
do have a lot of new subscribers so we
did want to make it about you know
whatever you guys want to know um first
date we had coffee went to Caribou yeah
Caribou Coffee and we sat outside and
talked and I mean it yeah we were there
till like yeah we were there until they
closed and it was like 2:00 in the
morning or something like that when we
when we left yeah we were there past
when they Clos we were there for like
eight hours talking so we got coffee she
we saw Black Widow yeah next I think she
killed it is that heard at the door no
it freaked me out and um and then she
dropped her phone and it broke it so
that should have been a sign right there
this is a
noo but she wasn't learning what are you
doing and here's our Judy Jude I knew it
that's not your pup let's see that so
there's that that's what our first date
was um did you do all your births
unmedicated no Tyler I had an epidural
with but the rest yes yeah can you say
hi to everybody we love you too
Ruth say hi everyone every take that out
and now say it
everyone can we see the kids
sleeping well no because I can't risk
waking them that is too D that would be
dangerous yeah any fun plans for the
summer you can show them Everly sleeping
yeah here's one of our kids
sleeping here we go where is she sorry
about
this there's one of our kids
sleeping sleepy girl okay there there's
your kid
um summer plans not really having a baby
so close to summer is kind of made it
like that's all we've really thought
about yeah we haven't really had much
time to think about anything and also is
just probably like smarter just to not
plan anything for the summer I would
like to take the girls to um Great Wolf
Lodge or something like that just for
like two days you know a quick little
trip I'd also like to enroll them in
some classes like gymnastics or soccer
or something what are you
doing I flow
on I got flowers on are tough or long
long long question answers to questions
um meaning behind our daughter's names I
know we answered that in other one of
the other Q&A videos um they
all have meanings so really like Tyler
her middle name means consecrated to God
so that was why we named her as a
firstborn and then Elena's name means
bright light um and so I thought it was
important for a second daughter to have
like a name that set her apart but
didn't overpower her sister her older
sister um Juda we named we knew it means
praise means snacky girl it means to
give praise to God um so that's where
her name came from and then
Adeline uh Adeline means um
Noble
and Elise really we named it her middle
name again was like when the me came in
Elise um just as a form of like Elias or
Elijah buddy which means my God is
Yahweh or the Lord is my God and then um
yeah ever right there Joy is her middle
name name is what has the meaning
really Jude this is not going to work
this is not going to work and joy I just
explain that in our last Vlog about her
name so watch that one and that will
explain that too many questions let's
see oh my
goodness how many tattoos do you have
Danielle is there any special me behind
them do you plan to get more ink okay
actually you know what a lot of people
have been asking that question so that
was one I do want to answer I'll give
this to you if you go sit down can you
do that go sit in that chair here take
take it with you I'm not getting up we
should have just made it this I've seen
like the most tattoo questions ever we
should just made this a tattoo Q&A
tattoo Q&A okay people have been asking
this so my first ever tattoo I got when
I was 18 um by my friend Willis and it
says it's Italian it means Love Thy
Neighbor sorry about that love thy
neighbor love thy enemy that was my
first tattoo I have an anchor on the
back of my neck that was for my dad and
that
is just really small I got that when I
worked in a tattoo shop you don't have
to ask me something you're not part of
this
Q she's trouble she's the honor trouble
what's your
question um her chest tattoo says God is
love that was one another
question so she has that tattoo she has
these tattoos on her arms so my friend
Willis did this one too God is love love
was probably my yeah second
tattoo um then I have this little star
on my hand that I did myself with
a I think it was like a safety pin or
something an Indian ink I think I got
rid of there and then um I'll bring you
strawberry pancakes I have sorry guys je
this is crazy then what else I have a
tree on my side that I had drawn and
then on my feet I don't know if you can
see it it says the sun and the moon are
my father eyes and the tattoo artist
that did this did a really poor job so
it's all hard to read
now are
you oh don't show that on camera just
kidding um so yes is that is that all my
are you going to get more
tattoos sh okay sh sh sorry about this
you're going to wake your sister up are
you getting more tattoos um I have this
Kurt howy Kurt howy is the name of the
artist not the tattoo artist but it was
it looks pretty canvas so look him up
and you can see these paintings and how
much prettier they are on paper um but
it was never finished so yes I would
like to get more I would like to finish
my arm
but I also would like more tattoos yeah
it does please okay you have to take
making um you can answer this one
question how are the girls adjusting to
the how baby SC what I do you just
scroll it down but just answer that
question how girls adjusting to Bab
okay sorry everybody
Jude has no boundaries and she's like
hurting me I'm in a little bit sore
still and so she is crazy um the girls
are adjusting pretty well I
think it's hard to tell where their
craziness started like before and where
it might be because of all the changes
but I think overall they're adjusting
well they all love her very much they
all want to help with her so that sweet
um but yeah it's it's a little bit of an
adjustment I think since I was up here
for like a week and a half so sorry
that's my finger again
um there's so many questions let's
see four to five kids I don't know the
transition is still too new I think I am
in
um still in a fog kind of like I'm
slowly getting the hang of things I'm up
and around I'm able to like start
cleaning but it's really hard to figure
out how to juggle like time for
everything so today I spent some time
cleaning and John's like you can't just
keep cleaning you have to do this or
whatever I'm like I'm just trying to
figure out a balance between cleaning
the other kids feeding the baby pumping
milk feeding the baby pumping milk
that's like most of my day it pretty
much takes up in one out of every three
hours is spent doing that so anyway um
The Adjustment though overall so far I
guess has been
smooth
and let's see sorry you guys there's so
many questions I'm trying to
get okay Courtney the SeaWorld
commercial the SeaWorld video is coming
that has been um interesting just their
approval processes
and it's just been a lot on like the
other partners in it and their end of it
so we've been waiting on them but we've
had it finished for a long time ready to
show you guys so I can't wait to show
you because we had a lot of fun and um
yeah we made a really cool behind the
scenes video and I want to show
everybody that but it's just taking a
little bit so hopefully in the next like
week or two that'll be up um I have been
a
vegetarian
for hold on a
second 12 years 12 years I think um um
and the girls no I don't think you could
pay Tyler I don't think you buy her
anything in the world to make her eat
meat she just she doesn't want to eat
animals the other girls joke about it
but then if you actually try to give
them it they won't Jude probably would
um but I'm just very picky about where
we get meat from so when John buys like
orders from a restaurant or something
like that something that's meat I'm like
the quality of that meat is probably not
very good and you're not feed that to
the kids so so for right now they're
still vegetarian but if I could find
something grass-fed and oh my gosh what
is that it's a cookie
e what is that called misophonia I don't
know I have it I have it so bad don't
make those noises I'm I was heing being
conscious not to I was going like a
little slowly
Cheo um how long have we been
Christians I mean I was raised Christian
I remember
I think I was about six when I like
consciously accepted Jesus as my savior
so and then that that walk with God for
me has been like close and far and close
and far and just as I've made mistakes
and bad choices in my life and then have
come you know back so um yeah most of my
life although I haven't always like
walked the the walk same here pretty
much the same thing he's a copy gut yeah
that's just what
yay Mary we love doing live streams I do
because it's easier less editing and
also because it's fun to like actually
get to interact with you guys like it
feels more like hey there are actually
people there we were just talking the
other day like it's weird to think that
people actually watch our videos we
upload them we know people watch them
but it doesn't feel like it but then
when we do this it really feels like we
know you guys there that's true yep I
love it um I already answer that so
postpartum I feel
better better I'm not sick not dealing
with like the thank you my armor is yeah
I'm sure is tiring not dealing with like
the um breastfeeding issues like I was
and I've had some baby blues but it's
mostly like how is she already 11 days
old you know like that I get really sad
cuz she's growing up so fast Everly's
already out of newborn clothes she's
already out of newborn diapers I know
she was so big she doesn't even fit in
the newborn anymore and so that makes me
really sad but overall I feel
good the nois is J oh no sir
David um let's see John planned on
having a large family right I guess he
said he wanted five kids and I told him
he was crazy but then the more we had
the more I was like I don't know but I
think I'm done I think I'm
done um let's see my mom has not come
back and visited yeah I know it's I'm
trying to beg her to it's just hard with
work and with my dad's work they're
going to come for Memorial Day but she's
worried about the traffic that weekend
so lame if you're watching this lame
also I'm really sorry if we've skipped
over there's so many questions like it's
hard on this little cuz this is our
iPhone and they just go away yeah they
just disappear so it's really hard
to do we speak any other languages um I
speak really really really like f five
words of German and I speak little bit I
mean I took Spanish in high school for a
couple years so I can like pick up on
words he can say poo I can't say poo I
can pick up on words I cannot speak it
but I can understand some things
sometimes good I can understand some
German things more than I could speak
probably right um okay let's see where
were we which tattoo hurt the least
H H might probably this one right here
or the back of my
neck Tyler starting kindergarten this
year if so you don't she's supposed to
we haven't enrolled her anywhere I could
end up homeschooling her cuz I just have
not had time to even think about that we
sent one email to a school and they
responded and we haven't written them
back yeah but so it's it's a private
school and it's very expensive
so um oils I got to hold it a different
way than this let me switch sides with
you
just I'll just take it back okay so
let's see language we read that one
vegetarian okay there we are we're back
we're back back on track um yes I have
used some oils especially like claraderm
spray has been great for postpartum the
question was have you been using any
oils to help with your healing
postpartal yes clariderm spray by Young
Living is amazing um I've especially
been using that and Frankin sense for
emotional things it's been great thank
you to all the people whove said it I
look great you know it's upsetting
nobody said I look
great cuz you didn't have a baby I've
I've had four babies four babies popped
into my lap for the last week and a half
well maybe not the last couple days um
let's see how long have you been on
YouTube almost two years almost two
years the end of this year really will
be no it's July it's July well then July
it'll be two years I remember like one I
have July 4th video of um
ATA oh yeah oh yeah it was of July
um that video guys go back to like one
of our first videos of of Elena at the
farm we might have what it called like
Fourth of July fireworks donkey maybe
it's I know maybe it is that something
about fireworks in a sorry go ahead
something about fireworks and a donkey
and the Fourth of July anyway Elena is
so stinging cute yes she was oh no we
lost our place oh no sorry guys stop
commenting who keeps saying hi over and
over again hi hi whoever keeps saying hi
ah okay that was a question about how's
the storm door going storm door is going
good it's on it's working and it's great
to have yes it is my mom hasn't come
back okay I answered some of these out
of
order
um that okay they asked that a couple
times anyway which labor was the hardest
out of our
kids uh Everly for sure that was
definitely the hardest I know it doesn't
look like it in the video but the last
there was four hours of pushing and
hardness and everything else was like
I'm fine I'm fine 45 minutes of hard
labor and then baby so 4 hours was a lot
yeah of hard like 10 cm pushing oh my
Crusher yeah that's Jude again she's
here hi hi from hi Pittsburgh I'm from
Pennsylvania I've been to Pittsburgh a
few
times um let's see that was funny okay
there we are we're back at where we were
supposed to be
okay I will have to give some
breastfeeding tips probably somewhere
else because that's kind of a lot to get
into then what do you and your hubby do
to keep your relationship from being
pushed aside by the kids we're still
trying to figure that out let me it's
hard but usually we look at
this do you guys see that that little
hand right there that's judee's hand
coming under our door like hello
peekaboo she's a mess and now she's
knocking this is like hor movie it is a
scary movie yeah what do we do to keep
our relationship being so we're still
working on that we make time usually
when they go to bed sometimes we'll feed
them dinner early put them in bed and
then we'll eat dinner and watch a movie
you like an in like a date at home kind
of a home date um so that's kind of the
extent of it I'm sorry this is so shaky
it's really hard to hold my phone we
need a tripod for
it um did not know did did you always
know you wanted to have many kids no no
I always wanted like to have one and
adopt one but after I had Tyler I was
kind of like hooked on it so here we are
now five
kids do you own a lot of makeup and hair
supplies and would you ever consider
working as a cosmetologist because
you're so good at Art a um thank you
that is sweet and I don't actually I
have one little pouch of makeup and
that's it and that's all I use because I
like things simple I actually don't wear
makeup that often I worn it more lately
than probably ever right as long as you
know me I just I just am not like super
into
like and not in a oh it's bad to be into
vanity but I just I got too many other
things to care about what I look like
usually so it's not something I ever
really have gotten into like a ton of
makeup but yeah I I mean I cut John's
hair and stuff and I think I would do
makeup on people just for fun probably
not as a job because I think I would
hate it doing it every
day um cloth diapering hm I have not
with adelyn we had thres for so long
that I just gave up and so they would
been in a drawer and I haven't started
with Everly
because um she was too small she
probably would fit in them now but we
have these really cute parasol diapers
are they in here still so I'm trying
these diapers from a company called
parasol and they are really really soft
and they're really cute patterns and so
I actually will have an affiliate link
that I can post um in maybe tomorrow but
look how cute these are they are cute
these are Everly's and then we have them
for Adeline too so I've been putting
them in these and it's like a
subscription like the you order them and
they just ship them with wipes too yep
you can get them with wipes too and they
just ship them every month you can
change between kids and Alternate sizes
anyway parasol they're really cute um I
asked answered that already let's see
I we've talked about making videos with
vegetarian
recipes or make a video about being a
vegetarian I'm honestly not a good cook
I don't cook that much I microwave a lot
of stuff usually I use like meat
substitutes for things so like I use
Morning Star Farms ground crumbles and I
throw in Sloppy Joe's just like you
would ground beef or tacos or so I just
kind of substitute things with like soy
based products in instead you can pretty
much turn any meaty dish into something
vegetarian because they make so many
substitutes now um it's true yeah chili
without meat or you know just beans or
you can do chili with the fake crumbles
so it's true it's so true mhm um your
girls are
adorable I don't do you have five kids
because of religion or just one a large
family sorry first I interpreted that
like neither like a religion dictates
how many kids I was like I don't think
that's how but I realize you mean like
not abstaining from or having children
yeah um I think it's like a combination
of both we just really I don't know oh I
said neither and you said a combination
of both I mean it's a combination of
like not wanting to take that God
ordains life and we believe that and so
not wanting to like take control of that
or not wanting to like close a door I
guess listen here's what it is we talked
about vasectomy after Elena was born and
I'm so glad that we didn't do that
because we've had three beautiful
children since that I can't imagine
talking about a sectomy right that I
can't imagine not having them so and
it's not like we'll have infinite kids
because we just don't believe in it or
anything it's just I've never felt like
a piece about being done if that makes
sense does that make sense
m i mean I said don't ask me that now
don't ask about that stuff now because
now I'll be like no I have a 100 kids
are you kidding me this newborn she's so
sweet I want like 10 more of them but if
you asked me right after I had her while
I was in labor like I would be done or
if you ask me when she gets to be
adeline's age or judee's age I'll be
like no I cannot do this again this is
so hard you're crazy so it just depends
on the
timing um let's
see how do you handle
drama like kid drama drama drama you
mean like having girls in drama I don't
know we don't have we try to get away
from drama yeah the drama
is it's usually if you can't get along
you're not allowed to play together if
you can't if you're fighting over a toy
I'm taking it like that we're we're not
doing that I usually try to nip it in
the bud because the drama is not going
to fly in this house with five girls
it's going to be hard to keep it at Bay
but I'm going to try to teach them to
either get along or just go to their
corner you go to that corner you go to
that corner don't talk to each other
don't look at each other until you learn
how to talk to each other so there's
that um I did move here before I met
John yes I was engaged before I met John
and so that's why I moved here and then
I stayed and then I met John and then I
stayed even more her life was changed
forever changed
forever we probably should be wrapping
this um
yes just go to the last comment let's
just do the last coming it just my
favorite song yeah I'm going to do like
a birth like sit down and talk about the
birth and um probably answer some of the
questions about like my playlist and
stuff like that there play let see do
you speak any other languages okay
you've asked that aund times let's
see thank you very much that daily life
who said we're an inspiration that is
really
sweet live feeds are really I think
they're really fun I hope you guys think
they're fun too sorry that John you stay
here all night long it is
true um Courtney J kids the video of my
water
breaking I do I want to post it cuz that
thing is going to go viral
insane everybody's face and I I
literally ducked okay yeah I jumped out
of the way and Lisa or du she was
like like trying not to laugh and it as
we watched it back we like kept
rewinding back and forth laugh so yeah
maybe we will post
that it's just really hard to I mean
it's it's pretty intense you don't see
anything from down below angle but it
you don't have to it's still pretty
intense it was kind of like if you
imagine a water balloon bursting in slow
motion and just seeing it a water
balloon that's like being filled like as
you're filling it as you're filling it
and just yeah it's kind of like that
that's what it was like so yes we'll
maybe we'll post that um
okay uh so I'm going to skip down here
because because the last comment we're
going I can't even tell we the last
there so many yeah we're so oh my gosh
oh we're so far
behind guys we're like say that because
I just saw how many comments were behind
I mean Daniel was like scroll scroll
scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll sorry
guys housework done with five kids
haven't figured that out yet still
working out I will let you know whenever
I figure that out let less is more
though that's the key is having less
stuff um well you haven't gotten away
from all the girls yeah what do I do to
get away from all the girls I don't I go
shoot weddings that's about all I got so
go out of time it'll get easier as they
get a little older but he goes and plays
music with his friend Rob and he's got a
small group with church that he goes to
some mornings I like playing basketball
maybe I'll get to play basketball some
more and then what do I do to get away
from because trust me I need to get away
from these girls you get your nails dude
yeah
okay all right that's J again it's time
to get her in bed good grief anyway okay
we love you guys but we have to wrap
this up because we got to get Jude in
bed she was up till 11:00 last night and
we don't want to do that again we can't
do that again and I'm building something
really cool over there if you want to
find out what it is check out our Vlog
tomorrow
because it's not that exciting but it's
going to be in it so um there's that and
thank you guys I'm going to go back and
read these later they should show up on
our channel right no they don't they
don't no I want to go back and read
these all the hearts and all the sweet
and I have to reorder progestin plus and
I want to answer these all but I can't
we love you guys so love you guys we'll
see you later we have say good
night come say good night say good night
to everybody no we got to wave and say
good night good night say I love you
tell them you're going to go to bed
right now tell them tell them you're
going to go to bed right now
not my
bed can you blow kisses blow kisses blow
kisses not licks in a licking uh pH
right now so she likes to lick I saw her
try to lick her teacher when she was
taking her into school so all right
guys all right licks for everyone all
right we'll see you guys later love
y'all have a good
night I don't know what is that her
water
