Cây muốn lặng mà gió chẳng ngừng, con muốn nuôi mà cha mẹ chẳng đợi | Liên Hoa

Welcome to the Lian Hua Radio channel Today we are pleased to present to you an article with the title The tree wants to sink but the wind won't stop the child wants to raise but the parents won't wait life isn't as desired Parents can't spend their whole life with us When were young we couldn't understand the pain of our parents When one becomes mature and wants to repay their parents there's no time left anymore Only a sigh remains released in the late night Ha Thu is a beautiful and charming girl After graduating from university she met an Australian boy And she insisted on living with him It had been 5 years and 20 days since she had last seen her parents Ha Thu and the Australian boy were lost in the pain of a broken love The man hopes that Ha Thu can go with him to Australia He promised to marry her and bring her happiness Ha Thu believed Her parents found those words unreliable They thought Hà Thu's decision was too hasty But she still insisted on following that man One month before leaving home Every day Ha Thu argues with her parents She has said many harsh words Hurtful words that harm others She feels that her parents will never forgive her in this life Even she herself could not forgive herself When she decided to do those things To say those words When she left Hà Thu left behind only a piece of paper with just three words written on it: "I'm leaving " Come to Australia Ha Thu found out that the man had already married After temporarily settling down Then that man also stopped caring about her Ha Thu had not a single coin on her She didn't have any particular skills or profession She had to live a very hard life But she had no more reason to return home Hà Thu could only manage to live with difficulty She works part- time at a restaurant to barely maintain a minimal standard of living During the busy day She can temporarily forget the feeling of suffering and loneliness When she steps out of the house But in the quiet of the night Those feelings once again surrounded her Only happy news can be reported not sad news Ha Thu regrets that from the beginning She often tried to tell her parents that he treated her very well and that he didn't have to work She always felt guilty towards her parents Even the most basic filial piety was beyond her Actually We are also like Ha Thu At first we often look for reasons to blame our parents I myself since childhood I still always wanted to become a neurologist or a psychiatrist Do you know why They wanted me to become a lawyer to work as a civil servant or to be in the finance industry Just any high-status job will do My mother only cares about this My mother often puts pressure on me Forcing me to meet her expectations But she never cared about my feelings I almost always feel very lonely So I decided to run away from the house That caused me pain Looking for the self that I consider my own Growing more mature I also want to build relationships with others I want to become a useful person Being needed by others Being important to others The feelings I have never experienced when I was at home At that time I thought becoming a psychiatrist would be able to help me achieve this That's why I was born in a university outside the city The farther from home the better Although I didn't take the medical school entrance exam But I was also removed from the house During the time I was studying outside I often took a break the following year Next summer vacation I will return But I still lack the motivation To do that It's more accurate to say that there is an invisible pressure felt in the heart that weighs heavily Besides those unavoidable moments I rarely call my parents When my parents inquire about me I just give a vague reply The child still has to finish the task It's not that I intentionally deceived my parents But from the bottom of my heart I feel they are unnecessary I built a wall to separate us Rejecting parents from entering one's life One day my father called me My mother is sick now You can't imagine how scared I was I feel like the world could collapse right beneath my feet Just a little closer Then my mother wouldn't be able to see me And I never had the chance to say goodbye to my mother Later I realized that It wasn't that my mother didn't love me It's just that my mother loves me in her own way That may not be the way I wanted But I never wanted to understand The farthest distance in life Isn't that you standing right in front of me But I didn't know that I loved you It was until the very last moment I could say that I love you But you are no longer standing in front of me The pain is not the separation It's not allowed to say goodbye when parting ways Do not make your parents worried It is the greatest filial piety Confucius said: When parents are alive one should not travel far If one does travel there must be a place to go It is when the parents are still alive That one must not go out If it is really necessary to go out There must be rules in place Don't make your parents worry I didn't used to think that There's nothing particularly right about this But when I realized that my parents couldn't be with me forever I began to become more patient Know how to listen more In my heart I want to understand my parents more Want to share in their joys and sorrows Want to care more about their feelings I wasn't afraid of anything when I was young But as I grew up I became even more timid I began to pay attention to normal life But I deeply value the life my parents gave me Now I will text my parents the taxi license plate number Try to get home before 10 PM Learn how to take care of your health exercise Before going on a business trip I also reported the detailed schedule to my parents I used to think my parents' advice was unnecessary Too much talking Now I'm very afraid Fear that the elderly parents will have no place to rely on Fear that I will regret Fear that the parents will not be able to wait I am most afraid of the loving words that were never spoken Becoming words of parting The harsh words that were spoken in haste Again become eternal None of us want to admit that Our parents will grow old Because it's too cruel The relationship between children and parents It usually takes two painful experiences One is when we start wanting to live independently Escape the protection of our parents Another time is when we have to face the aging of our parents When forced to admit that parents will eventually grow old and weak They will no longer be able to live this life with me Hope that you can make your parents live their most peaceful days Tell your parents that I love my parents I hope my parents take good care of themselves Parents must always be peaceful and healthy okay Finally How many storms have I known I have also returned home to live under the same roof with my parents And how happy it is Back to the story of the girl Hoa Thu She once called me Tell them that I have spoken the whole truth to my parents And pray for their forgiveness It was still a gentle voice on the other end of the line Come back to your parents Ha Thu You will be safe She flew back home from Australia at the end of the year A sense of peace and lightness Why so much running away Heaven always has a way for everything to return to its proper place Which child is not attached to their parents Considering parents as the greatest love But when they reached adulthood those innocent children from years ago were no more Start the anger against their parents By the time they understand a bit more about the situation They felt it was wrong to treat their parents that way They brought the love buried deep for so many years into the light Once again they loved their parents as they did in their youthful days Zeng Shen one of Confucius's most famous disciples He was filial to his mother Included in the 24 exemplary filial sons and daughters It is said that when his mother bit his finger Also moved him troubled Once was beaten by his mother with a whip Tăng Xâm wept bitterly Mother asked "Have you ever been beaten and never cried " "Why are you crying now " Tang Sam wiped his tears and said "Mother you felt pain when you hit me before " "I know that you are still healthy " he said Today the pain has gone away Knowing that mother has become much weaker It's still heartbreaking so I cry He is a filial son If possible I always hope that We could live a little slower Let time slow down Let the days stretch endlessly So that parents may not have to struggle all their lives I can be proud because I have grown up Happy to have me by your side My parents are the sweetest responsibility of mine Because I love them more than my own life Go home and embrace your parents in your arms Take advantage of the few remaining days Tell them that I love my parents thank my parents because when my parents are still around I can still love them Life has places to retreat to When parents pass away Life is left with nowhere to go back to No matter how far you go His final thought is toward his parents Thank you for listening Goodbye and see you next time See you next time on the radio