In this episode, we welcome Lexy Delorme, author of the Limerent Series, for a deep dive into her journey as a writer, her experiences as an expat, and the intricate world-building behind her cross-genre novels. Lexy shares how her background in law, international living, and personal history have shaped her writing, and discusses the themes and characters that make her series unique.
Lexy’s background: Growing up in a military family, living around the world, and transitioning from law to writing.
The inspiration and process behind the Limerent Series, including six years of world-building. How her experiences as an expat and a “recovering attorney” inform her storytelling. The structure of the Limerent Series:
First three books can be read in any order, each blending paranormal romance with other genres (legal fiction, coming-of-age, historical fiction). The fourth book, Ghosting Academy, brings characters together in a psychological thriller with VR technology and spiritual themes.
Upcoming fifth book, Limerence, explores the concept of intense, overwhelming love. Future books and side stories expanding the world and its characters. Discussion of themes:
Appearance vs. reality, consciousness, love, and the impact of personal and societal trauma. Representation of real-life friends and family in her characters.
Addressing issues like abuse, racism, and the universal desire for connection. Lexy’s writing advice for aspiring authors and insights into her creative process.
Book covers, upcoming appearances (including New York Comic Con), and where to find her books.
Links & Resources: Lexy Delorme’s Books on Kindle Unlimited New York Comic Con Appearance: October 9–12 Books available here - https://www.lsdelorme.com/limerentseries
Thank you for watching!
Lexi Delor, welcome to the Bookaholic
podcast.
Hello. How are you?
I'm doing great. And we are talking to
you from Par Paris, France. Yay.
We
One of my favorite cities in the world.
I'm so jealous. I wish I was over there.
We're just
I live here for six years.
Oh, wow. That is fantastic. Wow. Okay,
so since we were talking about Paris,
let me get into that little part right
quick. So, how is it to be an expat?
What is that like and how does that
inspire your writing?
Really does. Um, but I have to kind of
go a little bit back because the reason
I'm an expat is because I kind of always
was. I grew up as in a military family
and so we moved. I never lived anywhere
growing up more than two years, but it
was mainly within the US and I also
lived in Hawaii for four years growing
up.
That was a hard assignment.
So rough. So rough. Yeah. Um and then
you know we went through I was born in
California, Texas, Rhode Island, Hawaii,
New Orleans, and then to North Carolina
where I went to high school.
Um then I went where I'm located.
Exactly. I went to UNCC um for school
myself.
Yep. It's the UNCC girls. We're great.
And um and then I got a job doing um
international startup work for a bank.
Then I I basically went out did uh new
country entry work for South Africa, for
Spain, for France and for China, for
Shanghai.
Wow.
And opened up new countries, did for the
for the bank. did um did mergers, did uh
denovos, did holy subsidiaries, a whole
bunch of things. And then my parents
were getting older. So I came back home.
But as I came back home, I met a French
man at my work. And I said, I am tired
of working with French people because
I've been working with French people.
And uh and my boss was like, oh, no, no,
he's great. And then three years later,
we were married. Um,
yeah, because I was on the legal side of
the house and he was on the business
side of the house, so it was kind of
nature to argue
and we figured we did so well, we just
do that on a regular basis, right?
Absolutely. Right.
But then we moved to California. My
first son was born in in uh Virginia and
then we moved to California
and then um he got a job doing basically
working for a bank as an international
manager and I decided I was not going to
take the bar everywhere we moved. So I
started writing um and it started out
for me doing travel writing. So I wrote
for Bonjou Perry um and a few other
places doing travel writing when in Hong
Kong I wrote for um play times and when
I came to when I moved to London a few
years what 2015 I decided I'm going to
start doing fiction because I have I've
always wanted I've always been kind of
written short stories. That's the one
thing that's been the same in all of my
jobs which is I
I I wrote. So I my undergrad was in the
sciences. Um and then I went to but all
of its writing. I did legal writing, did
science writing, did you know
and um Oh yeah. And I was when I was
young I was in a band and we had a video
on MTV in the middle of the night one
night.
I won't say what it is but and so I
wrote and did music too. Right.
Right. Absolutely.
Not getting any
bad.
I love it. So, so, so I decided that I
wanted to try actually doing a longer
form and it took me literally probably
six years to craft the world.
So, it's a series built in full world
building. Lot went into this. Um,
yes, I can see that because you do an
amazing job across genre, which we're
going to really dig into uh in just a
few minutes. So, let's go back. So,
again, you are a recovering attorney.
Yes, recovering recovering attorney.
You never disease, right?
Well, I've had so many guests on this
channel who are or have been recovering
attorneys and they turn to writing.
There must be something there. You know,
you got your John Gishams and maybe even
Scott Ter, I think, was a recovering um
attorney. But anyway, it just seems to
be a natural
crossover for a lot of people. I saw I
wor in the legal department I was in. I
worked with a lot of people who had been
artists before. Um and then they went
legal
and what happens yeah what happens is we
all so I did music and stuff. So what
happens we we're all doing this stuff
and we're realizing I'm not going to get
any money with this right when we're
first doing that and we go okay what do
I have going for me? I'm smart. Okay, I
took the LSAT and we all kind of ended
up in the legal profession and I don't
know a whole lot of lawyers that are
actually happy,
right?
Um, so you do it for a while and you I
as a legal jobs I had a good one, but
it's then when we get a chance to get
away from it when we've earned enough
money, when we've had enough experience,
we're like, okay, what can I do now to
go back to that thing that I love so
much and has always infused my life with
meaning and
so,
right? Absolutely. Absolutely. Well, you
know, your depth of life, your depth of
living has given you a very rich
experience
um to knowing about different cultures.
Even even in the United States where
it's, you know, each state has a kind of
different culture.
They don't realize,
right? Exactly. And so yes, because they
see us as the whole United States, you
know, and they one thing. Um, but so
you've had a a very rich life. Now, when
you were younger, I'm sure, and when
your family was moving around and you
couldn't make concrete friends for very
long before there was any social media,
you probably didn't feel that way. But
that's what it has evolutionized uh
into. And that's where I see, and you
correct me if I'm wrong, that's where I
see you have this ability. And I really
will say to you, I don't think I've
interviewed anyone today on my channel
who has done this cross genre writing
and to this degree and can keep up with
all of this. I I don't think I've I've
ever had anybody to do this. So this is
something I really want to dive into.
Sure.
Because it's it's definitely genius. And
one of the audiences I do talk to are
also people who are aspiring writers
because avid readers a lot of the times
are aspiring writers. Okay. So you said
just a few minutes ago that it took you
six years to create the world. And I've
had some book coaches on this channel.
One guy that really specialized in only
fantasy world building because well
that's the main area where you'd have to
build a world is in fantasy.
Right.
But tell us about your process over the
course of six years of building this
world.
So it kind of started it started a bit
small. So it started with I had
characters in my head, right? I had
people that I had crafted in my head
just from news stories or hearing
something, right? And a few of them I
liked so much that I wanted to find a
space for them,
right?
Wow.
Um and I was always a reader as well and
I read cross genre. I read a c a bunch
of different things. Was big fan of
water down was one of my favorite books.
Very fantasy.
Um I read horror. I read HP Lovecraft
and Stephen King. I read um I read all
the cheesy romance teenage romance
novels when I was I read Flowers in the
Attic, right?
Oh, I did too. I read the whole thing.
Yeah.
And watch the Lifetime movies.
Exactly. You know, it's like we look at
the You look now at like the Gen Z's and
they're like cuddled with the Oh, we
only want empathy books. We read this
this stuff, right? You know.
Absolutely.
We were traumatized by this.
Um
Stephen King.
Yeah. So, so I I use all of those
things. I used the the things that I had
um loved in characters and I sort of use
it to combine characters. And then how I
kind of created the world is I had a
mindset that one of the reasons I want
to write is that I have seen a lot of
beautiful and interesting things. I have
experienced a lot of things that maybe
people haven't experienced. And what I
decided I wanted to do is capture those
moments
in books so I can share them and they
don't die when I die. Right.
That's right. That's right.
So this is this is part of what the
world building thing is for me crafting.
And also they say write to answer your
own questions and this series which is a
long series. It's eight books long. I've
written all of them. Some are in various
various stages of edit. The first four
are out. The fifth one will come out
this fall and the others are in done but
in various stages of edit. my what the
question I'm answering for myself
through the end is what is consciousness
the big questions right um how does love
question
yeah how does love play into this and so
that and then to do this
I crafted different stories and this
kind of gets into the books but the
first three books of the series are can
be read in any order.
It can be read in any order.
Okay.
No order required. All of them are
but yet but there's the same characters
in the three.
Oh, this is what
Oh, because they're in the same world.
Yeah. So, what happens? What happens is
the the all these three books have
paranormal and romance, but they also
have a subgenre as well. So, Kyo is a
paranormal romance, but it is also a
legal fiction. And it it works with the
themes of appearance versus reality.
Okay.
It it has in it a woman a woman meets
someone who appears to be a late
teenager and clearly is not. And all
this is with a legal mystery as well.
The second book, which is called Bright
Midnights, is a paranormal romance, but
also a coming of age novel. Um, high
school setting US, right?
Yes.
High school in North Carolina.
Wow. Okay. Okay. And it's YA.
It's YA. Yeah.
Um, and
Wow.
The third book you'll love is was set
was actually set in North Carolina. It
is called Fanning Fireflies. It is a
paranormal romance, but also historical
fiction set in the 1940s in World War
II.
And it is partially a family story for
me. I put it stuff with my family in it.
And it's the story of a poor white woman
living in the South who works in a
cigarette factory who works at the draft
office on the weekends and ends up
processing an African-American soldier
who she falls in love with.
And all of the
the stuff that comes from that.
Wow. Oh,
so all of
Yeah. Yeah. Um that book's going on book
tour uh in a few weeks, I think. But
absolutely.
And then all of those books um all those
characters, all these stories come
together in a fourth book called
Ghosting Academy. And that is a
psychological thriller
with VR technology,
elite agents and spiritual unraveling.
Oh man. So Oh. Oh gosh. I just like
taking a back. They all come together in
Ghosting Academy
and it does make sense.
Oh my goodness. Okay. Now, let me ask
you. So, you're saying that um some of
these are paranormal.
So, sometimes I think I mentioned
Stephen King just in passing a few
minutes ago. So, I used to read all of
his his books, but then I was like,
well, I can no longer read this type of
book anymore. So for those readers who
can't see themselves reading paranormal,
can you tell us a little bit about your
paranormal activity in these books to
maybe maybe it's not like horror but
what h how is that infused?
So in my books the horror you see is
only the horror people do to other
people.
Ah
um and there is some of that in states I
will tell you.
Right. Um, right. Right.
But mo all my books are urban fiction,
right? So it's there is there are
paranormal elements in it and it's
there's no vampires, there's no
werewolves,
there's witches casting spells.
No, nothing like that. Um,
but you do have spirits and you have um
uh ghosts and you have
um different different types of of
spirits like um
and it but it's not
it isn't he it isn't hardcore
um it isn't hardcore horror. It starts
getting more more horror and ghost
academy. But I will tell you, check your
trigger warnings because as I said, this
is what people do to people
and there's a lot of that in this and
there's there's a lot of people who have
been abused like like in Kyo Sarah,
right?
Starting out, I actually based her on a
number of my friends who have been in
relationships and she is in an abusive
relationship when the book starts.
Gosh. and and is so deeply entrenched in
abusive relationship, she doesn't even
see it as abusive. She just sees it as
she's not worth anything,
right?
Um and so this book is about her coming
out of that and seeing a world
Yeah. is seeing a world that exists that
is not just beyond what she thought of
herself, but beyond what she knew for
the good and bad. Basically, the scope
of her world went from this to this
with with it's the spectrum. the bad
gets much worse, the potential for bad,
but also the good gets much better. So
the creation and destruction there. So
this is in this the book of Kaio, it's
all really about appearance versus
reality. So what is being presented as
being good and right is actually not.
And what is presented as this isn't
good, this isn't right is actually okay
or good or loving. Right? So it's very
much looking at that. And the people
that I found that had some issues with
this book because what an appearance of
an age gap, right?
The truth is the character of Kaio
although looking about 167s and 136
years old.
Oh, okay.
And it becomes pretty apparent really
fast for her because she's super smart,
very trained in this stuff.
But there's a connection between them
and there's a connection that goes on
from past lives, right, as well.
Ah, got there's a lot of stuff in that.
So, but she has to learn how to step up,
how to value herself, how to value doing
something that is good and right. And I
will tell you that the legal bit in
this,
the legal is partially
something that I dealt with and the
reason I loved family law.
Oh yes. Yes. Wow.
So, so I do bring my life into this and
things that I've experienced.
Absolutely. Absolutely. and the
and as you should is
well it's I feel like you know it's it's
kind of hiding my life and things like I
would never be bold enough to write an
autobiography
I just hide it in stuff right um I'm not
that I'm not that brave um but it allows
you it also allows you to
um to give voice to people you wanted to
give voice to so and the the third book
Fanning Fireflies is the one that's set
in the
Um,
there's I put characters in this for
people I knew and people that for
example, one of the characters um I gave
her a good ending because she she was a
good friend of mine and she got me my
first job and she actually got killed by
people who came into her house and
killed her and stuffed her body into a
an oil bin.
Um
Oh my gosh.
Yeah. and she was a beautiful woman and
a wonderful person and she didn't have a
chance to have a life, right?
So I wanted to give her a chance to have
a life and so I put her in this. I put
my uncle who was a stutterer shows up as
a character in this. So this one is very
very much a lot of my friends and family
and the the
it does talk about the really horrible
systemic rac systemic just awful racism
in the south at that time.
Right. Absolutely. Absolutely. and how
the separation was driven so much by the
powers in control, right? There was a
there was a lot of cultural commonality
between the poor working-class white
people and the African-Americans. Right.
But they were kept separated, right?
Absolutely. As they are today. As they
are today.
No, that's exactly what they're doing.
What people, we won't talk too
political, but people in power, right?
Right. What they want to do is those who
are those who actually achieve their
wealth by having wealth before and just
investing and having this history of
wealth. They are they are different from
literally everybody else. Everybody
who's working for a living, right? We're
all pretty much the same
and we all have the same goals the way I
mean and across the world, right?
When I went to China, I remember I
remember thinking that first time I went
to China, I went by myself. It was the
day after we bombed their embassy
accidentally. I was like, I'm gonna die
right here. I am. I'm gonna die here.
And I walked through the airport, the
guys in the communist outfits, and like
I was like, oh yeah, they're taking me.
It's going to happen. And I get out.
There's my blue American passport.
They're seeing me and I'm like, damn,
I'm screwed. And um so so but I get out
make it through and I go and the first
thing that happens is this little girl
comes up to me and says in English my
grandmother would like me to practice
English with you
and that was it.
It's just people want and she wanted it
because it was good for her you know to
learn English better to get and people
just want to have their family take care
of people they love. We all have these
very basic needs and very basic wants
and it's when people start getting that
thing for power.
That's when things start going real
wrong.
Right.
And there we are. Right.
Absolutely. And you you have me right
there. I I I will not challenge you on
that at all. Movie that comes to mind.
It's called The Free State of Jones. If
you've never seen it,
check it out. It stars Matthew McConna
and that points out everything you just
said, Free State of Jones. Matthew
McConna. Check it out. Um, so now you've
got the fifth book that's coming out
this fall. And what's the name of that
book?
Limrance.
Limrance. Okay. And so what what is
that? This is the Limrance series. What
does that mean? So limrance is the the
type of falling in love that people do
that people consider crazy, right? It's
like it's like when you when you meet
someone and it's like you're just
overwhelmed and it makes you nuts.
Vincent Van Go cutting off the ear
stuff, right?
Yes.
Yes. Yes.
But when I looked at this, I'm question
I've questioned that because
because of the nature of attractions,
right? Is is it always that or is that
something that's almost
chemical and biological like there's a
lot of physics in this series as well
but you you don't even have to really
think about it. It's just it's it's
basically told to you so you don't have
to worry people don't have to worry
about it that much but right
um
the second book uh Bright Midnight is
about attraction in all of its forms
good bad and ugly um
and the this book liance coming out is
seeing the other side of these stories.
So, up to this point, the you've seen
these characters, the point of view
characters have been Emily, who's a
17-year-old girl in Bright Midnights,
Sarah, who's a woman in her 40s, and um
Veronica, who is a woman in her early
20s.
Okay.
And
they've been And Ghost Academy is back
to Emily's point of view, but when she's
older, she's like in her 30s,
okay?
And you've seen kind of the paranormal
stuff that's been
around them. shadowing them, things that
happen. You learn a bit a bit more about
it in Bright Midnights. But in Ghosti
Academy, you see you learn about these
agencies involved in controlling power
in the world. Right.
Ah.
And so there's one that they're all
encountering and and this one says this
other group is evil and Limrance is
showing you the other side. Right. Yes.
Um
and and those characters from Limmerance
show up in Fanning Fireflies. You see
them a little bit. a lot of crossover in
in my books. I have spreadsheets all
over the place of setups and payoffs and
Yeah.
Oh, wow. I can't even imagine.
You're a North.
Yes. Well, definitely. You know, you
said you can read the first three in any
order.
Yeah. They're on Kindle Unlimited right
now.
Oh, okay. Okay. I think Well, I've got
my Kindle. I think I'm g I am really
intrigued by Fanning Fireflies.
Definitely.
And so the other books that are in the
editing process, give us a just a little
overview of how those three are going to
come to play and will that end your
series?
So in the series will end in the eighth
book, but there will there will be
because this is a full world and because
you meet a lot of people in it, there
are side stories that come from their
stories. So, right now I'm actually
writing a book, a new book about one of
the characters that you see in Ghost
Academy. It's kind of her backstory. So,
I like I'm an author who everybody I put
on page because I'm neurotic. I have
thought I I know their full backstory. I
can tell I'm not making crap up, right?
And if I don't know, I will tell you I
don't know. Right.
But um
Right.
But that I could ride in this world for
literally 20 years. There's that much in
it.
Yes. Well, it took you six years. So,
definitely make the most of this world.
Absolutely.
Y
I can tell you for the next three books,
I can I can't tell you too much because
it's, you know,
because I'd be giving too much away, but
I can tell you the point of view
characters.
So, um in Limrance that comes out in the
fall, the point of view character is a
person you haven't you haven't hadn't
had the floor before, which is Dante,
who is a ghost. Um comes up
And then and he's so much more. A ghost
and so much more. Um he actually was
when he died he was um in Carthage and
he was from Tunisia originally. So he
um
we're going ancient times.
Yeah. And um and then uh Cara is his
partner and she was al she was actually
from that same kind of time, right? And
um so they're the point he's the he's
the point of view and she's kind of she
has created this thing.
And then um for the book after that it's
called Mirrored Lands. The point of view
is is um Emily again who's the one from
Bright Midnights but also a character I
can't tell you about because it's really
a surprise. And then the um the next
book after that is called Outliers and
it is point of view of Sarah from Kyo
again and Dante. And then the last book
is called Verite and it's got three
points of view, but I can't really talk
about those, but that's kind of
different.
So,
wow. Wow.
I love this.
Okay.
I just love this. This is very, very
fascinating to me. And so I'm sure all
of these will be very fascinating to my
listeners and my blog readers because
you know you could literally take one
and move on if you wanted to because the
first three are not to be read in order
or anything like that. Um but then
this
oh that's what a beautiful cover.
These are the pretty shiny covers. By
the way, I will be at New York Comic-Con
this year.
Oh, really? What is that?
It is October 9th through 12th.
Okay.
And this is Fanny Fireflies. The pretty
cover.
Oh, another beautiful. Oh, that's
beautiful. Oh, I love these new covers.
I love them. Oh, beautiful.
And the the edges. Have you seen the
books with the beautiful edges? Yes, I
thought about that, but I haven't done
it yet.
Yes. Oh, it's beautiful. Okay. All
right. So, now I want to go get all your
books.
As if I'm not reading like eight books
right now at the same time.
I admire that a lot.
This is why this channel is called
Bookaholic.
I have a problem. I'm telling you. So,
Lexi, thank you so much for joining me
today. I think your book and thought
processes about your book are totally
fascinating, but of course you came from
UNCC Chapel Hill. So,
yes, to be brilliant.
And so, what we'll do is we'll have in
our podcast show notes and in the video
description box on YouTube, we'll have
your information, links to your books,
etc. Lexi, thank you so much for joining
me from Paris, France.
Thank you so much for having me.
Thank you.