Mom Influencers Are SCAMMING Followers?! 😱 Nail Day, Toddler Life & Finding Myself in My 30s | VLOG

Low-key find myself, like I know who I am. I'm gonna need you to respond on it. Type of person to come online and scam your followers off. Previously on the reality of me. Not going even to a coffee store. You happy? They told me 8 and now it's 10 and now it's gonna be 11. The absolute ghetto. I'm very hands-on when it comes to my kids. I just, I don't play. My girl is left-handed. Hey y'all, what's up? Welcome, welcome, welcome to the vlog. Look at me. Welcome on y'all end. Usually I just be chitting and chatting and forget. Like where my man is. Hey girl, hey. How you doing? Welcome in to the vlog. Hey to all my old bell bays. How y'all doing? My old bees. Oh jeez, what's up with you? And hey to all my new bell bays. Hey girl, hey. Stay a while. Make sure you hit that subscribe button. Make sure you ring the doorbell on my way out. Cause we leaving the house, okay? But you're still in my house. Cause we in the garage. Ignore the mess. We have so much things we need to declutter. Before we actually get to moving and stuff. But I digress y'all. I've been talking it down. But today I'm finally going to get my nails and my feet done. My husband has had enough. He was like. He been just hitting and saying. When you gonna go. Go get your. Just stressed out. Like sir. I had to get the kids together first. And then I can focus on me. I cannot focus on myself. I don't know if any of you moms out there. Is the same way. But I cannot focus on myself. When I need to focus on my kids. Or like do both at the same time. I just can't. Like I have to. It's tunnel vision. Mommy mode. Gotta focus and make sure these kids are straight. Get to school. Everything is everything. And now. That it is on week two. Of them back to school. I can now. Go pamper myself. Okay. Or get pampered. Okay. Cause it's. Husband sugar daddy is footing the bill. So. We on our way. I'm gonna go over to a new nail spot. That I've never been to. Because the nail spot I go to. It's cool. They do a great job. Y'all seen I was pissed on my birthday. When I went and got my nails done. And. I was just like. I've been kind of. And that's why I really haven't gone and done a lot of maintenance. Cause I've just been like. As much as I pay. Like they are a pretty penny. When it comes to nails. And feet. And as much as I pay. I just feel like. Like they should be really like. You know what I'm saying. Doing their damn thing. And making sure that. The customer is happy. And I just did not feel. That there. I love the set up. Love the ambiance. Love everything about it. But I just wasn't feeling it. You know. Like with the price that we pay. So I was like. You know. Let me find somewhere a little cheaper. So. And I'm saving her coins. Okay. And I've seen this review. And this spot. That's kind of. It's a little farther than the nail spot I go to. But. It's only about 20 minutes. So we gonna see what it do. And see how I like it. But. Of course. Y'all coming along. So let's get. Let's hit the road. Because we need to be back by 3. When London gets off the bus. So let's go. I know you love ******* me. Back in the car. Look at my nails. I got a new shape. It's similar to duck. But like skinnier. And then I just got all white on the toes. Y'all see my toes. But. The nails. Get into. Hold on. Can y'all see? I don't know if y'all can really get. Like see that shape. Hold on. There we go. Look at this shape. I wanted to try something different. I always get the same kind of thing. But. And. Which is like. All white. With like. Squares. Whenever I go get my nails done. Because. I don't know. I like my nails done. But I've been. Y'all know. I've been kind of. Trying to. Low key. Find myself. Like I know who I am. Let's start there. But. As I've gotten older. I'm starting to learn. Like. Learn myself all over again. Like. Like the. 20's. Me. Is a little different. Than the 30's me. I've realized. Because. There's a lot of things. That I. Won't stand for. That I might have. You know what I'm saying. Been okay with. In my 20's. That I'm not okay with now. Also. And that goes for like. Friendships. Relationships. Anything. Like. I've changed. In the aspects. I've noticed. And this is just me. Being in my 30's. For the past. Four years. And I've also started to realize. The clothing. Options. That I would pick. Like say. I have a sponsorship. Like right now. I'm working with Sheen. And. You know. That's where you can. You basically. It's like a shopping spree. You shop. Till you drop. You figure out. You know. What pieces you want. And then. You showcase that. I've started to realize. Cause I would just get. My regular. You know. Every day. Whatever. Like I always do. And I started to realize. Like. Girl. You don't. You don't like. The same things anymore. And that made me like. Step back a little bit. I'm like. Like. What. What else. Don't I like. You know what I'm saying. So I've been on this little journey. Basically. Where. I've been learning. New things. About myself. And like. What I like. Again. And. That goes for like. Nails. Cause y'all know. I used to be a long nail. Girly. Like. And I used to call them like. Wretched nails. Like. I would be. Like. Wretched nails was my thing. Like. It was real. Real long. Where. To the point where people would be like. How do you even function. Like. They used to ask me all the time. How are you. How are you doing this. This and that. Whatever. And it was low key. Like. A little challenge. Like. Girl. You know what I'm saying. I can function. And do whatever. Be a mom. And everything. With these long nails. But. It just started to get like. Like. I'm like. For what. You know what I'm saying. Like. It's easier for me. To be able to function. And move around. With short nails. And they're classier. And cuter. Like. To me. So. That started that. And then when I realized. The clothing. The clothing thing. Y'all I'm a target. Try to find a party spot. And then when I realized. The clothing thing. I'm like. Oh yeah. Your girl is changing. Your girl is really changing. And growing up. Like. It's getting. Mind boggling to me. Cause I be like. Who is this girl. Staring back at me. What. So. Another thing. When I was like. Just you know. Getting my nails done. Reflecting. I was thinking. I'm like. Another thing. I need to work on. Is my tone of voice. So. Trying to live this. Soft girl. Error. When you are. A no limit. Gangsta. Forget soldier. Girl. Gangsta. Okay. It's hard. Cause I have to catch myself. Sometimes. With my tone. With my husband. I have to catch myself. Sometimes. Like. With. People in general. Like strangers. Like. I don't have to snap. On everything. Sometimes. I have to like. Okay. Like. It's alright. Move it along. Everything doesn't need a reaction. You know what I'm saying. Like. I have to really like. Coach myself. And retrain my brain. Outside of like. How I've been. For the last. Lord knows how long. So. Another thing. Is being loud. Like. I want to learn. How to talk. Lower. And. That probably sounds crazy. But. For me. I don't know. Like. With my personality. And. Just the way I've always been. Like. Even in high school. You guys. My high school friends. Like. I've always been. Very bold. Very loud. Personality. Which is fine. Like. My personality isn't going to change. Like. Girl. It is what it is. This is her. And she is she. You feel what I'm saying. But. I just don't want. To be. Just. So loud. All the time. Like. I want to be able to just be soft. And just like. You know. Like. I was just sitting there. Getting my nails. And my feet done. I just felt real like. It just felt luxury. And it wasn't even like. The. Best of the best I've been in. I told y'all. Like. Where I've been. These right here. And my feet. Would have been $200. Girl. This was $100. This brought me back to like. Back in the day. When we would go get our nails. And our feet done. And it wouldn't be an arm and a leg. And your first born kid. Like. It was just. The. The nail techs was doing what. What they was supposed to do. Like. They was supposed to be giving us this experience. Making women feel good. You know what I'm saying. We don't need to be in there sweating like. Dang. This. This is about two bills. Ain't it? Like. We don't need to be in there. Doing all that. Even if you got it like that. It's like. You just don't. I just don't want. To feel like. Like. I'm. Spending a bag. Just to get. Pampered. When. It wasn't never like that. So. It just felt real good. Being there. They were so nice. Like. So nice. Accommodating. I was gonna leave Milan in the stroller. And sit her next to me. When I get. That's what I usually do. When I get my. Maintenance. But. They were like. No. Come sit her on the chair. Cause. We were really the only people in there. There was a few people that came in. In the middle. But we were really like. The only people in there. And. I came a little earlier. Because I needed to get everything done. In time. I gave myself three hours. Cause sometimes. This would take like two. Girl. I was in there for like. An hour and 20 minutes. Give or take. Like maybe hour 15. Like. They was on it. Like. They did the damn thing. They did exactly what I wanted. They were so nice. Like. I didn't know. The shape. Of the. Like. What the shape was called. That I wanted. Because I. One. I saw this shape. And. It's like. Duck. But it's not. It's not as wide as duck nails. And I was like. I really. Really. Want to try that. Because I've tried duck nails. And I didn't really like the duck nails like that. Like. They're cute. But it depends on the design of the nails. So I was like. I want to try that. But I want this kind of shape. And I was trying to describe it to him. And he basically was like. It's duck nails. But you just want skinny duck nails. You don't want the wide. Kind of build. Or whatever. And. It was just so sweet. It was a mother and son. Ran business. And I will be back. Like. They have a. Returning. Customer in need. When I said. I will be back. To back. Over there for my maintenance. Like. I'm not playing. Like. They even had military discount. Girl. Y'all know I live for a military discount. Honey. I said. What? Huh? What? Oh. Y'all really did y'all big one up in here. Like. Baby. I was like. Let me go ahead. And get that tip together. Because. Yes. You did that. I love that for me. Like. I am so tired. Of like. Always having to like. Settle for stuff. And being like. Oh. Well. This is what it is. This is. You know. This is what. How the cookie crumbles. Or this is. How this goes. Like. No. If you're not happy. Where you are. No matter where it is. If it's at a nail salon. If it's. Your hairstyles. Your haircuts. Your lash tech. Whatever it is. Honey. You spend your hard earned money with these people. Like. Shop around. You know. And then. People might feel some type of way about it. But it's like. I want to go. Where. I'm happy. And. They make me feel like. They want me there. Like. It's nothing worse. Than going to an establishment. Even if it's like. A restaurant. Fast food. Whatever. And the cashier. Whomever is servicing you. Has an attitude. Like. Girl. Didn't nobody tell you. To walk your ass up in here. Take an application. And apply. And then go to the interview. And then come back. Day. And day. And collect the check. Like. Nobody told you to do that. So. If you wanted to work here. And this is. Maybe this is the job that hired you. The quickest. Or whatever the case may be. Girl. I'm going to need you to put a smile on. Ba da. Ba ba ba. I'm going to need you to love it. You feel what I'm saying. Like. I don't care where you are. It doesn't matter how nice. The place is. I need. At all times. In any Walmart. It doesn't matter what the brand is. I need everyone. To be happy. And ready. To work. And get that bag. Okay. Because at the end of the day. You're not homeless. And if you are homeless. You're working towards something. You know what I'm saying. Like. You got to look at the bright side of things. And I hate when people. Be so stressed out. Because then it makes me have attitude. And then I don't want to go back there. And I like to have places. Where I feel. Like. Safe. You know. Like. Safe spots. Where I can go. And spend my money. And be happy. Like. Today. Earlier. I went to Dutch Bros. They was excited. They was. Yes. Oh. I love your car. Oh. And the girl was doing my coffee. And she had the window open. She was like. Hey. You got the tall. Golden Eagle. I'm working on it right now. Oh. You want the extra car? Girl. Yes. Like. She was just like. So happy. And I love that. Like. That's what keeps me coming back. Time and time and time again. And then whenever I have businesses. I try to do the same thing for my customers. Because I know how it feels. To go somewhere. And you spending your money. And you like. Is there a problem? Like. Why do I have to. I'm trying to live a soft girl life. Why I got to be hard girl. Up in here. Why you taking me out of my body. Out of my character. Because you're upset. That you had to clock in. And get a check today. What? But anyway. Let's go in here. And see. What we can find. I'm really just. Like. Blowing time. Because. I have a little bit of time. Girl. So. Matter of fact. I might just. Go home. And pick her up. And go. We'll just run in real quick. Since we here. I just thought about it. Like. Hold on girl. You got one less. Two less. Kids. Go ahead and just slide in here. Slide out. Because that's what we can do. Okay. I be feeling kidless with my mom. Because y'all see. She's that pretty. And good. And she really didn't give me no problems. At all. Like. When I said. We didn't really speak. I spoke to her. Like. Do you want me to open your lollipop? Homegirl's holding a lollipop. Like. Do you want me to open it? She was like. Mmm. She ended up opening it. Like. Within the hour. Like. It had been 40 minutes later. She ended up opening it. Eating her lollipop. Like. She was focused. And she did not cry. Or say a word. And that's what we like. As mothers. Yes ma'am. I didn't even film in there. Because I didn't really get nothing. But. Y'all about to die. So I'm going to hurry this up. I ended up going to Crackle Barrel. Y'all know how my experience being there. I usually tell y'all. Our ancestors be whispering every time we walk up in Crackle Barrel. And be like. Don't go in there. But I always go and get me a jawbreaker. So I ended up going in there. And they only had one left. Which was crazy. It was like. The universe is just not lying with me today. And. I didn't even have a bad experience in there. Every last man. White man. Held the door for me. Usually they slam the door in my face. Girl. I didn't even have a bad experience in there. I don't know what it is today. But I am having a blessed. Amazing. Day. Like. I hope. Nobody messes up. For me. I'm going to hurry up and get home. Because. Everyone has just been. The first one. Was like an older. Like he was even like. In his like 80's. And he was like. Oh. I was going to. Because I opened the door. I was going to hold the door. For these two beautiful ladies. Me and Ruan. I'm like. Oh my goodness. Like it's. I don't know. We just never really get that going in there. It's usually like. Very like. Ugh. Why are you here vibes. You know what I'm saying. But. Anyways. I've been using my cash app card. And I've been getting like. You know those little deals. That they have on there. Where you can get like. Whatever. 5% off. How rude. My camera ended up dying. But I'm going to hurry this up. Um. I ended up. Using my cash app card. But then it reminded me. The other day. One of my bell bays. Accidentally sent me some money. I think. We've done business. Before. I think that's why my cash app was in her. Information. Oh yeah. Oh my God. Y'all. So I just left McDonald's. And I remember I was telling y'all. Like. I hope nobody. Like. Messes up my vibe. They're hilarious. Every time I go to McDonald's. There's somebody. Saying something. Either about the car. Or something. Like. So one guy was like. What do you do for a living? And I told him. No. We're YouTubers. Another guy was like. It's my birthday. I'm like. What that mean? He told me. You can bless me. With what? They be cracking me up. Over there. But. See. It's like. It's still going. Y'all. It's still going. But. What I was trying to say. Was. It reminded me of. The cash app situation. So one of my bell bays. Accidentally sent me. Her daughter's hair money. She sent me $150.00 in cash app. Now mind you. On cash app. It said. That she sent it to me. Around like 6pm. I didn't end up seeing her message on Instagram. Until like. It was like. One in the morning. Or something like that. Right? So I. You know. I hurried up and messaged her back. And she was like. Hey. You know. I accidentally. Sent my daughter's hair money. You know. Basically. Can you send it back? And. I was like. Oh my God. Yes. I'll do it right now. Right now. It was like. One in the morning. But I sent it back. Why she sent me $20.00. As a thank you for sending it back. And then she was like. I knew you were going to send it back. Like. I just know. You know. What type of person you are. And it just like. It really touched me. Because. When you're good to people. People. Are good to you. Like. Period. And she didn't have to send me. No money. Like. I wasn't expecting nothing. At all. From that whole situation. I was just like. Let me hurry up and get her her money back. Before she thinks. You know what I'm saying. Because one thing about it. We are not one of them. Like. There's many YouTubers out here. In this world. All shapes. Sizes. And forms. Okay. But we are not. Scammers. In any way. And I'm. Like. I'm. So very serious. And I know it's like. Oh. You don't have to say that. The ones who know. Know. But it's just like. To think. That. If she would have sent it. To the wrong person. Hell. The wrong. Mommy influencer. Hello. She wouldn't have got that back. You feel what I'm saying. So I was talking to. Uriah. And he basically was like. Because I'm like. Why. How. Why would somebody do that? Or like. How. Like. What. Like. That's crazy. Huh. But I'm like. That's crazy. Y'all. It's so hot. Even with the AC. It's hot. And I'm trying to turn the AC down. So I could talk to y'all. So I'm gonna hurry this up. Along. Okay. And then I'm about to walk up here. And meet London. But. He was just basically like. Another person would have. Basically. Seen it in their notifications or whatever. And just not open the message. Or open the message. And then maybe like. Block that person or whatever. And just like. That person just took their money. And I think that is so disgusting. That that is the type of world that we live in. Where. Someone can accidentally send something. And then you and they're reaching out to you. And you just ignore them on purpose. And take their money. Like you have to be a broke down. Scallywag. Okay. Low. Scum of the earth. Type of person. To come online. And scam your followers. Like I just think that that's just the weirdest thing to me. These people come on here. They support us. You know I'm saying when we have registries or things or it's birthdays We don't even have to ask people will literally send me me robux like out the blue I'll just get emails and things for stuff and people will be like where can we send this where's your p.o Box like people are so generous in this world for the people that they choose to support and for you to have These said supporters and you to take advantage of them. It's just so strange to me But I'm just thankful that my followers and my supporters know how much I love them They know that if there was an accident whoopsie or whatever. I know that money's not mine It does not belong to me and I'm sending it straight back to you immediately Which way you want it how you want it how you want it how you sent it or you want it in cash? You've been I'm saying like one thing about it I believe in karma, and I believe that the universe works in serious ways when people speak things out loud Y'all see things end up happening to them tenfold And I don't want no parts that I come on top of the fact that I am a good person I have integrity and it just does not sit right with me to even think like to even question in my mind immediately I was like, oh, no I hope her daughter still got her hair done today because it was she sent it at 6 and I had to send it back at 1 and I'm like, oh my god, like I didn't see it, but Thank God everything worked out and I just really had to say that on here because I'm like I really see something sometimes and I just be wondering like how people can even feel right about that like who really raised these people to where they feel like it comfortable enough to come online and do That to everyday people these people work hard for their money. These people have kids Also, these people from hell these people might be homeless or you know, they might be dealing with things in their life They might have had a death in the family all types of things they might be getting a divorce breaking up in a serious, you know, like a financial situation and To like not even care about the next person and to just focus on you and yourself is so selfish and it's so wrong and I'm so glad thankful that I don't surround myself around people like that and that the company that I keep is genuine and you know has morals and We're going places in life like future is bright. It'll never be damn because I'll be damned. I'm not one of them period Yeah Look at the rain That's right getting home it's raining so bad and Rain like crazy the past few months I Said apples growing trees and your parents grow on the ground You can't Oh Oh, remember when you're picking them up and putting them in your bucket? Oh, I just did that yesterday. So how did all the grapes go? On the vines? Yes. On the trees? On the trees. Or the bushes? Um, the bushes? Mm-hmm. The bushes or the trees? She just downloaded that. The grapes go on the trees. I like it. A grape bush. It's a bush. No, it's not. Look. No, grapes don't go on the bushes. But it is a tree. Yeah, you're kind of right. It is a tree. Right? That's a grape. Is her comment a fact check, girl? Do grapes go on the trees? I think so. Look. I think these are grape trees. Like bushes, right? Like bushes? No, but they're trees. I think they're trees. Oh, they're actual trees? Oh, wow. Your favorite juice? My favorite juice? Mm-hmm. Okay, so my favorite juice looks like pink. Yep, mine looks like pink, too. Okay. Is it strawberry? No, it's just a lemonade. It's strawberry lemonade, right? Yeah. Pink. Just pink lemonade. Mm-hmm. Pink lemonade. Okay. That is a solution. White lemonade just... White lemonade? That's just regular lemonade, Doody. The white goes in the water bottle. It's not white, Mama. The white lemonade goes in the water bottle. Okay. And then we can drink it. Look, look, look. Listen, we don't discriminate between lemonades. Right. I don't know why the white lemonade goes in the bottle. Okay. My favorite thing, pink sushi. You don't eat no pink sushi or sushi. Neither one. Yes, I do. No, you don't. Yes, I do. Girl. Okay. You don't eat sushi. How does... I think you're making up stuff now. I got pink. Yeah. You're pink and you're glitter. See, my nails are pink. Oh, you're pink like a... Your dress is pink. My dress is pink. The flowers. Flowers. I'm wearing pink. I see it. You're white and you're pink. What color is Tato? Um, black. Mm-hmm. And Bunchy is just like gray. You're right. Good job. I didn't think he was going to say that. I just remember that. Okay. It's my favorite color. Mama's like, oh, she's just going to keep talking. She's just going to keep talking. And my favorite color is green. Okay. Green. You didn't switch your favorite color like five times. Did she look like you, Kiwi, or did she look like Tato? They all look like they own, like, another person that I didn't like. No, I see your face in all of these. Like, if I went outside, I feel like they're just other people. Like, I have faces. You don't see yourself in any of it? Okay. I see you, Raya. How old are you? Um. We talked about this. Stop. She stopped. How old are you? My name's Milan, and I'm... You're not Milan. You're Milan. You're not Milan. What? White. No, white or pink. How old are you? Your age. Your number. You were two, and now you're... I'm three. Yes. Yes, you are. You're three. Yeah! Good job. Oh, I'm sorry. Let me... Yay! Okay. So, my favorite color is... Oh, my gosh. It's, like, pink.