#chinesepodcast#learnchinese#mandarinlistening 👋 In this episode, Mike gets a cold and tries to cure it with... Ice Coke?! Li explains the Chinese obsession with "Drinking Hot Water" (喝热水). Plus, learn why saying "Drink more hot water" to your girlfriend might actually get you dumped!
💡 What we cover in this episode: • Culture Shock: Western "Ice" vs. Chinese "Hot Water" for treating a cold. • TCM Logic: Why Chinese people believe hot water dispels "Coldness" (寒气). • Essential Item: The "Thermos" (保温杯) culture in China. • Social Trap: Why "Drink more hot water" (多喝热水) is considered "Perfunctory" (敷衍) in relationships.
⏱️ Chapters (Timecodes): 0:00 Intro: Mike is sick (Cold & Fever) 0:24 Culture Shock: Ice Coke vs. Hot Water 01:45 The Obsession: Why hot water cures everything? 02:21 TCM Logic: Dispelling "Coldness" (寒气) 02:42 The Tool: Thermos (保温杯) 03:13 The Trap: Why "Drink more hot water" makes girls angry 03:58 Key Word: "Perfunctory" (敷衍) 04:22 Roleplay: Lazy Boyfriend vs. Sick Girlfriend 07:23 Relationship Advice: Actions speak louder than words 07:54 Vocabulary Review
Hello everyone welcome to Chinese Insider I'm Teacher Li
Whew Hello everyone I'm Mike
Oh no Mike are you okay That jet blast was way too loud
Sorry Teacher Li I've been feeling under the weather lately
The weather has turned suddenly cold these past few days and I think I've caught something
Caught something You mean you're coming down with a cold
Yeah my throat hurts my head aches and I feel completely drained— I think I might have a fever
Poor Mike have you seen a doctor or taken any medication yet
Not yet I've been resting at home for a day
Did you know that to feel a bit more comfortable I drank a lot of ice-cold Coke
What Ice-cold cola Mike are you crazy How can you drink ice-cold cola with a cold
Why not In my country if you have a sore throat doctors often recommend drinking cold beverages or eating ice cream because it numbs the throat and reduces the pain
Oh my gosh in China that's absolutely taboo—don't even think about it
If you told your Chinese mom you ate ice cream for a cold she might break your leg
Break my leg That's way too violent Well Teacher Li according to Chinese customs what should I drink
There's only one answer—hot water
Oh no here we go again What's
wrong Don't you like hot water
Teacher Li this isn't a matter of liking or disliking—it's that I feel Chinese people have a kind of obsession with hot
water Obsession Maybe so
Seriously last time I had a stomachache my Chinese friend told me to drink hot water last month I had a leg pain he told me to drink hot water again even once when I was in a bad mood he still told me to drink hot water
What exactly is hot water Is it Harry Potter's magic potion
In Chinese culture it's somewhat like a miracle cure—everything can be fixed—because traditional Chinese medicine believes illness stems from coldness in the body and hot water can drive that cold away
Chasing away chill by drinking hot water sounds almost mystical and I've noticed that Chinese people don't just drink hot water at home—they do it even when they're out and about
Yes your observation is quite insightful
I often see elderly men and women even young ladies on the subway holding silver bottles in their hands
That's called a thermos
Thermos thermos
Yes this is the standard for Chinese people—inside is always hot water or soaked with goji berries
Looks like I'll need to buy a thermos if I want to survive in China
You should definitely get one but Mike even though the hot water is great there's one thing
I need to specifically warn you about What is it Is there danger in drinking hot water
Drinking hot water isn't dangerous but some people claim
it is There's one thing you
must never casually say to a Chinese girl What's that It's "drink more hot water "
Drink more hot water—doesn't that show you care about her
This is a trap—if your girlfriend gets sick and you just say "drink more hot water " she might get really angry even break up with you
Breaking up Breaking up over water That’s crazy
Because this phrase now just sounds like a lazy excuse
A lazy excuse—that word is kind of hard to pin down
That means you don't actually care about her you don't want to spend time looking after her you just said something empty like a robot
Oh I see it's lazy caring
That's right to help you understand just how serious this is let's do a listening exercise
Alright time to test your skills
Next I'll play my girlfriend who's feeling sick and increasingly upset emotionally
What about me
You'll play my clueless boyfriend who's deep into gaming and has no idea what girls are thinking
Alright I'll be the lazy boyfriend
Pay close attention friends— I'm going to speed up the pace
Please answer a question: in this argument how many times did the boyfriend say "hot water " and why was he ultimately scolded
Count the hot water got it
Ready 3 2 1
Hey honey could you turn down the game volume a bit I'm getting dizzy
Head dizzy Maybe you're coming down with a cold There's a kettle on the table—drink some hot water
I just took my temperature—looks like I'm running a fever 39 degrees and I'm shivering all over
You're feverish so you should drink even more hot water sweat it out and you'll be fine by tomorrow
Oh no hurry up that person's running away
I haven't eaten all day my stomach is really upset I want to have some warm porridge
Oh no it's too late now all the delivery services are closed
Good girl go get a cup of hot water to drink—the water's warm and it'll soothe your stomach
Hot water hot water—now you know about hot water I'm telling you I've got a fever my head hurts my stomach hurts—can't you say anything else but that
What are you getting so worked up about I'm just concerned about you Is it wrong to tell you to drink water
You call this caring Are you some kind of automated reply ninja robot I want your attention not you acting like a water cooler
Go live with the hot water yourself—leave me out of it
Alright Mike did you feel that storm just now
Wow Teacher Li you were so scary just now—I felt like if I were really that boyfriend I’d be dead already
Answer our question—how many times did the boyfriend say "hot water" He
said it three times no matter what I asked he always replied "hot water "
Yes that's why her girlfriend finally snapped—she felt her boyfriend was being careless and half-hearted
Careless careless—that word I'll remember this time
In this situation the key isn't
water—it's action What should I do
You should put down the game go get him water buy him medicine or cook him a bowl of porridge—just placing your hand on his forehead would mean more than telling him to drink more hot water
Got it—don't just say it do it That's right so even though hot water is great
don't use it as an excuse Looks like being
a boyfriend in China really isn't easy
In this episode we learned many words related to being sick so let's review them
Audience friends have you learned it
If you'd like the full script for this episode a vocabulary list and a guide on how to properly care for a sick girlfriend check the pinned link in the comments section
Finally today's interactive question
In your country if you have a cold what does your family make you drink Is it ginger ale chicken soup or something else
Tell us in the comments section in Chinese
See you in the next episode Bye
Remember to drink more hot water