Sagittarius Venus, Sagittarius Energy when it comes to love and #askastrologyguy

Hello beautiful people. Welcome back to my channel. In this video, I'm going to give you the top 10 things you need to know about dating someone that has Venus in Sagittarius. Also, make sure to stick around to the end for the hashtag AskAstrologyGuy question and answer. Okay. No more wasting time. Here are the top 10 things you need to know about dating someone that has Venus in Sagittarius. Let's go. Number 10, love must be fun. Yes, love is a deep and sometimes serious experience, but for someone with Venus in Sagittarius, if you aren't having a good time with the experience, then they lose interest very, very, very quickly. Number nine, they're open-minded but very opinionated. Someone with Venus in Sagittarius will always see the big picture in a situation and will have an open mind about any given circumstances, but they will also have a very definite opinion on any subject and will have no problem sharing that opinion with you whether you like it or not. Number eight, dwell on the past and you will become part of theirs. If you are the type that continually brings up issues from the past and you can't let it go or get over it, someone with Venus in Sagittarius will cut and run quick. They aren't trying to be held back by someone who can't resolve a situation and move on. Number seven, getting to a commitment might take a second. Someone with Venus in Sagittarius is fully capable of commitment, but they aren't trying to be too hasty in making that decision. They need to first make sure the commitment is worth their time and energy. Be patient with them because their love is definitely worth the wait. Number six, inhibitions are a turn-off. Someone with Venus in Sagittarius wants to experience life with you and all of the excitement it has to offer. If you are one of those, no, that's not really for me people, then you are not really for them. Number five, be ready to laugh. Someone with Sagittarius in Venus loves to laugh and they love to make you laugh, so sense of humor is an absolute must. Keep the laughs going and you will keep the love going. Number four, perfect is boring. You don't have to be polished or refined for Venus in Sagittarius. They love you and your flaws as long as you are confident in who you are and what you have to offer. Number three, money is for good times. Someone with Sagittarius in Venus is very lucky with money. They have a natural capacity to acquire it. They also have a natural capacity for spending it. They are generous and see money as a doorway to freedom, fun, and new experiences. Number two, you must have substance. Someone with Venus in Sagittarius loves to explore ideas and they are very attracted to someone who has a unique perspective on love and life. So don't hold back with your ideas. They find that very sexy, if your ideas are good, of course. And the number one thing you need to know about dating someone with Venus in Sagittarius is the best way to please them is to give them and the relationship space to grow. Do that while having a great time in the process. Love is an adventure to them just like life and they don't respond well to being pressured or forced into any decisions. Be a willing partner in the exploration of possibilities and you will have the experience of a lifetime, guaranteed. So the hashtag AskAstrologyGuy question comes to us from MarieLoon777. And she says first, thank you so much for your content. It's absolutely on point and always helpful. Well, you're very welcome, Marie. Thank you so much for the positive feedback. Then she goes on to say, how do we get over our partners wanting to control everything and reverting to sulking or accusing each other when we have lots of water and cardinal signs in our respective chart? My partner is Aries Sun, Cancer Ascendant and Moon, Venus in Aries, while I am Cancer Sun, Capricorn Ascendant, Scorpio Moon, and Venus in Taurus. We initially felt super compatible, emotionally especially, and now we both are so stubborn and neither of us will accept each other's apologies. What's blocking us and how do we get out of this? Marie, this is such a good question. Well, first, in a situation like this, you have to ask yourselves, do we love each other? Because if the answer is yes, this is great. Because if you love each other, you will be willing to do the work that it takes to diffuse this negative energy and reconnect in a way that is grounded in connection. Now, with charts like the two of yours that have so much cardinal energy, which I like to call leader signs because it's easier for people to understand cardinal energy as leader signs because it means these signs prefer to run the show. With so much of that leader sign energy in your charts, you will butt heads just based on the fact that you both want the other person to go along with what you want or the way that you see the situation. In the beginning of a relationship, we're so much more willing to compromise because there's no resentment built up from being hurt by things that tend to take place in a relationship as it develops. The answer to the first part of your question, what is blocking us, it's resentment and holding on to past hurt. With him having Cancer Moon and you having Scorpio Moon, when you get hurt, when both of you get hurt by anyone, it's something that you for sure can have a tendency to hold on to. Holding on to resentment and pain is causing both of you to put up that wall, which is leading to the disconnect and making the decision not to accept each other's apologies. That's what you both use as a way to make the other person pay for anything that they've done in the past. As you see, that doesn't work. Now, your other question, how do we get out of this, well, there's two steps. The first step is you both have to make the agreement that because you love each other and you want the relationship to work, that you will never ever, never ever bring up the past again when it comes to what either of you has done to hurt the other person. No more bringing up past hurt. Now, this is going to be very challenging for both of you, but I promise this will change the game in terms of bringing you two closer and helping you two to break down these walls that are up right now. The way you're going to be able to not bring up the past and start accepting each other's apologies is like this, by making sure that when one of you is upset about something that the other person did, yes, an apology is great, but it is so important to go to the next step, which is getting resolution. And here's how to get resolution. The person who's upset needs to come up with the action that they want the other person to take moving forward regarding the situation that they're upset about. Here's a very simple example. Let's say you get upset that he leaves the cap off the toothpaste. I'm sure that's not what you two are arguing about, but this is just to demonstrate what I mean in terms of getting resolution. So instead of him just apologizing, I'm sorry I left the cap off the toothpaste, it's about you coming up with what it is you would like for him to do and request that of him so that way if he agrees to do it, you know he cares about how you feel and he wants to make sure he doesn't hurt you in this way any longer. So you would say moving forward, would you be willing to commit to always putting the cap back on the toothpaste whenever you use it? Now when he says yes, you two have an agreement regarding this issue and now you have resolution because not only did he apologize, but he agreed to do what it is you are asking of him, what it is you're telling him you need from him in order to know he cares and that it won't happen again. So whoever the person is that gets triggered, that gets upset, it's their job before they go and discuss it with the other person, it's their job to come up with what they need in order to feel better and it has to be an action. It can't just be, I just want you to hear me out because nobody wants to just sit and have you dump on them and tell them how wrong they were and then you get up and you feel great and you walk away and then they feel like crap. So it has to be an action that they can take to make you feel better. It has to be something that that person can do moving forward to make sure that if the same situation comes up again, that they know exactly what you asked for, they know what to do, that way the person that was hurt doesn't get hurt again. Not only does this keep the same result from happening again, but it also shows the person that was hurt that the other person cares enough to put forth the effort to do what's necessary to make the one that was feeling hurt feel better. That way the apology is supported by an action and you two will have an agreement in that area moving forward. That's resolution. This is why I always say the key to any successful relationship is communication and more specifically resolution oriented communication. Anyone can say I'm sorry. Anyone can talk things out and so they understand each other. But unless you have an agreement and a solution in place, then it's bound to come up again. Now if the person being asked isn't willing to do the requested action, it's not the end of the discussion. And it doesn't mean this is time now for one of you to get pissed and get up and give the other one the silent treatment. It doesn't mean that at all. It's an opportunity actually for both of you now to then discuss what can be done so that way you come up with a solution that both of you feel good about. So if he says no, I'm not willing to do that, you say okay, well what are you willing to do because as it is right now, I'm not happy and I need to know what we're going to do to handle the situation in the future. Then you two continue to discuss it until you come to a mutual agreement. Don't judge the other person in the process and never bring up the past. You say from right now moving forward, what are we going to do about this situation so it doesn't happen again and so we can stay connected and stay loving each other and stay working as a team. And remember, the person who got upset, it's their job to come up with what it is they need in order to feel better. This way, like I said, the apology comes with an action and an agreement that leads to resolution. Then you can let go of what happened because whoever was hurt knows if this situation comes up again, the same thing won't take place. The person that was hurt will also feel so much better because what they requested in order to feel better has been agreed to and that willingness is a demonstration of love. That's the way out of this. Loving each other enough to let go of the past, never bring it up again, and the way you'll be able to do that is with resolution-oriented communication. Then you can get right back to that Cancer Moon, Scorpio Moon love, which I know when it's good, it's amazing, but I also know when you two are upset, you both can be very stubborn and shut the other person out and hold a grudge and make them pay for their wrongdoing. So I'm sending you and your Aries so much support. Thanks, Marie, for the great question. I really hope that helps. Okay, so there you have it. The top 10 things you need to know about dating someone with Venus in Sagittarius and how to stay connected when both of you have so much emotion-based and cardinal-based energy in your chart. I really hope you all enjoyed the information. If you did, hit that like button. Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you would like one of your questions answered, please put the question in the comment section with the hashtag AskAstrologyGuy. Thank you so much for taking the time to hang out with me. I love you guys, and I will see you in the next video.