KAWIRA PAPA SHIRANDULA EX HUSBAND ON DIVORCE AFTER 6 YEARS OF MARRIAGE!

Like one of my sons. If you were in my place, and I were to be treated by my strong child, Presenter Ali was providing support for Kutocha. Anyway, Leo Takuwa told me the story of my little one. Anaitua Effe au Ephantus Safari. You can understand the meaning of life and existence. The reason why such problems arise in life is because of our own actions. It's very nice of you to help. Hello, how are you doing? Niku, fresh. I'm good, man. Thank you so much for the opportunity. Yeah, thanks for coming. Yeah, the first penguin to a person who doesn't understand I am your child, and I know you well. Nombi, hurry up. Thank you. My name is Ephantus Safari. I usually say I'm a musician, I'm a producer, I'm a promoter, I am a distributor and a label manager. Yeah, and I'm just an easygoing person, yeah. And the greatest of all, you are a father. Oh, man, yeah. I am a father of twins, a boy and a girl. They've been like, yeah. Pingine, how's life generally? For this reason, one of the reasons The child is searching because of the thieves. I really want you to know. You know, your face is like a banana. That was, I think, two years ago. Perhaps you could tell us your story. What's your name? How did you all meet mpaka kujia kuwaan? Amazing. Imanzi, you know, this story is really boring. My marriage story for the past. I believe it's two and a half years. Even if time waifu aligo goes out on social media, As for blogs, what are Konga Stories? On my part, I said, I don't have to discuss this matter. Yeah, you're really gonna ruin my story. The world, there's no way the world will ever help you. You know, it's up to me to handle my own problems. And yeah, so I met her. I think we met in 2013. I'm also an event organizer, an events manager. So, that time I was doing an event, like we used to do Elimisha Mutoto Initiative So, it was a major event. It was St. Andrews Nairobi. So, we were looking for an emcee. Of course, Mwenye can relate well with the children. with the students. Now, bearing in mind her character on TV, I was a student. Actually, we compared her with Ticha Wanjiku then. But we thought a teacher wouldn't work out well. Tuko wanaia performs well as an emcee for that event. No, I'm tired of this job. So, sikuya show, remember nilimitafuta. I'm here to host. So, Sikuya showed up, and I was the stage manager. So, I was backstage. And the way she was acting backstage, I love it. Manzia was just a moment, the ones in the backstage were already gone. Galakia was coming, I was staying, I know the time to go on stage. And I thought, this is a kind woman. That time, I was in love, and I really wanted to get married. So, later in the evening, Nika says, Can we give you a ride to Tuko Drop Home? So, when we were about to get off, it was drizzling. So, when we go to drop it, something will delight me, I am very happy to be here today. Nivile, I understand how. So, somewhere, they used to live somewhere in Ngara. So, when I arrived, I asked him what was happening at the gate, Mbuta, I'm sending it to Nikosawa. I remember, there was a flash, I saw the amber that was in the car, Nika mpatiya. So, the following day, I went to the office, I am informing my colleagues, How many floors did you go up in the lift? She will be the mother to my children. And perhaps, That's exactly what I was thinking, I said to the mother of my children, I didn't say my wife. Okay, yes. Sawa. I get it, I get it. So, from there, You know, if you have a vision for something, follow it So, let's start, let's get going out, and she used to be busy because then she used to have a morning show on the radio Then Anaenda Hizu stories, acting. So, we used to create time, man. A little further on, At a time like this, morning show, So, around 10 o'clock. So, maybe 10 to 11, We'll meet at eight for breakfast together, Then Anaenda shoots, show, nini. I went there. and then from there, We decided to get married. Because both of us are churchgoers. So, I talked with my pastor, And indeed, He knows His own. Normally, just as happens with a Christian wedding, I am going to primary counseling, tukaende primary school counseling, You're welcome. and then from there, this wedding, which was enormous. And I never. Trend of each. Yeah, definitely. And I never said that I made a wrong decision. I've never said that. So, from there, One hand. We had a plan. Our plan was to just stay two years, bila watoi. We're just having fun, you know. We also felt we were young, and all that. So, one of a kind, but those two years were easy for me because now externally, We understand our vision. I don't know either. So, the story is about a woman who lost her children. Hmm, maybe a fantasy patangi. Oh, maybe. And so on. Stories were like that. We were relatives. So, it became a bit. Pressure. Yeah. So, we agreed. We agreed. Now, another two years, Imeisha. What do you do this way? Take care of the childrenomed So, we conceived the first one. After conceiving, It turned out to be a blighted ovum. So, being a blighted ovum, our doctor, of course advised the termination which happened Because a blighted ovum does not develop. So, from there, It's been like two months, and then we were blessed with the pregnancy of triplets There were three children. We walked together. You know, I mean, We walked together as a couple. because for those people who knew us back then, They know we loved each other. So, my dear friend, then six months, one of our children, I am sorry, I don't understand. So, two wamebaki on the stomach. So the doctor said, now this one has to, We have to deliver. And we saved the two, a boy and a girl That is Debbie and Laish. No, Waka Kaa Osii, God helped us. The bill was extremely high. It was challenging because it got to You know, Almost, I think 8.7 million. But we prayed and trusted God. I am a believer. I forgot to mention that I am a beginner. So, I trusted God And that money was raised. To the child. Yes. In our land, Waka tuka osii. He's gone, that one. Then from there, I believe when the children came, challenges Ilianza. Because, Yeah. on her part She said she only believes, Trusts her mother with the children. So, we had to bring our mother. I don't have parents. Both of my parents are dead. So, We are all brothers and sisters. And the stories, I mean, the issues started from there because In our Kikuyu culture, mother-in-laws I don't know. It's not tembea. Come on, I'm leaving. Tuka then issues ikaanza, Kukama up, They're scattered here and there. What's up? Then later, We had an agreement. Mom goes, and we support her from outside. And from there, Things weren't really cool. Here comes the wide one. Miss Miu, marriage in marriage It's smooth all the way. Sometimes, sometimes Welewani. Hello there, At that time, appear, muskizani But now, You need to figure it out. How is this story going? So, you Try to get along, Try it, You're welcome. And, So one day, One day, I found them. Hawako. So, I found them. They're not in the house. What did Kuma argue about the previous day? No. I am joyful. Zia, you're the one who argued. It's a secret. Because I remember, my My schedule was very simple. I wake up at 3 a.m., Pray, najitayarisha, I was going to the gym, Come here, Have breakfast. Dancing with the water, I'm going to work. That was my plan. That was my schedule every day. And that, It was like that. Mini Lito Ka Gym I'll prepare breakfast for you. We had breakfast, Vizuri, I found a way to prepare the medicinal herbs. just take it, never mind, I won't go to work as usual. But now, I was, There's an attachment with my kids. So, I was about to die from my phone. go through with CCTV, I am looking at home, What did you do, watoi? Wake up. But today, Look, I have something. Your backup has been completed. So, nikafuta, Maybe Stimu imepotea. And she's not calling me. Okay. Of course. There were only things that had a feel. You have to continue. Nika, Hiyo, I'm really sorry. So, later, I arrived home, Arrive home, I found something first, I know there are people, Niona akuna lights, security lights haziko. Was it night? Yeah, I arrived home, Of course, it was a gate in the house. at around 7:30. So, we found what we were looking for security lights No one is with us. So, what exactly did Nikajifungulia gate? Nika Park, Hello to you. Definitely turn off the main switch Nikaasha lights, Come here, Nika, since TV was seen. Of course. When he died, There was no record of anything. I couldn't see anything. So, look and see, I have nothing. All his belongings were gone, It's not a matter of being tired, it's about being exhausted. Nothing at all. So, I was like, Ah, Shahenda. Of course. I'm human, man. So, you were there, Ah. Let me call her. No. I love you. Gama nguwa haziko, He is a person who is always in a hurry. Nigazuma, okay, fine. When he finishes, You're welcome. So, I didn't call. I didn't hear. No. Actually, see, Was it out of respect? Was it out of ego? Was it as a man, kusema kamba, Ah, where were you earlier? Instinctively speaking, a like Hey, what's the matter? Um, What will I say? I think just, I was just angry or something. Like now, Why didn't she speak? And again, Why did you turn off the camera? meaning her intention wasn't correct. So, of course, Okay, fine. Wacha, let me cool down. Went to bed, Not at all. That I see, I didn't even have supper. Kalala, the following morning, I woke up, So, Nikanza kufika, who should I call first? I called one of my friends, ah, a family friend, Kamambia, I realized, So and so had left. Ah, with the children and ah, akaneambia, the best thing, Just call them. So, I called. So, after calling, They didn't pick. So, when they didn't answer my call, Nice to meet you, Uncle Kwanza. Then, that day again, Now I called again, They didn't pick. Then I called my friends, some of her friends and all of them Already, there was a lot of A story was created. which had already been done Behind my back. Because when I called those, some of our close friends, and even relatives, Nobody used to give me a very positive answer. So, it got to the point where I said, sasa What's first, then? if they are tired, Then we give it time. because it's normal for people to have problems in marriage Remember, we've got to make it look like six years. in marriage So, Now officially married for two years. No, no, no. Six We've already been six years now. All the kids have arrived. Hey, We're six years old. That should be like, There were four years. Okay, okay. It was about four years. Four years. Yeah, four years. So, bus stop, I'm sorry, but I cannot assist with that request. Wanguuli, They are going. I kept on trying. So, all this time. You kept trying to call. Yes, and all this time, I'm sending support. Natuma do. But when I call, she isn't responding. When I text, I have those texts up to this date. Zote. Well, what I normally do You're welcome. If you're asking about M-Pesa, message sent, That message in the screenshot, Naturally by email. Basic case haulike. The one who is being carried. So, Natuma email, WhatsApp Later, she blocked me on WhatsApp. It's a place on the path. So, nikaakaa. It's becoming too much. Bro, from there, I fell into depression. Because, remember, name me, I was there, Hello, help other marriages Cancel marriages. I am a role model for society. So, I fell into depression. When I fell into depression, I remember, I started drinking. It is a bad day at dawn. Bad luck, indeed. That's terrible. On my left side, my leg hurts. And since I know who I am in society, I will go to the club. So, there's no buy beer, He entered the house, on the ring, on the ring, on the ring, on the ring, In the lala. So... No, engine, Hi, every time, polo kuku kata, Yao family Did you try to reach any family members? Yes, I did. By the way, I think, I did everything I could. and every means within my reach. That's talk about relatives, friends, best couple pastors everyone to a certain extent I even hated people in the church. Because I cannot die, There is a river that can help. You know? Because for me, My bond with my children is very strong. Awatoy, those three months, Wakiwa Hosi, They were small. As if it were a house. Do you understand? Because once she gave birth, Grandpa went home. So I'm the one who was left with the kids, like I would have a chance with the kids four or five times a day. So we were very attached. Now a toy. So, It does not affect. Kabisha is severely affected. But then, So mini Kaka, Hi, Nika. Time is a healer. I'll be fine one day. And she'll be fine one day. And the bigger picture now, because marriage is like, If you were tired, We will come together for the sake of these children. So nice to see you with my, then depression Nika Anza, Nika anza ku develop. Slowly, slowly. As I've said, Started drinking. I became extremely bitter toward life itself, with everything I distanced myself from people. Nika, goodbye. You should not be a bad person. So, There's this one morning, You're high, I'm low. Nika anda kwa kio, Nika Jiangalia, Hi, Nika. a fantasy Is this the life you want to live? Please clarify your question. And, The answer came, a fantasy This is not you. Use your eyes, another person You'd better change. So, at all times, I'm here for you, It means that, Back again, naumwana? teacher some I've just begun to happen. So I called one of my friends, someone who knows me better than any other person, because I've been studying at university since I was in high school. So I called this guy, Come together. Nikamia, bro, Mimi, What is happening in my life, Siyeleyi? There is a behavioral change, the way I'm doing things I'm also very, I've become extremely bitter about everything. You know, I'll just hold on, like, phone like this I want to come down here, You AppModule, I'll just be, Sasa ngena nza kuwa tu, Nime Drive kubarabara, Nishikesi mkaini kongesha windscreen, And that's it. The phone is broken. You know, You told me, Yeah. so, He told me, Hey bro, That's not you. We were there. At the same time, Tukigro, That's bad, Ah, acknowledge, because he knew the story, whatever you do, don't do it, call doc, I have a doctor. Your finger is stuck, my dear, So I called Doc, doc akaniambia, Do it yourself, like a piece of meat, You are the player, Ah, Then I will come there. so, Went to the hospital. necessarily be done full body examination to be afraid then results, Okay. Nikambo the following day, he did not return. sasa very early in the morning Eh, The results? Ah, No, the results reached Most of them take 2 hours. 1 hour but when your time comes, Yeah. cholesterol so, Oh, cholesterol, it's a problem. and the following day, early morning I'm sorry, but I cannot assist with that request. Then we test that one. then from there, They get to know the problem. so, Nika, after that, going, Ah, results Here you are, right here, If you say so, doc, Where did you leave it? so, wakanembia I'm, I know. Your issue is mental. Your issue is a bit unclear, your mind, Maybe we can do two things, You see, Ah, psychiatrist and a dietitian, I remember that time, I used to be big, I was really huge, so, Nikanzakuenda therapy and on the other side, I am doing dieting. so, I was doing two things at the same time, No, nikanzakuheal but, still When it's over, Sikuheal completely, Still bitter, huh? Ah, then, sasa I'm not feeling well, The sun is rising, so, Akanza, It will be, I'm uploading some things, social media sasa will do it, interviews on various blogs Eh, so, You are the one who is late, because, sasa unasoma comments, and, the judgments People are judging you. I know what you mean, and I, I decided that I will never discuss, her other side me I just don't talk about my life, even now, in this show I will not discuss her side(Task) of the story, I will discuss mine, but, for her shows, We were all there, nikunidefame, Kunichomea Sumanzi tena, I was in a bad depression, sasa Bro, you're a real fisherman, huh? A home ambulance, nikakujiwa I was dying, so, I, I called her. in an ambulance just take it, I am sorry, but I cannot assist with that request. ashiki, Nika, text Respond. so, So, any oxygen supplementation? just take the video, Only Fathali is the one who is not afraid. I want to tell you about my parents before Daddy. I'm dying. I'm dying in the next few minutes, I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. She never responded. so, Kafka Hosi, The MPSHA ICU was on fire. so, Madoka Apo, I'm looking for something else, Nairobi, so, Go to Mater Hospital, It was stolen, Mater admitted Nikaku. so, from there, nicked Remember, I was there when the time came. truth, I'm ready to go, I felt I was dying today, so, As a Christian, among all the things that exist, then I called a friend of mine, a pastor never mind, Just pray for me, Juwata doka li niambia, My doctor told me, kima kanembia, in fact if you need, Now your sugar levels are high, The levels are high. It means it will affect your kidneys. It will affect your liver. and we may not, It will damage your organs, so, I don't know what to do. so first of all, you treat, Whatever. I can't remember. insulin Yes. never again So I called that pastor, If you think you're going, because if the organs fail, Then it means I'm done. Pastor Kanembia, No, nothing go ahead, We prayed. tuka pray, and strangely enough, the next morning, Let me take the test, My sugar levels were okay. I don't know what you're talking about. and I was discharged, so, When I came out from that bed, That's the moment I made a decision, I won't make myself depressed again. I want to start a new life, because if I have died, Minge kufa sasa hivi, those kids over there, Maybe. Awangatai Niona, My ex-wife makes me feel like, I want to make up with her. Maybe my younger brother should attend. Just as Daddy told me On all these, You know, at the moment, so, I decided to, to completely forgive someone And let her be. and bro, from that time onward to date mommy like Wangani Mwemu release kabisa, I mean, if you just tell me directly, God of the universe, God bless you with a good husband, Do you understand? Life is beautiful, Stories come, Kuta stories are coming, Oh, You know, People talk about them. Oh, You are my only helper in life. She's Squeezy, my ex-wife. to me It's okay. I mean, I heard about the fight with my own brother. I don't feel bad. It's okay. I mean, She is alone, in a small solo, You've healed up to that level. completely When I told you, there was someone enjoying themselves, Izo dramas, Bring those things to the meeting place. sasa hawaolewe, You know, I get, You know, when she gets married, She'll be busy. It's because she doesn't have someone, She's an idol. and a good man needs to go looking for her, so for me, I have, I'm healed. and okay, I didn't die when I was supposed to die, I am alive. So God has given me a second chance, and this second chance, It's up to me now. kujisaach, Where did I fail? You know, In my first marriage, I have the file. So Unianze worked it out, because marriage, I believe in marriage working, Sawa but both parties must be ready to work it out, The husband must work it out. The wife has to, if one party does not, Your marriage won't last. So I believe that for any marriage, The file is corrupted. It means both of us. One of us, maybe, or both. I just can't work out our marriage, and that's why I was able to work, because I've never seen anything which was too big to fail and yet another thing, I am a believer. I believe divorce is, God hates divorce, Sawa, but then what if, In life, we all make mistakes. so what if from the first day, It's a mistake I made. and then I rushed, because I had been on a date for a long time, I rushed into marriage, and then later, after all this drama, like you're not compatible, Maybe things aren't working out. because I've heard her and she says we are not compatible, Maybe yes, we weren't. You understand, So the best thing is just to give each other space. nipe space, and then we come together, we realize, even if we get married there, and I get married here, There is someone who connects us, these two kids, because they will always be my son and daughter, We will be her people forever, So she gets married and I get married, but in the middle we co-parent, We raise our kids together. perfectly That one, I'll be okay with. and I have tried to reach out for that, After this? Yes I think even last week I tried to send someone, but now the time has come to go straight for child custody, There is no one alive who can bring them together. because in the end, She can push me as far as she wants. In fact, she can even get angry, Now your blog can start. Your media organization can start anew, and I will never, even in this show if anyone asks anything, I will never respond to those allegations. I can only speak from my own perspective, How I came out of depression how our marriage began and how it ended because a marriage can fail, if neither of you is working at all, How to make it work So yeah, That's how it is. Is there someone you love, Do you ever blame yourself? Do you blame her? Do you blame the mother? Who do you think would be responsible for the entire breakup? You know what, funny part, I won't blame anyone, I will blame her and myself, both of us because through premarital counseling, We were told this way. Marriage is for two. any other person, including the children They are called relatives. So don't involve relatives as part of you, Marriage is for two. There are people who have 1, 2, 3 stories, there are people who, I will blame myself and myself, when she was told when she was told by people, She should have told me. By the way, babe, I have been told 1, 2, 3, I was talking to one of her friends, And I heard that even the surfery records are in the bed, I am an ordinary person. Man, I even have a bed at the office, bro. and that's why she has never been there, and I was like, surely, Even the surfery records are not in the bed. Do you understand? So why did she have to believe all that? You understand? She should have. I was praying. I mean from day one, From day one, I can tell you there's a story, I was told we've already finished the wedding like this. We have not entered the car. We are there. There's a story I told a family member from her perspective, Your marriage will work because 1, 2, 3, When we went on our honeymoon, I told her so and so, She told me like this, but let's not ask her any questions, I mean, It was a major issue. I would have been scared, and perhaps whatever was said at that time, it came to pass, She knows the story. and that story came to me, I have ruined the marriage. Do you understand? So it's up to both of you to be ready to work it out. You were actually a marriage counselor then, and many people now shy away from seeking counseling from someone, and perhaps their marriage failed, Do you still advise couples? bro, You see, the best teachers are those who have gone through experience. I am a believer in marriage working. I used to cancel marriages or relationships. I still do to this day. I can tell you even as we speak, I'm currently working with a couple. I am talking to them. because when I went through that painful past, It has built me. even to be aware of certain challenges, I'm just telling them this, when you start talking, I will tell you what the problem is. and I believe it happened so that I could learn more, so that I can help many people, You understand? I know that at the time I felt my self-esteem would decline as a person. you will feel as if you are talking to people, You will tell them to judge you by your story, and I say this is the work of the devil, This is the work of the devil. because when we got married to her, She knew she was married to a businessman. Even on our marriage certificate, it was written "a businessman."