Types of WOMEN you Should NEVER DATE- ALLAN LAWRENCE

Indeed, this is the time of the great drought, indeed, this is the time to reveal the truth as well. The dynamic nature of the situation had become a major concern for many experts. For the man we were with, the young man we were with him The other day, Anitwa Alan Lawrence The other day, something different happened to me. Today, I would like us to have a conversation. Just about dating because he's a relationship coach And also a relationship expert As a relationship expert, are you able to charm many women? Because you know so many things about relationships That's a good question, yes, but you know I think there is a control mechanism. Mbaya was put in place because I always say that freedom comes with responsibility. Freedom you can have the power, but your personal Ethics and your personal standards Same to you, take care You can do them, but because of your personal Values and ethics, we take care of them Today I want us to have a conversation. Because I do feel like you as a person They have their own principles. They say I can't date someone like this. This is the kind of person I want to have in my life. And I just want to know For the men out there or for the benefit of women What are the types of women? Men should never look into dating Number one, a lady who has not Gained her own freedom Freedom in terms of A woman who is not independent That means We should not date a woman. Describe this independence At least she has had her own Share of life At least she has earned something. Because you find this lady She does not fully depend on you. Then also this lady She is not lonely; she can be alone but not lonely. So the first one is She has her own independence. Some degree of financial independence She doesn't have to be with millions and all that stuff At least she's doing something with her life. So does that mean If a woman has no job If a woman has not been employed And she doesn't have a source of income. That's a no-go zone. Not necessarily, but at least Even if she has not been employed At least she is showing some level of potential. She is doing something with her life. She is not a clichéd woman. She's just there with all the nails and mascara. At least you can see some effort. It's like seeing someone who has not been employed. But at least she is showing potential. Nowadays we have a group of women Who generally believes that It's a man's job to take care of a woman. They're like, you know, what I am here to look beautiful It's a man's job to take care of me. So that's a no-go zone. Because we have effective and powerful women in boardrooms Not only in bedrooms Minus that birth certificate What else are you bringing to the table? Because a birth certificate is issued by default Because this lady, the moment you come into my life To be honest Minus six today You realize that most people remain single in relationships. What valuable thing are you bringing to the table? Because guys out here, we're checking out ladies Who is going to draw up business plans? Not only eyebrows But then you could have a woman who is probably not financially Not financially okay She is a good house manager. She can wash your clothes. She can clean your house. I believe you can have a woman like that. You can have her But from the very onset Especially if you were on a date Before Corona This lady was working. Now she is focusing on her work. But in the first place Remember, we have never sat together You're just watching her out there doing everything So you will be able to see her potential What is she doing with her life? So at least this lady The way she thinks She's not that juicy. She is someone you can turn to. She doesn't just sit around. Those people are the same people who treat Relationships as if it were a job It's a rescue mission from their poverty. Let's go to another one Another lady is a lady who is always She is a household of complaints. She's complaining 24/7 When you go to a restaurant The way waiters come to serve you She is always complaining. Are there people like that? No matter what you do, they will always find fault. Especially it happens with ladies Because you realize that ladies are emotional And they are very expressive So she takes advantage She opens up a lot. She never compliments you. At least today you did this. She offers suggestions. She's just complaining. It's a good thing for a woman to always be outspoken. She wants to express what she feels. Because they have that freedom Freedom is okay. Especially with a man in a relationship Remember, men, we have ego. The moment she complains Let's say you did something She is always complaining. It will destroy your sense of self as a man. Remember this is a person with your support system Someone who is there to push you to do everything If she has a flaw What about the rest of the world? Because she has destroyed your masculinity So no matter what you do You will feel down. Because if your own household does not support you How will you feel out there? If you are a person who complains And if you are not financially stable You don't even have plans to secure yourself. Or to build your own financial independence She said you're a no-go zone. Provide your feedback. Both men and women We are here with Alan Lawrence. I just want to know At what level are you and your partner? Or for two people who date Or to complain sincerely Why did you do this? Because you can judge a person You don't know the options they had in the first place So maybe this person is doing this For example, when you go out on dates You meet a guy who has committed suicide. Do you understand what I am saying? Maybe this guy doesn't even have any money. So you don't understand But if he doesn't have money He is in a relationship. It's like a man has to have money. For that scenario If you don't have money It's a waste I call them professional PhDs. They are always pulling him down. Or pulling her down These are people who need to be like Let's say you have done your best And it's not coming out They need to encourage you They challenge you They will be able to open you the way you think Don't date a person When you look at that thing At least the other person will tell you This is just an excuse. There's a different perspective So you need to see this person Why are they doing this? If I am not Kempinski Leave me alone If you are looking for a man who drives You will always find them where you parked. You will meet them at the parking lot. It is a question of Are you meeting the standard? What are you doing? It is so sad We live in a generation where You find a lady who has suffered From the poverty of her parents But not the poverty of her husband Life has changed This is not a poverty relief operation. It's a relationship. It's a mutual feeling It's a mutual coexistence. We don't come with high expectations It's very wrong for a lady. According to what you are saying To have those high standards And she isn't doing anything about it. Let me speak to the ladies Do not compromise your standards Just to accommodate someone The moment you have set your standard here Maintain those standards The right person who is meant for you I'll meet you at that level of your standard. What if the person you are meant to have Has no money? Nothing like you, because you attract who you are. The way I said last time You can't expect champagne on a budget. You must be at that level. So you must do something with your life Don't complain The only challenge is She has set the standard, and it tells you that you need to work hard. Sometimes you work hard But it doesn't take you where you want to go The challenge is We will get to that point. Because you will borrow the rest of your life To be able to please her Because the person meant for you They will not push you beyond your limits. They will be like this is me and this is you I'm not expecting much We are here for a relationship. You just have to do what you have to do The things you can't do Never mind. Any other kind of lady You just see and say I don't like her. A woman who is naturally narcissistic A lady who No matter what you do, she will always make you the loser. She will put For lack of a better word Those ladies They will try to kill your ego. They will just be there to They are just sadists. They only bring you pain. They don't want you to be happy Your happiness makes them sad. They are that kind of people. They are really bad. Even at the office, you're just doing your job. But when you meet that lady She will try to make you happy You are sad, for sure. By all means, whatever you do She won't be happy with you. Because you are involved in their lives As a relationship Not to conduct a mentorship program They will change only if they see the need. If you are looking for a woman She doesn't want to go to a club. She doesn't want to wear a dress. She doesn't want to go to church. Is that a kind of woman one should not have? She doesn't want to go to church. They are always about partying. I always recommend Let's date when we are whole. To a point where let me date Knowing what I want Not knowing what I don't want When you go to the shop to buy something You go there knowing you want this Not that you don't want it You go there knowing what you want The moment you enter the dating scene You need to have what you really want As much as you enter the dating scene You will not find someone who is 100% You will at least find a cure somewhere. It's a culture now that you create The moment you know what you want There is a way_contract in nature You are very fair It will give you what you want Not what you don't want If you truly want it It will graffiti the right person who is meant for you. And it will only happen if you truly know what you want It's like when you're in a jam And you are very aggressive You know where you're going Everyone will look for you For example, a mat That's a good scenario They know where the mat is going. Nature will pave a way for you For the right person Provided you know what you want in life I have heard you say You are attracting who you are But I find it hard A woman meets a man But a man Gets himself a lady The way this person behaves The way this person thinks about life They are completely different things. What happens In most cases If today I am the other person Can I date myself? Can I date the person in the mirror? To that extent As an individual Ask yourself Am I the person I wish to attract? Because we can sit here I can lie to the whole world But I can never lie to myself The moment I am real with myself The moment I am usually so strong with myself I will not do things because of the other person. I will do things because of me People cheat not because the other person is cheating They cheat because it is a personal decision. Not because you cannot teach a person how they should not teach It's a personal decision. In that context It is a question of No person begins to change some character. Instantly They started a long time ago Some people try to paint the red flags blue. It cannot happen This person began showing you their true colors. But you are here and you want to use their true colors to paint your bedroom. For lack of a better word You want to restore them to their original shape. It does not happen This person does not change instantly. They started a long time ago But people tend to think, "Okay, he'll change." But if you are serious enough about a relationship And you know the direction of a relationship These are some of the things you start to notice from the very beginning. Today people begin dating. Even they don't want to introspect How to see this person's past life And people don't open up How can we predict your future without knowing your past? Because I need to know If I lose my girlfriend or wife If I move on to the next relationship There is a high chance that I will lose my current wife. Because it's a pattern I created Most people don't take the time to journal. They don't take the time to be like, okay. So we carry forward We have reached the point where we are married. I have just married the kind of woman I should not have dated. Is there a point of return? Or are you just doomed forever? Nothing is set in stone If you have tried to engage And nothing is working It's better for you to have that broken marriage That broken relationship Other than for us to suffer casualties as a result of that Let's say the relationship was abusive. So do not lower your standards in order to accommodate the other person. I do not advocate for divorce. But I advocate for people to separate for a while So that they can come to know themselves even better So that they can come together and make it work Because if there is one decision You have to be extremely sensitive. If the person you marry If there is one decision you must be extremely sensitive about If the person you end up bonded with, the person you date, the person you marry Because this is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with So it's not a decision you can make lightly. Because this is a decision that alters destiny So you have to consult a lot of things And you must be extremely thoughtful If this person is not helping you It's better for you to separate and engage the right person. Also just to add Never date a person who does not have an authority figure. They fear Do you understand? That could be either the father, the mother, the husband, or the older brother. At least the person you're dating As your girlfriend mentioned I will tell her so and so Let's not go there. This is a person who at least has an authority figure. So a person who is under authority Will always be a person of authority Especially for ladies A man is your authority figure; he is the head of the family. He is the head of that relationship. So if this person does not have an authority figure How will he guide you? There is no man who is not afraid. He will not guide you In that regard If you are in a relationship and things are not working Try to engage the authority figure A person who mentors this person Amazing I hope you have learned something. From the story of Alan Lawrence He is a relationship expert. I will post a link to his channel in the comment section. I will share his number. If you're going through something in your relationship You probably need one or two things Alan Lawrence will take care of that. If you guys want him again The last time you guys commented, you said you wanted him again. So if you guys want to see him again That will be sometime next week or next year So if you guys want to see him again Just comment there I'm working really hard to find him. He is a busy man. But if he hears that his friends want to see him He must come. And perhaps next time we might be discussing the type of men women should avoid dating. Because you know what It's kind of like we're talking about men. So next time we might be talking about men If there is a topic about you personally That you think is a good topic Just comment down below My team and I will do our best to tackle it. We will examine these types of content. I am here to entertain you, inform you, and educate you as well. Thank you so much for your time. Thank you. What was your last message? My last message is My name is Vincent Ta'ali I don't have much to say behind the camera. He is my boss; his name is Eric Mukabwa. And every day, if you want to win, don't go anywhere.