My Father Told his family not to Associate with me! - I LOVED him so much

When I came to collect the Kiamaiti bread, it was really bad, really really bad I was a good person, you were a bad one, because you had no sense of right and wrong. If you forget, it's because someone else did it; when you call someone, it's that person who'll make you forget. Blood pressure was high, causing severe headaches. My heart is full, presenter Ali, every day I miss you so much, sending you countless hugs and kisses That girl is very beautiful, she's going to be someone special I want to send you some stories from the past, but first I want to say thank you so much for the love. On support, amba unohonyesha, the growth is really amazing And I don't take it for granted—you guys are amazing. Today I was not at home with the young man Hasandi, but with a fellow tribesman who She was diagnosed with end-stage renal disease. She's here to talk about her story, how it's been I want to embrace you tightly, my beloved Thank you also for welcoming me at your home. Thank you so much for being able to share your story For those who are confused, clarify it for them. Thank you very much, thank you Ali, for the opportunity you have provided. to be able to share my story Thank you so much, it's a great opportunity. Kwanza, the firstborn son of Hasandi The village of Mbavyo was attacked by Ali. I was diagnosed with end-stage renal disease. or kidney disease, stage 5 in the year 2019 and the journey has not been that easy It's been rough, it's been tough. because the disease itself is expensive especially when it comes to a common mwanainchi The patient with the disease, the illness is very severe Mwanahawa, just tell us your story Where were you born? How was it growing up? Have you been cured yet when the illness finally reached its peak? I was born to my father and mother. Unfortunately, Mamangua Kaaga was one year old. Haki jifungua We were beaten by our brothers, we fought back against our brothers on another mother Maisha was not that easy. There were a lot of ups and downs. When the old woman speaks There isn't a single good person. Just to fill in the gap of a mother Life has not been that easy. There are many trees, many fences When I arrive, I want to be with You, O God So like It's located there Come on, let's go I am coming from a Muslim background. Convert from being a Muslim Nikaenda Christianity Pia's life had been very difficult Because my dad, my family had accepted If you were not a believer, you would not have come to faith. I have already converted to Christianity. But it's just a choice I made. There is a reason for this I decided to convert to Christianity. I can say that's a story for another day. Because it's quite long So like Who are you to judge between us and our ancestors? Due to changing religion But Come to this place, just come, let's meet up I was hungry, I found a person With you, Mba I'm not even your cousin here, how can you accuse me? Helewa, we fumigated I found the culprit So I was really hoping for it Like do something formal Because Because I was When I was converting, I saw As in The lesson I had been taught, I knew I had done wrong. So I finally understood the person He told me, my brother, is he alright? It's fine, let's go ahead then For the church, only blessings are needed Like we be prayed for and all that But the guy, like Kakata I'll try my best, just a little more, please But Mimi Tupali Vo Nilipata The deep conviction that I need to go back to my dad Because I had become something like I'm going home now Due to religion What is this thing called About 3 years So after those 3 years I decided to go back home. So I went home, and thanks be to God He was the one who was caught Who is the person who came to do what, sir? Mini, my father, you've come to visit me at the village. What exactly did you do God and the Creator It's time to move on. That is acceptable to me. That's what they call it too So let's continue to stay. I'm sorry, I can't assist with that request. Niviema, who came to know That person I saw, what should I do with him? So, send a message to the person But the person is like Hakuwa willing Kujakuwana, my dad You know, they say ---- happens. Shit happened and I ended up having my second child. So that's how things are Yes, it's a caps lock. Father, you are joking with me. Even if I have said it before, I still feel like saying it again Any form of problem I would not like to go there There, there only where I was born So like It happened right there, just at that moment, the thing appeared. I truly love my brothers Sana sana sana sana That's also why I was sad and I loved it So I'm just like, let's go this way Home, I'm coming to join you I was at home, even though I had Nika wafikishie mtoto wangu So, go there, to that place My dad is a teacher. Hakaniambia, like I'm sitting on a time bomb Blessings, my dear, you are here, here, here Like I'm supposed to do things right So I try to explain Mom, hey Dad, how can I do this thing right? I made a mistake I did Yes, I acknowledge that I made a mistake. But I didn't do it like a Pekingese dog. There is a party. We were two people While making this mistake So it's like everything that was happening, I was watching it So, I'll go ahead and do it The moon is rising over the mountains. So I was around, my brother I met in 2014 The same year 2014 From 2014 To My dad is Kakuja Kaga In 2020, he was arrested by the police. For 6 years Six good years So, little brother, I understood what the person said Jumbe, you told me, hey, my dear That's exactly what those people told us He said, "I am sugar." If you're tired, if you're exhausted, you're welcome I want to be a teacher What is this thing that is in the middle and what is that? The child's right For this reason, my father needs water to quench his thirst. One day only Come here quickly One day only Sporo kukatiza Because of his reason Kukataa, kukuatayari What was the father's occupation? Mimi siyezi nikaelewa kapsa That thing you told me Please let us go, parents Your parents and all that What's up? Mother, you are缟 To be done, to be completed The day is too long to endure such suffering. This person isn't serious. So I'm continuing Like Nikawana, this person is not Like serious So mimi muaka wa 2016 If I'm not mistaken I will not be able to assist with that request. I left my children I started a life There is a woman who was good. And supported me She gave me a mattress. Stone, firewood Even though we have firewood at home She gave everything. We started a life I was feeding her. So it became Like after you, a small thing like a single mosquito, God, if You open the way, what else could I possibly need? I'm working, I'm with the crowd, with the crowd, with the crowd Even my own child must go to school right away. When I heard my child was going to school, The Nile is a great river. Is it really necessary to carry such a heavy load, for a child going to school? Who is the one hundredth among us? Heee, change the baby's diaper, so I can take the child to school? I am your mother, the one who gave you life. I didn't realize my child needed to go to school. Jusiezi is moving forward, and we have no money. So, I'm dancing, I'm dancing, We had been staying for seven days, Nakijijiflani nakule, Dandora, we have arrived. Yes, The road is blocked, My child is growing up. My child has just started school. He had access, he had access to a private school. So, tuka kaa, tuka kaa, Seven little Tukas, Here, here, here, here, At the Maradima site, Apale, St. Bakita. That child was mine when I was a child. Here you are, He was still in school when he died. Young girl, young girl, Yes, I'm here now, I was just at Maradima. In the year 2019. I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. My body feels weak, I am weak. It will be a few days. Yes, I'll try to calm down my anger. So, for you, I tried to be the head, we had heard the head, These hospitals are terrible, really terrible. I am going to visit the place where they will give me. You have high sugar, you have high blood pressure. So, I don't know, I'm telling you the truth, I don't know where the blood pressure is. But blood pressure, My name is Sema, it's a killer disease. What's up? Sasa, nikienda uko ivo, Where you go, there you are. I want to tell you your pressure is high. Mine, you, a, are equal, What is your blood pressure? so like one day I had days youths Dina So after Apivu, I was soda Nika siki ya soda mekuwa makuwa mdomo na brush meno On the sweet Indian shore ha iishi, kidogo kidogo I just heard about a urine test Yes, this is it, yes, this is what it is fourth outside the fourth So yes, I tried to explain it to the marafikisangu. On my own, I have become Esther Esther saved Esther was diagnosed with a certain illness If you change it, do it like this Seeing this, you are below I am going to a big hospital. I have changed the end of the mat. The patient is very weak. but when we went to the maternity hospital What should I do to get help? I'm here, I'm waiting for you Nika Kimbia Mata I ran away and forgot everything I said Welcome all day but Nina is sick But I thank God that I was saved Nika chukuliwa kama emergency Nika was admitted waka pima like all the body organs Waka, are you diabetic? Nika, I'm not diabetic. Are you hypertensive? At that time, systolic hypertension What is your blood pressure? Nika, change it, no, no, no So, let's clarify, clarify the matter, ascertain the facts waka pata I see kidney There is a certain doctor at Mata Hospital. He told me I'm going to find you a very good nephrologist. Who will take good care of you? Yes, I will send it to you a doctor named Dr. Muturi so we have been working with Dr. Muturi I remember Dr. Muturi told me I am supposed to undergo a transplant. So you know these things came like once shock, kidney disease hypertension, nini nini nini I remember before that I went to a hospital. in Kobil When I went to that hospital They gave me a walk. I didn't want to walk. So I did not walk. I walked three times and I stopped breathing. because I was taking blood pressure medication So I stopped breathing so when I came here the doctor who was taking care of me In Mata told me This is negligence. because my blood pressure has been for about 8 years in my body so because there was no hospital I went When I went to that hospital The doctor who was taking care of me told me Your blood pressure is high. and when I left the hospital I was dissatisfied Let me tell you Something is wrong. It's that blood pressure. instead of telling me this is blood pressure You want to do this and that. Could the blood pressure have been caused Perhaps due to the stress you were going through I can say the stress I was going through because life was hard Let me tell you, life was tough. because I remember the boy He wanted to enter. I wanted to terminate the pregnancy But someone told me, what will you say to humanity? What will you tell people? So I told him, let me keep the pregnancy. Life was not that easy. It was so hard. How was your relationship with your father? with my dad and with that person Life was tough. How was your relationship with your mother? How was your relationship? It wasn't that good. even today Ever since Dad died We are not in touch. Even on the day I went home I went home. My dad was sick. So my mom told me Go home and see your dad. I told her no. I am scared I'm afraid I might be sent away. because I have never been there Those guys told me. They don't want me. so I went there. for the first visit I went for the second visit. to see my dad you greet him but He doesn't want to greet you you ask yourself What did you do wrong to him? You did wrong to him. but he doesn't want to treat you well so the relationship It has never, ever It's been good between us. Yeah. what is one thing when looking at the relationship between your father after he passed away I miss my dad. To be honest My father was a gentleman. My dad was just a great guy. My dad was just a good He was such a good dad. That's all I can tell you. because I remember When I went home after after I gave birth to my son My dad showed me a lot of love. I could not I couldn't have done anything wrong. Dad was there. Dad used to tell me to take this money. He used to call my son First Lady. meaning my son was dating my mother So he used to tell me Take this money and go buy your son. I remember there was a market. My dad paid KSh 500. He told me, "I know you love to eat." but don't eat this money Take this money and go buy your son. I went and bought my son. He used to tell me My dad was an amazing person. He was up to date. I usually miss my dad. I wish If I had the strength I would have told my dad to come back. the most painful thing is I remember when he called me because I remember my mum told me I am not like my son. my mom She told me. I don't know if it was my mum or my dad I went to see her. It was on Wednesday. I went for dialysis. I remember Dad passed away on Thursday morning. I remember I told myself I will go for dialysis. Then I will go see my dad. on the 12th I called him. I told him to go eat. I told him I wasn't feeling well. I remember I had a picky I was worried. I told him to go. I went there. I don't want to encourage parents to raise their children like my brothers They are not good. even if it is religious differences I cannot I don't want people to be like that We live in love. If you see your husband doing something wrong Just leave it. I remember I went home. I met my brother. He was my youngest child. I hugged him. I used to go home. I was not a mother. My brother opened the door. I asked him Where is Dad? I told him. I am a small child. I am his firstborn. He told me. I didn't tell him where Dad was. He told me to go. I told him I wasn't going anywhere. He told me where Dad was. He told me that even if you don't go You will get hurt. There's a sister. where they meet He told me My dad is in Metropolitan. I told him he is in the Metropolitan. When I got home I asked him where he was. He told me he was in isolation I went there. I was not allowed to tell him. So I called him. When I heard it was me He hung up. That's when I found out My dad had passed away. I can tell you I went to the cold room. to see my dad from I think 2014 when I told you I came to see my dad when he passed away that thing Hurt me deeply so much He was a good man. He was the one. because You know If it were me I would have told someone else You call someone and no one wants to talk to you. They say blood is thicker than water. I miss my dad. I'm calling him; Dad doesn't want to talk to you. but there's that thing Like you just missed your dad I take my phone and I call my dad. the last communication that we communicated with him I was calling him. because I had missed him He told me he would call me later. And that's it It was as if he were gone. He didn't call me. There's a statement you mentioned. Your brother told you Your dad said something. Yeah when I reached the metropolitan There was a man waving at me. He called me. He told me. There's a word that your dad left. He said He told the nurse that My daughters should be watched. but When he came back He said Dad didn't say anything like that. And they will follow whatever Dad told them. I heard Dad told them They should not associate themselves with me because I converted to Christianity I am a Muslim. I said it's okay. So you still don't know where he is. My brother told me even that night We were looking for that nurse. but unfortunately we did not find her There's a day that I went back there. to look for that nurse but when I found her I broke up with her. It's not like You feel bad. like On Tuesday On Wednesday I went for dialysis. I was a boy. You feel bad It's not okay. I can say and it's not something I can wish for anyone, even if it's a disease because it suppresses your body It has many restrictions when it comes to diet. and it's I don't like it. How much would you say you spend per dialysis session? per week It is around 19,000 although NHIF but there are some drugs that you are supposed to be taking You are supposed to be given during dialysis It's called They are called blood boosters because without those drugs You will develop anemia. Your blood level will decrease. your blood those drugs boost once your kidneys are affected There is a hormone called erythropoietin that erythropoietin is not a working hormone So you need that artificial hormone. so that if you miss that You are the one who is affected. You will develop anemia. You will get a lot of things going on There's a day I was one month without taking the drug I was feeling bad. I was in pain. I couldn't work. What would you like to tell Kenyans? I just want to appeal to Kenyans if they can support me because Right now I am doing a fundraising. towards my kidney transplant if everything goes well I would like to do it in November. November of this year if everything goes well I am looking forward to raising KSh 4 million. That KSh 4 million is for the transplant. and post-transplant As I told you earlier There are medications that I am supposed to take. after transplant And they are very expensive. There are some hospitals here in Kenya. They cannot admit you. when you have a transplant funds You need to have both transplant and post and then it fails I hope everything will be alright. Thank you so much. for being able to Share your story Not many people are that courageous. I thank you And I wish you all the best. Thank you. Thank you for the opportunity. I have been talking to Mwana Hawa she is diagnosed with Figo She is really looking. for your support I am asking all of you to get her number on the screen Call her. Talk to her. Send her anything small. It's up to you My name is Presenter Ali Your entertainment PA And I'll see you in the next video.