LIVE : THE TOUCHING STORY OF ROBERT BURALE | PRESENTER ALI LIVE SHOW

You are the entertainment PA, and by the way, the A is always for amazing. storiesستر live show, and of course, this is the second episode, and uh, believe Name it, you're the one. For a long time, I've wanted to sit down with you and have a conversation because you've inspired me greatly in life and in my career. And of course, our one and only, Robert Burale. I'm sorry about that. How are you doing? I'm doing very well. Thank you very much. Happy New Year. Happy New Year, my brother. We haven't seen each other. We've been talking, but we said we'd meet. But this was the time. Yeah, this was the time. I think it's God's time. The fact that you are the guest on the show makes me feel honored. And you're doing a fantastic job. Looking sharp. Thank you. And you should try it. It's a weakness. Is it a weakness? Yeah. I mean, it's become a habit. I mean, the calligraphy is on point, just like Burale's suit. I think that's one of the things that sets you apart. I've seen you at other places, but most of the time I see you in a suit. Yes, absolutely. I know you're not cold. Have you ever been cold? I've never been cold. And when I wear a suit, I feel something is missing. Even my guy here has a suit design. And the first time you wore a suit, Did you know that if you wore a suit, people would love you? About 20 years ago. Twenty years? Oh yeah. Even when I was in school, I was a troublemaker. Headdress? I think I was a bank manager. Headdress? Yes. Custom? Yes. Didn't you go to a tailor to buy a suit? No. Custom And then you do the designs on the sleeves. Normally there's one, but I did the designs. You did the designs. I just love fashion. I love it. That's about it. Yeah. That's amazing. I think having this conversation means a lot to me. First of all, because you're one of the people I truly admire. And also, you're one of the people who inspire me a lot. In the industry, and also just in life in general. But one of the things that I noticed, Just doing my research, Is it you who came up with a saying called Bukhala Lire? You pronounced it well. There is no host who has delivered it well. Bukhala Lire. This is Bukhala Lire. Bukhala Lire is in Busia. Have you ever been to Busia? I've been there. I've been to Nairobi. But my mom is in Busia. I'm going to see my mum in Nairobi. I love this place. I mean, that is home. It's not as if the children are lost in Nairobi. I respect heritage. I respect culture. Because the foundation of culture is what will carry you far. Wow. And you just decided. And you can't leave it. You must respect it. Because everyone comes from a different place. Grandfather or great-grandfather. There is a journey. There is a place to leave. So there are some things that we respect. But there are other things, such as culture. Of course you don't go. I also learned that you are a footballer. Yes. But why did you choose Zangibu? You have conducted research. You're done. Go for any interview. John Okello Zangibu was a very good footballer. And because I was brilliant as a footballer, I chose Zangibu. But I was a very good footballer. Amazing. Brilliant. Churchill was a very good footballer. Really? I think he is the only Kamba who has played football. I think. I'm told he's a very good footballer. I think next we will call him here. Yes. And of course, I want to welcome you all. We do this every Monday through Friday. From 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. 9 p.m. to 9 p.m. Unfortunately, We have been delayed. Due to the issue with masks. And we will go live. On YouTube. You can share. You can ask people. You can tell them. We will be live. With Mr. Robert Burale. I also want to remind you all. This episode has been proudly sponsored by Caplicity Auto. They have the best cars. Luxurious cars. And also affordable cars. That you can afford. They are at Kiambu Road. And the details are now available. You can take a look at them. I am looking for a car. They will take us there. Are you looking for a car? Yes. Are you looking for a car? Yes. Amazing. So, I would like to say a few words. Of course. People know you. People know your background. Right. But, I just want to say a few words. We will dive in later. On other matters. One of the things. That I actually. It actually. You know. I actually felt like. We connect in a way. It is a fact that. Growing up. You lost a couple of people. In your life. And, That is something I want to ask. You first. How did you overcome it? And, How did it affect your life? It hurts terribly. To lose that person. And, I don't think. Likewise. You have conquered it. Yeah. Because, Once in a while. Memories. You start missing them. You feel the pain. Yeah. Especially. None of them died of old age. Okay. You gave us life. Yeah. A brother dying in his thirties. Your father is dying. At the time of his career. My older brother. My older sister. Yeah. You feel the pain. And. family That. It was my father's. And. then on that day before was my sister. So. because of The spiritual key. So. in a Open the door, fool, stop talking, I must beg, so many troubles, so many troubles that take people from their homes, life goes on, at the peak of life and at the hand of death comes. You can never truly move on from your loved ones, but we can always remember them. Think of the good things. I remember my older brother. He took me to my first movie, Delta Force. I remember my older sister. My younger brother was like a friend to me. So you try to remember their good side, the good times. And to anyone who was lost above, we know the pain, the emptiness. Because the dead will be gone, all back home, phone calls ignored, people moving on, people gone forever, but people must go on with their lives. That's truly moving. But one of the things you've mentioned—I personally don't quite grasp the essence of death. What exactly is it? So I began to investigate, I began to research. You talk to people, you pray, you speak with pastors. And once you start researching, your eyes are opened to dealing with these matters. When you were chatting over on YouTube's live chat, someone here said Alan Lawrence is great, so say hi to Mr. Urale. He is one of my sons. Wow, that's great, that's great. Thank you so much, Alan Lawrence, for your patience. I appreciate it too, the moment you're ready, just let me know, wherever you are, I'm here for you. If you have any questions at all, just ask, and at the end, I'll make sure to wrap things up properly, Mr. Robert Maswali. Besides those other things too, I feel it's good to listen, the fact that Urale is badu hagiao, and many people are worried. Why? Because you're there, but just one or two, you know? People ask you, what's one thing you'd really like to do, you know, is it on your bucket list? What? 100%? I'm not the pope. I'll say this honestly, yes. I intend to get married. I don't have the grace to remain single. I think people might ask because I've been single for 10 years since I lost my marriage. But also remember, during those 10 years, there has been healing—you need good, forgiveness of the good. So I think I've gone through those seasons—bitterness, forgiveness, healing, fear—and now I've reached a place where I am healed, and I can say without fear that I am ready, when the time comes. So right now, are you single and looking? Let's put it this way. I am not married. That doesn't mean I'm single. Many people assume that if you're not married, you're single. I am not married, but that doesn't mean I'm single. But now, as a life coach—someone who talks to people about relationships, someone who talks to people about God, someone who talks to people about marriage—how do you deal with it when you see people telling you, So, you can't please everyone. And to those people, I would respectfully say, I don't owe you an explanation. I'm coffee, they're like tea, and I'm very strong coffee. One of the most amazing things I've learned about Robert is how wonderfully close you are with your daughter. And she hasn't been with her mother for a while. How do you manage that? How do you handle it? My daughter is an amazing person—a girl becoming a wonderful woman in her own right. My daughter's mother is an absolutely fantastic woman—very mature, very supportive of her social life. I truly respect that. My daughter inherited the creative side of Robert. We share the same personality. She's a highly intelligent girl—thoughtful, organized. I think she got that from her mother. So, we co-parent with mutual respect. So, to every person co-parenting out there, you may disagree, but when it comes to parenting, you must be one. But for me, I wouldn't complain. Lex's mother is an absolutely good woman who loves God. She's done a fantastic job with Lex. Your daughter takes so much after you. Is it after you? I am a very good friend of mine who calls me the wind. I don't know where I'm going or where I'm coming from. I am a very good friend of mine who calls me the wind. I don't know where I'm going or where I'm coming from. Amazing, Sam. Pinguine, what exactly would you say to someone who is now saying, "I'm really struggling, and I want to know what my purpose is. I just don't know where to start." But become better in life. Does it glorify God? And if you were to die today, would you say, I have died having changed lives? Indeed, your voice must be louder when you die, if you are fulfilling your purpose. That's amazing. Another thing is that you've been a man of God for a long time. You're actually an apostle, aren't you? Right now we are in an age of advent. We are witnessing the rise of many religions. We are seeing people claiming to be men of God. We are seeing people saying they are men of God. But how do I look and say that this is just a fake pastor? Our work is to lift Jesus. Enoch walked with God until he became like Him. Let us vanish in such a way that when people look at our physical being, they see us glorifying God. I know that all over the world, there is this rise of superstars. Even the Bible says, God says, "I have exalted my word above my own name." The word here is Jesus, because John 1:1 says, "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God." John 1:14 says, "And the Word became flesh." If God has exalted His Son above Him as God, how then can human beings lift themselves? And we must understand that we must also study the Bible for ourselves so that we have the fullness of knowledge. But the problem is that we go to church on Sunday, close our Bibles, and then nobody opens the Bible again until Sunday. Now you'll be deceived. Study like the Bereans—study diligently. And some genuine ones, and every man and woman of God is still human. They will go through struggles. The thing is, do you have enough revelation to see the person's struggle, yet still stand with them? And forget, we have our issues, solutions. I also want to remind you that this episode is sponsored by Carplicity Auto. They have the best cars. You know, shooting, color grading, and everything else. So make sure you check the details. Yes, but sometimes we have to rely on ghostwriters. I'm working with an extraordinary, extraordinary, extraordinary woman named Kate—brilliant ghostwriter. So we sit down, discuss, jot things down on paper, study, then move on to the next chapter. Absolutely amazing, truly amazing lady. The first one, my daughter; the second one, my daughter; the third one, my daughter; the fourth one, my daughter; the fifth one, my daughter. Why? What do you mean? She's my only child. I just want her to experience the best things I can offer her: introducing her to the God I serve and sharing the knowledge that this God imparts to her. Amazing. I think you'll find a way to give me a cup of coffee. Absolutely. But another outstanding aspect of Urale is that in everything you do, one of the things that stands out is the fact that you are primarily doing it for the boy child. Why the boy child? Can anyone tell us? The boy child is like the ignition of a car. You may have 16-inch rims, alloy tires, leather seats, DVD, JVC, whatever. If you remove that ignition, the car will not move. The man, even in our sexual anatomy, for truth, provides direction. Therefore, if a man is emasculated, society loses direction. Because if someone was asleep with his wife and children in the house, then the wife hides behind the man and the children hide behind the man. So if you remove the man, you expose the wife, who is the woman, to be left with the children. For me, it is for men to reclaim their position. And it's not that we have all decided to take on that role. We have also been emasculated. There are places where we have failed as men. But there are also corporations. People don't sponsor things that matter to the boy child. I was reasoning with God. I said, "God, this is a very difficult ministry. It's easy for women to do it." But for men, it is a lonely ministry. It is not well-utilized. It is ignored. But I know that whatever I am doing with one soul, God has given me that. I do believe that in another two to three years, we will see. And we are currently working on some things behind the scenes. You know, in this social media era, everyone wants to show off what they're doing. There are times when you go to young boys even below the age of 12. You don't have to expose those on social media. We want to change that. We want men to reclaim their position. And we are not seeking perfect men. We are simply looking for men who are saying we are ready to reclaim our position. This question might catch you off guard. Looking at society, we are seeing various men who are striving to fight for the boy child. One person I met when I was in Peru, I saw a picture of him. His name is Andrew Kibe. I saw a picture of him. I thought that if I got a chance to meet him, I should tell him the story. First of all, when you look at him in that way, he says that's his way of trying to empower the boy child. How do you take it? Do you feel he's doing it the right way? Do you feel like he is truly empowering the boy child? How old were you when you saw that picture? I have known Kibe for over 30 years. I know his family. He knows my family. What I mean is family. Even parents. He was there when my father died. We have been friends for over 30 years. How he's doing it, the best I can do for myself is to do it my way. Whoever takes my way, takes my way. For me, I am a believer in doing what God has taught me to do. Because when I die, that great day God will ask me, "What did you do with what I gave you?" So I don't really focus on what others do. I make sure I do what God has taught me to do. Because my question from heaven will be based on what I have been called to do. I am not a perfect example of what others are doing. So, good luck to him. You grew up together? We have been friends for many years. You went to church together? Yes. Were you there when he entered the church? Yes, absolutely. In a church called Faith Chapel. And when he left, did you try going to church again? Right now, as I see it, it's like I don't believe in church. There's one thing I believe in. Once the seed has been planted, it always calls us back. When the seed has been planted. So what I do, to be honest with you, and I say this respectfully to anyone watching. I choose to speak about what I do. Like, RB, are you doing it the right way? I believe I am doing what God has taught me to do. And other people will believe the same. For me, I keep doing what I'm supposed to do because God will ask me difficult questions. When I'm asked, what did you do with whatever I gave you? No, I was busy deciding who was doing the right thing or the wrong thing. God told me it's useless. I'm so desperate to do what God has called me to do. I will speak, and perhaps, along the way, there's someone listening to me. And they think I'm doing the wrong thing. But do I have the conviction? When I sleep at night, do I have the conviction that I am doing the right thing? And the answer, sir? Yes, I believe I am doing the right thing. But for you, when you look at other people, what do you do? No, I'd be lying if I said I don't look at other people. I mean, we're living in a social media era, a digital age. But I focus so intensely on what I'm supposed to do. And this, God has taught me over the past five years. I used to be preoccupied with what other people were doing. Then I was missing out on what I'm supposed to do. Over the past five years, or four years or so, I've just been noticing what other people are doing. But for me, it's just about delivering the message. I'll give myself. I may not agree with everyone. Just the way not everyone will agree with me. But I give myself. Wow, amazing. I used to be so confused. I told them, send me the questions you want to ask Aburale. I see that people are so confused. And one of the questions I see here is someone saying, Probably he mentioned some mistakes that will cost me when I'm dating someone. I'm not sure if you answered that question correctly. What are some of the mistakes that might cost you when dating someone? Number one, when you get into dating, for example, There are some things you have to look for. Let me tell you something. People need to understand when you're in a relationship. Don't just think you're dating one person. Whoever you're dating, you're dating their family. You also have to consider the family. You might be getting married to witch doctors. When you're getting married, a dinner party, people come to your house, When you go to the reception, You'll be like, what happened? Let sex bring you together. Oh, he has a six-pack. She has hips that don't lie. What should bring you together is purpose. For example, if the person you're dating or whom you're married to does not like how you interview people or transform lives using a platform, Then that means life is hard for you. This has to be someone who believes in what you do. So the two of you must be connected by purpose. And then when purpose brings you together, You will intentionally love each other. But I see young men coming together because people date for five hours, They think they're in a long-term relationship. Do you understand? You date and start sleeping together like rabbits. That destroys the foundation of your relationship. And if you're dating a man, Does he know his short-term, mid-term, and long-term plans? If you're dating a woman, does she understand who she is? If they don't understand who they are, What is the purpose of having sex? Okay, this is a very broad question. I don't know how it came up, but someone just asked her, What do men really want in a woman? Oh, that's a very easy question. The easiest question I've ever heard. I'll tell you. Men don't want sex. Okay. Men do not want freedom. Men want peace. Peace is a man's palace. Peace. If you want to see a man conquering out there, He has peace out there. You want to see a man doing great things out there What if he is a married man? It's peace. What love is to a woman, Respect that peace is there. Because, and I don't advocate for this, Sex and food a man can buy. I don't advocate for it, but it's a reality. Peace. Respect. That is the bread and butter of God. You've mentioned one thing, And it's right. most men who are conquering out there, They have peace. That is the bread and butter of God. Another question, I'm in a situation, what do you do when your partner gives you the silent treatment? Communication is very important. But maybe, if you understand your partner well, Silence is also a form of communication. Maybe he or she, when she enters silence, It's a cry for help. Sometimes a cry for help is Don't come and help briefly. or give space. That is your partner's way. of communication. Silence could be a positive thing. So, as long as you understand their style of communication, It's okay. Okay. That's fine, sir. That's fine, huh? Yes. We're the boss around here. Okay. What is the best way to deal with a broken heart? The best way to deal with a heartbreak heartbreak You cannot skip any stage. You'll be angry, You'll be bitter, You'll feel sorry for yourself. But don't deal with a heartbreak by jumping into another relationship. You'll be using it like super glue. You just bring something to, a temporary thing by the time you want to break up again, You'll be dead. So, if you want to heal from a heartbreak, Just go through all the processes. You'll love what they offer. which is peace away from the pain that your ex has caused. When that pain is gone, then the person you're dating stops being relevant. Okay. Presenter Ali, Please ask this for me. Is there a right age? to start dating? Number one, I want to tell people, Ladies mature at the age of 24. You're 19. You're telling me you're in a Women mature from the age of 24. Men, you're going to be late. Dating, of course when you reach the age of purity, That's fine. Anyone aged 18 or older, you can't stop them. But if they're to take my advice, a lady aged 24 They begin to mature at the front part. to a point where they can make good and pleasurable decisions about whom they want to date. Okay. But sometimes, I've seen 50-year-old men and 40-year-old men. Very foolish. And then you can see a 21, 25-year-old man with the maturity of an 80-year-old sage. Yeah, yeah. Okay, there are other questions here. We can see a few questions. being sent But someone is asking, how do you know if someone Really loves you or just wants to use you? Number one, Look at how you spend your time and the things you discuss. If the things you discuss as in, Talking about your business, like if you date someone, for you the person you're dating must sit with you and think of ways and means on how to improve your show and build your business. If all she's talking about is sex to excite you You're trapped. Extremely large. Amazing. I used to tell a story with R.B. when you were teaching yourself a lot of things I'm here now. I'm taking my phone. and writing down two or three notes Someone is asking, Ask him the kind of friends to keep off when you are In pain. I think that's a huge question. Yes. The kind of friends when you're in pain, Your eyes must be very open. What am I saying? If you're going through a hard time, then your friends Come to you and tell you what you're going through And 90% of the time They're telling you about the pain They're going through. How do you feel? How did it begin? Then there's a problem. That person wants you. To be in your head. But look for the people who Yes, they'll ask you. What happened? But most of the time they talk about how they are going to Get you out of that mess. It's not like they're Too excited about how painful it is. Then, Come on, you're going through it. Like for me, when I went through this, That's the time I had an attack. on social media And there are people who are just forwarding me the messages It's starting to happen. It happens a lot. Yes. Even me, the other day, I think most people are actually just Forwarding screenshots. For example, if you go through something, I will not defend you anymore. Because when I tell you about it, I'll bring other people. into that story and they'll be like, Let me call you. Pray with me. Loving someone means being careful not to hurt them, taking care of their well-being, and being cautious about friends who gossip about others' pain. When I told you, you were careless, you were completely careless, you were reckless, reckless, be careful because when your time comes, they'll do the same. If someone asks a question here, it's a question from Mbalupi who clearly intended to ask it, so let's not ignore it. Hakisema Ali has a story about COVID that he opened up about. I was at the office. How does he feel, or how does he react, when he sees false information about himself on the internet, and how does he handle it? There's a lot of false information on the internet, and if everybody loves you, there's a problem. When the key is lost, you are not in your area of purpose. Your purpose must generate money. I wasn't paid. I wasn't faking it. Did you say two million? DNA is in the village. Shida Zakila Mbruza Schoolface. I have deposited ten million. At that time, it was paid for me, particularly because of my background. But the truth is, I'm at a point in my life right now where I can't focus or worry about people spreading false information. Because if I focus on that again, as I mentioned at the beginning, I will miss what I'm supposed to be doing. But it hurts. It's wrong for people to impose narratives. Wangini says this because they have access to free Wi-Fi, or Telipa says she arrived and we already have free Wi-Fi. Others are going through their own pain. When you see someone attacking people too much, look at them. There is something within them that they are running away from. So they want to frame someone else as the target. I just want to tell you all how much I love you for the love and support. How do we get his books? Alright, we will now proceed; you call the number 0716-733-672 and the books will be delivered to your country. But from next month, we will include all the major sections. You actually mentioned Tulipotaja Allen. You said he is one of your mentees. I do believe there are people who want to be under your mentorship program. Is there something they have to do? Yes, they go to my website www.robertrowale.com They go to the email and send whatever they want. And then, of course, my team gets back in touch. Thank you so much. What is it that makes you happy? Transforming lives. When you speak and see a young man or young woman or any human being whose face lights up because you have given them information that will change their lives. That's my bread and butter. I mean, I enjoy a good movie. I live in a beautiful house. I spend time with my loved ones. But the truth of the matter is that if you can change someone's life. When I see, because when you speak life, you are talking. Nothing else matters except pouring out what God has given you. As Miles Mundo says, the day I die, I want to die happy. I don't want to go to heaven. It's some things that God put in me. What happened the last time you cried? Now I will say this and my daughter will see it. I didn't want her to know this. The truth is, I hope she doesn't know this. She had been feeling unwell for some time. Last year. I was in Zambia. I'm back. I went straight to see her at the hospital. And she was in pain. Her mother was there. But I walked out. I went to the elevator. And I shed a tear. That was a few months ago. But when I came back, she was in a coma. She was in a room. I drew a great deal of strength. Because she was a fighter. But I also drew a great deal of strength from her mother. Who was also very strong. There are times when you come as a man. And you feel helpless. I think that was the one time. That's very touching. Thank you for everything. Thank you for tuning in for the first time. If you are watching this show for the first time. I want to say thank you. I love you all so much. A big shout out to Big Dreams Films. For sponsoring this show. They offer classes on film. Cinematography, photography They also perform color grading. If you want. For students. You can see the details. Thank you, Kaplicity. For sponsoring the video. I think I have been. I have been. I think I have been. I have been. Okay. First and foremost, you are doing a fantastic job. May God bless you and lift you up. Men's Conference 4th at the All Saints Cathedral Auditorium. Entry is free of charge. Absolutely free. Eugenia Subui, please be seated at 9, All Saints Cathedral, March 4th. Free of charge. Get me on my social media platforms. Burale1 on my Twitter, Burale1 on my Instagram. Robert Burale, the coach, is on my YouTube. My public page is Robert Burale, private page on Facebook. My private Facebook page is Israel Robert Burale. I'm an open book. I run my own social media platforms. I want to tell someone that you might feel as though life has passed you by. You may feel that you've made many mistakes, that you cannot recover. But I want you to place your hand on your chest and do you feel your heartbeat? Pinch yourself right now. Do you feel some pain? It means you're alive, that tomorrow will be a better day. And to anyone who feels like you're done and think you have to take your own life, hold on for just one more day. God bless you. Amazing. Big shout out to... And the guy in the car? Yeah. What is his name? They have very nice cars. His name is Caplicity. And they know a good show this year. That means they've partnered with a good show. Thank you very much. I really appreciate it. Big shout out to the people behind the camera. We have Director Joe, we have Kaka, we have Chalo. The team is actually quite large. We have Lidплач, we have Gomeet, and we have someone else. We have a musician named Ricky Beko. Thank you so much. I want to tell you that this has definitely gone to Taiwan. And I want to tell you that in the future, it will be great. My name is Presenter Ali. Your entertainment PAAE is always amazing. In everything you do in life, just make sure it's truly amazing. Good night. Thank you. Good night. And of course I'll see you guys tomorrow. Because we do this every Monday through Friday from 2 to 3. We've been delayed for a while today. You can see the media has gone. But we'll make sure we meet again tomorrow night. I'm Presenter Ali. On Instagram and Twitter, I'm Presenter Ali. On YouTube, I'm also Presenter Ali. See you all in the next episode on Facebook. Goodbye.