She's Dating Three Guys, AT ONCE! 😲 II Steve Harvey

I was married for 11 years, been divorced for four years now. So when I first got divorced, dating was like being a fish out the water. And so now dating has picked up for me. But it's still kind of tricky because now I can't, I'm still having to like put three guys into one. Like I'm building dudes here. So let me tell you, my first dude, he works on my house. He's like my handyman. He fixes everything. He cuts the grass. The second guy is like the guy that I can call and, you know, he kind of cashed out me a couple of dollars. So, and then I got this third dude and he's like melting my heart and he's a good dude and we pray together. And my question is, how do I know when to turn my player card in? Do I keep all three or do I like try to, you know, just settle down with them? So you, in essence, have built a man. Yeah, I'm kind of like. You couldn't find everything in one man. No, no, it don't work. So you done classified two of them. One of them's a handyman. Handyman. Fix up stuff. The fixing. And then the other one is financial. Kind of, sort of, you know. Kind of, sort of, he's financial. Still independent, but you know. And the other one, you don't really have a title for him. No, he's such a good dude. He just melts your heart. Yeah. Oh, well, I know what that is then. That ain't, that ain't hard man. That's, that's Mandingo man. Yeah. No, no. He fried the bacon. Steve, no, it's not like that. He cooked the cookies. Yeah. He basted the ham the way you want it basted. He fried the chicken just like you like it. Extra crispy. Because, see, everybody else had a title. You had the handyman. You had the financial man. Then the other one melts my heart. That's ****. The other one in there got you kicking lamps off the nightstand, tearing walls. No, Steve, he's really a good guy. Confetti cheeks can come up off the corner. That's what he do. Yeah. He's a sweet guy, Steve. It's a little bit, it's a little bit more than that. He's a sweet guy. So you're trying to figure out which one you should keep. Well, I'm starting to kind of feel like a little bit of guilt. Just a little bit. Because you got these three guys. Well, you know, kind of cut out the bag now, but yeah. Yeah, I mean, you know, I mean, that's the game, you know, but you a woman. Yeah. So how long can you do that? Exactly. So now let's talk about this. Okay. You got the handyman. Okay. He fix stuff all up around the house. Yes, and that really helps my budget. Right. Yeah. But it's your house. Yes. That he fix. Yes. He don't have a house to fix of his own. Hello. Okay. Then you got the guy that's financially stable. Well, he's a good time, you know, and I was married for so long that, you know, sister need to like go out and, you know. Okay. Have a good time. You know, you ain't got to keep explaining. Okay. We heard you. Okay. We know exactly what's happening. He ain't coming over to the house for free. You know, he ain't bringing a hammer and all this here, you know. He come in with a hammer in his hand. So then you got the financial guy. He can help out. Well, you know, I can invite my girls out. We'll go out. He gonna buy drinks. He gonna, you know, we gonna have a good time. So he paying for stuff. Yes. Yeah. Now the third guy. So the third guy. Okay. Because this conversation is so inspiring and so motivating, like I've started a business and, you know, I'm cranking up some things. And so now it's like, you know, I might can just go over here and I don't need the handyman or the financial guy. So I'm thinking about. Okay. So let me ask you this. Yes. What does he do? Well, he's in the wholesale business. He in the wholesale. Wholesale. He into wholesaling. You know, I just started my business and everything. He wholesaling. So. Import and exporting. Import. We know what that is. Ain't no poppy fields in Georgia nowhere. We know good and hell well it's importing and exporting. So now this. There cannot be the life you want. It's not. But this realization has just came about like this is new. It was fun. It was cool. He going to jail. He's going to jail. This is not how this works. You got El Chapo went to jail. Escobar got killed. What you want? You gonna go to jail or you gonna die. That's the game. So you have to decide if that's the life for you. That's true. The financial guy is really not your type. No, not at all. How do you know? Because I ain't stupid. If you meet a guy that's your type and he financially set. What is the other dudes fault? You didn't hit the jackpot. He paying the handyman. He's not your type. That's true. Women, y'all real with it now. If y'all find a man of your dreams, he your type and he got money. What and he want you? I want you too. How about this right here? You have not met him yet. Okay. You don't have to pick the lesser of the evils. Okay. When all three is an evil. He can fix stuff but he ain't your type. He got money but he ain't your type. He your type but he finna go to prison. He finna do some time. None of them are your type. Why don't you elevate? You seem like a nice sister. Why don't you elevate? Now let me ask you this. If you could have a man of your dreams, describe him. So I need him to know what his purpose is. What he's gonna do in life. I want him to have a relationship with God. And I want to have fun. My thing is I'm not just a fun girl. But I don't want you to be boring. You guys gotta up your standards a bit. You gotta decide what you want. Have two lists. You gotta have a list of everything you want in a man and things you will not accept. Once the will not accept list starts overbearing the what you want list, take him out. You don't want an inmate for a husband. So why you talking to him? Just up your standards. Change your list. You should stop dating all three of them. Technically. And start over. That's it. Thank you.