The Most Attractive Man In The Room Has These 3 Qualities (Women Naturally Desire)

A question I've been asked when it applies to a man's dating life is how can I naturally attract women by me being myself and that being enough? And that's exactly why I'm making today's video, because if you can master this secret I will be sharing that will give you the most attractive aura in any room you enter, then women are naturally going to notice you, but there's something that happens internally within her that makes her want to approach you. So there's not really a lot of effort you have to put out, more so you getting comfortable being who you are and when you attract out of that state, that is when you are going to get the best dating results in your life because you're being yourself, you're not trying to be anyone you're not, because that can be highly exhausting. So if you guys want to know the secret formula to having the most attractive aura as a man, then stay to the end of today's video because some of these things may surprise you. So let's get into it. I am a firm believer every single man watching today's video has the power to transform yourself to be the best version, the highest version, the most attractive version. When you are fully ready to commit yourself to yourself and stepping into your greatest potential by actually using your energy, not to give away to everything and everyone else, but rather to invest it in words that will naturally have the power to magnetize the aura that is within. Because the word aura is basically the energy you are emitting that is making people notice you, but not just for your looks, for the energy you possess that has attracted them to you. And I believe at the core of what makes a man have an attractive aura, the modern term, the Riz that women look for is actually a man with integrity and the blue symbolizes the integrity in a man's life that cannot be faked. If you fake integrity by saying, yeah, I'll do that. Yeah, I've done that. But you know, you're not being honest with yourself. That is when your character is actually breaking and the flaws are being noticed rather than who you are authentically because it's what you are showcasing. And integrity is something that actually can be silent. And I actually think the men who hold silent integrity are usually the ones that have greater power, because they're not doing things out of lip service to get something approval validation from another person by them doing a good job or getting a certain applause from your peers, your family, whatever it may be. But you know, you're not actually putting in any work. And that's why integrity for me, at least, is at the core of what actually makes a man really attractive. It's not just by him keeping his word, because the modern definition most people think of when they hear the word integrity is the ability to be honest and to adhere with a moral and ethical principles. Basically, you following through with your actions, no matter who is watching. When you say you're going to do something, you do it because you want to. But how I like to define it and simplify it for a man's life is viewing it as internal congruence to whatever it is you're saying, which basically means that your thoughts, actions, values, decisions and behaviors are all telling the same story. And when a man has a coherent story, there's no need for you to stress in social situations. There's no need for you to stress when things aren't going your way because you have trust within yourself based on experience that no matter what you go through, it is there for a reason. And that is actually how you fuel your own personal power by knowing you are in control of your life and having a story that is actually beneficial to who you are as a man. The story you're telling yourself every single day of what you're capable of achieving, who you get to be every single day, not just a character you put on, but a man you get to embody that makes that aura a very attractive sight to see because there is zero breaking in your character. You are fully integrated within that story. So they both kind of work in tandem with one another because when you are an integrated man, your personal power comes from the story you tell yourself. And that's something I wish more men could figure out early on. And that's why I'm happy you're watching today's video because you are the only person in your life that will ever show up for you no matter what season, no matter where you're at, because you are the only person that is responsible and capable of making improvement that are long lasting. And a man with integrity does things for himself and not for the outside world. Although when a man is living with that internal integrity, with that internal embodiment and integrated power, the world is going to naturally benefit off of you, but in a way that makes you feel good about who you are. And the integrity you carry is basically keeping you on track to wherever it is that higher vision of yourself is taking you. And when it comes to a man's authenticity, this is a key part in what actually makes a man fully embodied within who that man is to his core. Yes, integrity is important, but if you are not an authentic individual when you're going on dates with a woman, when you're just asking women out or you're doing things that you know are not true to yourself, you're not hurting other people, you're hurting yourself. And I think there are so many men and a lot of women also who fall into the identity of being a people pleaser. And when a man is a people pleaser, you are actually not able to show up for yourself or that other person in a way that would actually make impact. And impact is something every single man is capable of creating in a woman's life, which not only will make you more memorable, more personable, more likable, but you are also coming across as this breath of fresh air that people actually view as rare nowadays. You may have heard the term being a unicorn of a person. You're so rare that people see you in this majestic way. And that's really at the root of a man that has a strong, energetically charged aura. And how a man actually charges himself from within is actually giving himself permission to be himself. Because there is no one else like you on planet Earth. Not just within the personality you carry, within the life story you have, within how you look. But not a lot of people feel comfortable exposing exactly who they are to individuals. So instead, you either put up these walls, you make this character that seems likable. Maybe you're following a lot of other dating advice that is basically telling you, you need to be this one perfect figure of a man to get results with women. And that is such a backwards way of going about dating. Because women are highly intuitive, and when we're talking to a man who is performing and not just being, we are going to pick up on that and honestly leave that interaction second guessing your word. Which goes back to integrity. When a man does not have that personal congruence in his life backing his own self-belief, his own story, then the authentic power that can come through that man is going to be extremely dim. Because you are dimming yourself to make other people feel more comfortable. What if you actually started just practicing the art of being as you are? Whether that's you approaching a woman you find very attractive. And you allow your quirky personality to come out. It could look like you infusing humor into the conversation, even though it can be awkward. You're not afraid of those awkward moments. Because you know that is actually where you actually get to embrace the moment within itself and start allowing it to work for you rather than against you. And how it works against you is when a man is too much up here when he is around women. You could be asking someone out and you think you're there, you're saying all the words, you're giving her the eye contact, but you're not even listening to what she says back to you. You're so focused on how she views you, you throw whatever you have out the window that is working for you and replace it with the thoughts of insecurity. So when a man actually can practice being in his power, when it applies to charging yourself with your authentic energy, the more you can catch yourself trying to be someone you're not and replace it with how you would be around a family member you're really comfortable with and just allowing yourself to feel into how that actually makes a difference within your own comfortability, that is when women are actually going to get more comfortable around you because you're no longer fighting against yourself. You're moving with yourself. You're allowing the moment to unfold as it should and not trying to force it, control it to meet this perfect expectation you have. And I believe any single person with an attractive aura has the ability to make another person feel comfortable being themselves because that's the very energy you're putting out. Now the outer layer of what makes an attractive aura in a man is going to be represented in the color purple and it's actually a trait within a man that I don't hear a lot of people discussing and the importance and power it has. And that is a man who has humility. And having humility is one of those things that can make or break a person's aura. The energetic experience someone has while they're interacting with you because in this word a lot of people can see it as maybe you needing to lower yourself to meet people by basically not having an ego and just kind of being maybe very passive, not overly confident or expressive, but that's not the case at all. I think that can only happen when a person is trying to be humble, trying to have humility, and it's not working in their favor because they're not doing it out of a genuine place of knowing what that word means and how it actually affects the people they surround themselves with. Because humility to me, especially in a man's life, is quiet strength and his ability to radically face reality and not out of the distortion. Sometimes our thoughts can project onto certain situations, maybe certain people you date, things not going your way. Your ego can be easily inflated, easily triggered because it's pressing a button inside of you that is easily accessible for people to press. And when a man has not just the ability to control himself in certain moments where yes, he's triggered or maybe things aren't going his way. One thing that comes to me is maybe you're faced with rejection. A man who has humility will not make that person's answer the problem or there's something wrong with them. Instead, he views that person with the same amount of respect he would like to receive from another. Even if he doesn't get it in the moment, he holds himself to a standard of living and therefore acting that will naturally create a boomerang effect in his life. When you think the world is out to get you or you think women are the problem and that there's no good quality women out there anymore, that's the energy you're attracting women out of. So they are just going to represent that very thought system you have that you've programmed yourself to believe. So basically in the outside world, you feel like you have to protect yourself from all of these boomerangs coming back and hitting you in the face with just the amount of power you threw them with. So look into your own definitions of what is serving you right now in your life, what you believe to be true in your life. Because listen, you can know you're an attractive person, you can know you're a great quality man, but you don't need to shout it at the top of your lungs. And you don't have to force people to believe that. It's a man with personal freedom that is able to access that humility that is required to make a lasting impression for people to want to be around you. Because you made them feel something, compliment things on a deeper level. And that's something women are always going to pay attention to, notice, remember. Because so many men are so quick to compliment the physical side of attraction. But when you're a man who has self-defined himself to be attractive, and your definitions aren't rooted in how tall you are or how attractive you think you are, more so on the character you have built that has shaped and defined that word attractive in your life. So when you're around women, when you're on dates, when you're getting to know people, not even with the intention of dating them, you just have that riz or that aura that pulls people into your orbit because you are orbiting yourself, not other people. And people want to be a part of something that has purpose. And that's why shallow dating or modern dating, honestly, nowadays can feel so exhausting because people are trying to inflate themselves to such a degree that it's really, really hard to keep up with. And when you can follow the three principles we discussed today, which is integrity, authenticity, humility, that is when your aura is going to become undeniably attractive. When you yourself have gave enough energy back inwards for there to be that draw that people can feel in your presence. It's a man with presence. If you guys want any more videos like this, please make sure you like today's video, hit the subscribe button, and I will see you in my next one. Bye.