They tried to break your soul but YOU broke their grip‼️

I know you know why you are now better and blessed after going through this narcissistic nightmare. Because the narcissist tried to break your soul. I know you know. If you don't know, you're going to find out watching this video. So welcome to my channel. It's your girl Mommy I am a survivor now thriving post-narcissistic abuse and I'm here in this wonderful community to help you if that's you or to just bring you along to share your testimony and your story. Take a moment and subscribe and join us. Don't forget guys to smash the like button and drop a comment below in the comment section and let me know what's on your mind as we talk about it. And of course as a certified life coach I'm inviting you to check out a life coaching session if that is truly what you need while you're on this part of your healing journey. Look in the description box for information on how to book those sessions, how to purchase Mommy So True merchandise, how to contact me and all that other juicy information. You becoming whole again is the narcissist's greatest defeat. That is a major, major way to end that game. Destroy that game. It's completely over. A lot of us here didn't just survive narcissistic abuse. We're thriving and that's it. Period. There's nothing else. There's nothing else. Drop mic. We're thriving. A narcissist somewhere reeled us in or even tried to groom us. This might be family. This might be your parent we're talking about. This might be all the above. How many people are like D all the above? Yeah it's very well that for a lot of people. You know why you are now better and the answer truthfully is because you are not bitter. You're not bitter and you're not sitting here stuck because you've accepted the truth. See truth seers and truth seekers embrace the truth. Once your heart fully accepted what that narcissist really is, this was when you broke into your freedom. This was when you tapped into true healing. When you finally said you know what wow that was a dark experience. That was a dark entity. This person is really truly evil. I mean it's not to make this spiritual but it is on so many levels. You know what you went through with that narcissist. You know what an attack that was to make it out of. You know that had it not been for your faith you would be doomed because the grip narcissists have on you is real. When you don't know that it's a narcissist and you're just this kind loving person full of light. You don't know that this person is desperate for that light. You don't understand how thirsty they are for someone of light. This person is so attracted to what you have. That gift you have. That glow you have. You are such a blessing. You always were. It was their job and their intent to keep you from seeing that. To blind you from seeing that they were just mirroring you and that they were pretending to you and that they were fake to you and for you. And that they were never for you. It was all a setup for you to continue to fool yourself into believing that you are a problem. That you are faulted. That you can't do right get right. Like you just deserve like you just deserve the worst of the worst. Their job was to overly criticize you to the point where you just eroded as far as your self-esteem. Their job was to beat you down tear you down and wear you down with all of their drama. Their heavy dark energy. Every day it had to be something. Tug of war. Everything was a fight because their job was to exhaust you. Deplete you. True healing is when you get to the place where you can forgive yourself. This is the real win here. When you no longer blame yourself and you stop allowing yourself to listen to that lying voice in the back of your head telling you you're not good enough. You're disqualified. You can't get it. You won't. You don't deserve it. This that and a third. The real flex is winning that way. Taking your full power back. Letting the God in you finally shine. Stand tall. Understand that you've overcome something that was designed to destroy you. To understand the strength that you have. This is powerful to see the divine favor on your life because you escaped something like this. That's the real flex. To forgive yourself and say I'm not to blame. It's not my fault. I didn't create that monster. I'll forgive myself for whatever I put up with. I'll forgive myself for ignoring my intuition. But once you do that, once you release that part of the trauma, you set yourself free because the narcissist is designed to have you constantly second-guessing yourself, doubting yourself, judging yourself, blaming yourself. Now you feel like everything you do you just don't do it right. Now everything you do you're beating yourself up about it like you just gotta be so perfect. Like you just can't mess up. You're not allowed to have flaws. Well I'm here to break it to you because the narcissist tried to break your soul and they didn't succeed because you're a different breed. Your soul isn't breakable. They couldn't even hijack it. They tried so hard but no matter what you're standing in truth. Your true authentic self. The real winner is the one who taps into that depth of self-love. I'm gonna love myself deeply in spite of what you said about me. What you say about me. How you feel about me and what you think your abuse should have did to me or what it did to me. Because narcissists will hurt you, tear you down, destroy you and then talk about you. Point fingers and laugh at you. So the real winner is the one who allowed the pain to become a push for difference, for better, for change, for healing. The pain became a pull to heal. You went all the way back to childhood. You went all the way back to how you were raised. You started to heal in ways that you didn't even imagine. Some of you are going through that right now. I'd love to hear your experience. Drop a comment below. Don't forget to like the video and subscribe if you're new. They tried to break your soul. It might have felt like it. But as you heal. As you stand in truth. As you allow yourself to heal. As you let go of what needs to be let go of. As you continue to climb even painfully. You just keep climbing. You just keep going. You just keep trying. You get to the point where you stop tearing yourself up. You stop beating yourself up. You stop even getting down on yourself because you're resting. Let oversleeping be enough sometimes for you because you're tired. Let canceling plans be okay. Let switching up your environment be all right. It's okay to be fully you. Wholefully you. Healing is about becoming whole again. You becoming whole again is the narcissist's greatest defeat. That is a major major way to end that game. Destroy that game. It's completely over. It's completely over because you discovered the ultimate truth. The ultimate truth is you were authentic. You've always been authentic and they tried to steal your authenticity. They tried to take so much from you and even if they took something from you they couldn't take your integrity. They couldn't take the God in you. They couldn't take your favor. They couldn't take the gift that God has put deep down inside of you. So somehow some way you rose. You're rising. This wasn't part of their plan. Remember they were here to steal, kill, and destroy you. Break your soul. But you stood firm in God. Now it's the God in you and you're thriving. You're glowing. You're growing and they're defeated. All they have is their narcissistic show. The clown show to show people who are interested. They have their little their little narcissistic fan base and followers and you have the truth. Keep winning. Stay blessed and stay true guys. Until next time. Bye.