Because of you that narcissist is fake silent 🤫 now

Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to my channel. Welcome back to my channel. So good to see you again. This is your girl, Mommy So True. I'm a survivor of narcissistic abuse and I'm here to share some key things. I'm also here to share this testimony with you because I know you are a thriver as well. We don't just survive this. We become thrivers after this. The only time a narcissist thinks they're winning is when they are loud in your life. When they are still able to pop up with messages, talk to you crazy, show up at your house, pop up at your job. When they are still able to get you to react, you're going back and forth with them. You're still, you know, affected by the way they're talking to you crazy and criticizing you and blaming things on you. Got you trying to prove that you're not a cheater even though they are. See the narcissist feels so powerful and they're loud and they won't go away. It's like that fly, those flies. They just won't go away. They're all in your ear. They're buzzing. They're getting in your nose. This is when a narcissist feels amazingly good. This is why in this community we've become their worst nightmare. We've stripped them of that power. Narcissists that used to think they were controlling us and running the show have now ducked off somewhere and they're quiet. They don't really have no more moves. Whatever moves they have left, they not making them on you. They're not going to work. They can't even get to you. You're not going to hear from them anymore because they not hearing from you anymore. You fired them. They lost their job. You quit. You burnt that whole factory down because they thought they were enslaving you for you to keep giving parts of yourself that you were never supposed to get back. But it's their own mistakes. It's their betrayal. It's the deception and the lies that forced you to go somewhere and heal. Forced you to go somewhere and become educated and obtain the knowledge to put that fire out. And now they're somewhere crumbling. They are ashes. You're not bleeding out because of that bird. You know you didn't lose nothing. You know it's their loss. You know you were dealing with a coward of a bully. If you've dealt with a narcissist of any kind and you happen to notice that they're quiet now. There's no more Hoover attempts. They're not reaching out. You're not seeing them. You're not hearing from them or about them. Let me tell you, this is a major sign that you are thriving. You figured out it was a game. And every trap they tried to entrap you in, it made them fall in their own trap. That's why they got to play a game somewhere else with somebody else because it's not going to be you. You figured out that they are truly a waste of time. You figured out that they are just all talk and that there's no action behind their words. You figured out what a joke it's always been. But the joke wasn't on you. It was on them. It was funny when they thought they had you where they needed you to be. But now you're laughing. You get the last laugh because you see that it's been smoke and mirrors. You see that it was all just a person that's delusional. Everything they've done to you, all the times they came against you, it made you figure out a playbook. You became smart. You outsmarted them. You destroyed their game. And in many cases, that's why you didn't just survive it. You're now thriving past it because you don't care anymore like you used to. You're not bothered about it like you used to. You're not asking what if anymore. It's what now? What about me? What about my life? What about what I want to do? What about what makes me happy? This is when that narcissist lost completely. You wondering why you don't hear from them? Why they're not popping up anymore? They can't. They dare not. You caused a major injury. That means a severe embarrassment. They got to go and hide the shame that they're feeling because you ripped the mask. You ripped the mask off. And now when they look in the mirror, they can't help but to see their true self. They can't help but to see how ugly they really are. Everything they told you, you wasn't good enough for and you didn't deserve. Now they see that that's them. But this is a narcissist. They don't want to do that. So of course, the games continue, but it ain't with you. Of course, they're going to marry somebody else. Of course, they're going to make it look good from a distance. Of course, they're going to make it look good on social media. Of course, they're still lying about what happened, how it happened. They're still blaming you for it all. They're playing the victim. Of course. Of course, they're acting like they let you go and that they don't care anymore. When really, they still care a lot because they lost a victim. They lost a source of supply. They are hurt because you poured in. You gave a lot to this person who's incapable of pouring into you. So they were always winning because of you. You made life make sense. They actually smiled when they were with you. Now they have to act like they don't care. They've like they making money. It's a lie. They know they lost miserably. They know you were the best thing that ever happened to them. They're reminded of it every day because at the end of the day, nobody carries your energy. They don't know anyone as intelligent as you are. They've never heard someone with the distinctive voice that you carry. They've never encountered someone with your level of uniqueness. They didn't understand your spiritual gifts, but this person suffers so much they know they needed it. And now part of the hidden shame is knowing that they really lost it. The more painful part about all of this is they know that you know that because that is the truth. No matter what everybody else is doing or saying or what they're doing and making it look like, they know you know the truth. They know you know they lost the best thing that could ever happen to them in this entire world. Nobody can replace you and they know that. Nobody can do what you did and they know that. Nobody can make them feel close to what you made them feel. You somehow made this person feel emotions they didn't even know they could feel. You made them start feeling like a human because part of that internal shame with that narcissist is how inhuman they feel. The constant battle with the demons inside of their mind, their heart, their soul. Let me also tell you that because they are a narcissist, they really haven't gone anywhere. They've found a shadow to hide up under. That means there's a new victim. That means they're busy, right? They're busy creating more false narratives. They're busy future faking other people, somebody else. They're busy trying to recreate a new narcissistic life. However it looks, whoever it's with, that's why you're not hearing from this person. This is a great sign and a big indication that you didn't just survive it, you're now thriving past it because this this narcing nut knows that you are done. They know you are done. They know you have figured them out. They know the mask is off when it comes to you. You seeing right through it. You saw right through it. You made that narcissist run. See the abuse was supposed to wake you up so that you run but when you wake up and you run and you ran the way that you ran now they have to run. They have to find somewhere to stay hidden. You finally got silent and smart and that crushed the game. They had nothing to work with. There was no more reactions from you. There was no more accepting calls from you. All access became completely denied. They drained themselves trying to hoover you and you ignored the crap out of it. You treated this person like they no longer existed. They want you to think they're done and they've moved on when really they are silently stalking you. They are using their kids iPads to log in with usernames to watch your social media. They are doing things desperately now but on the hush hush on the down low because they can't afford for you to know what a sore loser they really are. They don't want you to know how much they are thinking about you all the time because they are. They don't want you to how much they're fiending for you because you became a drug. You're not the only one that's addicted here. They were addicted to parts of you. You didn't know it was a narcissist and you opened up parts of you that you did not know this needy broken baby needed. You brought them peace. You gave them a sound mind. They were able to sleep because of you. That's why when you leave they start to appear like a zombie. They lose sleep. They're not grooming themselves. Walking around looking old and it ain't even been that long since you left. They're hiding under somebody's shadow. They're with people that they don't even look right with. This person is forcing themselves to look happy with a manly looking woman. She's trying real hard to make it seem like she's okay when really she got married just to be married. These decisions were made because that's their way of reaching out to you silently. I'm gonna make moves and I'm gonna act like I got somebody new and I got a new family and I'm good. I'm See you think the narcissist is quiet but they're really not quiet. They're silently trying to play a game. They know you've learned the art in silence. They know you've become so silent so quiet that they can't help but to hear their demons now. They are hearing those voices loud. They have to silently protect themselves. The alienation of your children. The creating chaos for no reason. Popping up at functions. Showing up at places they know you're gonna be at. It's not coincidental. They want you to pay attention to them bad. This person needs you to care again. This person needs you to fall into that trap again. They just know being loud ain't gonna do it because you done got smart. A lot of times narcissists duck off and remain silent somewhere because they're hoping that you gonna break. They're hoping you're gonna come looking for them. Running for them because they don't really understand that you're strong enough to go and recover. That they put you on a drug you weren't trying to be on and now you went and got the necessary help to sober up. It's quite embarrassing to that narcissist because they know that you see the truth and not only are you truth seeing you're gonna truth tell too. They can't play that narcan game with you anymore. They lost you and they know they did. They also know that you are irreplaceable. That's why they are quiet. That's why they are silent. That's why those hoovers eventually fade because you finally tapping into that version of yourself means you don't want them. They're quiet because they know you do not love them. You figure out what they really are and there is nothing to love. You are in love with an illusion and you snapped out of it. They know you don't care no more and they know that you're done because they realize that you are not searching for it, looking for it, interested in it. You're not having the same conversations with the people that they've triangulated you with. They still have a third party in your circle that they are hoping they can send messages through to get to you. This person knows you don't want nothing to do with them and that's eating them up inside. That's why you're still getting those weird phone calls. This person knows that you're truly done and you want to be done and they don't want to deal with that. They really cannot take that internally. See that narcissist was never prepared for your rejection. They thought they kept rejecting you. They thought they were destroying you. They thought they were leaving you abandoned. They thought they were leaving you to boo-hoo cry, to grow old, that your skin will start sagging because they're not there. That you would just fall completely apart because they were used to this version of you. Oh, they know you're done. That's why they're playing the game a little bit different. That's why they're forcing themselves to believe their new illusion with their new fake wife. They know you're done because they don't see those tears no more. When they stalk you they notice you're not wrinkling. What they see is you're shining. What they see is you're elevating and you're growing. What they see is that you're not broken and you're not looking for them. You're not interested in them. You're on a whole different level with this. You figured out something life-changing for yourself and their attempt to hijack your soul it backfired because you took your power back. You snatched your soul from their hand. This is what they're seeing now. They lost full control. They lost all access. They're not able to manipulate you and have you believing that you have no worth because you know all your worth. You know the value you carry and now you can see clearly they never had any. They really are useless and you can take your useful self and go somewhere and thrive. So yeah they're quiet. There's nothing to say. They thought they were master manipulators but it seems that you are unmanipulatable now. Your strength is way too much. It makes them feel irate. Your strength is disturbing. Your growth is annoying. They have to make sure that they stay quiet somewhere. Even though they're still using your address and your information to try to build a life somewhere they know they can't come back. They know they'll never be welcomed. They know that you're doing just fine and even better without them. Congratulations. If you're not hearing from them anymore, congratulations. They know you're done. They see you're in a new relationship. They see that you've been going to therapy. You don't even look the same. They see that you are happy. Your life is moving up. They know. They're hearing about it and they're watching it. You're doing so well and you're thriving in such a way that it has them shaking. They're paranoid now. They're petrified. They are really hoping that this person they're with now will last forever. So they're gonna try hard. They're doing stuff for them they couldn't do for you because they know they've lost you. They know they gotta work harder. If you're new here, if you don't feel like you are thriving, I am here to dedicate and help support you through this ugly situationship that you were caught up in. 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