The Moment A Narcissist’s Mask Slips

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Thank you for coming to engage in a conversation because today we're exposing a particular moment that happens when you're dealing with these narcs that think they're so smart and they think they're, you know, running something oh man hi from london okay how you doing iop 1937 hey quandap how you doing sounds like somebody over there messing up messing up some barbecue backbones and potatoes Corinne that sound good that's what's up that's what's up guys i'm so happy to be here with you guys to end the weekend on this this beautiful sunday over here jamming don't mind me don't mind me my goodness so good to see y'all thank y'all for checking in and being here and taking time to come check your girl out listen to what's what this what this girl mommy so choose talking about today because you know as the title reads it is what it is let's talk about it there's moment where a narcissist mask slips you haven't seen that yet oh trust me either either you ain't paying attention or you just need to just give it a little bit more time it's it's it's gonna happen you gonna see it naturally bro hey neck bones okay i got you kareem oh my gosh so listen y'all i'm gonna try not to take all y'all time on this beautiful sunday evening but i want to engage in this conversation real quick because i look back to a lot of things now as a thriver and sometimes it's kind of funny sometimes it's also still a little shocking to see what i'm seeing as you guys know you've heard before once you see it you can't unsee it you can't unsee it you know and shout out to you guys if you're new to the channel thank you for checking in it's so good to have you here joining me on this live i look forward to getting through this conversation with you and i invite you to subscribe if you haven't already you know take a moment to like the video you have a thumbs up button right there you know like the video um leave your comments while we're on the live and if you're watching the replay please feel 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come here and listen to me talk about today's topic on the live how many can say that they witness a narcissist mask if you can say that I want you to hit the like button if you haven't already and also smash that like button if you're sitting there dealing with this and you you know it's happening you you're kind of learning it you're kind of seeing it things are happening things are like not how you used to see it you know it's not as time goes on it gets darker and darker and darker with these manipulation ships as time goes on you get to see their true colors number one reason to me is because they're not that smart um you can't pretend to be real when you're fake as hell you know like you just can't you can't you can't fake realness you can't fake authenticity like you just it's either you got it or you don't it's either you got it or you don't and when you're dealing with narcissists in these these relationships these abusive situationships with these narcissists you're you're in a game they're playing with your life they're playing with their own life so they're playing with your life you're dealing with someone who really has nothing to lose honestly because they're empty inside they can have all the money in the bank but there's no happiness they still feel like this lonely child it's like you know broken demon baby I say that wholeheartedly because that's literally to me the best way to describe the the way narcissists in this disorder and i roll my eyes when i say that because i'm like yeah this demonic disorder let's put another d in there this demonic disorder they're wearing a mask they're wearing a mask when you're in it you're being abused it's hard to see that this person is really actually manipulating you really actually using it's hard to really see it because the way they play with your life is very strategically done they'll stay patient enough they'll hang around long enough to gain things from you drain you, take your time, destroy you, at least aim to destroy your character, aim to destroy your confidence or self-esteem, whatever but the interesting thing is, and I want to point it out and be real here, the thing about a real one, this is what makes you so real, and I applaud you for being the real of the real, the real one that you are, because from the beginning you were real from the beginning you are real, you don't go into these situationships trying to deceive anybody, a lot of you even in your narcissistic family dynamic system, you've always been the truth seer the truth teller, the truth seeker, maybe you know and usually to me that means you were the one who always had a mind of your own, you weren't easily influenced, you were strong, you weren't that breakable, and you were also tested and challenged the most because of that, and if you're one of those people by chance I hope you know that you were being, you were being shaped and molded to slay narcissists down the road in your life, those of us who had narcissistic families and parents, cultures, narcissistic family bounds religious bounds we have such a strong mind, we're so resilient, it's actually quite scary a lot of us are so gifted that even though we were in the abuse we always saw through the abuse and it made us even more dangerous because it set us apart from everyone, so they always tried to pick with us when the truth really is we were just chosen we just had a lot of light and it was intimidating and annoying to be around someone like you and it still is it still is today i want to talk a little bit about this moment that happens there's something that happens there's a moment that happens there's a phase that takes place while you're dealing with these people whether you're a parent or a spouse there's something that happens in a shift there becomes a shift in the air i'm gonna rephrase that there becomes a crack in their facade perhaps maybe they they make a careless comment that reveals their true nature they say some off the wall ---- they're like wait what you don't have no empathy who says something who thinks like that why are you what kind of opinion is that the need to judge certain things and talk about certain things point out people's flaws like they will aim for people low and you would be like whoa for some of us these moments happened earlier than we even know we just we were in phases where we were in this narcissistic fog like we were in this collapse you were in the nest of this confusion you couldn't really see what was happening but they they they exposed themselves a little bit a lot of time those moments of frustration where they exposed how how dark they really are beneath that godliness beneath that sweet voice maybe and let me be clear because sometimes when we talk about these things some people are like well I feel like I am that's me because I've had moments where I've had to show my ass I've had moments where I got frustrated and the dark side of me arose and I did some I did some stuff let's clear the air here there's something called reactive abuse and and sometimes you react to their actions so we're talking about narcissists and narcissism people want to run away from the fact that the person that looks like the bad guy is dealing with the bad guy and we're humans we come from all different backgrounds different programming conditioning training different different type of parenting some of us we have solid parents some of us may have narcissistic parents that still put us on game that's what i'm saying this thing is is crazy how it really sets us up to be beasts i had a mean narcissistic mother but a lot of things that she did made me a a smart girl in a lot of ways there's some things you're not gonna get away with with me there's some things i'm not gonna go for i watch my mother stand up for herself in a lot of situations i respect a lot of things that she did some narks will teach you some things they will put you on game about some things they they have some behaviors that you may need to pay attention to because you might be too soft so sometimes you know what it's okay to be honest about what you might have learned from them that was a good thing for you a piece of ---- though so it don't even matter Latonya and Taylor thank you so much for the super chat i appreciate you love welcome in how are you doing how are you doing i see Rock Bridget reacting as fuel for them it sure is there sure is fuel for them i know so you know there's that moment where something just makes that facade crack a lot of us can attest to this and if this is you smash that like button that moment their mask fell their whole looks changed for you this person didn't even look the same anymore their eyes changed their face changed their skin changed something just started to just be just give you the heebie-jeebies whatever when you saw this person you start wondering like damn what did i ever really see in you or maybe you start to notice like damn your your looks are fading they're not even really cute anymore you know or is it because you're so ugly on the inside that it's it's it's manifesting outwardly like i don't even know but there's a moment where that mask slips and sometimes like i said it can be instant and it happens throughout these manipulation ships shits where they slip they say stuff they do stuff they get caught lying and we give them benefits of the doubt we allow them to lie about the lie and trick us back into you know believing it or whatever happens a lot of us have witnessed the moment where their vulnerabilities get unmasked their insecurities that they've been hiding explode right in your face and you start to learn that there's a lot of fears that drive their behaviors this person is a scaredy cat this person is scared to face the truth they're afraid of the truth they're afraid of exposure they're afraid of growth you still want to you still you still want to act like you get your diaper changed every night like you don't want to grow up you're afraid to leave your mom they'll be married and still be on their mama's nipple like why what are you doing you a 40 year old 30 some year old man woman still going to your mother for approval for stuff and you'll be married or their sisters they'll use their sisters like their wives it's like that moment where you start to see that you married a little ass boy you're dealing with a little ass girl everything changes everything changes like i said they start to look different and then now they don't sound the same now it's like literally everything this person has to say sounds different it all sounds like it all sounds like a lie heard it all before like what it all sounds the same like hold on wait when you say you're going on a trip it means you're going to mess around with it when you open your mouth and tell me how much you love and appreciate you you're really telling me you enjoy having me as your slave because they love them a good wifey type woman husbandy type man you make life so easy and you ain't gonna complain when they be gone all them hours when they lying about extra hours at work you just gonna just believe them because you don't have the kind of time to be not trusting somebody and paranoid you realize you've been dealing with somebody who is a habitual liar a sex addict can't stop sleeping around can't stop watching porn can't stop over sexualizing everything so sexually exotically retarded they don't even know what they like they like them all they like it all in all positions from all types of human beings maybe even animal children i know damn limit if you ask me the moment that mask slips when you accidentally get in that phone and find out this person should be a registered ******* sex offender you should be on a list somewhere to to be like never hired on a job around kids you should be serving time for all the women you bamboozled on this that moment that you went on their social media and them DMs and realize they literally copy and paste messages and send it to the same people or different people every day every week every month there's a list of people that moment where you pull up old bank statements and you find out this person's been paying for sex this person's been paying for witchcraft stuff to be done this person been doing a whole lot of screwing other people no wonder they never had time for you no wonder they projected all of that on you bliss this is a profound moment for you especially when you're in impact you're like uh not your food you done fucked around this is when we finally sense the chaos behind fake calmness the fear behind their bravado this is such an empowering moment i'm just thinking back to those moments for me i don't know if anybody out there you know maybe in the live comments or while you're watching this replay you have a thought and you're like oh my god that mask slips when they then they lied and and got caught up in their lie when when they said you know they weren't gonna be somewhere and then i i ended up running into them or when they lied about something and then somebody accidentally snitched or purposely snitched the moment when their so-called best friend told it all, you know, it's like oh my god, this is when you start to look at this person like wow, you were once a beautiful painting on the wall, but now that i'm looking closer and i'm thinking back to all the red flags that i ******* miss, you are a beautiful painting all right but you on a crumbling damn wall, that wall you on is falling apart, so your little cute face is falling apart too, your little charm is falling apart, everything about you that i thought was nice, your wit and all that, it's not sustainable that ---- is crumbling, it's fading off, i'm starting to see that behind that it's a lazy cheating, or maybe not lazy, but you use your work and your money to walk all over people and boss people around and you think you the ---- and high and mighty whatever the hell and you starting to see like damn, you selfish, then you got them, the ones where you done sat with this person, they give all this advice, they know how to talk about somebody else's life all day, they know how to comment on somebody else ---- all day, slip your life, that ---- to say all these degrees, they some of them know how to talk, you got some some amazing, i've seen some people that come off as smart charming they might even be sexy some of y'all have some fine-ass nards can sweep you off your feet sexually like they got it they got their game down the more you get to know them the more you pay attention to their true character you're like oh my god you are a demon you lie like ---- you are evil as hell we'll probably kill and has killed and we'll get away with how good you are at what you do some of us man had a moment when that mask slipped and made us run for our life it wasn't even worth trying to talk about it was just like you know what i just need to disappear this person should never find me nobody should ever know where i'm man this is this is done i'm done i don't even want no parts of this person their family no connections to me at all this person's a demon this person is a demon they want me dead this is a powerful awakening this is this is a moment where we're reminded of our own strength because being with that narcissist it means you've survived walking through dark times some shadows you've survived walking with a shadow you done faced some dark and difficult times with this person this person will let you struggle and watch you struggle you probably tried to create your escape plan years ago but because of how messed up this monster was you had to slowly secretly save your money it's crazy people are really going through some real life this is an empowering moment we learned to trust our instinct we stopped doubting the red flags that we were doubting before now it's like you know what i don't care what you say you can lie to me it can sound amazing and you can put on the best performance, you can put on the best show, I will not be moved, you can tell me how much you love me, and want your family, and want to be with me, and how great I am to you, I'm just gonna know it's all baloney, look at you like a damn sandwich while you're talking, two pieces of white bread, a piece of bologna, with no mayo, no nothing, you just a dry piece of bologna ******* sandwich, go ahead, keep telling me how much you love me, bologna, please tell me how much you appreciate me, bologna, please tell me how much you love your kids, bologna how do y'all are dealing with narks that have witnessed you seeing the mask slip and they are pissed because you know what they knew their whole life you don't figure it out and they know you they know you look right through their eyes they can't even look in your face because they you see right through them now when you look at them you see their whole soul and they know it they feel it so they know you know because you ain't coming off the same no more you don't even use the same tone when you talk to them that moment the mask slipped you changed you changed ---- ain't sweet no more because at first i was all in love and all gazing into your eyes the moment the mask slipped i'm sitting up like this i'm like what's up what huh let me check it out you got proof where's the receipts i'm asking questions matter of fact i might not even ask nothing because i already know what i know i don't need you to lie i don't need no lying ass answers i already know what i know i don't even care to ask you nothing talk about it i'm good i ain't got nothing to talk to you about for what i'm not wasting my breath would you why oh my gosh i know how to annoy narcs keep asking the same question one word question two word questions on repeat sound like a broken record piss you off with the mask slips man i don't know how many of you can resonate with this but for me this is when i allowed myself to feel everything no more mr nice guy i'm pissed the young me before i i got onto this before i got this far in my healing journey when i noticed someone's mask slip i would i used to i used to do certain i was pulling up with a bat we fighting i'm smashing your windows i'm doing i bust the windows out your car sorry that used to be the crazy me i would react i used to give them what they want but so ******* what oh well buy you some new windows bitch i don't care you should have never played with me you should have never lied to me you should have never did you should never did me how you did me okay because it ain't about my freaking reactions it's about your actions let's not forget that i done done some things i've grown up now when that when that mask slips man you want to feel that betrayal because you're you're wanting to accept it now this is liberation happening like you know what this sick sob really tried to play me okay okay he really got a new girl in my ---- right now like laying up in my sheets like okay like that ---- hurt like she having another man baby right now like that ---- hurt and you just eat it you swallow it you just you just you take that ---- and you you empower yourself with that you're like okay let me get all my stuff because i know i ain't deserve it i ain't perfect but god like like damn what kind of a person is that what how you do that to people you know the truth emerges man you embrace the truth you're like man that's my mom that's my dad but it is what it is i gotta leave it where it's at i should i shouldn't have certain expectations let me just free myself i'm trying to create relationships and bonds with people who cannot even give that who don't even want that so just like man slipping changed everything it changes everything it puts an end to a lot they're so smart they're stupid man they they snitch on themselves they tell on themselves they give a lot of stuff away they give a lot of stuff away they they make it easy for a lot of us to just be like you know what deuces you know what like this is not a marriage this is not a relationship this is big you know that man start slipping you start looking at them different you start to plan for your future different better hopefully you're like you know what i gotta do some things i gotta keep my options open i gotta be smart i gotta move smart i'm not gonna let this person trap me into thinking they gonna do this and do that and they they are clearly a future faker it's quacking like a duck it's acting like a duck it's gonna die like a duck and i ain't going with it so let me let me let me let me get my life right because i ain't dealing with this duck karen that's why you gotta get out because they don't give a f about you sis because you end up with some satan minions somebody said we become more real after this is done children my god i agree oh my gosh i so agree i told that guy a month ago that he hates me he hates guys so i told him he's a devil plus dj what's up thanks to be here claire davis so happy carmela carmela yeah carmela empathetic warrior they always underestimate us in the past yep they learned they learned the hard way that we are not we are a force to be reckoned with smart no they're not i guess my mother all the time people look up to her but never live with her and if you try and tell somebody they'll act like you're exaggerating yeah yep exactly what you need for the superchat love and keep speaking truth much love keep bringing the light much appreciation to you thank you for all that you do appreciate you thank you so much stay blessed and stay true my dear oh my god somebody said his whole face changed yes empathetic warrior lizzie whole face whole eyes when that mask slips you can't unsee what you saw it doesn't go back to normal after that it's like your dreams aren't even gonna be the same and sometimes that mask slipping can be good or bad it can be good dreams or it could be bad dreams you know so this thing gets crazy it's crazy it's amazing how my reaction to his abuse really made me look like the bad person but the people who truly love me know the truth about the situation so i don't really care anymore i love that Bella 504 batch kids waving their children you guys are going in i agree they be on these jobs sexting in the closet somewhere overtime my ass no for real for real though yep sexting or or having sex shoot how many of y'all ever dealt with a narc who broke up with you and had somebody in their bed three seconds later you know they they they just for some of us that cheat and stuff that's that's that's how you get yourself canceled you started doing all that it's like okay you compete with no people nobody and for attention and uh ill ill ill ill ill are you second option third option fourth option none of that one or none oh when they mistakenly text you instead of who it was intended for damn dumbass ah i bet they tried to clean that up before you could delete messages on apple probably came up with all kind of excuses on that oh you know that was my friend using my phone at work he was he said he was gonna text his wife that nigga funny like shut up liar nobody used your phone to tell everybody it's 2024 everybody got their own phone everybody's grown stop lying you got caught don't you ever catch a narcissist because now they mad at you they mad at you for catching them all hell breaks loose because you caught this everything was fine until you went and found some ---- out and they would say that too we was good until you just had to go figure everything out loved you until you figured out i was a narcissist i hate you now i gotta tell everybody all kind of stuff about you just so they don't even see that like now i gotta work harder like what sometimes those those the person who said something about a text let's see somebody i said something the text is not a mistake it's a hoover to get you to reach out block them i like that i was gonna say something similar but you kind of took the words out of my mouth so i love it oh man guys that's awesome a narcissist can be explained they must be experienced in order to understand ralph i love that i agree it bothered him that i called the shots he had envy and he i love that one zara y'all call i love that one i love that one because a lot of times the mask slips because of you and i'm gonna end this live with that because i love that and you're so right sometimes it's our strength it's our intelligence it's our achievements it's us doing and achieving stuff in life and this person is literally watching you and he's envious they could probably be doing something good in life it doesn't necessarily mean they don't have nothing going on, but you're doing better. And not only are you doing better, you are passionate about what you do. You actually care about what you do. You enjoy what you do. Maybe you're making really good benefits. You really have genuine, authentic connections and stuff like that. There's a lot of things that they can't stand because they look at people as competition. They don't have their own sense of self so everyone is a challenge because they're trying to copy everyone you can't replicate someone who's authentic you can't you can't copy someone else's gift it's either you got that ---- or you don't you know and you become this enemy to someone who wants to be like you so bad but keep failing at it and watching you do well a lot of you were thriving right there in their face you always been thriving you were you were thriving since you came out the womb it's so crazy the moment that mask falls off this person is running for cover got a whole new person set up all in love getting married all this stuff it's like yeah your mask don't slip real bad you gotta you gotta really protect it now you gotta really protect it now you do know that a narcissist runs off with a new supply because after you there's a major void especially if you cut them off this person is stripped and they are literally having a collapse they are in need of supply real bad especially if they lost you as a primary source of supply this person is like dying for a glass of water that's why they end up marrying maria from kfc that cleans the floors okay go ahead with your bad stuff wait she got 10 kids but like i told y'all it's typically a match-up with a low vibrational person that's going to fit right into where they are at after you they're they're down they're down they hurt and so it's gonna it's gonna be easy to make somebody else look like how they looked when they came in your life or better than that they went down with you so bad that they they upping their game for the next person they got to that's the only way they gonna survive appreciate you guys thank y'all for the chats and the super chats and being on the live with me, it's a good conversation and addicted to crack, oh Jesus, like I said, plan your exit mine addicted to porn, oh Jesus Hey Lori and Diane, good cause they will just ruin it, oh yeah ass slip and some of us took off running, they're like, oh yeah um, like I can't do this anymore sometimes the mask slips once you have kids with them, I've seen that happen many times, I've seen people start to notice the shift when children get involved, you start to see, wow, you are you are just not able to be here with your own kids, you just can't connect, you just care about buying ---- for them and having them looking fresh to death and that's, that's not parenting, you know worried about splurging on them for Christmas and all that, that's not parenting, you're trying to create a whole nother narcissist, people aren't even there at all, barely there, barely buying big gifts, true, they're barely doing that crazy thing that I had of him, he was messing around on me I'm going to smear your name to anyone willing to listen, see, I agree, which, did I make somebody hungry, I'm sorry, to Misha T, the narcissist I was with, talked me into getting my tubes tied after our second child, just to make sure, if I was ever to move on, I couldn't have any more kids with anyone else, sounds like a real nightmare, Neil did that to his baby mother, that's crazy, child mother, baby mother, however you want to put it, that's crazy they do the dirtiest things you see things from not the same person huh yeah you spirits saying they different people it's crazy right you guys of course contact information and any any information to reach me work with me talk to me please look in the description box below check it out let you guys know that i appreciate your time on today's live i look forward to jumping on winning wednesday live with you guys this week wednesday at 6 p.m eastern time we will be back checking in from survivor to survivor oh my gosh so good seeing you guys i see the comments shout out to all of you here and all the engagement love all of y'all shout out to y'all in ireland belfast ireland watch the dog sister guys i appreciate you so much y'all have a blessed rest of your evening have a wonderful wonderful sunday enjoy this upcoming keep thriving keep going strong stay strong stay bright stay bright until next time y'all much love everybody shout out to you all the way in the uk much love fam y'all take care until next time beautiful people deuces bye guys