Block Your Nieces & Nephews because They Will Be Used Against You #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

You're going to have to block your nieces and nephews. I don't care if your nieces and nephews are little children, toddlers, small children under the age of five. I don't care if your nieces and nephews are in their teens. You're going to have to block your nieces and nephews if their parents are narcissists, including their grandparents. So your siblings, whether you have a brother or sister, including your parents, understand they will use your nieces and nephews to continue the abuse okay I'm explaining this I've made videos about this but a lot of y'all are hard-headed a lot of y'all think because you got toxic family that you can distance yourself and cut your family off and still have a relationship with the children or you have children and you call yourself cutting off your family members but you still allow them to call and text your child. Baby, they only using your child to ******* stalk you. They're only using your child to keep up with your personal business. And they are also grooming your child and slowly turning your child against you right underneath your nose and you don't even know it. And by the time your child gets to be 17, 18 years old, they've developed some very strong narcissistic traits because you allowed your family members to have a relationship on the phone or text behind your back it's your fault so listen to this video because a narcissist will use a child use a child to gain access to you to further abuse you yes your motherfucking family members your your mom dad your brother sister if they all got children those children will be used against you including yours please spare me the details about how much you love your nieces and nephews honey and how much you know oh it's not their fault they're just children they don't know any better no they don't know any better that's more of a reason for your narcissistic brother and sister or your narcissistic parents to use them because children are naive children are innocent children are not aware of When they're being used as pawns and manipulated, they're actually the perfect victim for a narcissist to use to manipulate and triangulate. They will triangulate the children against you when your back is turned. I promise you they are talking about you like a dog in front of your nieces and nephews. They are painting a negative picture of you to your nieces and nephews. if you allow your child to go over there allow your your sister or brother to babysit allow your toxic mother to babysit your child you will be talked about like a dog in front of your child they want to turn your child against you they also spoil the children the children are given gifts okay sweets ice cream take them shopping whatever they spoil the kids and that's not because they love the children is because they're grooming the children and they want the children to become miniature narcissists okay so as the children grow up and they constantly hear this gossip about you behind your back those children are going to develop an opinion about you based on the gossip they're hearing from your mother your sister your brother the narcissist in your family children have very young impressionable vulnerable minds and the narcissist the narcissist in your family they know that so they will pour toxicity into the children and and turn the children against you y'all want to play around you refuse to cut your nieces and nephews off you're going to pay for it you ain't gonna pay for it today you're gonna pay for it in the long run but you're going to pay because the children will be used against you the most painful thing i ever had to do was cut my nieces off i didn't want to cut my nieces off my these are my brother's children okay they're big girls now and i hope one day as they develop into grown women and they figure things out on their own and that um they've they've probably overheard a lot of gossip about me i hope that god develops their discernment so that they can see the truth and understand that they were lied to for many years and that one day they will reach out to me and we can have a grown woman discussion about how horrible certain members of my motherfucking family is but I'm not going to go near my nieces they got to discover it on their own and when they become grown women and they have the aha moment then they can reach out to me and we all can have a grown woman discussion about these toxic motherfuckers in my family okay but baby I don't play that ain't nobody gonna use a child to manipulate me to further abuse me ain't nobody gonna use a child to stalk me and take my personal business back so that they can have something to talk about you're not gonna use a child against me not my nieces nephews not my child a lot of y'all will not listen you call yourself cutting your family off but you let your toxic family your abusive mother abusive father abusive sisters and brothers they how they got your child's cell phone number bitch how is how do you cut your family off but you still allow them to call and text your motherfucking child you still being stalked and and talked about they should have no access to your child's telephone they should not know your child. If your child has social media, they should not know your child's social media. Nada. They get no access to your children because they will in fact use your child as a pipeline to have access to stalk you, to have access to stay in your business, to keep tabs on you, and they will try to turn your child against you. It's a slow grooming process. They will spoil your child they will do all types of manipulation tactics to groom and turn your own child against you children are young with impressionable minds and the narcissist will take full advantage of molding and shaping that child's views of you and turning them turning them into negative views they're doing this with your nieces and nephews as we speak so as much as it hurts you are going to have to block cut delete the children off wait till they become adults and pray for the best pray that they all form their own discernment and they too will see your family for the toxic motherfuckers that they are now listen listen let me tell you one last thing a lot of y'all with nieces and nephews that are 17 and 18 that they're young adults they might be in college be careful now because they they have been well groomed by this point they may come to you and say hi auntie um i i want to talk to you about family you know this is dysfunction they may come to you on some some real ---- wanting to talk however if that child that young adult has developed severe narcissistic traits you suspect they're narcissists your family didn't got to them they will play in your ******* face like they love you they will be playing both sides of the fence okay you've got to be very careful when them children become young adults they will come to you and you have to really turn your discernment up to see if they are true narcissists because they will take your if you open up your doors and you don't have a discerning mind or spirit and you cannot detect that your nieces and nephews are playing in your face because they're young adults and they're full-blown narcissists at this point they will go back and talk about you to the rest of the family so you're going to have to set boundaries and you're going to have to you're going to have to test when your nieces and nephews become adults you're going to have to put them through several tests to make sure they really don't **** with family before you let them into your your life your personal space otherwise they come in and do damage they're coming to spy stalk getting your business and take it right on back to your family cut block delete your nieces and nephews and if you have children do not let your family have access to your children because they will use your child to further keep tabs on you to abuse you narcissists do not care about children children are just pawns that they can use to manipulate and groom for their own personal needs please Please take the advice in this video very seriously. I'm dead ass. I done been through it and I'm telling you, I will not tell you no lies. Protect the children on both ends by not allowing access. Do not let abusers use children to access you, whether it's your child or your nieces and nephews. I've spoken.