THIS IS WHERE YOU WENT WRONG WITH THAT NARCISSIST‼️

I think I'm going to stand up today. I don't really feel like sitting down for this one, y'all. Welcome in, everybody. Shout out to my members in the house, warriors in the house. What up, Queen Leandra? How you doing? I see your name up there. I see Brother Hype Man, Nerd for the Word, Elisa Williams. You guys are amazing. How are you folks doing today? It's Sunday, guys. The weekend be going by so fast. Dang. it does for those of us you know who gotta wake up and start another week of things but it's okay man it's okay shoot at least i'm telling myself that welcome in everyone so good to see you guys so good to see i'm gonna give a few moments and allow some some more survivors and thrivers to join in i've hopped on live a little later than i intended but it's okay we are here let's get it let's go let's do this let's do this today my energy right now and many of you resonate with it because what she was saying some stuff in this song right here do you believe dealing with a narcissist do you believe in life after love dealing with a narcissist that's a good question let's see here albany or albany new york where i get new albany i was about to say new york albany new york in the house okay rafelia salgado what's up i don't need you i don't need you anymore song definitely speaks volumes mika love he Jazz Richards, what's up, how you doing blessings on top of blessings on top of blessings this song is definitely a banger, this song this song is death, this song speaks volumes, I understand what she was going through when she wrote this song that's clearly a discard situation happening and and a thriver on the other end, like you know what, go ahead because at the end of the day you're gonna end up lonely at the end of the day this is your loss at the end of the day I don't need you I actually never really did so hey you know what once you leave you're out of my way and I can thrive, I can move on, I can I can glow up and that's what she's talking about here so shout out to Sheer for that song because at the end of the the messaging behind that song is really don't give up on love because you dealt with a loser don't give up on your life because you dealt with somebody who was insignificant not valuable enough I don't I don't even know how to put it you know that's just that's just it somebody out there needed to hear that but welcome in guys it's your girl Mommy So True on this beautiful Sunday sharing this moment with you shout out to all my thrivers in the building shout out to everybody in the house prayers to everyone you know for continued for continued grace may god continue to bless us with compassion um give love and care to those of us who need it going through these these crazy situations and these that's the best word crazy these crazy situations because these are some crazy situations that many of us are dealing with coming out of and we need God, we need God more than anything to get through this so um thank you guys for being here i absolutely appreciate it thank y'all in advance for the love and the compliments and everything else um truly truly appreciate you guys hope that everyone's doing so well india x what's up what's up i miss you i hope you're doing good so good to see you here i hope you're blessed and highly favored even more than you were the last time I saw you or heard you in the live. So good that you guys are here and able to join at this moment because we need to talk about where we all went wrong at. Where did we go wrong at? Because we went wrong somewhere and let's dive into what I mean by that. Shout out to you if you're new. If you're new, welcome to the community of thrivers post-narcissistic abuse if this is your first time here big shout out to you um if you have not subscribed to the channel make sure you take a moment and hit the subscribe button you know and hit the notification bell don't miss those weekly videos and lives um gosh after this somebody might be like you know what i need to book a life coaching session because this is crazy this is crazy i want to take my power back i want to i want to step into my rediscovery mode because this person really tried to destroy me but I know who I am I'm taking my power back I'm remembering who I am if that's you you need a life coaching session you're interested in talking to me one-on-one look in the description box you will see information on how to book those coaching sessions information on merchandise is also available in the description box and those of you interested in joining my meet and greet this August August 23rd in Atlanta Georgia please email me at [email protected] please let me know that you would like to RSVP and let me know if you need accommodations room you know room and all that stuff i want to be able to help if i need to um you know just reach out let's talk about it let's talk about it but today this afternoon guys i want to take a moment and and talk to you guys because we we we we definitely um we went wrong in in in some areas and it's okay to face it but let's talk about it in depth because when I say you went wrong some people are already automatically beating themselves up automatically you know oh gosh oh gosh no let's face it let's take accountability let's take accountability because we went wrong somewhere with the narcissist I'm gonna start with me I'm going to fully take accountability because number one I did not allow myself to let God guide it to let God tell me hey that's that's it that's what you need to be doing this is for you I did not allow myself to not fall into my own wants and desires that's my number one confession I definitely did not let God confirm it for me a lot of times we let the narc tell us God said and God said and we're like okay god didn't confirm it for you though for me this is my number this is where i this is number one where i went wrong at but let's get deep into the real reason why we went wrong here what we really did where we really messed up at let's keep it all the way 100 as we always do in this community right y'all this is where you went wrong at thriver you gave them a chance you gave them a chance. You actually gave them a chance. Why? Because you have an actual heart. You have an actual heart. Because sometimes people could sit here and make it seem like, you know, the victim just was so dumb, gullible, easy, and all of that. No, it's not that. These people and the way they come in, they come in with such intensity because they are in such desperation by the time they get to you they come with such intensity it's so much pressure you don't even have time to go pray about it you don't even have time to marinate on it or process it they literally throw a wool over your eyes and for those of us who were not in a in a in a solid place spiritually it definitely got us that's definitely true at least that's my perspective but where you really went wrong at is that you cared about them this is the this is the main fault to me as a survivor the truth is we gave them a chance we actually cared about them for real the reason why we are somewhere trying to heal you know pick our lives up trying to get over it and move on and watching these videos is because we actually cared about them so much that it pulled us in a way that we were not ready for it we had to literally escape it you had to literally find a way to run away from it and see that love was not a part of this manipulation ship whatsoever all because where you went wrong at was you you believed in them you believed in this person you actually wanted to see the best in them honestly honestly this is this is where a lot of us really went wrong we wanted to see the best in them one thing I encourage survivors of NPD to do is to not fault their self for getting into a situation ship with a narcissist because every situation is not what it what it seems every situation has a story and everybody who gets pulled into that narcissistic relationship situation ship it's not that dummy that that narc thought they were it's just that these people have real and true hearts you cannot be mad at yourself for choosing to love please don't do that and stop doing if that's you it's not a crime to love it's not a crime to be open and willing to give a chance because that's what humans are supposed to do actually too bad we live in a very dark world where love seems impossible to obtain or maintain but truly empaths like you and i these chosen people like you and i we walk around with our heart literally on our sleeves some of us we can't help it we can't help how empathetic we are it's to our it's it's our core nature. It's not our fault that these demons are so determined to come and lock in somebody like us. So when I preach about self-forgiveness, if that is you, please catch it. Please catch it. Everything that you brought to the table, everything you ever offered, your love, the support, all of your attempts to be there when they had nobody, all the times you broke your back to have their back this person repaid you with betrayal because all they wanted to do was control you they wanted to control your mind your body and your soul fully they wanted to hold you captive they wanted to to dumb you down and numb you to being their full puppet because they are broken babies because they have some demonic hold on them and this is where they went wrong they They miscalculated, they miscalculated, they miscalculated and misconstrued a whole lot. They underestimated you a whole lot. This is where they went wrong. Where you went wrong at was your heart, not listening to God, being willing to give love because that's what you're supposed to do. They went wrong misusing and abusing all of that. They went wrong trying to take full advantage of you and making mockery of your empathy. And because they did that so foolishly, you had to make it right and wake up. You had to wake up and take your power back, take control of the situation shift. Better yet, maybe even cut the cord. You didn't know that what you were falling into included some type of spiritual umbilical cord. but when it became noticeable because it was affecting your life your mental your body your being your soul you have to wake up and start snatching your power back and cut that cord where they went wrong at was they should have never brought their mess into your life they should have never they should have never brought that crap into your life they should have never came and tried to destroy who you are they should have never tried to make an attempt to dim your light they went wrong when they showed all their you know violent behaviors when they showed how manipulative they are and how they can manipulate situations you people around them how much they are pathological satanic liars everything put them in a failing position and put you in a winner's position the same reason you got caught up in it because of your heart your intentions the purity behind your intentions the same reason you got caught up in it the same thing that you the same reason why you messed up in the first place where you went wrong at is the same reason you're going to end up winning this is the same reason you are the champion this is why you end up going up in life growing and glowing difference being a better version of yourself they tried to set you up for failure but they failed because now they put you exactly where you need to be y'all heard me yesterday i mean that if you haven't seen that video go check it out i will drop it in the link below they put you exactly where you need to be their plans backfired because you're nothing like them had they not been deceptive they would have never been in your in your in anywhere in your universe anywhere a part of it it took for them to lie gaslight manipulate you love bomb you trick you into marriage it took for them to use deception or they would have never the universe know how pure your intentions were and are still is your heart no matter what they did to you is still bright red and beaten beautifully flowing because that is who you are your core naturally you are just a beautiful soul so then their plans everything they did against you is going to backfire because the beautiful soul is going to win at the end you try to attack someone who isn't an attacker oh the superficial charm luring you in that's where they went that's where they go wrong all that faking got you fooled got you making decisions and doing things only to end up looking like a fool only to end up being humiliated in front of people that you love and care about because of this demonic entity because you went wrong where you went wrong one of the biggest lessons you learn going through this at least as you heal because there are stages of healing you may not be here right now i pray you get there but you'll get to a place where gratitude gratitude becomes so powerful it becomes a very powerful emotion for you because thank god you are still standing thank god you can still love thank god you're able to still think straight thank god you did not turn out to be like them. Because all that stuff you just went through, there's no way you should still be able to do the things that you do, give the way that you give, love the way that you love, care the way that you still care. There's no way you should still be able to call yourself an empath. Some of us, the abuse was so violent, so bad, so negative We should be different than what we are but they could never do that because to our core internally just like internally they are damaged internally we are beautiful internally we are godly we are godly because we are godly we must understand that we went wrong because we probably needed to make the mistake we probably needed to walk into that situation some of us needed to learn how to pay attention to how much we do give pay attention to the type of people we do allow ourselves to love on we made the wrong move to end up where we needed to be we made the wrong moves so we can start seeing things that we can now not we can't unsee them anymore this has been life-changing in a good way for many of us we we needed this wake-up call because we are too good to keep going through this with these type of demons and the experience is an ultimate wake-up call because where we're going wrong at is we're not understanding how much of a blessing we are when we bring our presence into these people's lives we're blessing them with our presence y'all this is why you remain no contact you don't you don't want to bless them with your presence any further once you see it don't try to unsee it don't try to unsee it blessing somebody with it with your presence means that you're you're you're putting an emphasis on the idea of being fortunate or favorable and special in that person's life you're putting an emphasis if you if you say you are blessing somebody's presence you're basically saying yo you bring so much favor and light in my life just like you did that narcissist you know you did they don't have to give you credit for it you know the truth stand on it come on let's be real here you blessed them with your presence brother hype man nerve for the word thank you for the super chat empaths are imperfect but are not evil narcissists are imperfect and are evil mommy so true you are so awesome and thank you for doing what you're doing thank you so much god bless you you're absolutely right because we went through the same things guys there's no excuse you're absolutely right thank you so much for dropping that you know learning to have gratitude because you see the good that you brought this is not to brag this is not to drag anybody's name through the mud this is all just facts because at the end of the day you know the positive impact you bring to people's lives so just imagine the positive impact you bring to a narcissist life because that narcissist ain't got no life they don't have a life until you come along okay they don't have a life until you come along so they they they they should be fortunate to have you but of course they're a narcissist they're not they they don't work like that but you need to know how fortunate anybody is to have you this is where we go wrong and let's start literally standing 10 toes down on the beings that we are by protecting it this is this is the ultimate lesson for me where I'm at now I'm like yo I have so much gratitude because I know the being that I am I know what I have I know I know the size of my table what's on it what I can put on it what I'm capable of putting on it I know but when it comes to the other person whatever the relationship dynamic is it's up to me to make sure that they are worthy of me and there is so much gratitude that comes with this because you're acknowledging how unique you know you are having gratitude waking up and and affirming statements of self-love and putting self-love out in the atmosphere man the unique qualities that bring all of the things that you have in your life some of you are blessed beyond measure you don't even understand how you are the way that you are it's because of the being that you are you carry unique qualities and part of that involves how you affirm things you speak life into yourself into others many of you in your worst times is when you are doing the best for other people so you are so blessed even though you've been through narcissistic abuse you still are blessed you still manage to be blessed because you are a gift in this life they went wrong trying to dim this trying to play with this trying to alter this about you because we all know you had them counting counting their stars we all know you were their silver lining come on let's be real because you supported that that you supported that sob through all kind of craziness all kind of tough times you had an unwavering presence consistently you was loving them even when you couldn't stand them that's how strong your love is you were the anchor in all of their storms you know you were you know you were that's why they're spending forever trying to find someone like you, trying to mold somebody to be like you because they know. They know what they lost. Oh, they know. Oh, they know because you are a constant support of strength and support. You are a constant source of strength and support. You lit up their world. That is what you are naturally. Everywhere you go, as soon as you speak, as soon as you step in the room people love your light you light up the world and where they went wrong at is now they gotta they gotta live and die in darkness nobody out there cares about that narcissist the way you did nobody out there is willing to do the things that you have done for that person I'm talking sexually and everything let's keep it real some of y'all were satisfying these people who aren't even satisfiable you are doing things with them and they have issues that they can't even tell the truth about because it's shameful you stayed down and dealt with it put up with it because for many of us we're empaths when it comes to sex it's not like that for us we're not we're not very sexual at least for me I don't know I'm speaking for myself I'm a super empath sex does not faze me it really doesn't because my sexual energy is high I know I can tear your ass up so if you don't match my level number one you're a turnoff you're a turnoff number two because sex is not a priority for me i don't go looking for you to be perfect in your sexual areas and narcissists love people like that because they're coming to you with all these defects and issues and health problems and and bastards snoring at night like a damn bear only you have the patience enough to deal with it. This is a three second man, but only you have the type of spirit to stay married to it. Y'all see what I'm saying? Narcissists need people like you because you are the only one empathetic enough to overlook their flaws for real, for real, and take them for who they are. Because when you look back at it, you notice how crippling they were and you were still messing with them. You realize how small the dingaling was, but you were still playing with it i'm telling y'all i'll be talking about myself sometimes i'll be like damn girl you'll be you'll be taking a lot of crap you ain't got no business take what's wrong with you that's super empath overly nice ass people pleasing bullshit and get you in trouble with these narcs man because they love people like us we're willing to overlook a lot of things because we're not we're not petty we're not looking for certain things it's not like that's that's the last thing i'm looking for to any an empath is just looking for someone they can connect with emotionally vibe with most normal people i think that's what they should want but hey whatever i guess we don't live in a normal world right the sex and the money and all that typically empaths are not worried about that because number one we got our own money most of the time and number two sex it's not it's not because we know what we bring in sexually i'm just gonna say that typically empaths are the one who bring the freakiness because we're pleasers we don't worry about you lacking in those areas because we're pleasers we're gonna make sure to teach you some ---- i'm gonna put you on game i'm going to have you shaking toes curling convulsing that's what an empath gonna do to your ass that's why y'all heard a lot of them call you stuff like you know you're my treasure and you are this and you are that yeah they meant all that you gave stuff to them in ways they'll never have you you allowed them some of us man we allow them to do a lot of things to us y'all we did we did and that comes from our own broken our own brokenness and our own freakiness okay we're not gonna get in debt with it we're not gonna get in debt with it oh my gosh man it's it's it's crazy because you can't help who you are but you can better yourself you can get better from going through this and one thing I know you can't be a doormat unless you lay down you can't be nobody's damn doormat unless you lay down where we went wrong at is we made them think we could be a doormat or that we were a doormat but we didn't mean to because again we're just showing love we're just trying to be there with whatever support whatever but this sick person registers it as an opportunity because they are opportunists it sounded good it looked good then this shared fantasy bs gets formed in their sick ass head and then here you are you know bonding and thinking y'all in love and that that's not what the hell it is that's not what the hell it is and when they wake up to you waking up to the fact that you are not settling you're not putting up with it you're not nobody's doormat this is when all hell breaks loose and then this is when they really go out bad because now they're in panic mode one of y'all gotta go now somebody's gotta go you know and gosh I I just I just had to come in and and and share this perspective because it is so true it is so true and if it's true for you hit that like button if it resonates you know what you gave you know what you did you also know how much better it's making you and it's making you man hit that like button because you you are the winner you were always the winner because you didn't go into it fake you didn't go into it fake man you're dealing with a fake person but a real coward fake person but a real coward you know crazy but it's true love from Nigeria hello my friend how are you Philomena so good to see you shout out to Naija yeah awaken homo how are you so good that you're here i love seeing you in the live so good you're here oh man thanks shout out to all of you who were singing along with me as i was butchering those lyrics with sheer earlier oh man misty green i'm having problems with a nigerian narcissist ex-husband stalking oh if they ain't stalking they ain't a narcissist, I'm gonna tell you that right now talking about a sore loser man, just just keep ignoring and block them if you can keep dodging them if you can, that's all I can tell you that's all I can tell you, live from Houston, Texas, okay Mr. Green, Houston, Texas baby I always think about Beyonce when I hear Houston Texas, I don't know why that's that's always comes in my head, I went wrong ignoring red flags, says Ronald Coleman, whoo, I'm telling you, I'm telling you letting our empathy just just let us just fall right into the devil's nest, oh Jesus, oh my god, vampires uh sucking energy, wickedness as DJ Jaz Richards, yeah absolutely, oh oh my god we went wrong by being too loving and too kind but they taught us the toughest lesson, we ain't saying we ain't gonna keep doing that, that's what we're not gonna keep doing, you know we're not gonna keep bending over backwards for people who don't appreciate folks like us, it's it's it's unnecessary the gratitude for the lessons, that's where I'm at grateful, grateful because even though we went wrong and made those decisions we are still standing and some of us are doing better than we've ever been, we're in a better place than we've ever been because of that, it's almost like you had to, you had to make that mistake, you had to, you had to fumble on your own two feet and wake up and realize what you were doing what needs to stop and what you need to continue, what's working, what's not working and what do I need to change it was necessary for a lot of us because a lot of us we come from this, we were raised by this we've normalized these things because it's been so normal in our communities you know India X said I went off of his looks and I let too many red flags slide yeah man y'all see we went wrong we did and we take accountability for that we do we do yeah there's so much empowerment and accountability there's so much empowerment in knowing where you went wrong what you did wrong you know because here's the thing we're healing from trauma guys and all we can do is take it one day at a time take it one lesson at a time and process it so that we don't continue to feed the cycle but rather breaking it so if you are here this is where you're at and you are you are in thriver mode i'm proud of you keep going keep going keep building you know keep building on yourself don't give up on you she said i thought i found my soulmate he pretended to be an artist I'm an artist. Mirroring. Mirroring who you are to the T. That's why I said they will deceive you because it's not that we were that weak or stupid. They are very deceptive, very wicked. Some of these narcs studied you for a long time before they came and approached you. They've been watching you, learning you, listening to you, learning every little detail about you, telling you definitely cared and believed in them Sarah Wright said they made me isolate myself now I'm lonely but I'm safe ain't that ain't that real ain't that real we where we went wrong at put us right where we need to be in a place of isolation it made us run away from our families our hometowns our husbands our wives we had to run for our lives because this is life and death this is life and death and and where we went wrong at we we put we stepped into a place of death we stepped into a dark cloud that could have could have killed us could have took us out did destroy us in a lot of ways definitely did that but like princess says in here they failed because they are confused demons you know at the end of day we were real you can't take that from one you can't take that from any real one you can't take that from no real one man you were real that's why at the end of it you the one hurting and they somewhere unbothered because they were fake the whole time none of this mattered they never cared you did all the caring you did all the loving it was all you even though it may have been a mistake it's going to put you right where you need to be in life many of us this this this this gave us a a shake that we can never forget we'll never forget this experience but it's a good thing it's a good thing y'all know y'all know I gotta go in here and start the blocking oh thank you for the super chat let's see who this is Ronald Coleman oh thanks for keeping it 100 with us about your life and struggles much respect for sure oh thank you so much Ronald hey I got to that's the whole purpose of this channel for me to not just share the knowledge but show you what it's like to be a human being on this side of things and let you know you're not by yourself and let you know that you will get through this we will get through it imperfect we're imperfectly healing we're imperfectly on this journey it is what it is we're humans as hell what we're not going to do is keep beating ourselves up for being that because that's what we were we didn't know we were dealing with inhuman people but baby when we learned we got the hell on though didn't we some of us we ain't never seen no bigger demons some of us this is the only demons we've ever came across and we'll never unsee what we saw you'll never unsee what you saw he tried to destroy me but God made me love whoo the testimony Lisa Billings I'm stronger and at peace after healing from toxic relationship i love it i love it oh my god i love it amazing oh man James Steele look i'm a narcissist it's hard to control our behaviors i know i'm wrong though even though I still want to do it yeah we and we know that we understand that and we're learning that that's why we're learning that we got to leave y'all alone it would be nice that y'all would leave us alone though it would be nice you know instead of putting these kind of comments in on content that you actually catch yourself when you're when you're doing dirty and doing wrong to people it'll be nice when you guys make the decision to not drag people into your world because you know you're not going to pour good into them stop pulling good people into your world if you know it's hard for you to control your fucked upness that's all I'm saying that's all I'm saying do us the favor and and stop deceiving us to be friends with you girlfriends with you wives and husbands with you when you have nothing to give back to us that's the problem nobody cares about you being a narcissist but do that ---- by yourself we're tired of innocent people being victimized and then we have to turn around and use our empathy to feel sorry for you because you're a narcissist no no no no no no no no no the damage is already done it could have been avoided it could have been avoided this is why many of us sit here and talk the way we talk about narcissists because there's no excuse there's no excuse and it's hard to feel sorry for y'all when we have to sit here and and repair the damage that you caused because damage you cause is done to protect you it's about you you you you you so why don't you leave us alone i think it's very simple mathematics but when it comes to narcissists ain't ---- simple because common sense is definitely not that common for them and i'm sorry i'm not trying to i'm not trying to this ain't this ain't coming from no it's just facts the truth hurts definitely gonna hurt a narcissist but i'm not trying to hurt your pride definitely not trying to hurt your pride this is a place of learning so narcissists are not if you are not willing to face yourself just like we're facing ourselves because we went wrong ******* with you you're not willing to face yourself this is not a place for you i'm gonna tell you that right now Desire Desire or Desire i'm sorry Desire i think Desiree Strong thank you so much for all that you do narcissist free no contact 14 months look at you i love it i love it because i know you're you're in a better place you're happier you're just you know you feel free I love it for you I absolutely love it for you all the testimonies James Harvey says you can't tear me up oh Alan Zamora the value of our lives is not on the discount rack oh it sure ain't it sure ain't we're not we're not you can't play with our lives like that and you know a lot of us we gotta apologize to them for letting them think that they could do that i'm so sorry that i let you think that i was that fool like baby the only apology you owe a narcissist is that i am so sorry that i made you think that i was your narcissistic supply because if i knew anything about that ---- you would have never got this close supply i remember the first time i heard about narcissistic supply i was like what diamond trophy girl the balls was bigger than the ding-a-ling shaking my head i was like what the okay so i'm not the only one okay so i'm not i'm not as embarrassed anymore okay i ain't the only one who fucked up like that okay because i was like oh what is i ain't even gonna i ain't even gonna be no b-i-t-c-h like that because that wasn't my initial expression i ain't gonna lie it wasn't it wasn't it wasn't my initial expression i didn't even i didn't even pay attention to it to it being like that until the person exposed how demonic they were and they tried to come for me because I'm an empath and and you know we we break up we separate you go your way I go my way I'm not not trying to dog you and and talk about how small you were none of the like but if you want to take me there and that fool did by exposing his covertness and it made me expose it made me expose the little nuts that was hilarious I needed that laugh thanks girl Tasha G my whole family are narcissists oh the comments are disappearing y'all are going hard right now damn I can't even catch up damn damn damn okay hold on let me see let me see let me see um all that couple would be in a Scorpio looks like what she said Desiree oh lord talking about these signs and these narcs I don't know if signs matter a narc is just terrible whether whether Scorpio Leo Virgo but some of them are worse than others and I think I just named the top three worst narcissists oh god let's see somebody on here said they 13 what alicia oh my gosh these comments you don't have to place somebody on a pedestal to show them you love them no you don't have to you definitely don't have to dakota k what's up i overgave says india x man what i had to really forgive myself for how how i was i used to be like that like i'm no longer like that thank god that's why this last situation ship did not last long because i've really learned a lot like even if you come and try to trick me a little bit i am so in tune with some ---- i i make narcissists very very uncomfortable now and i see that but i love it i love it because where i went wrong at i ain't never going wrong there again you hear me we ain't gonna keep doing this we're not gonna keep feeding this cycle i'm telling y'all we're breaking it is we're not doing it not gonna keep doing this i've been on this healing journey a little too long to keep letting these demons come and interrupt interrupt me and distract me and and and fool me no i've been doing good and i'm not gonna let it happen again we're not going backwards we're not going backwards platinum 777 said i'm hitting like a thousand times if only we could right that would be so awesome thank y'all for the you know the likes and the support and everything like that i really appreciate it um my goal when i'm on live i try to get to 100 likes sometimes we make it sometimes we don't but let's try to get to 100 likes let's try to get to 100 likes if we can before i hop off of here sarah says i got one in jail oh jesus misty j mines won't leave you got a narcissistic leech somebody said watching from kenya these comments are just bouncing they're just going away so y'all bear with me y'all bear with me just because you can't see them stalking you they are somebody says hello from charlotte how you doing how are you doing he's stalking hard i'll be like i see you peeking but i ain't speaking diamond trophy we love you girl you remind me of queen leandria y'all be cutting up oh my god oh man so much love to you guys uh i can't reciprocate i must vacate says viewers watching y'all are on this sunday i promise gotta go gotta go it's like you once you realize you messed up boy you'll be ready to you'll be ready to fix it. You ready to pack up, get on. Man, a lot of us, true empaths, it's not hard for us to cut off a narc. It's not. I ain't gonna lie. It's not. Especially a super empath, it's not hard for you to cut off a narcissist because by the time you even get to the point where in your mind you have to cut them off, you don't want nothing to do with them. It's very easy to walk away. It's relieving actually when you get to that place mentally you're like you know what mentally I have vacated I put my 30-day notice in ASAP mentally right it's like it's just it becomes easy it becomes easy Megan Elliott thank you so much I appreciate the compliment it's just like yo somebody said do we ever fully heal man honestly I don't think that there is a hundred percent healing but there is is a place where you can get to where you are living a happier fulfilled healthier life it may not be a hundred percent because you always gonna get triggers you know you could be happy for the next five ten years feeling like you're healed and then one day you might go outside and a familiar scent will have you will have you triggered a familiar song could have you triggered the way we're set up as humans it takes a lot it takes a lot to heal from this type of trauma you're not going to ever be the person you were before you even got you know deep into this type of trauma you can heal and become a better person happier more fulfilled more joyful but a hundred percent I don't know if that's realistic because there's so much damage that comes with this so healing is when you get to a place where you manage you manage yourself you manage who you've become you manage the life that you have recreated because you have to recreate and rebuild a life to heal you know you have to you have to change a lot and and adapt to a lot and oh it's it's it's definitely deep but if you can be consistent for at least two years and do the work on yourself that it takes to heal you can come close to that full recovery and you'll be surprised it takes doing the work it really does i hope that helps i hope that helps um let's here i'm gonna read a couple comments and then i'll let you guys go there's so much engagement thank y'all i appreciate you guys being here it's always so cool to see your thoughts and your you know what's on your mind as i'm speaking and sharing things and um it was just so good if anyone who's watching the replay you know hit the like button drop a comment share your thoughts we like to know what's on your mind but um i pray that i helped somebody i pray that i motivated a thriver to keep going you know to to remember to wake up and remind yourself how awesome you are remind yourself what a beautiful person you are and why it got you into what you got into but forgive yourself move on and and don't allow it to destroy your core being don't because I know this crap hurts it does this pain should have destroyed you it should have darkened your heart but it's impossible God dwells inside of you and there's nothing anybody not a narcissist there they can't do nothing about it they can't do nothing about it Elsie Mooney thank you so much you guys are so sweet you guys are so sweet oh god shout out to those of you who needed this word today I appreciate you giving me an ear to listen you know and just digesting the words I pray that it helps you on this journey continue to do what you're doing to stay on course reach out to me if you need to talk reach out to me if you need to book a life coach session you know i'm a support i'm here to i'm here to help you as much as i can you can you can find me on whatsapp text me i have a text number text me on there let's talk sometimes you know um but take care of yourself wholeheartedly take care of yourself and know that it is okay you are going to be okay It is also their loss. You are a winner. Stand up like one. Keep walking up with your head high like one. You are a winner. Don't let them tell you otherwise or make you feel otherwise. That is what they want. Don't let your mistake keep you in the trauma. Understand why your judgment is all messed up. Maybe you have childhood trauma that needs to be dealt with. Understand the story behind your story. Understand the why behind your story. Keep working on you. That's how you become a winner out of this don't sit there and dwell in the sorrow and the sadness and continue to beat yourself up for the rest of your life that's what you're not gonna do you know d lovely said that's deep and scary at the same time y'all talking about diamond diamonds the diamonds been going crazy in this chat i'm gonna have to go back and replay and listen to all of it courtney blake thank you for being here thank you for being here um i appreciate you guys thank you guys for ignoring all the narky people in the chat you know all the all the demonic bs we know they're always gonna come we can't have a mommy so true live without some mad people in the comments it's okay it's okay we know john we know you need attention we know your little demon baby ass need attention much love to everybody though what y'all doing the rest of the rest of the day hopefully relaxing chillaxing enjoying some some good family time alone time tv time park time whatever it is. Hopefully you're out there pouring into yourself. Alyssa. Oh gosh. Let me see. Alyssa dropped me a super chat. You're doing great things for the world. Your knowledge on this subject is much needed. Thank you from all of us. We love mommy. So true. You guys are so amazing. Thank you guys. Alyssa, God bless you. God bless you. You know how to touch my heart. Oh man, you guys are so amazing thank you guys for being here with me for me you know being here for you because you're not here for me you're really here for you that's how i see it i see that we really genuinely care about our lives that's why we're here we care about our life we care about our life and that's why we're here so keep shining keep thriving guys i appreciate you so much until next time y'all stay blessed we are going live tomorrow night 9 p.m eastern time let's check in tomorrow let's check in tomorrow let's check in as much as we can because that's where we're at now i am so ready to to to jump on here as much as i can now y'all gonna be seeing me so much and i am so ready because we are going up up up we are going to intensify the healing journey a little bit and move up up up we're going to accelerate this process a little bit because these demons got us messed up y'all but we're here to shut them down so let's go keep thriving stay blessed stay true everybody much love thank you for being here once again i'll see you soon until next time guys take care bye