Your Narcissistic Mother is in Shock Because You Blocked Her! #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Your mother set you up to fail. She wanted you to struggle. She wanted you to scrape. She wanted you to bleed. She wanted the ******* worst for you. That's why she made your life so ******* hard. That's why she bullied you all those years. She had envy against her own daughter. Envious and jealous. Didn't want to see you do better than her. Even though she gave birth to you. And it's only natural for a mother to want to build her daughter up to be better than her, to supersede. Because see, mom will die one day and mom will have to pass down the torch. And what a beautiful thing to pass your torch down, knowing you raised a healthy, loving, self-loving, worthy young woman, responsible young woman. But if you abuse her, break her self-esteem and confidence from early childhood, set her up to fail, cripple her financially, gossip about her like a dog. And not only that, you don't protect her. You don't protect her from predators. You don't protect her from men because you're male-centered and very misogynistic. You want your daughter to fail. And because your daughter actually loves you, your daughter will keep trying with you over and over again every time you knock her down. She will keep trying based off of loyalty, based off of her good heart. She has a pure heart based on the fact the family has pressured her to stay loyal to you despite your demonic attempts to break her spirit. The daughter will keep trying, but you know what? There's always a cutoff date. Everybody, everybody gets to their limit. And because the evil narcissistic mother is so full of herself, so arrogant, she just knew her daughter would stay and keep coming back. no matter how poorly mom treated that daughter she convinced herself my daughter ain't going nowhere i can always bully her and mistreat her i can always compare her to my son and other kids treat them better and ---- on her and she will always show loyalty and come back no matter how badly i treat her that's what your mother has convinced herself but oh no no no everybody has their limit what your mother didn't realize was that you were contemplating for many many years to cut her off you just needed the strength to go through with it you said one day she keeps treating me like this one day i'm going to cut her off and treat her like she's dead i don't care how bad she suffers. I don't care if she ends up in the hospital. I don't care what happens. My family better not call me because I've had enough. I've been loyal. I've been there for her. When my other siblings turned their back and they selfishly didn't want to help me, my mom always could depend on me financially, but she treated me the worst out of my siblings. One day, I'm going to cut her off. She doesn't think that I have the strength, the courage to do it, but I am. Oh, but I am. And that dreaded day comes, y'all, because she keeps setting you up for failure. There's so many different bully tactics. She might kick you out on the street. That's why I tell y'all, you've got to have your own everything. You have to be 100% financially independent. Her name cannot be on any of your bills. Her name cannot be on your loans. It can't be on anything, not even on your children's, nothing, insurance, nothing. You have to be independent of your mama so that she cannot control and or throw anything in your face when things don't go her way. OK, because financial abuse is another form of control. She can control your finances. She could, you know, she's helping you pay your car, your mortgage, your rent, paying for daycare. she's helping you babysit your children that is a form of control it's financial abuse and she will dangle it in your face to leverage her power over you don't give her that power when that dreaded day comes you know after she's tried to cripple you kick you out on the streets talk about you like a dog to everybody I've never seen a mother trash talk her daughter I mean with everybody she'll talk about you to your siblings she'll talk about you to other families she'll talk about you to men she'll talk about you to her girlfriends like you never came out of her womb it's almost like you're a side chick you're the other woman and she hates your ******* guts so she'll get out here and trash talk her own daughter and destroy your reputation she's not trying to protect you at all if you let me tell you something if you share any personal business with your mama or secrets things you don't want people if you confide in your mama with your personal business and she hates your ******* ass she gonna tell your business to everybody and she wants you to look stupid out here because she does not look at you as her child she looks at you as the other woman that she has to constantly compete with and pull down so that she can feel like she's above. It's very sick. And yes, it's a form of mental illness. And she will also tell everybody you're mentally ill. Imagine that. Imagine being abused as a child all the way up into your adulthood. And now you have post-traumatic stress disorder, which is a form of mental illness, a mental disorder caused by a bully parent. They're bullying you and making in front of you calling you mentally ill but they caused your mama caused your your mental problems she caused your emotional trauma she's the reason you're in therapy and now she's laughing and bullying you and spreading gossip about that too and when you go to therapy and you get evaluated you're going to learn that you have all these other issues that should have been dealt with in childhood like autism and adhd but your mama failed to get you any treatment for that when you were a child she failed you for that too but yet she'll tell everybody you're mentally ill she's the root of your mental issues but she doesn't want to be held accountable she'd rather get out in the streets and make fun of you and gossip about you and tear down your reputation you will reach your limits your mama don't see it coming but she about to get cut the **** off and when you cut her off she's gonna be blindsided because trust me her ego she wasn't expecting it she just knew she groomed and trained you to be a ******* dog to take on her abuse and for you to stay put you are to take she's sadistic you are to take this abuse and keep your ass right here and if i kick you out in the streets and tell you to come back you are to come back and i hope while you're out in the streets you're treated like ---- too and and and so much that you want to come back And I will let you back, but I'm going to treat you worse than what I did before. You are my slave. See, she don't see the cutoff coming. But when you cut her ass off, it's going to blindside her. And she's going to get desperate. She's going to stalk. She's going to send people to stalk you. Family members are going to be monitoring you and calling you and trying to guilt trip you. When I say you got to shut all that down, even to the point you got to get police involved, threaten your mama with police for stalking threaten family members that do her dirty work threaten them with police you gotta shut it down your mama didn't see it coming and don't feel bad when you block her and the rest of your family for helping her don't look back God will elevate you once you set those boundaries God bless y'all