Your Mother is a Fake Church Leader #covertnarcissist #narcissist

Your mother is a fake-ass leader. Yes, she is. In this video, I'm going to talk about triangulation, how a very toxic, abusive mother triangulates her children to maintain a toxic leadership role behind closed doors. See, the rest of your family and outsiders don't see your mom for who she is. They don't see her doing the manipulation and pitting her children against each other, okay? she hides that from the public she hides that from her church community she don't want people to see that nasty side of her showing favoritism with one child and beating up and bullying another child okay she keeps that hidden but she will triangulate her children in early childhood this starts at a very young age playing favorites with one child and harming her other children and then allowing the child that she loves and favors to sit there and laugh and think it's cool. She's teaching that child how to be a bully. Let's get into it. See, she's a fake leader because she plays a toxic leader behind closed doors to maintain control of her children. But when she gets outside in the public eye, when she gets in front of the family and when others from the outside are watching her she wants to pretend to be a leader that's about peace and unity and she wants her family together she wants her children together no bitch i'ma clock this behavior today and baby if you play this video around your mother and she gets an attitude that means she's motherfucking guilty of the ---- i'm talking about in this video so **** her she needs to cut her bullshit out and she probably will not because you know when your mom's a narcissist that's a permanent disorder she's not going to change ain't no amount of therapy ain't nothing but death going to cure that behavior so i advise you to get the **** away from her see early childhood and your teenage years your mama thought it was cool to play favoritism for those of y'all that um and there's different dynamics let's just say you're an only child right if you were an only child if you were an only child and i need to do more videos on only children and twins because it happens with you know when when you have a twin brother or sister it happens with that too the parent will split y'all and uh favor one twin and bully and punish the other twin turning the twins against each other is very common it's just not talked about but if you're an only child and your mother is a narcissist what she'll do she'll triangulate you and pit you against your cousins your cousins that are the same age as you she'll play favorites with your cousin and ---- on you okay to to to make you feel insecure and to keep you you know um jumping through hoops for her validation my my mom favors my cousin more what do i gotta do to make my mom see that you know i i love her and i'm better than my cousin mom plays these mind games and pitch you against family members and your cousins to get you to you know she's trying to keep you in a set position keep you sat and gathered and and worshiping her she wants you to idolize her so she can feel like she's in control she needs external validation that's how insecure she is she's got to play these ******* games and pit you against family members just so you can keep jumping through hoops to validate her and her fragile ego that's the mindset of a narcissist now when you're a young child and you have brothers and sisters you have siblings close in age again um ladies she might favor your brother that's why we have an epidemic of toxic men who who are misogynistic right now men that don't take care of their babies men that bully and why do you think the domestic violence rate is so high when men putting their hands on women men are jealous and intimidated by women it starts with mommy mommy babies and coddles her little boy she allows him to get away with everything meanwhile she treats her daughter like ---- you are the Cinderella in the household cooking cleaning you are you are being parentified your mama is forcing you to babysit take on heavy responsibilities as a teenager as a child you have no business you know carrying the load that's your mother's job but you know she won't she won't tell your brother to do a goddamn thing he don't gotta lift his finger he ain't gotta do ---- and it's unfair um so if your mama favors your brother he's the golden child he'll grow up with this entitlement issue and um it always goes back to mom well mom let me get away with this and mom mom you know when i'm being toxic and cheating on my girlfriend or my baby mama mom got my back mom will cover for me but let you do something she's on your ass that's triangulation playing your children against each other or or ladies it it could be um your sister okay your sister if it's your sister she will pitch all against each other to compete she will tell your sister she's prettier than you better than you more successful your sister attracts men she's going to turn your sister into a male-centered pick me and your sister don't even know it she's hard on you whatever you do college whatever they're going to turn their backs and look down on it even though you are more successful than your sister you're going to end up outshining her and your mama ain't going to like it and your mama will not praise you okay when you when she knows she should and she's going to pay for that in the long run because your sister's going to end up being the bum out of out of y'all family your sister's going to be the least successful and and and the ******* unproductive bum and she has no choice but to but to live with your mama or live off your mama be a leech off your mama because she can't be independent and do it on her own and that's how your mama trained her but they mad at you because you got away and you did better so understand that your mama plays this toxic leadership role behind closed doors but she does it where nobody from the outside can see it because she knows it's wrong she knows it's toxic she knows it's manipulation she knows it's abusive to all her children involved even the child she spoils it's abusive to that child because she's training that child to be entitled and be a ******* spoiled monster and when that child gets out into the world and expects the world to treat her that way she's gonna **** around and find out the world ain't gonna treat you and bow down to you bitch go home to your mommy go home to your mommy where she can control you and let you have your way the rest of this world the real world is gonna kick your motherfucking ass you come with that entitled bullshit get the **** out of here now the fake ---- with the outside when your mama gets to the outside world let's say church she's in the church or she's doing community service she gets around her friends and family she puts on a leadership role um where she thinks you know she's she's about peace and unity that's fake as **** fake ass bitch when family and outsiders notice that there's something um like in my family they know by now that i don't **** with my mother my brother doesn't they my family noticed that my mother there's something wrong with her children because none of her children talk to each other so that's a reflection of her bad parenting and she has to do damage control to prevent people from pointing fingers at her because a true narcissist cannot handle criticism they can't handle the truth about their own toxic ******* behavior so when the family and outsiders start noticing wait a minute why are her kids her adult children they don't that you never see them together you know they're not even uh following each other on social media they they they not together what's going on oh i wonder what's going on then your mother will go into damage control she puts on her fake leadership cap in front of everybody i tried to bring my children together it hurts my heart that they're not together and and you know i i don't know where i went wrong i'm so broken she plays this ******* role of victim when she knows she's the she's the reason why her kids are not ******* speaking a fake ******* leader to to the outside community she wants people to think she she's about unity and peace amongst her children when she caused the ******* chaos and division in the first ******* place ******* fake ass bitch what i will tell you to do is stand your ground and stay away from her as the truth comes out the outsiders the church community your family people are going to put two and two together they're going to connect the dots and they're going to figure out she's the problem and she's going to slither underneath the rock like the snake she is and god's going to get her ass for destroying her own family that's proverbs 14 1 if you don't believe me have a blessed day, y'all.