YOUR SIBLINGS ARE ANGRY BECAUSE YOU REFUSE TO BE CONTROLLED BY YOUR PARENTS! #narcissist #npd

Your brother and sister are being controlled and your brother and sister are very pissed off at you because you got away. They're mad that they don't have the strength that you do to cut your ******* parents off. Matter of fact, your entire family. Let's talk about your sibling and their toxic relationship with your toxic parents. Now, this video is not referencing everybody's parents. My content is built on narcissistic abuse, narcissistic personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, that is the sociopath, psychopath, okay? So, if your siblings, if you have a very strained relationship with your siblings or non-existent relationship with your siblings, 100% of the time it's because of the parent. You have a narcissistic mother or father, or like me, both of my parents are narcissists. Most of your childhood and adulthood is spent with you being triangulated against your siblings. You are the scapegoat child. And if your mother or father favors your brother and sister more than you treat them better, then they are the golden child. OK, that is the role. The golden child is the child that is spoiled and favored. And the scapegoat child is the child that is punished, bullied, parentified. Parentified, okay, parentification meaning you're forced to be an adult. As a child, a teenager, your parents will force you to get a job and take care of the families. Like you become the third parent in the household. They rob your childhood from you, and they turn you into a parent. That's parentification. Yes, if you've gone through any of this, and this is your role in your family, chances are your parents are narcissists. And your siblings, you know, in the eyes of your parents can do no wrong. they triangulate and they play their children against each other too it's it's a power play so that you know number one your parents are deeply insecure so to to have their children pitted against each other triangulated against each other means that they can keep control maintain control of each child um and it's it's validating you know that each child hates each other and they each will run to mom and dad complaining my brother said this about me mom why do you do this in favor of my brother why do you do this for my sister when she talks about me behind my back she did this to me and mom will play mom and dad will play both sides of the fence and keep secrets and then take those secrets and use them against you and gossip about you to your siblings okay this is how they keep y'all divided up it's it's a ******* chess game a manipulation um but it's validating it validates the parent's ego look at my kids fighting and calling on me for help you know it's when your parents are narcissists they everything they do is for external validation and that's why they pit their children against each other triangulation but here's the thing you know when you the scapegoat child figure out that your parents have been playing this toxic game for your entire life and that is the result excuse me that is the reason why you have no relationship with your brother and sister you're going to cut everybody off because chances are your your siblings are not going to follow behind you and that's for many reasons if your siblings are the golden child they're spoiled and favored by your parents that is to maintain control your your parents spoil them not because they love your brother and sister more than they love you your parents don't love none of y'all true narcissists do not have the ability they can't love they don't love themselves they don't love anybody they can perform they're very performative which means they're great actors and actresses they can act like loving parents and the way that they act like loving parents is they spend money they might buy your brother a new car buy your sister co-sign on a loan to help your sister get a get a townhouse um they're doing something financially to support your toxic siblings that is a form of control which is called financial abuse that's how narcissists show their love it's with money other than that there is no emotional connection to any of their children they're not naturally nurturing, they control the money, you understand or if your siblings have children, they'll spoil the grandchildren and if you have children they will not purchase or buy or do for your children to punish you because your children are an extension of you, if they're bullying and punishing you they look at your child as an extension of you so your child won't get anything, no gifts, no money but they'll spoil all the other grandchildren because those grandchildren are extensions of the golden child, your brother and sister. So when you wake up and decide that enough is enough and you cut your family off because you do not want to be in the midst of the dysfunction and you try talking to your siblings, your siblings don't want to cut your parents off because your siblings like being controlled. Number two, your siblings are ******* lazy. Your siblings are lazy as ****. They don't want to do the internalized work. They don't want to go to therapy. They don't want to cut your parents off, they like receiving gifts and money and favoritism, they like to sit up and listen to your mom and dad talk ---- about you, I'm glad mom ain't talking about me, I'm glad she's bullying you and talking about you better you than me, they like sitting up listening to your parents talk ---- about you, they feel like they're the chosen one, well mom, mom, mom favors me, mom loves me, mom buys me everything, so but see your siblings are ******* stupid, they have arrested development This is called infantilization. I keep screwing up the words. They're infants. They're toddlers mentally. They have arrested development. That's why they do not have the ability to have very strong discernment to see this toxic game of manipulation. It is spiritual warfare. What your parents are doing to all of their children is demonic. It is incredibly demonic and evil in the eyes of God. You're supposed to love each of your children equally. you're supposed to keep your children together, you're not supposed to gossip and tear them down you're not supposed to bully them and your parents forget that God is watching them at all times and how they treat their children and God will punish those parents, that's why it's very important for you to get away get out of the family dysfunction, cut them off so God can ******* avenge he's going to deal with each of them and if your siblings your siblings choose to stay connected to your parents and they know your parents are evil, your siblings are going to go down. It's like a dark cloud is following. I can speak for my family. I know there's a dark cloud following my mother. She's going to pay. She's going to pay for everything she's done. She's got it coming. And if my siblings choose to stand by her side, they are too sharing her bad karma. They are going to go down with her. And this is what I'm saying to you. Your siblings will hate you because you can't be controlled. They are stuck being controlled by your parents and they have the option to leave and let go and cut ties the same way you did. They're choosing to stay because they're greedy, they're lazy, they need the money, they need the favoritism, and they need the validation because your siblings are also narcissists. They too seek external validation. And when everybody is not kissing their ass, they know they can always run home to mommy and daddy to get praises and favoritism to stroke their very fragile ego. Your siblings are ******* weak. And if they choose to stay controlled and connected to a very demonic, narcissistic parent, they too are going to go down with that parent when the time comes. It's going to be their finances. They're going to either get sick or it's going to be death. Nothing good is coming to them for staying connected to a very demonic individual that destroys their own family. But your siblings will hate on you because you got away. And they're watching your life elevate. they're watching you get blessed with money a high paying job a brand new home a life of traveling taking vacations all over the world you're being blessed right in their faces because god said you got out of it because you were smart enough to get out of your toxic family i'm gonna bless you with everything your heart desires while your siblings stay stuck to your abusive parents and they go down and they're gonna be miserable because your mom and dad is miserable and misery loves company. So mom and dad will trick your siblings into believing that they love them more than you. It's not love. It's control and it's abuse. Let your siblings stay stuck or stupid. You continue to elevate. And that's it.