HOW UNBOTHERED PEOPLE MOVE.

How are you doing? Ashley, Renee, what's up sis? Alyssa Williams. Hi. I see y'all checking in family. Thank y'all for being here. I know I missed last night's live, but it's okay. I'm alive and well. And sometimes that happens, right? We got to take care of ourselves. If I sit here and talk to you guys about taking care of yourself and I'm not doing the same, I'm a hypocrite. What makes me different from any narc? Right? So look, I walk what I preach. And I'm really a real one. And so, you know, I encourage you guys to take self-care serious. Sometimes you don't have to show up for everybody, you know, and I'm a strong believer in that. And that's what's bringing me to today's message. We're going to talk about how unbothered people move. It's necessary now. Where I'm at in my journey, it may be where you're at. A lot of you are going to resonate with today's video. if you do of course you know hit the like button share it let's talk don't mind me if i'm not in the chats as much but i really appreciate all of you being here i appreciate the love the support the light um thank you in advance for compliments and you know gifts and all of that i truly truly am thankful for where i'm at in this very moment and want to share with you guys because i believe that the survivors and the thrivers that I've connected to resonate so much with who I am. A lot of you are just like me and a lot of you are becoming unbothered, are learning the philosophy and the power of being unbothered after dealing with narcissists because they thought they left you for dead and you bounced back up. Life is getting better. Things are getting better. You're thriving. You're growing. You are developing in ways that you never even saw before. You are the true winner here the true champion and so before I get any deeper please take a moment like subscribe if you're new you know sit back enjoy take take some time to go sit somewhere peaceful and quiet and listen to what we're talking about this may help you if you are struggling dealing with narcissistic abuse if you're going through any type of pain I want to encourage you today you're in a community where survivors and thrivers live here and the only goal is thriving we're past talking about some of the unnecessary things and now it's on to better it's on to bigger it's now time for us to take our power back which means walk in our most authentic selves and many of you have already been in that place of being unbothered many are getting there many need to get there and so what's up guys it's mommy so chu in the house i want to talk to you on this beautiful afternoon wherever you're at you know no matter where you're at on this journey this message can help you so much if you are struggling take time to listen to this and process this pray on this you know meditate on this and become unbothered master the philosophy of being unbothered if you want to thrive post-narcissistic abuse this is the antidote you have to start learning how to not care like you used to you have to stop stop allowing being an empath to block you in life because sometimes being an empath will hurt you if you don't understand what what being an empath is how you were even created how you got to that personality style or characteristic you know you got to understand these things and for you to be able to move on and thrive without having to look back every six months every year without having to feel that trauma bond consistently months later after you've been discarded without having to feel like your life is stuck and stagnant you must know this powerful antidote here and you must know how to move unbothered you must understand that is what it takes to move on to really heal to really to really accelerate your healing journey you must learn how to be unbothered and we'll talk about this a lot more trust me because this is where i'm at this is where i'm at from survivor to survivor i am full throttle in that unbothered space and i want to break it down and make it make sense for those who may not understand it but i promise you if you are that empath if you are that person who has been people pleasing if you have been targeted by narcissistic people and toxic people you need to learn the power of being unbothered. If you want your life back, you want to take your power back in this situation, you need to learn the power of being unbothered, living unbotheredly and moving in unbothered ways. And so today we're going to talk about how unbothered people move because I encourage a lot of you to get there. Start moving like that. Start moving different. Start thinking different. Start seeing things different. Learn to master how to be unbothered because unbothered people are people who live happy lives every day. People who wake up and feel joy and peace every day, not just once a week, twice a week, every other month, every day. Being unbothered builds a consistent flow of peace, joy, and love in your life because when you're not unbothered when you're bothered you're stagnated when you're bothered you cannot flow freely when you're bothered you beat yourself up because you're worried about what everybody else feel how they think how much they need you and it's draining and when you're being drained guess what you can't do what you need to be doing in this life not for you and really not for the people you think you're helping so how does it how does it benefit us to still be these empathetic people who want to be there for everybody who allow everybody to drain our energy and then when we turn around and we need somebody ain't nobody there nobody seems to care nobody hears you man let's kill all of that let's kill you know sitting somewhere suffering and in sorrow and sadness and feeling empty because we have poured in and we've always been doing that let's change our perspective our mind frame, our thinking. A lot of us, the definition of love is all jacked up. A lot of us, we're confused. We think that we're unconditional lovers. No, you're codependent. You're people pleasing. Unconditional love is not for you to sit around and let the person who keeps stabbing you do it to your face. That's not unconditional love. Unconditional love is not rolling over and allowing a demonic person to continue to use you again lie to you more manipulate you in a different way that's not unconditional love a lot of us need to relearn a lot of things so we can heal our life because our programming has been distorted the definitions of love and no has been completely distorted and that is why we are where we're at but i'm telling you i'm here to help us get out of this hellhole that a lot of us are in. I'm here to help you disconnect that narcissistic matrix that you are living in. A lot of people don't realize that the reason why they're struggling with moving on past a narcissistic relationship, situationship, manipulationship, however you want to put it, however you want to call it, the only reason why you're still struggling because you have not shifted the focus onto yourself. You have not understood that this whole experience taught you about people and that there's a difference in the people in your life, in the people in this world, in the people on this earth. The experience taught you we got light and we got dark. We got light and we got and you have to be able to discern and differentiate where you fit in at and where you don't fit in that. You have to learn how to cut that out of your life. You have to learn how to cut that out of your life so that it does not affect you and keep pulling you down, pulling you in places where you don't want to go a lot of us the answers that we're looking for in life the happiness the joy the fulfillment it's right behind fear it's right behind fear because we're so afraid to hurt people we're so afraid to disappoint everybody we're so afraid to not be there for them afraid to say no that's your mother you only get one you've heard all of this stuff and throughout your life it's created a bothered person empaths are bothered beings let's just put it out there before an empath becomes educated knowledgeable and and receive the empowerment to be a solid empathetic person that's not used and abused they're broken first they allow their energy to just go everywhere to everybody not realizing that's not how it works you're actually hurting yourself you're actually very bothered because you want to be validated you want people to understand you accept you all because you're seeking some type of protection it's trauma that creates an empath just like it's trauma that creates narcissistic people and when you're an empath and you're going through these these vicious cycles of abuse you become bothered this is why people get trauma bonded this is why you have a hard time separating from a narcissist even though they've been beating you up cussing at you lying to you stealing mistreating you and your kids it's like you hear people still saying i miss them and i love them and we're calling it a trauma bond that's because as an empath everything bothers you you're bothered by how people feel how people perceive you how they're affected if they're full they eat you're willing to make sure everybody else is good before yourself you are a highly bothered individual so let me let me teach you how unbothered people move because empaths need to learn how to become unbothered this is how you move on from narcissistic abuse this is how you learn how to stop going on these pages watching repetitive videos that's not taking you anywhere you have to learn how to stop giving enough giving a **** empaths give too many fucks even after the relationship we are still somewhere trying to make sense of the nonsense you're you care you're still caring a little too much about something that's already shown you, it's dead. So let's talk about how unbothered people move. Number one, I just want to make clear, unbothered people accept things as they are. Become unbothered by accepting it as it is. See it for what it is. Stop searching for answers you're never going to get. Accept it as it is. Don't look for someone to validate what you know. You saw it. You're married to them. You saw it. You've experienced the sexual torture and withdrawals. You've experienced the selfishness with money with love with everything you've experienced the competition for no reason every day having to prove yourself by putting yourself down you went through that you don't need nobody to validate and confirm that you were born and raised by narcs and it led for you to date and marry them yeah but now after all of that what's next learn to become unbothered learn to become unbothered and know that this is who that person is they don't need to be given another chance. You don't need to give them another year of your life. You don't need to have another conversation for them to fool you. You already know that's what they do. That's what they're good at. Accept it for what it is and find strength in going no contact because what it is is they're stuck where they're at. This broken jacked up baby will never get it. Brings me to my second point. Unbothered people accept that they can't change nobody. You can't change the situation you can't force them to see how you see it you realize that okay you're just an idiot you're never gonna get it and I don't have time for that I'm not here to be a mama your daddy I'm not here to stick around and watch you grow up no that's how unbothered people move it's not my concern that your parent failed you that's not for me to to address fix none of that a lot of us went into these relationships and we thought man we thought we could help them no stop trying to be captain save a hoe captain save a narc let me say that that's not your job it's none of our jobs because we all get duped dealing with these type of people spending less and less time on your healing journey trying to make sense of what you went through let that be a goal if you have not gotten there let this week be the week where you try your best to spend less time trying to make sense of the nonsense because it's nonsense and until a lot of us accept it for what it is we're never going to get past the nonsense you're never going to get past the nonsense unbothered people when they spend less time focusing on what's not important focusing on you know making sense of nonsense now you're focused on creating an environment with people who are like-minded and not just that you become more solidified in being a being who can determine whether or not people are worth you putting your time and your effort in that is how unbothered people move when you are able to see clearly let me see am I willing to tolerate somebody or not based on how much they're pulling from me based on how much they are expecting me to pour into them a lot of us call this discernment to me this is part of the philosophy of being unbothered when you can discern you can you can remain unbothered because you know when to stop yourself from doing too much for people because you see if they deserve it or if they're worthy of that or not some of us we're lovers we're we are just compassionate like that you can't stop that but you can control who you allow to come in and suck and drain you of that type of light because it's a light that's part of your light to be compassionate such a valuable a valuable attribution a valuable attribution let me tell you something that's very powerful to me about how unbothered people move and this is going to make a lot of you laugh a lot of you may relate can resonate with this the fact that when you're unbothered it's easy for you to let people think you're stupid it's easy to play dumb you know why because when you're unbothered you don't feel the need to prove a point explain yourself be one-upping people unbothered people are mature they move in mature ways they actually they pick and choose their battles very wisely and sometimes unbothered people encounter people and they realize you know what i gotta play dumb with you because you want me to over exhaust myself and try to you know fight back and forth and prove myself i don't need to do that unbothered person will move in a very funny way you will think they're dumb you will think they have a lack of understanding no i'm gonna let you think what you want to think i'm gonna let you move how you want to move because like I said unbothered people know that they can't change nobody I gotta leave you right where you at I don't have time to try to convince you I don't have time to try to talk to you to make it make sense that's not my job I'm just gonna let you think that I don't get it I'm just gonna let you think that I'm not hearing you clearly because I'm not gonna argue and yell at you and try to explain myself when I'm not being heard so if you think I'm dumb go ahead cool we're gonna see who's really stupid but I'm unbothered so I don't have to explain that i'm just gonna let you hang yourself go ahead you got it you won you win congratulations yeah i'll be the dumb one cause unbothered people just don't have the time to waste energy that does not it's just it's just you don't have time when people argue with you you just let them argue by their self that's an unbothered being you just let them talk to their self the one who knows how to remain no contact through hoovers that's that's the unbothered person that person might have pulled up and knocked on your door you don't even care you are not phased i'm unbothered you're not in my radar matter of fact who is this who are you because once upon a time i was bothered and when you were bothered once upon a time this person gave zero fucks they kicked you while you were down they enjoyed ridiculing you embarrassing you humiliation was just their favorite thing to do when it came to you even those of you who grew up in narcissistic family homes your siblings were just bullies mean highly critical households but you grow up to be this being who is unbothered because you've grown resilience from all their torture and as you live unbotheredly you're the one doing good your life is actually going somewhere you are actually you know creating a whole different life because you've learned how to become unbothered some of us have for have been forced to become unbothered in life because of the torture and the bullshit that we go through with narcissistic people and family members you go through so much you try to help so much that you get to a place where you realize okay I really cannot help these people there is nothing I can do for them there is nothing I can say what I need to do is worry about my peace worry about myself worry about my future a lot of people leave their families and go no contact because they become unbothered it's not it has nothing to do with hatred or resentment no it's like I know who y'all are I know y'all been hating me since I was formed in that womb I know I know y'all can't stand the sight of me y'all can't even stand my name and I didn't name myself so you know what I'm going to excuse myself and live an unbothered life while I'm on my healing journey while I'm recovering and rebuilding myself I'm going to live an unbothered life and as time goes on you realize you're healing and you're moving and you're elevating in life. And these stories just become stories. They just become a part of your testimony. As time goes on, you want to address certain things less and less and less because you care less and less and less. It affects you less and less and less. Unbothered people, man. That is the survivor that is now thriving. You cannot thrive without being unbothered. You got to get to a place where it becomes less about the abusers and more about you. learning how to get out of victim mindset victim mode and becoming a thriver and maintaining that oh my god it just feels good to even share this with you guys because like i said unbothered people don't have no point to prove this is the moment where you you you you really just thrive on self-love like you really just only care about protecting your peace living stress-free as possible that is the that's how unbothered people move removing yourself from all drama no matter the person no matter the role no matter the benefits it doesn't matter it's not worth it unbothered you're willing to sacrifice whatever you thought you had whatever you thought was worth hanging on to the unbothered person picks up those scissors and just cut it all off i'll start over i'll start fresh i don't want no attachments i'll walk away i'll cut off whatever and whoever unapologetically that is how an unbothered person moves I'm no longer making excuses for people who don't deserve any parts of me because a lot of us do that make excuses we've made excuses and no more I've been that person no more no more seeing things objectively it's just it just is what it is unbothered people who have gone through narcissistic abuse are the people who have accepted the purpose behind the pain the reason why you had to go through it and what it taught you willing to look at yourself that's the key being unbothered about the narc that's the key they want you to stay bothered they want you to focus on them they want you to keep talking about them nah become unbothered change the subject change the topic you know focus your mind on something else shift the attention elsewhere because you are now living in the present that is how unbothered people move we don't live in the past I'm not worried about how I felt last year I'm not worried about what you took me through five years ago that was five years ago I learned from it I know what it felt like going through it but I'm in the present and in the present moment I'm only interested in my happiness my peace my joy what can I do to get there that's what matters to me that's how unbothered people move I'm not worried about the ifs the what ifs the maybes that they move on are they happy with somebody else are they gonna have karma are they gonna suffer without me do they need me do they love me did they ever love me do they care about me will they ever care about me will they come back next year will they come back in 10 years are they gonna marry somebody else do they love the one they married did they ever even care about the kids unbothered is the person who knows the answer to all of that is hell no hell to the naw it ain't never gonna change hell hell hell hell hell hell naw hella hella hell of no it is what it is let me look forward in my life because an unbothered person knows that making the move to look backwards retracts your healing journey now you're now you're going backwards who the hell got time to go backwards to that kind of abuse not i an unbothered person you don't want to go back to that as time goes on you find a way to obtain strength so that you're pulling away from the past and moving into your future and focusing on your present time because that's what matters the now what did you learn six months ago to affect you now that's how unbothered people move it's not where was I six months ago and let me just stay there because I'm still hurting because six months ago I was hurt no no no an unbothered person is looking at it like you know what six months ago you had me fucked up but now it's April it's a new year it's a new season I am moving on on to the next venture of life on to the next chapter of this book because I don't have nothing back there that I am interested in that ---- is dead and gone these people are people I used to know some of us become so unbothered we literally don't even remember them no more you're just a memory a very faded memory some of us become so unbothered the ruminating thoughts become funny soon as they start creeping in you find a way to kill it off and you laugh about it like oh hell no no i didn't just try to trick myself into thinking i missed them miss what what is that to miss who why the unbothered person gets disgusted when they think about what they went through in the way of you're not worth me thinking about it over and over and becoming obsessed in my thoughts you're not worth me going somewhere and talking about you i'm gonna make a plan maybe take a vacation I'm gonna go somewhere I'm gonna do something with friends I'm going to distract myself because you're not going to live rent free in my mind I'm unbothered I don't want to wake up tomorrow thinking about you some people become so unbothered they limit how much NPD videos they're watching because you don't want to keep triggering yourself and pulling yourself back into that trauma you're over it you're trying to move forward the game is over it's not gonna take a million years of videos for you to get it it is what it is they are who they are and it's time to move on and a lot of people make it seem like you know becoming unbothered is just so undoable and it's just so hard trust me I've been there where it was it was painful but the only reason why it's so painful because you're still giving them all the power and all the credit you still have yet to say you know what let me pour into myself let me change how I look at myself let me stop beating myself up for these mistakes because an unbothered person forgives their self for the littlest things it don't matter what it is it's not worth hanging on to because you're not perfect you're never supposed to be that is the mindset of an unbothered being that bulletproof mindset nobody can can pull you down and keep you down unless you allow them to and they had that power once upon a time but an unbothered person takes that power back I forgive myself for the small mistakes. I forgive myself for giving you my damn phone number. I forgive myself for not noticing that these were red flags, but it's cool. It's cool because I know better now. That's the unbothered person versus someone who is crying about it because they refuse to accept that they dealt with this demonic person. And the fact that it ended means that God has saved you and delivered you from this demonic person and you need to be victorious and happy and shouting and dancing and joyful and grateful thanking god every day for keeping you because he kept you through this mess it's time to stop giving them power and and still allowing the darkness to come in while you're healing some of you you're not even with them anymore and you're still having nightmares and you're still having these feelings become unbothered if you are no contact and you're still struggling emotionally it tells me that you have not become unbothered yet you're still worried about certain little things you're still trying to get closure you're still trying to get answers to things that you're never gonna get you're never gonna make sense of this some of you it don't matter who you watch it don't matter what coach you you see on on the internet you're never going to get it because it's nonsense it's not supposed to be clear what you went through with narcissistic abuse it's not supposed to make sense that's what makes it demonic that's what makes this a spiritual battle if it made sense they wouldn't they wouldn't have gotten they wouldn't have been able to destroy as many people as they have they wouldn't be able to cause the damage that they do so it has to be complicated that's the devil's way the devil operates in confusion and if you sit there and allow the devil to keep pulling you in this confusion while trying to search and figure out and understand there's nothing more to understand y'all you don't need to know the specifics of why a narcissist did something to you how they did it and why that none of that matters i'm gonna tell y'all that right now i used to be stuck in my thoughts and thinking i need to know why and it just doesn't make sense and i got to a point and i'm like actually it makes i understand i don't need i don't need any more information to make it clear that i've dealt with somebody who is wired to be fucked up like in your wiring you're just wired to be a shitty person i can't do nothing about that i and even further i want no parts of that because i'm nothing like that and when that light bulb went off now i just had to take a few months to you know getting myself back just working on me when i radically accepted that damn i ---- i fell in love with the devil ain't that a bitch fell in love with the devil ain't that a but i i what helped me become unbothered was knowledge knowledge linked to understanding empathetic people were very understanding if we if we can apply what understanding means for what we went through because for me i was able to say okay the reason why i fell in love with a demon is because i was raised by one uh-oh that's my personal confession i was raised by one so it was normal it was cute it was okay it seemed all right and so it is what it is but i now i know what I know I forgive myself I am not tripping because God literally delivered me from that and I can't do nothing but spend the rest of my time being grateful and pouring into myself and making sure this does not become a repetitive cycle in my life because I now see how it started where it formulated from I now understand childhood wounds and how it connects and grows with you as you age I now understand how the narc was created how I was created I now understand it's all rooted from trauma which is connected to demonic influence the devil is trauma and an unbothered person that's thriving post-narcissistic abuse that's all we got to understand that okay this has a whole lot to do with the devil i ain't got nothing to do with that i don't want no parts of that we ain't got nothing in common so you know what cool bye deuces have a nice life in the meantime i'm going to focus on my life in the meantime i'm going to learn how to live a life that i was stripped from learn how to pour back in my life and in my world in ways where i couldn't before because narcissistic abuse is you know that's those strict parents my mom was mean growing up no your mom was narcissistic but it's okay you had a dad that did not know how to be there for you it's okay so you know let's heal our lives like from the core if you have not gotten to certain places of your healing journey i encourage you to work with someone let's get clarity on what we really need to pay attention to and stop making irrelevant things and people important in our life it's not about them they've had their chance they've had their moment they've been on this show you know this they've been they've been enjoying pulling you with their clown circus show all this time it's now time for you to walk off that stage unapologetically and unbothered some of you don't even understand how being unbothered will get you away from that situation that you're in so my goodness um I do want you guys to know moving forward after today when I go on live I'm actually gonna turn off my comments um for various reasons every now and then I'm gonna jump on live and allow you guys to you know comment and share but I notice a lot of things about people in this world that we live in and I want you guys to take your healing journey very serious and um one thing I don't want to do is invite evil spirit in my chats because they they be in there they be popping up these narcissistic people be coming in here and they be distracting y'all there are people who need to be listening to these messages but you can't because there's demons in these chats distracting and what I don't have time for is to keep stopping and blocking people so what I'm going to do is just we're not going to have open engagement in lives all the time we're at the point where it's really kind of unnecessary when you see the live replays you can leave a comment I encourage you to still do that but on my lives we're going to focus on the bigger picture we're going to focus on what's important we're going to focus on us and the messages and allow these demons to just sit somewhere you know they can watch it and not be able to say ---- and I like i just i'm becoming unbothered in a way where i don't have time to be triggered inappropriately you understand me and i don't want you guys to be affected in that way because i know a lot of you are here to really heal and you're serious and i see that there's a lot of haters in the world that have nothing but time to come into my lives specifically and try to distract but i'm so unbothered that i'm no longer even going to allow you to to freely enter this community so we're gonna shut that ---- down that's where we're at so no offense to anybody i love the i love the engagement don't get me wrong but we're gonna limit it because i don't want you guys to be in these chats arguing with demonic people and i don't have time to keep calling people out either like that's i'm becoming so unbothered i don't have time for that ---- i don't so if you guys see me less and less in comments and stuff like that trust me it doesn't mean i don't want to engage with y'all it just means i'm i'm an unbothered being and that's just how i move now because it's never been about likes and views and none of that and that's not going to change and the last thing I want to do is pour my energy on social media arguing with people who I don't even know how they look you probably at home with a bald ass head no edges you know 360 wig wearing bitches like I don't got time for y'all haters I don't what Sierra said she said is that your bitch over there giving me that ugly stare with that Brazilian hair like I don't have time for any of y'all miserable self-hate self-hating jealous narky ass people out there like i we are unbothered and we're gonna remain that way so just that's just an fyi like i just want to throw that out there like i invite you guys to you know comment after the live when it when it's replaying but i look forward to jumping back on here monday night we're back to regular scheduling i just had to reset myself i had to get into a different place step into a new dimension and still be authentic and genuine, but come with how I really feel and show you guys where I'm really going with this. This has never been about trying to hurt someone or be spiteful or hateful. No, it's always been about growth from the beginning, but I had to vent and get my stories out and tell y'all where I was at and what I've learned. But now, now it's time to live an unbothered life i've been bothered by this type of pain so long i've allowed narcissistic abuse to keep me depressed it had me i mean anxiety was bad i smoked weed for almost a decade to suppress and cope with all of the ---- that i had to deal with to try to make sense of the fact that my own mother just could not love me and it just it just i could not make sense of a lot of it got to a point where i'm just like what is what am i trying to make sense of it for just need to accept that these motherfuckers are demonic they're retarded they're everywhere they're evil they're harsh they're bullies and i just have to stand my ground i have to just be who i am unapologetically still being the loving and compassionate person i am but with boundaries move on with my happy little life like you know like that's just what it is so i encourage all y'all to just you know keep loving yourself don't give up on you don't give up on your journey learn to become unbothered if you're not there know that it will come too with time if you really are are struggling and you're really trying to get to a place where you don't have to wake up and feel this kind of pain every day trust me it starts with becoming unbothered stop caring as much as you do stop tricking yourself to think about things that really don't matter it don't accept that they are who they are they did what they did but it's not you it's them it's not you it's them let that be that let that constantly ring in your head you're not the problem you never were you never probably will be and now you just need to focus on your life work on you whatever needs to be tweaked tightened you know changed work on that and move on i just had to get that off my chest now i can let y'all go and enjoy y'all you know the rest of your day and stuff whoo let me see let me see if any of these comments are worth reading today before i let y'all go i'm gonna try to avoid the bs because i don't have time for it like i just want to hop off of here go enjoy the sun like barbecue with my home girl you know just i yeah y'all y'all can't bother me these these narcs just they don't bother me i see y'all thank you uh somebody was that Alyssa said something about my haircut thank you the the comments are just popping away i briefly saw it and it disappeared oh yeah you guys are dropping so many comments now i can't even read them damn once you understand that a majority of your triggers were put there by the narcissist you can begin to understand the difference between damn it it went away that was d coomer dang thank you for all the engagement d coomer but your comments are just you guys are going ham in the comments right now i love it and it breaks my heart that i gotta silent my comments for a while but i gotta do what i gotta do because i gotta protect y'all you know being unbothered is so freeing Amirachi thank you for dropping that i love that it is it is it is like when you become unbothered you feel it in your you feel it in your soul feel it in your spirit you see it in your skin i mean like the glow is different the glow is different i'm unbothered now because the new supply got nothing to look forward to now see these are some of the things where you got to accept it you got to accept the facts about what you're dealing with this person ain't moving on doing nothing new with somebody no it's the same you gotta understand you ain't missing nothing you ain't losing nothing this is their loss it will always be they're miserable they're stuck they hate themselves let them enjoy that let them have that misery all to their self bruh and if you are still calling it love and trying to hang on to a narcissist that did you dirty you need some serious help you do because that ain't love you got ---- all the way messed up you need a life coach a therapist you need a pastor something somebody to counsel you and I'm not even trying to be funny I'm not so you know as always I'll let y'all know I'm here as a support I'm here to help you however I can reach out book those sessions um connect and speak with me I'm available email me mommysotrue at gmail.com but I see all of y'all in the chat man Michael Theodore Roosevelt Yancey Coleman Alyssa Williams of course I'm so happy that you're here Kim Acosta thanks for being here today Melody Eckhart what's up lady Alicia thanks for being here today True Seeker 59 I appreciate you I appreciate your vibe all of y'all all of y'all y'all have been amazing Miss C I love you right back Michael Patterson so happy that you're here I hope this message helps you on today keep thriving brother don't give up on yourself just stay on that healing journey it gets better it gets better that unbotheredness that I'm talking about it's gonna come naturally especially if you real and if you start doing the work you ain't gotta go to therapy to do the work start doing it now when you're watching these videos have your own thoughts have your own mind don't let somebody else tell you how to go about this or how to think about this you know what you went through. Accept the truth and now value yourself. Understand your own worth. That is the power of being unbothered. When you learn that, okay, I have worth. I understand my values. I understand what I'm capable of. I am willing to celebrate my own accomplishments. I don't need nobody to validate or tell me nothing. I don't need nobody to support me. God is my support. God is all I need. That comes with being unbothered. When you learn what's really important. These people not important they tried to seem like that but um you guys much love to you i'm gonna go through these comments and do some blocking just for the channel's sake because i do see there's a lot of bs going on today and i apologize for that but i told y'all we gonna shut all that down moving forward because i'm not going i'm not i don't got time for that i don't i don't have that i don't have time for that and a lot of times i know that um the demon that i was dealing with is typically you know behind this and that's why I want a lot of y'all to become unbothered because these people as you thrive and get better the more they're going to come for you the more irritated they're going to be about you the more they're going to be offended by your light the more they're going to be so pissed off that you did not die from what they took you through and this confirms for me demons this confirms for me satan this confirms for me yeah it's deeper than just being disordered they're after your light they hate you for it that's why i said we're taking our power back we're changing the conversation we're no longer making it about them it never was but now it's like yeah y'all can be mad all by yourselves till the day y'all die you know so much love to y'all shout out to my new subscribers i appreciate y'all those who rock with me those who you know understand where i'm coming from and are willing to listen and hear me out i really appreciate you guys um yes i do curse i'm grown yeah i do curse i'm very grown grown grown as hell grown as hell and i'm not your pastor i'm not your preacher none of that i talk how i want to talk that's how unbothered people move i speak how i want to speak i express how i want to express no offense this is just me you know and so i know my community and my channel is not for everybody so if i'm not for you please politely excuse yourself and with that being said i rebuke every devil in the name of jesus until next time y'all i love you guys much light much love keep slaying these demons those of you who are and let's remain unbothered and move up in life michael boyd i see you tonight or this eat this afternoon thanks for being here man craig uh floragram wow that's funny sleazy one cast the devil satan out your hearts and accept the holy spirit yes thank you man of god all right y'all y'all stay blessed man i'm gonna let you guys go i am um this this chat i see it was a lot of bs going on i'm just gonna go now before i start going crazy i ain't got time i ain't got time because there's somebody in here called joe mama who need their ass beat but i ain't got time i'ma just remain unbothered and let that dumb ass go to sleep and and know how stupid they are like you i'm not the one i will embarrass your ass boy haircut these nuts boy let me go ahead and just block that one before i move on y'all i know y'all be looking in these comments laughing though like what who the hell i see some of y'all going back and forth with them don't never waste your time don't ever waste your time and this theodore roosevelt listen you're not my dad okay go raise your own child if you have one bye block like what is wrong with these people ew i'm gone let me go enjoy my barbecue you let me go have me some fun because trust me these people want us to be bothered and it's like if you try to bother me what i'm gonna do is embarrass your ass because that's how unbothered people move don't try to serve me some ---- you can't handle because the way i serve it oh it's i serve big plates my plates are deep you're not gonna be ready for what i'm coming with baby that's why i gotta shut these comments off because i don't want y'all thinking i'm crazy because i am All right, guys. Until next time. I love y'all. Y'all make me so happy. I just, I feel the good energy. I feel the good energy from all of y'all. And I really, I rock with that. But I'll be back Monday night, 9 p.m. Eastern time, guys. Let's continue the conversation. But I love y'all. Stay blessed. Enjoy your weekend. Catch you Monday. All right, guys. Bye.