EMPATHS DON’T DISCARD. WE CUTT YOU OFF ‼️ #empath

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This is my pre-game the prelude what's up what's up welcome in it's your girl mommy so true here to check in with my thrivers my survivors now i know this live was unannounced but i'm here anyway and if you're here you're able to check in i appreciate you thanks for being here this evening but this was so necessary i had to do it i told y'all 2024 i want to be intentional about my lives so i'm gonna be popping up i'm not gonna tell y'all when i'm just gonna pop up i'm just gonna pop up i am so happy those of you who are able to join me on this live i'm happy because i i see someone saying it's their first time they called a live what's up princess i see you justice asari asari is that ghanian hello priscilla's live page hello lady oh man oh you're waiting on my call oh gosh i got you i got you i'm gonna get on i'm gonna get on it tomorrow i'm off tomorrow but i got you i'm recovering um i don't know if it was some type of like laryngitis something with my vocal cords have been like attacked yes i'm ghanian says justice okay what's up my sister praise god i'm happy you're here i'm happy you're here i want to talk to y'all today man there's so much to talk about this year there's so much to talk about i mean there's so much so i'm trying my best to dissect it decomp decomp oh my god i can never say this word d okay y'all know that y'all know that word that's such a hard word to say like i'm trying to break it all down into yeah so you guys first things first i just want to say shout out to my my day oneers my lovely subscribers those of you who are new with me welcome to the channel welcome to the channel man i am i'm your girl mommy so true if you're new if this is your first live i'm so happy you caught it this might be a good one to start with um if you don't know my story take a moment to check out other videos that i have about my journey as a survivor going through this and how i got here and why i am so passionate about what i'm doing with you all um so welcome in hey guys so happy to see all of you here um Angela Nicoletti hi mommy so true true and chosen ones love you popped up glad you're feeling better prayers going up thank you y'all are so sweet I always appreciate all the love that you guys show me um but I'm here today to talk to you because I truly believe that um the universe is just bringing all the empaths my way the universe is bringing people who are just like me my way and it makes it easier for me to share my vulnerabilities and to share my story with you guys as a survivor as someone who is thriving forward after dealing with a narcissist and not just in a relationship but my entire family honestly the culture that i grew up in narcissistic i was born in ghana i grew up in the united states so i i am blessed to have experienced the best of both worlds and i know the differences and i also know the similarities. And I know that it's all the same. Narcissistic abuse is the same in China. It's the same in Africa. It's the same in Europe. And it's the same in America. I mean, it's worldwide. This is a national problem. Because why, y'all? My perspective is it's a spiritual problem. See, we all have grown up in churches where they taught us about the devil. They've taught us about living right. But they did not tell us the truth behind all of that. The truth behind all of that is those very same people who are teaching you about religion carry those same demonic influences because those demonic influences are generational and it's all because of trauma trauma is the root of this problem that we are all experiencing this is why there are pastors telling people to work on their marriages not knowing that the person is laying up next to a demon you can't pray for a demon you got to leave them alone you got to save yourself you got to save your kids so I'm talking to you guys today from empath to empath because one thing we all know is that narcissists are so, so good at discarding. Not only are they good at it, they look forward to it. They plot and plan to end up there in that phase. Every relationship with a narcissist ends up in some type of a discard situation. Being an empath, sometimes you're the one who does the discarding, but I don't want to call it discarding because empaths, we don't discard. We're not narcissists. there are empaths with narcissistic tendencies but they are the ones who are here trying to learn and grow because they are discovering that there are some things that they can work on because of a narcissist that's the good thing for us y'all because we're not perfect empaths are true believers in that statement we are not perfect because nobody is see the narcissist comes in our life and trick us into believing we got to be perfect that starts with the church then it goes into your family mom and dad trying to program you as if you're not good enough because you're not perfect. None of us is supposed to be perfect. What we're supposed to do is live true in who we are, continue to grow, advance and improve who we are, build great character so we can be examples of love. And so this is why we are in a world full of darkness. This is why a lot of this doesn't make sense. So many of you, you've been discarded, not just by a spouse. Your own mom and dad has discarded you. Your siblings discard you. Friends and families discard you. bosses. These are things narcissistic people do because of their wiring and their programming and the darkness of their hearts, the brokenness of their souls, the bitterness of their life experiences. They discard you because it's a them problem. They plot, they twist and get rid of you because it's a them problem. It's their narcissistic personal problem why they cannot keep the relationship why they have to force you to leave why they have to force themselves to leave because if you don't know you need to know that narcissists are very very cleverly stupid these are the people who know everything they know it all but but their life when you look at their life with a microscope it's in shambles they want to tell you how to be a good mom a good dad but they don't know ---- about that they want to preach to you pull the bible out you know quote scriptures but they don't live on that. They're just talkers. They're not walkers. They don't walk and they're not examples of what they preach and teach. They're good speakers. They can say it all day. They can quote the Bible from front to end. They can make valid points about what's wrong in this world. They're very political. Their political views are strong. They know it all. Let them tell it. They know how to thrive. They know what a good marriage is. They know how to build a business. let them tell it they know how to bring money to the table let them tell it they are they are the one who is privileged or no let them tell it you are the one who should be privileged for them to be in your life and I know there's many witnesses who can attest to that the narcissist no matter what type of narcissist they feel as though they are the prize that's why we're in a world now with men who have the audacity to barf off words like I am the prize and it's disgusting to see in a narcissistic world like now no no one understands the roles of a woman and of a man this thing goes deep this thing goes deep but from empath to empath today we're gonna set it straight what an empath does not do will never do and don't have time doing is discarding i want to talk to you in depth about it let's talk about it let's talk about it raquel skies finally caught you live always watching the after effect hi i appreciate your videos they're very helpful keeps me going you're welcome i am here with you i'm here for you and this is our community y'all so i i god bless you i i'm happy to hear that welcome in welcome in um from empath to empath let's talk about why you could never be the one discarding the main the main reason is you're not the narcissist and maybe today's video is to validate that for some of you because see the thing is narcissism is in all of us this is something nobody wants to talk about this is why the narcissist easily makes you feel bad because you're human and you carry certain traits that make you seem toxic depending on what's happening in your life that's just the realness of it that don't mean you're a narcissist some people will argue that i don't care i'm a realist and one thing that's real about me is i'ma speak on my imperfections and my flaws i know that a narcissist took me out of character and exposed my own narcissistic tendencies because I grew up a scapegoat. I grew up with narcissistic families. I grew up in a narcissistic culture, so I copied it. I learned it. But guess what? I had to unlearn it. Through unlearning it, I discovered that I'm actually an empath. And actually, I could never do the things that they do because I actually have a heart. I have a conscience. I have a conscience. There's a God inside of me that does not allow me to move narcissistically. Matter of fact, when I do things that is actually off the wall, seems toxic, does not feel good, I go back and I reflect and I attempt to fix it. This is humans. This is why the narcissist got everybody tripping. This is why we can't really differentiate who's a narc and who's not a narc. This is why many won't get diagnosed because there's no need. The word narcissism means self-reflection. The true narcissists are the ones who don't want to self-reflect they're running from it you want to know who the narcissist is and who the empath is pay attention to who's working on themselves who worked on themselves before the relationship through the relationship and now after it you're really working on yourself that's why you're watching these videos you're on this live because you are not them they tried it they made you do stuff you probably messed around and cheated messed around and cussed them out is this a lot of things but at the end of the day what did you learn from it how did it make you a better person because the difference between you and the narcissist is they cannot sit somewhere and say well because of this experience this is what I've learned this is what I see this is what I want to fix and I want to fix it and I'm serious I'm determined I want to thrive I am a survivor I'm going to educate myself because I want to be empowered I want to stay awoken the narcissist is not thinking like that they don't want to they don't care to and this is what separates you from them we don't have time to discard people because we were real in the beginning through the relationship and even at the end we're even more real empaths don't have time to disconnect and and discard what we have time to do is cut you flat off straight up off because see an empath will take take take take and take until there is no room to take any more of your ---- yeah i might have let you take me through this for 10 years but that was 10 years of grace that i gave you when those 10 years end you're you're probably going to hate me because the narcissist is not the only one who knows how to be cold they're not the only one who knows how to shut off their their their supply if you want to call it that see an empath is very strategic very analytical and very freaking patient because we know that nobody is perfect we know that we are not perfect some of us dealt with narcissists because of that we're like well i'm not perfect you're not perfect you had a bad upbringing I had a bad upbringing let's do this but then you found out they're not trying to grow they're not trying to elevate they're not trying to be better they're not trying to they're not trying to do anything different from the family that ruined them so as an empath you end up cutting them off because it's not only draining it's frustrating it's frustrating when you have to continually hold someone's hand as if you're still in kindergarten I'm still having to teach you kindness I'm having to sit you down and tell you're not talking to me with respect. I have to continually battle in text messages to explain to you how much you're hurting me through words and action. That's draining. It's frustrating. It's annoying. It's annoying. And what you don't want to do is you don't want to annoy an empath for far too long because the respect goes straight out the damn window. See, a lot of men call women narcissistic because a lot of women are empaths by nature. Okay, let's break this down today because i done had enough of this ---- men are calling women narcissistic because women get fed up easily that's what y'all don't understand don't come over here and say all this ---- and then do other things and expect me to still be the woman that you met two three four months ago or last weak no i'm gonna switch it up are you dumb are you dumb same thing for men and women women are online talking about men they're narcissistic and they're too controlling a man controls a man is a leader. The problem in our world now is too many narcissistic tendencies from everybody. It's not just the narcissist. It's humans. It's humans. No one understands the role of a man and the role of a woman because we got narcissistic fools telling us how we're equal. These narcissistic feminist demons talking about how they're just as equal as a man. No, the hell I'm not. I don't want to be mowing grass. No, the hell I'm not as equal as a man. No, there's a major difference here let's be real about it, shoot, empaths don't discard, we cut you off because we have morals and values, we understand what it means to carry on in a thriving relationship even if we've messed up because we carry love inside of here if you're an empath think about it, all of your relationships who gave the most? Probably you. Who cared the most? Most likely you. Who tried over and over and over again? You, who ended up trying to beg and plead to fix things, you find yourself apologizing for things you didn't do or cause, find yourself explaining yourself until your your neck hurt you're dealing with somebody so insecure you taking pictures of when you clocked in and clocked out of work so you don't go home and get cussed out, i mean it's just draining dealing with a narcissistic parent who won't seem to let you go in her head you her man, in his mind you his wife So your marriage can't even thrive because it's all about control. See, an empath cannot discard because we were never about control. We don't care to control people. That's not how we operate. We allow people to be free in who they are. And that's what we expect back. We'll give you the chance to earn that. But eventually, when that is not seen, felt, or validated, we will cut you off. We will cut you off. I'm so sorry. There are empaths that seem very narcissistic, but you're not. I want to validate that for somebody today. Don't you feel bad for cutting off nobody who is not pouring into you? Empaths don't discard. We gonna cut you off. You're not pouring into me. You're not putting in anything that benefits my life. What you're doing is your hand is always out. Your hand is always out. What you're doing is telling me you love me until my hand comes out and I'm saying, hey, help me pay this rent though. Hey, you gonna contribute to something? Now I'm a problem. Now I'm selfish. Now I don't care. Now I've always plotted it. Now I've always planned it. See, you know you're dealing with a narcissist when you sit there and literally have to argue with someone who is trying to make you seem as if you are selfish and you know in your knowing you have not been selfish the whole time. But they are so convinced in their demonic, delusional mind that you did something wrong to them. Only because as an empath, eventually you wake up and when you wake up, you see, damn, you've been using me. and when an empath noticed they've been used, the game changes. We're not dumb people, y'all. We're not weak people, y'all. Far from that. We look weak because of how we love, but we are not stupid. We're far from that. We don't have time to discard you because discards are plotted. We'll cut you off because you give us enough time to make such a drastic, life-changing, permanent decision. We don't discard because discard is a game. They discard you just to come back and hoover we're gonna discard we're gonna hoover next month we're gonna discard then we're gonna hoover next year look an empath we ain't doing that it's a flat-out cutoff it ain't no hoovering you next year it ain't no looking for you in five years I don't give a damn because once I let you go I've letting you go it took me a long time to get to the let go phase and once I let go I have let go there is no looking back there is no turning back I don't miss you none of that I'm gonna cut you off and and during the cutoff there's a permanent reminder in my mind why I did it. And that permanent reminder in my mind will make sure that I never turn back and that I never ignore the red flags that got me here in the first place. Impacts don't have time to discard. That's a game. You weren't playing when you were love-bombed. It wasn't a joke when they devalued you. So ---- got real when they discarded you or when they forced you to have to discard. The cutoff game got strong because you're looking back like, after all I put up with, after everything it took for me to discover that you're unreal you were never genuine all those I love you's meant I hate you for real all those I love you meant I just want to use you oh as an empath bet don't let me discover the truth because once I realized that the truth is you are nothing like me I no longer care like I used to for what for what I no longer see you the same now I actually notice your demoness. Like I actually see it. Like I see the demon in you now. We don't have time to discard. We're going to cut you off because you've confirmed your evil. You've done enough for me to know that I don't want no parts of this dark ass world that you live in. We don't have time to discard. We have to cut off because a cutoff is a permanent decision. A permanent decision that has been validated with all the crap they took you through. They thought you would never cut them off they thought you wouldn't leave, they thought you wouldn't walk away but surprise surprise, we don't discard, that's a whole game that we don't have time to freaking play, it's a whole game. One thing about going no contact, I'll talk about that a little bit. See, when an empath finally goes no contact, it scares the ---- out of a narcissist. I don't care what what they, what it looks like to you, it scares the crap out of a narcissist. This is a negative impact. This is a negative impact on, on negative impact on that narc because this person is looking for admiration and control to maintain their own fake ass, fragile ass self-esteem, and nobody gives such good validation than an impact. I want to make it clear to you, we are terrible supplies for a narcissist. Everybody is a terrible supply for a narcissist. Another narcissist is a terrible supply for another narcissist. So an empath, we're terrible supplies for a narcissist because as much as they trick us into their cycle, they get a rude awakening when they realize that we actually are real good at cutting off. Not only are we real good at cutting off, we're real good at shutting up and going silent too. See, an empath eventually learns how to move in silence, how to stop responding, You don't care to react no more. You literally, naturally become a gray rock to the narcissist. That's a true empath seriously gets turned off and disgusted when they notice what a narcissist is doing. That's like a true empath. You're immediately turned off when you really see, damn, like this is a dead road. This is a dead soul. there's nothing I can do, I'm not gonna fight this is exhausting, I'm not gonna keep hurting myself I'm not being heard so yeah I'm just like no contact is scary you've taken away that that control that reassurance lord they love reassurance and nobody gives better reassurance than a freaking empath we're reassuring how much we love you how much we're down for you how loyal we are Narcissists love empaths because the ones that are jealous and highly insecure, they expect you to constantly reassure. And we'll break our necks and reassure your ass forever until we get tired of doing it. Until we see that you're not worth all of that. You're not worth all of that. When an empath starts cheating, that's an empath that's cutting off. We're actually not cheaters. See, an empath, in their mind, they already done broke up with you, left your ass alone, and don't really care about your feelings. call it cheating empaths know how to protect themselves when they get to a certain point because we're actually very intelligent we're emotionally intelligent we just need to learn that about ourselves we feel when we're being wronged we feel when it's necessary to make changes and do something different we just also feel that we have an obligation to do right that's what makes us stuck and trapped in narcissistic relationships we're always trying to do the right thing well well maybe if well yeah but when we wake up the right thing is choosing ourself the right thing is cutting them clean off the right thing is going no contact and standing on that let them hoover until they're green in the face let them smear campaign until they die who cares see and when we don't discard we cut you off i'm cutting you off because i really don't care what you're gonna say about me during the cutoff i could care less matter of fact i expected it Because by the time we cut off, we figured you all the way out. We're 100 steps ahead of the game. You are a sore loser in the eyes of an empath when we get to the point where we got to cut you off. That's mom, dad, siblings. An empowered empath, an awoken empath would cut off unapologetically. And the power in our cutoff is freedom. We don't discard. Discard is a game. Discard means I'm hoping you come back around and reattach me to the cycle. We cut you off because when we cut you off, the plan is we're moving forward in life. We're thriving. We're looking forward to the things we deserve, period. And we know that this person, this mom, this sibling, these family members, they don't deserve any seat at this table. They don't deserve any seat at this table. That's what a cutoff is. That's what a cutoff is. sit back and watch me because I'm not watching you but you're a narcissist you're you're definitely watching me you care that much but I'm an empath I didn't discard you I cut you off so I really don't care I don't care to see what you're doing online I don't care about your social media you and the new supply can kick rocks because you're doing nothing but having a narcissistic party together like I'm not missing out on anything your cutoff means you know what's up you know they've been playing with your head your cutoff means you're tired of taking losses that's in financial losses because they set you up they played you and took all your money and then had the nerve to discard you your cutoff means yo you you you think that ---- was cool oh okay okay i'm gonna cut you off i'm gonna work on my ---- i'm gonna get my ---- together and i'll be damned if anybody ever comes and try to tear that down again especially you oh man your cutoff game empath is deep is deep the devil hates it when we get this this strong they can't stand it when we've discovered the truth oh my god man man man man i'ma look through these comments i see a lot of engagement i love it i love it i love it man a discard we don't have time for that discard what the only thing empath is gonna discard is our phone number and get a new one i'ma discard all them damn pictures out my phone from them fake ass memories that we had like i'ma discard myself from this social circle that we had because you got a lot of flying monkeys and they're against me the cutoff is a big thing for you because you're literally not just cutting them off you're cutting off the whole life that they brought that whole fake ass life sometimes that means cutting off some kids oops sometimes that means cutting off grandma uh-oh she oh she about to die so what cut off cut that old ass mama off oh she needs me no she don't cut off cut off that man and that woman that's wasting your time because they think that you're just so nice and so sweet you're gonna sit around and take it forever cut off because one thing about it man you're dealing with a narcissist they're playing a game and they're waiting to discard you or they're waiting to find a way to to make you intentionally discard them because they're cowards if they're not bold enough to do themselves they're going to set traps for you to find your way out of it without even realizing that that's what they're doing and and part of all the games that the narcissist plays it's sad because all of the games and all of and all of the pain that it comes with sets them up for a final cutoff if they're dealing with a real empath a final cutoff you discard and you hoover so much that eventually it's like man what do you think you're doing with me Who do you think I am? This last time is going to be it. This final time is going to be it call it a discard if you want to, but it's going to be a major cutoff because you'll never hear from me again. You'll never see the same person that you thought you knew again. You'll be lucky if I even acknowledge you in public the next time I run into you. The cutoff is strong coming from an impact because we don't discard. A discard is a joke. We ain't got time for that, that's what narcs do we were real in the beginning and we're real in the end. In the end when we see that they weren't real. They lie, they've been lying, they've been plotting against you your whole life. They've been sabotaging your entire life because of their own self-destructive ways their own bitterness their own brokenness. Once you see that you're like, man, wait a freaking minute, wait a freaking minute to cut you off, and the best part about being an empath, our cutoffs are unannounced. They're done in silence, they're done secretly and that's the most painful part for the person on the receiving end because when we when we cut you off, you don't see it coming. You don't see it coming. You don't... how can you? You're so blind by our empathy, you're so blind by thinking oh she's gonna do this she's gonna do that I got her right where I want her wrapped around my finger yeah, they think that until they get a rude awakening and they wake up one day and your number ain't working no more. They wake up one day and you don't live where you live anymore they wake up one day and they blocked as hell blocked on everything can't even reach you can't get a hold of you don't don't know what happened to you they think you fell off the face of the earth they gonna sit somewhere and talk about you though oh she planned it she planned to leave me it was all a setup it was all this it was all that yeah okay that's fine cut off cut off cut clean off okay like for real heaven's like he blocked me i blocked him but we still live together in the same house trying so hard to find a place soul ties is real i have some really bad days Oh, praying for you. Sorry to hear that. I know that's tough. You're just in a narcissistic way of playing games. Oh, tag, you're it. Tag, you're it. My turn. Your turn. My turn. Your turn. That's exhausting. By the time you get done dealing with that, you're going to cut off and never look back because you're being drained right now. You're being frustrated and disgusted going through that. My heart goes out to you. It goes out to you. Man, thank you guys for the engagement. I see it. never cheated not once for eight years he did me dirty see some of you in these relationships super loyal super loyal eventually you're gonna cut them clean the hell off because while you're being loyal you're being accused of doing things that they're doing they're projecting all of their behaviors on you and you're just this loyal person eventually your loyalty is gonna be like take me somewhere else please give me to a man or a woman who deserves me please because this is some clown ----. You're being loyal and then he's bringing home STDs. You're being loyal and they're having a baby on you. You're being loyal and they're creating a whole nother family outside of you. You're being loyal and they still calling their baby mamas and baby daddies and telling them they love them. They still got old supplies on their phone hitting them up every time they mad at you. But you still loyal. That's why we don't discard. We cut off because the pain is so deep. The things that they do is so real the dirt is so dirty you don't have time to discard them and play their games you just kick them to the curb i dated a narcissistic man one day that man came home one day and all his ---- was packed waiting at that door you thought i was going to continue to be a doormat until i really woke up and realized this is not it packed up waited at the door for your ass ding dong knock knock who's there a narc oh here goes your ---- don't come back that person never expected that type of attitude from me. Never saw it coming. I'm pretty sure he went and ruined my name and talked about me, but I did not care. Because when I cared, they did not care. They didn't even see it. They didn't even want to hear it. I didn't have time to plot no discard. I didn't have time to play about that. I was serious enough to turn everything off like a light, like a light switch. Changed everything in a heartbeat. He left for work that morning thinking we were good, came back and seen his ---- packed and knew we weren't good see empaths we're not good at confrontations we're not good at always arguing because we don't like really being on the defense sometimes the easiest way for us to do it is to go silent we don't discard we'll give you the silent treatment if anything we learned that from the narcissist see you don't want to play with an empath because you might mess around and get everything you're using against us used on you narcissists love silent treatment until they encounter an empath who knows how to slap their ass with silent treatment that's why they get salty when you are no contact because that is silent treatment for a narcissist they're not hearing from you this is someone who needs constant validation whether they want you or not just to hear from you just to know you care, just to know you're bothered is all they need. So for you to be silent for them to not know what you're thinking what your next moves are what you got, you know, going on in your head that bothers them. Do y'all know when you're around narcissists, they're bothered when they cannot read your mind. They always want to know what you're thinking. You can't even sit in silence and in peace around these people. They always want to know what you're thinking. So when you shut off your energy, you protect your energy. When you say, I don't got nothing for you. Matter of fact, I don't have nothing to say too. You hit them with the mm-hmms and the uh-huhs, they become completely thrown off, pissed off, full of rage, whatever, but they definitely feel it. This is your ultimate revenge. Those of you dealing with narcissist and you think it's hard to get away or you think it's hard to cut them off, trust me it's not. They've already proven that they deserve it. The a Madison says she cut me off but I gave her the scissors. Kick rocks. I love that they do, they do cut you off but we as empaths, we do hand them the scissors because eventually you get tired, you get disgusted like and if that if you if you resonate with that, I would love for you to hit that thumbs up if you're new here, subscribe to the channel, um hit the notification bell so you're not missing those weekly posts guys, if you're interested in being a member you know for those super chats while I'm live and things like that all those membership benefits information is in the description box as well as life coaching session, um information for those of you who need it, I'm here as a support to talk to you, help you through this you know give you some guidance some awareness some activities to help you cope with being discarded because it's painful, it is painful to go through but once you see what's beyond the surface it's like oh wow, the discard was a lifesaver. Thank you, thank you for discarding me thank you some of you need to send them a thank you card like I wouldn't have been thriving if you did not discard me like I wouldn't be a survivor if you were not such a dick like I appreciate you for being a narcissist like you really helped me see what I don't need thank you so much like seriously like seriously thank you so much for hurting me for lying to me for deceiving me for making me think that you were somebody that you never can be for all the future faking promises um that you're giving to a new supply thank you for all of that thank you for all of that because now I know something that I never would have known had you not done me the way that you've done me now I know that I gotta cut you off whether I love you or not whether I care about you or not we're cutting off people we care about it's not easy to go no contact with your family it's not easy to break off a 30-year marriage but you don't care to discard your impact you're just gonna cut them off you're just gonna literally start a new life you're just gonna literally rewrite the narrative because the pain is too much and thank god you made it through it you were able to get through it if you got through it now just appreciate the cutoff appreciate the discard appreciate that they showed you that you are not the narcissist you don't have time to discard these people what you do have time for is allow them to set themselves up so you can hand them the scissors like my friend said cut you off and let you go i don't want you back an empath we cut off because we know we know we ain't coming back we know we don't want you back we know you can't come back we're serious about our cut off you can never come back i don't care if you i don't care what what happens in five to ten years you can never come back i don't care what you're offering in a hoover you can never come back i don't care what you're saying in those hoovers you can never come back you're cut off it's over it's done and dead with i don't care who died who's dying those families like to hoover you with news oh your auntie carol just died okay so what does that mean cut off is a cut off man and as an empath i can only speak to my real empaths out there we we're not we're not to be played with like we're not to be played with like as real as we are in the beginning what makes you think we're not going to be real throughout the rest of the process just remove yourself from the situation like heavy chevy levy says on here I love that. Remove yourself from that situation. Honestly, honestly, like honestly, empaths and narcissists, we don't belong together. We're a horrible supply for them. We're a horrible supply for them. Probably the worst because they don't see it coming. They don't know that we're going to dish out everything that they keep throwing at us. At some point, we're going to dish it and probably times 10 and they will not be able to take it. But that's not our damn problem because by that time we're we're we're so unbothered that it don't matter Jennifer Nelson honestly it's not an empty cheating you left the narc makes it seem like you cheated because you think that's something you need to agree they're just very manipulative we've been made enduring at night but joy comes in the morning says heaven's light god is bigger than all we are facing they will pay for their pain they inflict they inflict it on people who genuinely you love them yeah they do they do they they suffer for what they're doing all the time one thing people don't know is narcissists self-loathe they are self-loathing individuals what that means is to me spiritually that death that means that you are tortured mentally you're never at peace spiritually you're not at peace so you're always depressed and you're depressed because of the things that you're doing to people see y'all y'all y'all are told they don't know what they're doing and you know that's it's a bunch of baloney these people sit in their thoughts they think about what they've done they think about what they're doing they may not do anything about it they may never tell you you know I know I did you wrong they will never apologize but they know what they're doing they know what they've done they know what they've caused and they have to sit there and deal with it and that is their narcissistic personal problem. I brought my table. So I picked up my table and got out of there. I know that's right. I know that's right. You can't sit at this table because as an empath, you did bring that table. You brought everything. So at the end of the day, at the end of the relationship, everything you brought, you pack it up and you take it with you. That includes that table because you invited them to sit at that table. You went up to them. They were unworthy from the beginning. Let's just keep it real. You picked up a broken vessel that was clearly unworthy. Listen to the trauma. My mom abandoned me. I was raped by all my sisters and all of everyone I've been with have just treated me like trash. No one loves me. My ex-wife didn't love me. No one loves me. No one cares about me. And then here you are, this empath. Empath, save a hoe. You're like, oh, I got you. Come on with me. I can show you love. Love is me. come come to my house sit at my table you know i'll teach you i'll teach you love i'll show you love i'll be that love that you don't have or that you've never seen so when you awaken as an empath and you see that damn i made a mistake i made a mistake i let a clown sit at my table i let a little ass boy sit at my table i let this little girl sit at my table oh hell no let me pack up my stuff and go let me pack up my stuff and go like i let a thief sit at my table this man that came and stole all my damn money jacked up all my credit let me pack up my ---- and go somebody said the new supply is a blessing for us it is what it is the new supply is a major blessing goodness they can both kick rocks together like the cutoff comes with that the Cut off means who cares who you're with? Who cares what you're doing? Who cares if you win a million dollars tomorrow? I don't care. I don't care. I really don't. By the time an empath cuts off, it's like you just become damn near heartless. And that's the truth. You become damn near heartless to the narcissist. You become severely unbothered. You don't care. Their tears don't even get to you no more. You just watch it as a lifetime movie. They sitting there crying. you like, 'Oh, already like stop' with the victim playing bs like you're full of ---- you're full of ---- oh man listen we don't discard we cut you off because we don't have time for jokes we don't have time for the games you done played with our head enough you done played with this heart enough like you played my emotions enough you you you put a stamp on it and you let me know i gotta cut your ass off and I did and I will and I will always do it again I'm at a point in my healing journey where I don't regret cutting off my family I don't regret cutting off my mother some days it might be tough because that's my family but I saved my life I saved my future and now I can focus on creating the family that I know I deserve you know and there's so much beauty in it the cutoff is powerful for you because they've been doing you wrong for a long time and they actually don't care that they've done you wrong they're not remorseful they don't regret it they're not sorry so you cutting them off literally saves your life no one cares about your life so you need to they really don't care they really don't care even through those apologies your narcissistic parent still does not care they just care for you to be able to you know lower yourself down enough for them to continue to get supply from however they can trick you and manipulate you to just bow down. They will. You got to be smart. You got to have power within you to say, oh, wait a minute. You don't deserve me. You don't deserve my energy, my voice. I'm not answering your calls because I know what you want. I know what your intentions are. So I'm going to cut you off. And I will love you from a distance because if you don't cut these people off, you're going to be stuck that empath doormat. You're going to be an empath doormat for the rest of your life without even knowing that's what you are to all these narcissistic people around you because by nature you are a people pleaser empath so if you don't cut those cords you'll be stuck people pleasing and you're gonna keep calling yourself an empath and it's like damn nah don't don't don't don't do that don't try to represent us empaths like that because that's not even how we roll we don't even play like that we are not weak we are strong we are mighty we are warriors we are mighty we are warriors we are victorious we are champions in everything that we do because we're golden in our hearts so we will always win we will always win i love y'all to my thrivers to my survivors and thank y'all for checking in i'll be back live again this sunday 1 p.m eastern time and again there's going to be more lives coming up man i look forward to it i love all of the engagement I love all the things that you guys are saying. Scorpio Mama, I see it. My soul is strong right now. I love it. Y'all keep going. Y'all keep thriving, man. Y'all keep doing what y'all are doing. All 2024, we are going to remain unbothered. We're going to remain awoken. We're going to remain strong, educated, and empowered. And that's just that. And if you're not there, you're going to get there. Keep watching me. I'm going to get you there. I'm going to get you there. I'm going pull it out of you pull it out of you because it's there and if you're here you're obviously very close to that that awakening that you need trust me you're very close man but I love y'all Ashley Renee what's up boo man I know I be raw and on point I mean you know me sis I'm coming I'm coming how I come I'm coming how I come I don't even feel sorry for cussing on my channel no more honestly y'all i am who i am i'm continuing to work on myself but i am who i am and i love who i am and i'm i'm firming who i am and i can't sit here and try to act like i'm this perfect goody two-shoe person like no i want y'all to see who i really am so that y'all can see how i really defeated the narcissist why does the narc hate me why do narcs hate me because i am who i am and i'm not backing down on that ---- i'm tired of these people i'm tired of their games i'm tired of being pulled into their dark world and their matrix that I will not back down on who I am period so you know that's how I'm coming yo I love it all 2024 y'all we're letting it be known how empaths are how we roll and what all this means for us that's what I'm doing and if you're with me you're with me so shout out to all my newbies to all my day runners I love you guys I will definitely be back if you missed this live it's on replay don't worry about it it's on replay but y'all keep doing what y'all do i see y'all in these comments i'm gonna go back and do a live um replay of the chat empaths don't play say kareem hey kareem oh man man i love y'all those of you who are still going through it stay strong stay educated stay empowered you will be okay you'll be okay don't even worry about it it's time to rewrite the narrative start a new chapter of your life and heal your soul that's what it's about you guys i love y'all until next time i'm actually jumping on instagram live today so if you want to join me on instagram live i'll be there i'll be on tiktok later on tonight as well um check me out i'm on all those platforms you know facebook instagram tiktok wherever wherever you're at i'm probably there just look for mommy so true but i love y'all i leave y'all with a lot of god the love of god um until next time to all my beautiful empaths my chosen people stay blessed stay true keep going keep thriving keep rocking and i will see y'all very soon bye guys take care