Stay Out of Situationships! #situationship #relationships #dating

It's 2026 and if you are agreeing to having a situationship with a man, you must be out of your ******* mind. A situationship, you know, when you agree to doing something like that with a man, you know what it tells him? It says to him that you don't love yourself. It says to him that you will agree to receiving piss poor treatment for the sake of feeling validated, even if it's just sex. like you know how low you have to think of yourself to accept that type of situation and the fact that he can go out here and date other women while sleeping with you and you're cool with that the fact that he don't have to spend no money on you he just sleeping with you and then turn around and spend his money on the girl that he actually likes and there ain't ---- you can do about it or say to him because you have agreed to accepting a situationship because you don't think much of yourself. He's running the program. You, you've given him all the power to dictate the terms of y'all relationship because your self-esteem is so low. You don't know how to walk the **** away to accept a situationship means you're dealing with some sort of depression. Really think about it. Like you're looking for something to soothe the pain, whatever you're dealing with internally, whatever issues you're dealing with, what you're running away from yourself and you're looking at this situation ship to be a band-aid to deal with the ---- that's going on with you internally you really confuse the fact that just because he's sleeping with you unprotected raw sex that he has some sort of feelings with you guess what these niggas sleep with everybody unprotected these niggas are for the streets they will **** every last woman unprotected they don't care men are nasty like that it doesn't mean he has special feelings for you because you let him hit it raw. Delulu, that is delusional thinking. You and him are not more connected spiritually because y'all are having unprotected sex and it just feels amazing and y'all are vibing. It's just so we snap out of it. Snap out of it, honey. You are delusional. He's laying up making every other woman he sleeps with feel the same exact way he got you feeling and he's rotating all of y'all. now again there are many of us women who have uh one night stands with these men but we don't get caught up with them and if you are strong enough to handle a one night stand and you could you know you have a high level of discernment like myself you should be able to read the nigga on the first date and say this nigga is full of ---- he about mind games he's a manipulator i can already see where this is going and i'm not even going to let him waste my ******* time i'm gonna have a little fun with him tonight and i'm gonna drop him like a hot potato tomorrow because he's not about to ******* play with me like he does all the other women if you strong up here and if you strong enough mentally to handle some ---- then go for it but pump the brakes make it a one-time thing one and done because after that he will try to turn you into a situation ship if you continue to have sex with him so ladies figure this ---- out you know yeah it's true most men want to test out the sex before they commit to you right and women are the same way like we don't we don't want to be in a relationship with somebody with whack sex and I'm gonna keep it funky I'm dead ass I want to be in a committed relationship the sex got to be top tier but you ladies got to understand that when a man wants a situation ship he's going to communicate it to you in two ways the first way he's going to be a real ass nigga he's going to tell you straight up from day one I don't want no relationship you cool with that we can kick on some real ---- it's a lot of real niggas out here that will keep it real with you and they will tell you verbally ma'am this is all I want this is all what I'm looking for and and don't be mad about it you need to respect him for being honest with you up front a lot of women want to be delusional when a man tells tells you he don't want to **** with you like that yeah we can kick it from time to time but that's all I want, respect that man for telling you you don't want it, don't deal with him but don't agree to it and sleep with him and then get mad and think you're going to try to change him, you're not going to change his mind he didn't told you what it was, now the second type of form of communication is when the nigga don't communicate, he wants you to figure it out and i'm not with that, i think that's whack, you know real niggas keep it real, you you ******* multiple women, all them bitches are going to know you a player, a real player ain't got a lie to his bitches, a real player is going to keep it G with everybody, listen this is what it is, yeah I'm ******* her, her, her, her, you down with it, we can ******* have a good time too, a real nigga gonna keep it g with you but a toxic ass nigga is not going to communicate, he's gonna, he's gonna let you try to figure this ---- out and that's why you got to pay attention to his actions, right his actions his patterns of behavior will tell you everything you need to know and you can move accordingly but a lot of y'all women want to be ******* delusional and think like i said, you think you're going to change his mind, no, his behaviors his patterns his actions are showing you exactly how he feels about you and why you will always be a motherfucking situation ship, what he's going to do is y'all might go out on a first date and this ---- is great, it's fun, y'all have a great time and you end up sleeping together, he not gonna tell you all he want is a situationship, what he gonna do he's gonna pull back see before the date he was calling blowing your phone up FaceTiming you like you know you know kissing your ass and yeah baby you fly and but he's filling your head up with all this once you give him the sex he's gonna pull back because he's testing you he's gonna test you to see if you're gonna stick around you're gonna come back for more but he's not going to invest more he's not going to put in effort for a second date he's just going to invite you over for Netflix and chill because he think you hooked on the sex and he's not going to tell you that all he wants is sex he's going to leave it up to you to figure the ---- out and if you agree to go over his place as the second date and you start sleeping with him then you come back for a third time a fourth time congratulations you have agreed a non-verbal agreement to having a situationship he didn't have to say ---- because you have not put out a requirement that nigga oh no you want to sleep with me you're gonna put out you're gonna court me you're gonna date me you're gonna spend money because men only value things they invest their time and money into you're going to invest your time and money into me if you want to get in between my legs I'm not just going to come over and kick it with you if that's the case keep ******* the bitches you've been ******* you go you gonna invest time money and effort with me or you not get in between my legs if this is gonna be transactional i don't give a **** call me a prostitute call me a sex worker but nigga you gonna come up off some money if you gonna get in between my legs this ain't no situation ship only and you only benefiting and you running the show and you about to be out here treating other bitches better than me while i reduce myself to a ******* piece of ass that you can ******* suck and kick out when you're done it ain't we not rocking like that so ladies it's on you to pump the brakes if he don't tell you he not honest with you from day one and he expects you to figure it out you got to be on top of your ---- you got to read him you got to use your discernment and say oh this nigga this nigga is trying to come at me he on some demon time he about to think we about to lay up just lay up and kick it and he not putting no time money or effort oh hell no let me just pump the brakes right now yeah we fucked on the first night it was great it was good he ain't getting no more of this let him keep ******* the other bitches but he not about to touch me he not about to play with me ain't no situationship over here and that's what i'm gonna say ladies smarten up we going into 2027 smarten up a situationship is a bunch of bullshit and when you agree to that he knows you don't love yourself he knows you don't think much of yourself he knows you have low self-esteem and I'm going to leave it at that.