The #1 Reason Why Men “Test” Women #relationships #dating #selfimprovement

If his mama gave him a million chances, he will expect you to give him a million chances. Ladies, you want to know why a man will fumble a good woman? Because he just expects you to keep ******* forgiving him every time he fucks up. He knows better, but he's going to try you. You want to know why? Because he was able to try mommy. When he was a little boy, he got his ass tore up because he kept trying mommy. But mommy has his back no matter what. no matter how wrong he is if he gets locked up and goes to prison if he harms or abuses a woman mommy is going to forgive him and have his back and that doesn't teach him anything because mom doesn't give him no real consequences now his daddy his daddy might might whip his ass daddy will give him consequences daddy will will show him pain but mama keep her titty in his mouth mama coddles him when he fucks up mama don't give him no real consequences mama will give him endless chances no matter how many even if she's mad at him he could steal from his mama cuss his mama out disrespect his mama and mama will be so forgiving and keep giving him a million and one chances and he never learns from from mom and remember mom is the first woman everything he learns about a woman comes from his mother so if she's not giving him consequences and holding him accountable when he fucks up he will go out into the world and he will expect the same treatment from the women he sleeps with girlfriends side chicks baby mamas wife even it is his mother who sets the bar for how he views and treats all women in the world so I say all this to say whether you let a nigga know up front that you're not about no bullshit or whether you know y'all get into the relationship and you keep reinforcing your standards to him and he still try to play in your face he don't believe you he'll try to test you that's because his mama has has subconsciously taught him that women are super forgiving no matter how piss poor men behave we are forgiving and we will wait hand and foot on you even if you cheat on us and disrespect us we will be forgiving that's his mother's fault because his mother forgave his daddy how many ******* times his father then cheated and did every type of ******* thing to his mama and she was super forgiving so he's repeating a learned behavior from his parents and going out into the world and expecting the women he fucks and gets in relationship with he expects the women he deals with to be the same way as mommy and daddy but he's in for a rude ******* awakening if he tests you or try you after you have made your standards perfectly clear you are no nonsense you expect him to respect you not mistreat you or mishandle you and he does it anyway give him consequences walk away don't deal with him detach so what he's going to **** other women he was going to do that either way he was ******* other women before you met him and he's not going to stop after after you so let that go he's going to do what the **** he wants the bottom line is what are you teaching him when he fucks up the first red flag what are you teaching him don't be like his mother and be incredibly forgiving and coddling and enable him to keep coming back and doing ---- on purpose over and over again then you train him to treat you like a ******* doormat so why would he correct his ******* behavior. Walk away and really reconsider if you should even give him a second chance. Is he even worth the second chance? If it's something small, something small, you can consider a second chance. But something major, cheating, putting his hands on you, verbally disrespecting you, anything like that, stealing from you, no, no second chance. Don't be like his mama. Give him consequences the first time he has you fucked up, the first time he plays in your face the first time he switches up his behavior he goes from treating you good and switches up you know to pull him back and not being consistent give him consequences and really reconsider if you want to deal with him you know or give him a second chance why would you want to ******* deal with somebody that that's trying to test you why would you want to deal with somebody that would test you in the first ******* place we are sick of the games women are sick of the ******* games test your mama don't test me bitch Thank you.