YOUR BULLET PROOF MINDSET MAKES YOU A NIGHTMARE!!! #empath

Hey, y'all. Welcome, welcome. It's Friday night, I know, right? What's happening? Angie, 55 Faith, what's up? How you doing? Good to see you in the house, Candy. It's Friday night. Woo! It's Friday night, and I just feel so empowered, so I want to just, I want to transform some of that energy to somebody. What's up, guys? What's up, Ashley Renee? Hey, sis, I know I got to get to you. I'm going to get to you. I'm behind so bad this week, guys. I got some calls to make. Laquana Petway. Hey, I had to leave. Found out he was sleeping with men. Woo, girl. No, you didn't just start me off with that one. Gemini Flames. Hey, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Got a little clip. Dang, Laquana Petway. That just, woo. sis my heart goes out to you but this is probably a good thing because you didn't even know what you were dealing with what you were laying with oh my god i know you're sad though my heart goes out to you that's painful my goodness my goodness y'all what's wrong with these people oh man that's a rhetorical question that's a rhetorical question i know what's wrong with these people but what's up guys it's friday night hey ct thank you for joining us how you doing Hello Alyssa Williams, what's up y'all caught y'all on a Friday night, caught y'all on a Friday and I hope y'all doing good man, I hope y'all doing good, ready to enjoy your weekend, hopefully you started good this Friday, it's a lot of crazy things going on though, you know like sis just shared the news she got and it's like oh I get it, I get it but you know positivity, light and love to to all of you to all of you, I'm stopping in just want to go live and just talk to you guys real quick because man we we are warriors and like I said when she when she said what she just said I'm like hold on that maybe it's the best thing that happened, maybe it's the best thing that happened sometimes Sometimes blessings come in disguises. You know, when the when the relationship with the narcissist falls apart, whether for whatever reason, it's it's life saving for you, even though it doesn't feel like that. It's life saving for you because you did not need to be dealing with that. You didn't need to be sleeping with that. That was not for you. That was not for you. You know what I mean? so it's like yeah it's sad, yeah it hurts but think about how much it just saved you, you know people who are down low they spread diseases and stuff like that you know and um down low narcissistic people are very dangerous, like just sneaky dangerous, you literally have to find it out because they'll never tell you, it's the biggest secret to uncover but it's life-saving so gosh Alyssa Williams says just got granddaughter's hair braided she's so beautiful oh I can imagine I can imagine that beauty, that beauty oh those those genes you passed down Miss Williams hey um a new journey you might not believe this but i have your videos playing every day before i sleep you helped me a lot to ever to overcome the trauma i would like to say thank you very much oh my gosh wow thank you thank you I'm thank you for for saying that and you know but thank you for for choosing yourself I always tell you guys that when y'all say stuff like that I'm like oh my god somebody somebody who has discovered that they are valuable that they are worth it that they need to move forward you know like it's just it's a beautiful testimony so I'm happy to hear that Very happy to hear that. Laquana says, he kept fighting on me, so I had to investigate why. And yup, his best friend. Oh, Jesus. Yeah, this is the best thing that could have happened to you, sis. I know that hurts. That's a different type of pain. Yeah, for sure. But man, when I say that was life-saving, though, you better believe it. Because you didn't need that. You didn't need to keep putting up with somebody who was sneaking around doing that. That's disgustingly painful. You know? Gosh. that's why I'm so glad that I wanted to jump on here because um I am I am so I am just so happy to wake up every day and feel stronger and it's it's empowering for me to share with you guys even for those who might be where I'm at you know um it's just nice to know that I can share what I'm feeling as words of encouragement or motivation for anyone that may be struggling who are going through it because a lot of people are, a lot of people are, and even those in their recovery mode are going through it. So I want to jump on here and talk to y'all tonight because I think it's necessary to continue to, like I said, inspire and motivate and remind you, honestly, to remind you that if you've dealt with a narcissist, you've dealt with the most toxic of toxic, the most toxic of toxic, like this is just like beyond toxic, you know you you you you went through hell on earth that's really like the the best way I can explain it hell on earth and the worst part is you go through all that and you turn around and and deal with feelings of loving this person that's dragging you through hell and it's like you gotta believe that this is a spiritual fight you gotta believe that this is not nothing good how can you love or think that you love somebody that's not good you know what I mean and that's where that educated person, that educated person who has that strong bulletproof mindset, that's where you become available. That person in you becomes awoken because of this very hellish experience. You wake up, you become educated, and through that, you awaken and discover that emotionally, this is the most abusive, hellish experience of your life. And for so many, although it hurts, we realize how strong we really are mentally because you really have to become mentally strong, mentally bulletproof to survive this. Prayer helps. Yes. Therapy helps. Yes. All there's stuff that help. But you got to really take your power. You got to really look at yourself in the mirror and talk to yourself and say, hey, maybe even slap yourself a couple of times and say, hey, OK, all right. now enough is enough enough is enough I've been in a toxic manipulationship a toxic situationship and now because I'm educated I'm their worst nightmare because I'm educated I turned around and investigated and exposed that you're gay that you're secretly gay and that you are sleeping with your best friend that is called not just bravery but that is an example of someone who has a bulletproof mindset because if you think about it the way you're so you get so entrapped with a narcissist if you allow yourself to be a fool you'll stay in your state you'll stay entangled in the mess you'll continue to stay blind you'll continue to ignore your intuition and your gut and you're you're gonna ignore it and then you'll find yourself in this for years and it just builds up and one day you wake up and you're like oh my god how did I allow myself to continue to ignore this is because you didn't have a bulletproof mindset. Many people survive narcissistic abuse because they realize that this really takes mental strength, mental strength. Like when you're fighting with rumination and stuff like that, it's mental strength. You have to literally talk to yourself and shake yourself and say, oh no, nah, hold on. Because what I know is this person, the last time I spoke to them, had no regard for the things that they took me through. They had the audacity to try to try to put it back on me or try to make it seem like actually it didn't even it didn't even happen let's move on and act like nothing ever happened but when you have that bulletproof mindset that becomes no that becomes actually I know your secrets actually I know you're a liar actually you cannot deceive me anymore that's where people get the strength to start setting boundaries a lot of people didn't understand how powerful setting boundaries were until they went through this hellish experience with a narcissist. It was the ultimate wake-up call. Because no, you're not dumb. No, you're not nobody's fool. No, you're not nobody's doormat. You just had to realize, hold on now. Hold on now. This person's playing mind games. This person's playing with my life. So I got to strategize. I got to move different. I got to operate different. I got to talk different. Because dealing with them is tiring, y'all. It's tiring. It's exhausting. it's confusion it's frustrating and it's extremely painful and you have to know that it takes having that bulletproof mindset through the relationship and even after it after it it gets real serious after it it gets real serious when when the relationship ends and you're trying to move on with life you see how serious this thing was not only do you have moments where you're fiending for somebody who doesn't care about you but you're literally beating yourself up Because you know what you know. And survivors of narcissistic abuse, they go through the emotional roller coaster because they battle with thoughts, obsessive thoughts, obsessive thinking, which leads to criticizing yourself, beating yourself up, finding reasons to, okay, maybe, maybe, maybe I was overthinking. Maybe I overreacted. She said, I always go back, but this time I just can't. Was this was this just like, OK, I mean, obviously I know the answer. This was like the deal breaker. I'm not because I know we live in a world now where some some people are willing to sleep with gay men. We have people who are doing that. There's a lot of disgustingly toxic relationships out there. So I know that the pain, the ultimate betrayal of a narcissist happens because they do the most disgusting thing. and you have no choice but to wake up and say okay you know what I can't do this I can't do this I can't take this and I won't take this there's no way there's no way your best friend another man there's no way because that meant that mentally strong person starts to figure it out you're thinking back in the relationship and you're like okay now it makes sense why sexually there was a lot of question marks now it makes sense why maybe you projected a lot of things or maybe you just came off as someone who was a gay phobic you know those download narcs man hey jenny i see you what's up what's up happy to see you tonight karen senkino what's up she says so my dad almost 70 uses my mother so that she tells me what he told her oh my goodness that is just man brother hype man nerd for the word hello they are so boring so empty so shallow so confusing so hollow so superficial my goodness the list goes on and on and on karen said i confronted her and of course i was blamed for being intolerant oh yeah you're in a narcissistic family dynamic oh yeah you're definitely going to get attacked for that i won't put up with a grown man acting like a four-year-old she is his enabler that's that bulletproof mindset you heard her she said I won't put up with it that's that bulletproof mindset when you become psychologically bulletproof it's scary and even though they attack you because they're narcissists they're going to attack you anyway you got to stand on that you can't back down from that you cannot back down from that you cannot back down from that continue to to put that pressure on them and fight back the way you're fighting back. There's nothing wrong with it. They coming for you. They coming for you. See, the reason why I know having the bulletproof mindset makes you a nightmare, specifically to narcissistic people, is because they like people who do not think for themselves. They like people who cannot think for themselves or come off as needy. They would love for you to depend on them. They would love for you to need them. But as soon as you show that, no, I don't need that. I don't need a babysitter. I don't need a daddy or a mom. I don't need somebody to hold my hand. I could think for myself. I can do for myself. You're a problem. Now you're rude. Now you're disrespectful. Now you're intolerant. The bulletproof mindset is scary because how dare you interrupt my narcissism? How dare you come in the way of me trying to show you that I am above you? How dare you show me that you actually got some value when I'm trying to place a price on you? Bulletproof mindset is so, so scary, but it's so, so necessary. It's so, so needed. And those who have it, please don't stop. Please don't stop. It's your bulletproof mindset that's made you their nightmare. A lot of you need to understand that narcissists treat you worse over time because they see that you have that bulletproof mindset. It's not coincidental that the relationship gets worse or that they get worse. It's the fact that you're really just too strong. If you notice, they become very competitive. You're too strong. It's annoying. They cheat because you're too strong. It's annoying. Your bulletproof mindset, you notice things, you call things out, you're saying things as it is, you're asking questions. Don't question me, says the narcissist, but you're like, nah, I need to know what's going on. Bulletproof mindset, the person who knows how to move strategically, how to move in silence, how to be quiet if necessary. And then at the same time, when to speak and speak up when it's necessary. That makes you scary for narcissistic people, man, because they would prefer the person who would rather sit back and let them just have at it. Just enjoy the narcissistic ride with me. That's what they would prefer. That's what they would prefer, but no. What's up, Gemini Flames? It's so funny when I talk to my current narc, I emphasize sometimes during our talks that I'm human and he gets so annoyed when I say that. Why do you always have to say, oh, I'm human? They really hate thinking about us as humans with emotions. Oh yeah. Oh, that's a good point. That's a good point. You tell a narcissist, I'm just human. Or you bring up those words. It's like, no, you're not. What you mean? What you mean? Heck nah, you're not human. There's no way. That doesn't exist because you should be like me. I'm inhuman. You should be like me. I'm inhuman. You know what I'm saying? It's crazy. That bulletproof mindset, man, it just shows your resilience. It shows your resilience. the fact that you're saying I'm human is saying, look, I make mistakes, but I know how to be accountable for it. I know how to bounce back from it. I fall down, but I know how to get up. And to a narcissist, that's scary. That's a nightmare because they want you down. They put a lot of work into keeping you down and sabotaging your world so that you are down, so that you are stagnant. So that bulletproof mindset is scary when they see that, hold on, this person never stays down. This person always finds a way out or finds a way up. It's scary. It's scary. And most of the time, people don't realize that after the relationship, whether you're getting hoovered or not, they know that you're thriving. They know that you're thriving. Honestly, a lot of people don't believe that the discard is the narcissist giving up. They gave up because you have a bulletproof mindset you've cornered them too much you've been you've you've you've held them accountable too much you've questioned their flawed character too much you've you've done a little too much what's up imperil sound i see they don't know how to rebuttal that they don't a new journey a whole relationship felt like a magical spell i still can't believe i've been so blind for all the red flags. Knowledge is power. Yes. Yes. Knowledge is power because it'll build that bulletproof mindset. It will. It will. But these people do so much and put in so much work and so much effort to make sure that your life is completely discombobulated. But they don't know that you're a child of God and they really have no control at the end of the day. And the person that has that bulletproof mindset knows that. They know that, okay, you can do whatever you want to do. You can say whatever you want to say. You can put as many spells as you want, but I have a God and I'm good. That's why a lot can say, when I left the relationship, things actually got better. It was rough at first. It was rough going through it. But as time goes on, I got better. Things got better. I started to see clearer and clearer. And as time went on, I started to see that I was validated for a lot of the things that I told that narcissist. I told them about themselves many times. I exposed my bulletproof mindset many, many times. And it makes sense why they had to leave. It makes sense why a new supply had to come in. It makes sense why they went back to an old supply. I have a bulletproof mindset and they couldn't stand me for that. They hated me for that. There's no way a relationship between you and a narcissist can work because you're too intelligent, not just mentally, but emotionally. And that's their fault. Honestly, they force you to face your own emotions because they throw you off. And you sit there and you're wondering, you're researching, you're trying to figure it out. You're like, hold on. Is it me? It can't be me. Why is this happening? Why is this happening? Your body starts reacting all crazy. Why is this happening? Something is off. You go searching for answers. And as you learn, like somebody said, knowledge is power as you learn you start to really validate okay I'm not wrong for leaving I'm not wrong for it for for turning my back I'm not wrong for moving on I'm not wrong for just saying I'm done I don't even want to be their friend no more I ain't wrong for that because a lot of times they'll try to trap you like that let's just stay friends let's just be friends I need you I need you you're all I have and you're all you're all I got and nobody understands me like you. Well, that bulletproof mindset is going to be like, you know what? Nah, I know I can't trust you. I know you can't be trusted. I know that those I love you words are not real. And I'm not going to continue to allow you to just pull me in, draw me in and keep me stuck with you because you're stuck. I'm too resilient for that. I'm too strong for that. I have too much going for myself. I got too much of a vision for my life, my future. No, no i'm not doing it i am not doing it hey rose mccarthy so-called friends love bomb will love bomb and discard elijah west they hate you just because you have a job oh oh they hate you just not just because you have a job but even for the type of job you may have because the type of person you have you are having a bulletproof mindset you you acquire jobs or maybe you're able to get new jobs you you got you got an income you got a steady income they still living on section eight so they mad they hate you how is it you're so smart how is it you're still able to move along in life and work and pay your bills because you have a bulletproof mindset and you know that you don't have time to keep dealing with clowns because they hold you back so you do whatever you got to do to wake up and keep it going you wake up and keep it going you're not lazy. You're determined. Some of you are still pushing it, working jobs, and you're still healing. I hope you give yourself credit for that every day. It's the end of the week. Hopefully you're not working this weekend and you can enjoy a relaxing two days, but a lot of you work hard and a lot of you are hated for that. I'm so happy you said that. Thank you for throwing that in there. Who was that again? I think that was Rosemary. That was Elijah West, I think. Y'all and dropped some more comments in there since I read that yep elijah that's different but angie brown said it you recover in the end you recover in the end she said as soon as i told them i was setting boundaries they went berserk says Rose McCarthy ha man as soon as i i made that clear to my narcissistic family it was like they they just saw a whole they just saw me as a whole different being. It was like everything good they ever knew about me went straight out the window. Now I just became this horrible person. Now I just became this horrible person. Somebody said I was told you're irrelevant. Of course. Of course. Of course you're irrelevant. Because if you accept that you're irrelevant, they win. That bulletproof mindset is going to be like, nah, actually I'm very relevant. I'm very relevant. And you're just saying I'm irrelevant because I scared you. I'm nightmare to you a lot of times I've noticed that the people who are in relationships or have been in relationships with narcissists are very intelligent like I'm talking about some very smart people like what I'm like whoa hold on this person thought that that you were that dumb did they ever listen to you talk about what you've been through and how hard you've worked and what you've studied and how you've acquired yourself and how you've been proactive in your education like have they ever really took time to get to hear you and listen to you and get to know you and I'm sure the answer is heck no because obviously we all know narcissists do not listen to us they do not care about us they do not um validate our talents and our skills they act like they don't even see it and all of it is jealousy if you ask me they're the biggest haters they act like they don't know you can dance you can sing or that you're talented doing something you know it's it's really crazy it's really crazy but that that person with the bulletproof mindset scares them when they still go ahead and achieve their dreams or follow their dreams I should say yeah you got talent you got skill yeah they're telling you you're irrelevant yeah they're saying all that but to have a bulletproof mindset and go against it they call you a rebel that's fine to have a bulletproof mindset and go against it and say oh wait actually no I'm gonna follow my dreams because I know what's inside of me I know what I can do I know what I know I know that that bulletproof mindset is that I know who I am that scares the crap out of a narc anybody with narcissistic tendencies that can smell that you know who you are and that you value that they are afraid of you terrified of you and depending on what type of narcissist they are depending on their level of cowardness they're going to run you down ruin your name and attack you for it like she said they went berserk as soon as she set boundaries they went berserk of course they did of course they freaking did nice to meet you smoky freestyle hey michael boy hey that hair looks good on you thank you they think you in secret competition with them and they ain't got ---- they don't they don't because it's like let's be real a lot of the things narcissists are competing with you with like let's think about our siblings it's like what you're living two different lives but they hate you they can't stand you whether they show it or not it exists the narcissistic relationship they compete with cooking they compete with money it's like they compete with the children it's like what oh man you've got to have a bulletproof mindset because all that competing is intended to make you doubt yourself it's intended to make you question yourself. It's intended to make you feel like, okay, maybe I should just be quiet, sit back and be submissive. Maybe they're right. Maybe they're right. But the truth is when you're psychologically bulletproof, you are someone who has nothing to hide. And a lot of people who are in narcissistic relationships, the relationship ends and dies and falls apart because it has to. You have nothing to hide and you're dealing with somebody who has everything to hide. they have everything to hide you have no ghosts in your closet they have a million I don't even know how they keep the closet door closed to have a bulletproof mindset it's it's that person who who's the past is the past I don't live there anymore I don't live there anymore that's the past I'm not the old me I'm not the person I was back then 10 years ago I'm not stuck in my old relationship I'm not that's not me that's not me and when the narcissist starts to see that actually I love bombed the wrong person it almost becomes too late because in the relationship you notice they start telling you all this trauma they start talking about how all these relationships were bad and you're sitting there like yeah I mean I probably had some bad ones but I'm over it I moved on you still living there in that trauma you still stuck in your relationship from 25 years ago wow then that bulletproof mindset kicks in you start really looking at the situation like damn something is really off here this person is still stuck on their ex something is off here they still talk about their ex, all their exes is a problem, huh? What's going on? Because a bulletproof mindset is somebody who is mentally strong and that means they don't live in their past, they don't drag that crap in their relationships, they don't throw it in people's face, that's why you're able to forgive and move on. When you were in the relationship, you just let a lot of stuff roll over because you're mentally strong, you're not, you don't hang on to the littlest, the pettiest things but the narcissists do, and they slowly become your worst enemy without you even trying to make enemies because your mental strength is so bulletproof it's scary, it's like damn, this person don't feel how I feel about their ex, damn why they actually don't cheat, damn why it's scary oh man, and it's like once they notice that you're hard to break I'm telling you they have no choice but to get a new supply, they have no choice but to let the mask slip, they have no choice because you become unbearable to live with unbearable to deal with unbearable to see unbearable to if you notice a lot of y'all, you, you're in the house with the narc, they, they just as soon as you're in the room they're mad, they ain't happy with everybody else but as soon as you come around their energy shifts, here come this, this mentally strong ass ************, I wonder what she's going to be on today I wonder what she's about to interrogate me about now. I wonder what she's going to notice today. Some of y'all so mentally strong, you changed the whole game. Had the narcissist walking on eggshells. Had the narcissist walking on eggshells. Some of y'all become so mentally strong because enough becomes enough. Literally, you hit ground zero with these people and you say, you know what? I got five kids with you. We already got this house. So you know what? i can't run so i'm gonna stay right here and maybe you'll run one day you're gonna live by my rules you're gonna you're gonna play my by my playbook have this narc over here working they thought they was gonna be lazy oh nah now they working now they paying bills that exists too sometimes we don't address the fact that the victim is not always the victim and i'm not even saying that to be you know funny but hey a lot of people do wake up and snap up and they're like you know what i know how I'm gonna deal with this I know just how I'm gonna deal with you I know how I'm gonna deal with your family I'm I got this you want to play a game you had no idea how mentally strong I really was sometimes they hurt you so bad you cry in agony that it just awaits a beast in you takes you to a whole different level mentally you're like oh my god okay okay I've been duped all right I've been duped but guess what I am the master of my destiny so let me go ahead and snatch my mother effing power back because I've been I've been I've been I've been tagged along in this clown show that I never signed up for so let me go ahead let me go ahead and switch up let me go ahead and switch up they're gonna get less and less and less of me a lot of y'all y'all y'all are like I'm not gonna sleep with you no more I don't care who you I don't care who you screwing I ain't you ain't touching me no more that was that was that bulletproof mindset you started waking up to it you're like hold on now you're not gonna keep touching my body you're not gonna You're not going to keep pumping that demonic poisonous semen inside of me, that narcissistic nut. I don't want it. You started discovering so many things, so many secrets pop up. You're like, I don't want it. Don't touch me. Matter of fact, sleep in another room. Sleep in another room. You ever heard of marriages where they're like, we haven't had sex for 10 years. He's been sleeping in the couch for 10 years. He's been in the other room for 10 years. That's a narcissistic relationship. There's a reason why that's going on. There's a reason why that's going on. People are not just not having sex with their partners, not for no reason. No, they have that mental bulletproof mindset and they know that that's not what time it is for me. That's not the situation that I'm in. I'm not going to sit here and lay up with somebody just because I'm married to them and I got kids with them or whatever. No, this person is not that. They don't deserve that they that's that's mental bulletproof and that makes you a nightmare that makes you a nightmare a lot of y'all don't understand the narcissist has to plot to get away from you they have to keep poking at you so that they can find a reason to get away because being around you becomes intimidating you're not as dumb as they thought you're not that doormat that they thought being around you is scary it's scary you're not able they're not able to really break you they can bend you but to really break you it's like it's it's impossible you're you always find a way they just can't believe how you're able to get up work come home cook clean watch the kids clean keep the house clean like they just they're fascinated by you for real for real they don't know how the heck you are such a phenomenal man and such a phenomenal woman how you keep it all together because they sitting there always strategically trying to figure out how they can copy everybody else because that's what they do they're copiers they're followers trying to keep that that mask tucked nice and neat learning a lot of stuff from you but won't give you the credit for it that's cool you so mentally strong you turned them on but they so narcissistic they won't give you the credit for it that's cool that's fine a lot of y'all the narc the narcissist walked out with a lot they gained a lot messing with you you put them on game you taught them a lot you taught them a lot that's why you were kind of salty the relationship you're like man they're gonna go to somebody else and everything i taught them because you know what you know what you put on the table you know what you really showed them you taught them how to be more confident because they're not confident at all because you eventually you saw that wow this person is not confident at all this person does not have no self-love so you started pouring into them speaking into them speaking life into them you showed them certain things you showed them how to live and how to be alive and that's real that's real and although that may have seemed like something they needed, they couldn't handle. So ultimately you ended up becoming their nightmare. You ended up having to either find a way out of it or they found a way out of it. The relationship just cannot work, just will not work because so many of y'all got that bulletproof mindset. And that means you're all about building personal resilience. You want to manage yourself. You also want to be able to manage others in a healthy way because many of you are leaders. And that's intimidating to a narcissist, somebody who is actually a real leader at heart, a people person, not a people pleaser, people person. It takes mental strength to be able to handle all types of different people and not switch up and not change. And that's you. And that's scary to a narcissist because they don't know how to do that. They can never do that. And it scares them because they can't believe that you're really that real. I can tell y'all the last conversation I had face to face with my narcissistic ex-husband was him telling me he has never witnessed a woman who stands on her ----. He couldn't believe how resilient I was. He couldn't believe how strong I was. He couldn't believe that I wasn't just a talker, but I walk what I talk. And that's why I come off the way I come off. That's why I'm serious. And that's why I could not take his ----. He had to have a backup plan because he knew eventually that ass was going to get thrown out on the curve with all of his his little bags because that's all he came the door with let's just be real here see they trick themselves thinking they can deal with you but they're not well equipped to deal with somebody who has a bulletproof mindset so those of you who's been hurt by a narcissist moving on with somebody else know it's a blessing you're too much for them and that's a good thing so now it means that you need to know your worth and know that you should never settle in that and you you will never settle you could not settle and that's why you left if you did leave you have a bulletproof mindset You ain't going for all that crap that the narcissist has to offer. That's all they have to offer. A bunch of crap. A bunch of crap. A bunch of baloney. That's all they have to offer. Let me get into these comments and I'm going to let y'all go. Chidi Uchikuchi. Oh, Uchikuchi. Oh, I almost said Uchikuchi. So sorry. It was all deceit with the narcissist, but they rolled the dice on their lives, not ours. Absolutely. they hurt themselves they always do it sucks to be a narcissist y'all I got to be because I mean it's like they literally hurt themselves they literally hurt themselves I think it's funny when people hear the word empath and they just think like that means some some fool that just lets a narcissist roll all over them no empaths are the most wise alert people they just give people chances I'm gonna let you prove me wrong I'm gonna give you the benefit of a doubt because everybody deserves a chance that's what empaths feel but once we see that hey you're taking me for a fool yeah yeah it's not the same party it's not it's not a narcissist party no more no it's not god forbid you say no to sex man when you say no to sex to a narcissist oh my god the demon in that and the demon in them manifests oh my god especially narcissistic females because a lot of them use sex as a trap and as soon as that man back down and start saying uh actually not tonight can we just lay can we just cuddle tonight what you want to cuddle since when you want to cuddle we ain't cuddling the narcissistic female boy there they they have um no limits with sex they are unpleasable women and as soon as that man catches on to the fact that he's just being used for sex, she becomes a demon. She may switch up and find a way to love bomb him right back into the sex cycle because narcissistic females, it's definitely a sex game. And somebody, if I'm right, let me know. Because I know there's so many here tonight. God was never going to let them harm us because we gave them a lot. Exactly. That's why I'm like, they so dumb. They don't even know what they be walking into they really fool themselves you know jokes on you silly rabbit that's how I like to put it Elisa Williams so grateful that I let go I no longer think about him so I know I am healed I love that and I feel the same way it's like I don't I don't have those thoughts I don't have that feeling you know it's like there's no hatred there's I don't let's just like hey whatever um what what do they say uh gosh I'm gonna say I'm gonna think about it let bygones be bygones but yeah like whatever bye whether you doing good or not I could care less you know like adios shoot what's up Joshua here from Seattle Tacoma Washington what's up Joshua happy to see you this evening I'm about to let y'all go I know it's Friday night it's late but I have to check man I have to check in thank you Elisa thank you um she said I love your nails thank you I hope god stay with me this time smoky freestyle oh you are gonna be just fine god is with you all the time hey david hey mika love what's up they live every day in bad luck and karma their lives are miserable yeah man yeah i love you guys man it's been a great friday night i just had to take a moment to share you know my thoughts um and just remind you guys like i said in the beginning this is really more so a reminder for my warriors like I know it's not the easiest road to be on but listen this is this is the change and the healing of your life enjoy the process enjoy the process man because it's beautiful and it's it gets better it gets better and I'm here with you guys and um I just look forward to so many more conversations I'm so happy that y'all get here and y'all talk to me and y'all y'all share thoughts back y'all vibe back and I'll be like hey there go my people I love y'all right back y'all my y'all my y'all my warriors though that that that bulletproof mindset man because one thing about it is um the narcissist has taught us that their worst nightmare is that educated person that educated person who is emotionally strong and has a bulletproof mindset. Their worst nightmare, because in the end, we're not sitting here worried about what they got on, what they got going on. I mean, we're not sitting here concerned. We're just worried about moving on and being happy in our lives. Like in the end, we're like, I'm so happy with my life now. I pray for you. I look, I can say, I forgive you. Like, look you i wish you all the best baby that ain't got nothing to do with me your karma has nothing to do like the beauty of just thriving and moving forward it's like oh oh trust me y'all it's possible for those who aren't there yet i'm telling you i am a living witness because a year ago i was like oh lord i know what i know mentally but my heart is telling me otherwise my body feels like ----. I was like, this mentally strong girl just ain't feeling strong, Lord. But I'm at the point where now I'm like, wait a minute. I got this. I am the master of my destiny. I got this. This is my world. This is my life. I got this. Hold on now. I am the prize. I've been the prize and I will always be the prize. Bulletproof mindset. I've become your worst enemy. And let me tell you, for those of you who are dealing with a narc who it looks like they're doing great they have to they got to they got something to prove meanwhile you ain't got nothing to prove your life is going to be great anyway they got something to prove baby because they know what you're capable of they got to be ready for it so they rush into that marriage move into that new big house get that new car they doing it yeah they living that life okay cool they have no idea what's going to happen when you step into a certain part in your healing it's gonna be there's gonna be no competition baby that's what's it what is there to compare nothing to compare here and i'm in my lane you in your lane you in your narcissistic lane and i'm over here in my impact lane and that's just what it is and they gotta live with that they're gonna sit somewhere and just watch you shine on shine bright like a diamond shine bright like a diamond shine bright like a diamond so shine bright beautiful one you will be free you are free come on now walk into your freedom i see that somebody said let them be broke broke broke jokes leave them broke jokes where they at oh my god no man i love y'all but i'ma go those of you who are out enjoying their friday night take a shot for me man you know shoot hit that blunt for me too okay to my smokers i love all of y'all stay blessed stay true stay real i'm gonna see y'all again soon whoo i'm gonna let y'all go i just feel so empowered and just so happy man and i just had to throw that to y'all oh chidi thank you thank you for that i appreciate that super chat thank you for that gift says we love you mommy so true keep healing bulletproof mindset yes period period i love y'all right back man we're going strong man we going we got this i'm with y'all mika love sorry mommy so true for what you went through but your pain and story help us yes listen i i i ain't sorry no more i ain't sorry no more i'm i'm glad it happened i never thought i'd say that but it was meant to happen. It really was. I know exactly why I went through what I went through because it had to happen for a lot of reasons. And you guys will learn more and more and more about me as time goes on, you know, because this is my life journey. This is my recovery journey. So again, thank you all for your love, your support, always being here, everything that you're doing for yourselves, healing your life. And I said I was going to be short on my live today and I'm almost an hour in ain't that something the conversation just be getting juicy and y'all just be y'all just be y'all my hype man y'all my hype man I love y'all though until next time y'all stay blessed stay true stay empowered keep those bulletproof mindsets continue to stay say no continue to put them in their place leave them in their place and continue to thrive and move forward you got this I'm with you reach out to me if you have any questions information you know book those life coaching sessions if you need that type of support. But until next time, guys, and if you're wanting to join my channel and be a member, you know, for the perks in lives and just standing out when you leave comments on videos and stuff like that, check it out. Information is in the description box. I will be live actually Sunday. I'm going to come back on live Sunday. It won't be Sunday at 1 p.m., though. It will be Sunday at 5 p.m. But I'm going to put a notification up just to let you guys know so you can prep to be there um but i will see y'all sunday and i'm gonna follow up with a monday live as well coming up so i look forward to it y'all let's go let's get it until next time beautiful people stay blessed y'all bye guys