The Narcissist’s Love Song #npd #narcissist #narcabuse

Hey guys, Spiritual Whistleblower here. I am back in New York. Over the weekend I had two amazing seminars. I was in Philly this past Saturday and then I was in Washington DC on Sunday. I just want to say thank you to both groups of people, wonderful people that came through. We had good food, great conversation, we fellowshiped, we took pictures and people exchanged numbers and gained new friends and new support system. So I just want to say thank you guys. I had an amazing time. I'm now home resting and recuperating. I have a surprise for all my New Yorkers. Yes, all my people in New York, New Jersey. And if you're in Boston and Connecticut and you're able to make it, I will invite you to surprise on Sunday, August 7th. I am having a pop up brunch in Harlem. Um, it's a unlimited brunch breakfast buffet for $25. Um, that's optional, or you can just come meet me and, you know, get your book signed and we can talk about narcissistic abuse. So the flyer for, um, my surprise Harlem, New York city pop-up brunch will be, um, I'm gonna post the flyer later on today, but that's Sunday, August 7th from 12 p.m to 7 p.m that's a sunday i would love to see all my new yorkers all my people in jersey connecticut boston come to new york city that sunday and um let's talk narc abuse and have some brunch and some cocktails all right guys um other than that um my next seminar is in los angeles los angeles i'll be in la sunday august 21st then for labor day weekend i'm in chicago september 3rd and detroit september 4th those are my next three seminars coming up guys get your tickets now email me chanel jasmine at gmail it's pinned my email address is pinned as the first comment down below in the comment section i can't wait to meet you guys all right so let's get on with this uh video i'm just sitting out here enjoying this amazing weather um yes i'm back in new york i want to talk about the narcissist love song i don't know if anyone has any videos on this I did a TikTok video earlier today but I said I want to go more in depth about it how many of y'all remember from your last relationship with the narcissist did the narcissist select one particular love song and he said this is going to be our song come on ladies you know I'm telling the truth there was one particular love song or let's just say there was a playlist of music and you chose the music and the your place your playlist was so good that the narcissist was like hey I like your music I you know he started getting hooked to your you know the things you like your genre of music your playlist either way whether he chose the love song or whether it's your you know your choice of music what usually ends up happening is once you break up with the narcissist that very same ******* love song that he claims that you and him were going to get married that's going to be your wedding song that's the song you guys make love to it's so special sentimental do you know that the narcissist will turn around and take your special love song and turn it into the new supply you know who the new supply is that's the new woman that's the side chick turned new girlfriend he's going to take your song that was special for you and give it to her yeah basically now why would the narcissist do something like that well you you've got to remember the narcissist has no identity none no personality no identity and while you're in a relationship with the narcissist he's doing this thing called mirroring he's mirroring you he's he's studying you he's studying your personality your mannerisms um the way you talk your taste in music your taste in clothing your taste in movies theater what makes you you you have a personality you're creative you have so many hobbies you have likes and dislikes and so many charismatic things that make you unique and special the narcissist does not now the narcissist can be talented in his or her own way but it's nothing in comparison to the empath so while he's in that relationship with you, it's like he mentally is recording, recording every aspect of you, what you wear, what your habits are, what time of the day you go to the bathroom, what time of the day you shower, what you eat, what type of music you listen to, what type of car you drive, what's your favorite color, what makes you cry, what makes you laugh. He is like studying everything and storing it in his brain and he's building his own identity off of yours this is what mirroring is so by the time your relationship ends and he's already rebounded with the new supply he's going to basically recycle and regurgitate everything that he learned from you everything your personality your identity he's going to use it to impress the new supply and this includes your your type of music the music you're into if you and the narcissist had a special song he's going to turn right around and tell the new supply oh this song makes me think of you you're so special to me I want to get married to this song let's make babies to this song I've never met a woman like you this song makes me think about you you're my long lost he's going to use the very same song that he shared with you that was sentimental to you he's gonna he's gonna share that song with the new supply and you know the sad thing about the new supply she's sitting there thinking wow i must be special oh my god i've never had a man um say these types of things and a man that actually picked out an actual love song and dedicated to me and our future wedding she's sitting there thinking that she's some type of special and she's not even knowing that he stole all this ---- from you his ex he stole everything from you and made it his own just to impress the next person in line after you she doesn't even know what she's getting herself into she doesn't even know this man the narcissist doesn't have a clue what love is. The narcissist has to mimic and pretend. He has to put on a facade to pretend as if he knows how to love or be in love. And what does he do? He finds a love song that he used with his ex-girlfriend and he uses the same love song to impress the new girl. And she's actually going to sit there and believe it all too. Pray for her. Pray for her because she's getting a theatrical performance that the narcissist is acting from beginning to end. It's her turn now. That love song is not special. It's just a tactic he uses. It's a piece of bait that he uses to dangle in front of the new supply to help groom and mold her and shape her into what he wants her to be. The love song means nothing to the narcissist. It's kind of frustrating though. I'm not even going to lie to know that there's somebody out there of the opposite sex that has completely mimicked and copied everything you taught them and used it to impress the next person after you. That's really frustrating to me. Like, you absolutely have no identity, no clue how to be unique. You have no no personality. You don't know how to like, really, you got to steal everything I taught you. You didn't know ---- when we got together. You didn't know jack ---- when we got together. i taught you every ******* thing now you're acting like like you're a ******* god superman to the new supply and she doesn't know you stole everything from ******* me you're a ******* idiot with rocks for brains without me i was the crutch holding you up making you look good and see that's this is the thing when a new supply finally figures out that the narcissist is not who he says he is because i'm gonna tell you one thing that narcs are great at doing they might steal everything you taught them. They might look good in the beginning. They can't maintain it. That's one thing I know for a fact. They can only hold on to the fakeness for so long before that mask slips off because they have no clue on how to maintain the things that they stole from their ex. If you steal my personality, you have to maintain it, okay? You can't half-ass pretend to be me. You going to do it go all the way with it and stay consistent with it the narc the narcissist cannot do that what he's going to do is he's going to get sick and tired of pretending that he knows everything he learned everything from you and he's going to get frustrated he's going to be like how you know how was my ex supposed to you know do all of this your ex mr narcissist doesn't have to try because it's natural when you're being yourself it comes natural and you're consistent at it it's only when you're a fake that things get hard because you're pretending to be something that you're not so the new supply will eventually figure out that the narc was lying the narc was and then to the narcissist will talk about you his ex non-stop to the new supply that's another factor sorry about the background noise that's going to be a dead giveaway because the narcissist you know will keep bringing up his ex's name and that's going to frustrate the new supply but the love song like you just got to shake your head at ---- like that you do it's really sad and you got to feel sorry for the new supply she's sitting there thinking you know she's so special and everything is authentic and real the narcissist is lying his motherfucking ass off even about the love song he doesn't have taste in music he stole your taste in music he stole all he stole your whole playlist now he thinks he knows something you taught him everything he knows you taught him how to have class but as soon as he gets with that new supply all that's going to burn out he doesn't know how to maintain anything that you taught him that's the gift and curse of being a narcissist you move right along you continue to stay classy you continue to you know level up while the narcissist levels down all he can do is hope and pray he finds somebody on your level again to teach him how to have class and and etiquette and good taste in everything the new supply will find out sooner sooner enough so on that note guys thanks again to philly and dc we had an amazing seminar over the weekend i look forward to my new york city pop-up brunch on august 7th la i will see you sunday august 21st and then chicago september 3rd and detroit michigan September 4th for Labor Day weekend I love you guys been a spiritual whistleblower get your tickets now by emailing me see you later