The 10 Signs That Your Narcissistic Ex is With a Downgrade

hey everybody it's the spiritual whistleblower here and right now it's time uh for a very special bonus video um if you are watching this video right man right now little tongue tied if you're watching this video right now it means that you have just purchased um the dollar the value you know when you go to McDonald's or Burger King they have the value menu so i said let me let me do like a value special okay let me um put a very good video out and it's only a dollar to watch the video okay um so thank you for paying your dollar um this video is going to be very informative and um you know i'm crazy so you know i was gotta throw some some shade and some comedy up in there you know to keep things light and funny because narc abuse is a very serious matter it does cause depression so you know whatever i can do to make things a little easier while you're getting you know transitioning through your healing process you know that's what i'm here to do so with that being said um this video is basically the 10 signs that your narcissistic ex has downgraded okay meaning the toxic new supply hence um the person that he or she cheated on with knowingly like this person let's be clear small disclaimer all new supply is not vicious toxic and calculated okay so this video i'm referring to the toxic new supply that individual that knew about you and still helped your ex to cheat tear you down they helped they participated in that smear campaign they viciously did things to tear you down and they don't they don't know anything about you other than what your ex has told them that's a toxic muse supply so this video i'm gonna go down i'm gonna count backwards the 10 signs my windows are wide open this is new york city sorry about the background noise the 10 signs that your ex your narcissistic ex has downgraded that toxic muse supply is a downgrade and i'm about to list the 10 signs okay are you ready this you're going to get a whole bang for your buck i'm a bang i'm a jam pack this video in with 10 signs that your ex is with a motherfucking downgrade okay i got my notes jotted down here are y'all ready you ready let me blow the whistle before we go all right here we go number 10 number 10 they both cyber stalk you they are both cyber stalking you that's right um you know you have you have taken all the you know precautions to block your ex and you have blocked any anyone associated to your ex including his family because by now you know that them toxic in-laws um they're all narcissistic they all knew that you were being played behind your back they was all in on it they was cool with the side chicks they was cool um you know with the game plan they was passing messages between your ex and the side piece like the family and you know the fucked up thing is the family's not even gonna hold the narc accountable and say listen you already got a good woman you already got a good man why are you cheating the family's not gonna do that the family's just gonna go with the flow because the family honestly has they've been down this road several times with all the past lovers they know when you go to meet the family they already know you're gonna get fucked up **** over cheated on they know that you're the last to know wait what's up with these race cars in new york so number 10 they're both cyber stalking yes your ex and the toxic downgrade that new supply the person he's with now they're both cyber stalking you because they have no life they have no life um and they need you to complete that toxic love triangle this toxic person that your ex cheated on you with and he he's now in a relationship with this person this person enjoys the drama this person um loves the love triangle this person is excited by you know your energy um they've been waiting for their magic moment to pop up and make themselves known and make themselves feel irrelevant now they feel like they're on your level they feel like they've stolen your ex from you so this is all exciting okay so whoever the narcissist downgrades with this individual has incredibly low self-esteem and you know if the narc says cyber stalk my ex you know that downgrade is going to cyber stalk you the downgrade knows your instagram your facebook um they're going to create fake accounts your snapchat they're monitoring you even when you think they're not because they need something to talk about at dinner and you're going to be the topic of discussion. You're the celebrity in all this. Just remember that. Number nine, that toxic downgrade is going to reach out to you and try to bait you into arguing, okay? The toxic new supply, that downgrade that your ex chose to be with and rebound with after you is going to reach out to you. Why is this individual reaching out to you? And let's just say it's a time frame between right after you broke up to six months, somewhere in between there. The toxic new supply is basically reaching out to you via social media. It could be your Facebook inbox, the toxic downgrade. He or she could be friend requesting you to be nosy to see what you're posting. They're in your Instagram stories they have their friends and family also lurking so this toxic downgrade is basically reaching out to you for for several reasons your ex will not stop talking about you number one so your ex is is bringing your name up constantly and what this is doing is this toxic new supply the downgrade their curiosity is up their curiosity about you is now up because your ex is telling this person all types of false stories they're telling this person that you're still in love you're stalking you want to sleep with them still um you know you you can't get over they're putting all this ---- in the toxic downgrades mind and because the toxic new supply has low self-esteem he or she doesn't have a mind of their own they have no backbone to stand up to the narcissism and check the narcissist you know when you're in this type of situation I can speak for myself definitely if I'm dating somebody and this individual Derek this individual number one tells me who his ex is points me towards his ex's social media and Facebook I didn't ask for this information I could care less who this person is but this guy obviously is is he wants me to go look up his ex and he won't stop talking about his ex. And that's making me very uncomfortable. I'm, you know, what I'm going to do because I have high self-esteem and I know who I am. I'm not going to look up his ex. I'm not going to reach out to his ex and let her know, you know, that he won't stop talking about her or, um, for that matter, you know, compare notes, ask her, I don't want to interview her. I don't want to compare notes or let her know that he's with me now just so I can make her feel inferior. I have no reason to reach out to this woman. I don't know her. And as always, there's two sides to every story. Yeah, he's sitting up here bad mouthing her, but I'm sure she has her side of the story too that I have yet to hear. But my curiosity is not going to be, you know, I don't care. I don't want to hear about it. My concern is why is this man constantly bringing up his ex when we're out on a date we're supposed to be dating we're supposed to be courting steady we're supposed to be focusing on building what we have but he keeps bringing up his ex in her name okay so number nine you know she'll bait you when the then when this individual is toxic she's gonna reach out to you she wants to talk to you she wants to her curiosity is up. He's got her curiosity up and she needs to know what is it about you? How do you talk? How do you wear your hair? What was the relationship like when you was with him? What was the sex like? What do you do for a living? She wants to know everything about you and more so he's using her also to get information because she's going to take this information back to him. Trust me she will. You are to ignore her if she reaches out to you. If she sends you any type of friend request Facebook block if she inboxes you block I don't care if she says you know what he's abusing me um you know can I talk to you for a minute no because you know what's gonna happen you're gonna feel sorry for her you're gonna fall for this bait and switch tactic y'all are gonna compare notes she might be pissed at him today and they might make up tomorrow and guess what when they make up and they're having sex and they start pillow talking everything that you and her discuss she's going to tell him she's going to go back and tell him and now you're going to be the crazy ex all over again and she's going to treat you like the enemy again so she's going to bait you for multiple reasons she's going to bait you to get a reaction she's going to bait you to taunt you she's going to bait you um to retrieve information on his behalf don't let her bait you Number eight, your ex has had a string of failed relationships and situationships in a short span of time. Let's say two to three years, he's jumped from four different partners, he or she, because this video is for my men too. They have juggled multiple relationships or rather situationships since you have moved on, okay? They're not even with the person, you know, or they, you know, the person they rebounded with behind your back, they're already off to somebody else. They'd have been in three, four situations in a matter of two years since you've been gone, since you've moved on. Okay. That means your ex has downgraded. Your ex has not found somebody on your level. Your ex is not happy. And he just keeps bouncing around if he found somebody sorry about the background noise guys today must be race day in New York because they're just like racing up and down the highway but if your ex really think about it if he found somebody on your level he would stick with that person he wouldn't be jumping from one situation to the next situation he wouldn't have multiple Facebook accounts looking up more of his old victims or trying to look like a single man he's on the prowl he's on the hunt he's in predator mode and that's because he cannot find your replacement at this point he's being a whore um and he's playing with multiple people he's got multiple people in that rotation so that's confirmation um he's downgraded number seven if he does get into um somewhat of a relationship because again i don't want to call these relationships i like call them situationships and you notice that the person that he's with has the same you know skin color this person wears their hair like yours their body shape their size is is like yours the same build your ex is basically trying you know he's with somebody who physically resembles you um he's trying to find your duplicate okay he's trying to find somebody that looks similar to you and this person they may have the same complexion as yours they may wear their hair like yours they may be as tall as you same build or whatever they might drive the same car as you but they cannot do it the way that you do it i don't care how much your ex tries to replace you or find a woman and i've heard stories too by the way where the ex will get in a relationship with someone with the same name as yours he's in another relationship with a woman named Chanel i've heard this story over and over again so whoever they end up with next there's some type of similarity something that your ex saw in them that reminds him of you this person is a downgrade because your ex is trying to replace you and um he's got to settle for this next best thing either case she or he is not you that's all that matters all right uh number six it's another sign that your narcissist your narcissistic ex has downgraded it's when the new supply that toxic new supply knowingly knows that she is a rebound but she acts like she has high self-esteem and she's the queen of the whole castle okay so what what this means is that toxic new supply knows damn well that she was sneaky and deceptive in helping your ex cheat on you and you broke things off and moved on and by default she's now the current spouse or the current partner she won by default you you gladly gave her the position because you were tired of your ex you were you you you don't want to be with your ex no more your ex is taking you to hell and back cheated beat on you lied stole gaslight starting arguments you were sick of his ---- okay i was sick sick of it you're sick of it we all are sick of it so the that toxic new supply will win by default okay your ex never intended for you to catch this catch him with this person he wanted to juggle both of you or train you to be the side chick while he elevates the person he's cheating on you with to the number one position okay so either way this toxic new supply understands that he or she is a rebound this is a rebound situation the egg the narc just got out of relationship with you and the next very next day he's in a new relationship with this toxic rebound this toxic new supply but the sick ---- is this toxic downgrade really feels like she's bigger better than you like she stole him away from you or fellas uh he stole her away from you no or what is a rebound a rebound is nothing more than a painkiller what do you think is going to take place in their relationship if you broke up with your ex today and tomorrow he's already with this person he jumped immediately into another situation the day after y'all broke up he's going to talk about you non-stop their relationship is built off off of you their relationship is all about you you're the reason they're together okay so this new person this downgrade has become the painkiller your ex is going to vent and complain and bring your name up to this toxic downgrade over and over again and instead of this toxic downgrade saying hey can't you listen how can we focus on our relationship and build what we have if you keep bringing up your ex if you don't stop this i'm gonna leave you the toxic downgrade is not going to leave the narc instead that toxic downgrade the new supply is going to be angry with you angry at you because your ex cannot stop talking about you all right so that toxic new supply knows in her heart that she's nothing more than a rebound and she's a painkiller and the whole situation is just that a situationship that's temporary and she knows that she's going to lose him the same way that she got him creeping he's going to creep on her just like she helped him creep on you and she deserves it all right where are we at number five number five um that toxic downgrade is mad at you because she does not have your level of self-esteem um this toxic new supply knows damn well that your ex is a piece of ---- okay and this toxic new supply knows that you are the stronger one in this equation because you will not tolerate disrespect you will not tolerate cheating lies any of that and you are willing to walk away no matter how much it hurts it takes incredible strength to hold you know have some dignity and self-respect to walk away from a situation that is tearing you down emotionally and financially and spiritually this toxic downgrade doesn't have your strength this toxic downgrade um wishes secretly secretly wishes she had your strength and and um you know you carry yourself like royalty you carry yourself like a queen you carry yourself like a king you don't let people walk all over you you have boundaries this toxic downgrade does not and this is why your ex chose this person because your ex is really looking for a doormat your ex doesn't know anything about sustaining a healthy relationship he's looking for a doormat he's looking for a surrogate mother he's looking for a woman who will let him run all over run all over her the same way his mother allows his mother allows him to get away with everything so he wants a woman to baby him and let him do what he wants like his mother does but you being a queen you have standards you're not going to let him walk all over you mistreat you disrespect you you're not afraid to walk off and be alone you'd rather be alone than to be disrespected and this downgrade this new supply secretly envies that about you you have self-respect and dignity and she does not she's going to cling to him for dear life because she has low self-esteem and codependency issues and that's her problem all right number where we at uh number four the toxic downgrade will allow him to use her as a pawn to carry out harassment against you this is called abuse by proxy okay so again like i mentioned this earlier he's going to trash talk you so bad he's going to vilify you so bad to this woman to the point where you know and i've heard stories this toxic downgrade is threatening physically threatening to assault um the ex which is you driving past your house um popping up to places where she knows you frequent she's now stalking you because he will not stop vilifying you and making you out to be the bad guy okay um and if he tells her to fist fight you she's going to confront you i've heard stories of these women you know being confrontational or stirring up trouble calling your job trying to get you fired or slashing your tires if he if he orders her because she's his concubine concubine she is his handler his demonic handler he gives her orders to ******* harass you she's gonna do it she's gonna do it her self-esteem is that low she's gonna harass you on social media she's gonna drive past your house she's gonna pop up to the places you hang out she's gonna pop up at the beauty salon or nail shop and and give you the side eye she's gonna report back to him she is willing to allow him to use you he's gonna use her as a pawn she's nothing more than a tool he's trying desperately to pull you into that love triangle he does not want you to move on so he's using her as his personal minion to further abuse you and and she's going to help run a smear campaign this is called abuse by proxy and it's so sad that women like this exist and they don't have enough self-esteem to to understand that they're being used by a man who is not over his ex okay so number three uh that downgrade that toxic new supply she hates you because he will not stop talking he will not stop obsessing over you um like i said those of us that have high self-esteem will not tolerate this behavior if you're out on a date and you notice that the person you're on a date with is bashing his exes is talking non-stop about his ex his baby moms um he's he's triangulating um when you're in a healthy situation um and a person is truly healed and they have no baggage no baby mama drama no baby daddy drama they're not going to bring up their exes they're not they're not when you're done with your past you're indifferent to it you're done with your past you don't you're not carrying any baggage but a man who is carrying baggage baby mama drama um any any type of ---- from his past relationships and he's he will not stop talking about it non-stop to you it means he's triangulating he's bad mouthing you to a woman about a woman you don't even know about and he wants you to hate her and he wants you to contact her because she's more than likely uh cut him off and she's trying to move on and he's desperate at this point and one of these the tactics uh to get her attention is by using another woman to make her jealous or to pull her back in so if he's talking about his exes non-stop or one particular ex he doesn't care about your feelings he could care less about your feelings he's going to keep um talking about her um obsessively um number one to make you jealous to uh to make the downgrade not you i'm sorry to make this downgrade very jealous and this downgrade is going to be like what is it about her oh my god so maybe if i cook more meals and maybe if i do more sexual things i'll make him you know i could be better than his ex and maybe he'll shut up and stop talking about her she will you know get in this imaginary competition with you and she doesn't even understand the more that she does the more ungrateful that your ex doesn't care your ex is going to drain her because she's gonna have to learn the hard way that nothing she does will ever you know appease him or please him but that's her problem she chose to cheat with him and this these are the consequences that come with this alright so number two the downgrade is ugly on the inside and out and she projects this ugliness onto you by calling you jealous of her okay do you understand this toxic downgrade she's ugly on the inside and she's ugly on the outside she's not a good looking woman she's definitely not good looking like you and because she's delusional and she knows you you're gorgeous because he won't stop talking about you he's directed her to look at your social media she's probably gone through his cell phone and seeing your pictures in his cell phone she knows you're gorgeous she knows you're successful she knows you got it going on but because she's so threatened and she feels like she's the better woman because she feels like she stole him from you and she doesn't really understand that she didn't steal ---- she she won the man by default because you don't want his trifling ass you gave him to her she won by default but she you know because she's so delusional she'll start projecting that ugliness her toxicity onto you and she'll start calling you jealous so you're jealous you're just mad that i got him and you don't know more and you know you're jealous of me it's pure delusion okay that's another sign that your ex is downgraded because anyone with two eyes looking at both you and his new woman will clearly see he fucked up and downgraded you know he he went from gold he went from a diamond to a piece of ******* coal and everyone standing around with two eyes can see that clearly except for her because she's delusional okay so now we're down to number one what is the number one sign that your ex has downgraded drum roll please and i gotta blow the whistle on this one the number one sign that your ex has downgraded the new supply is a narcissist himself or herself this person is a narc that is the ultimate downgrade okay when one narcissist gets into a relationship with another narcissist it's a recipe for disaster we're talking about two highly manipulative people two highly controlling people two people that love drama two people like who like to cause problems in other people's lives um they're both going to manipulate and control each other they're both going to cheat on each other they're both going to lie um you know it's just back and forth back and forth and really this is the main reason why this toxic person is is doing all these things to stalk and harass you it's because this person is a narcissist narcissists behave like this narcissists are predators and stalkers they're highly jealous they're they have no remorse no empathy they're completely delusional they don't hold themselves accountable for their bad behavior and and they will tag team up with other narcs to harass and stalk an innocent person this is why your ex who is a narcissist chose this downgrade because this downgrade is a narcissist and they both can come together collectively to harass you this is what narcissists do best they collect they can't attack people one-on-one they'll never fight you one-on-one they have to come together if they're doing a smear campaign against you and tearing you down and spreading gossip they will always talk together they will sit together at a table and tear you down The narc cannot accomplish his abuse tactics without the help of a minion, an assistant, a handler. That downgrade is his assistant, okay? And they're going to work collectively to tag team up against you. This downgrade is a narcissist, okay? That is the number one reason that you will know your ex has downgraded, okay? I want to thank you guys so much for, you know, booking, working with me, trusting me. um, with this knowledge, please spread the word. Thank you. This is a dollar value video and I'm so glad that, um, you took the time out to, um, listen thoroughly. Okay. Stay narcissistic free and block everything. Block the new supply and block your ex. Take care.