Narcissists Have a “High School” Mentality #npd #narcissist #narcabuse

Hey everyone, spiritual whistleblower here, happy Saturday today is the day, this evening I will be holding my second annual support group meet up here in Houston, Texas, I'm excited, I'm up early I gotta get my day going, um I'm so excited to meet everybody, everyone for my Houston location this evening everyone should have the location the time, all the details, I sent everything out um all my people for Dallas, Texas next week, Dallas is Friday, October 22nd, I sent out the location, if you don't have it, email me and I'll give it to you, all my people in Austin, Texas Sunday the 24th, um I will be emailing you guys, um by Monday so be patient with me, um you will have all the details by Monday, okay great, um geez and I am still doing phone coaching, guys in between while I'm on the road traveling, I talk to people every day, I coach people every day while I'm out traveling, so feel free if you want to schedule an appointment, 15 minute, 30 minute or 60 minute, please email me at chanel jasmine at gmail.com, now uh let me sit up here before I get my day started because I felt this, uh God put this on my heart to talk to all y'all that feel isolated, those of you that feel that you don't have the love and support of family and friends, those of you that are embarking on becoming entrepreneurs, those of you that are trying to relocate and start a new life with a clean slate far away from your family and friends, it's just about leveling up and doing something risky that you've never done before to break free from the things that held you back in your past. this video is for you. Let me explain something. The difference between narcissists and us, they cling. And when I say cling, they hold on to everything from their past, everything toxic from their past. Okay. And when I say from their past, I mean, they stay connected and they cling to toxic family members. They stay connected to and they cling to toxic friendships. And when I say toxic friendships, I mean friendships where they know that the inner circle of people ain't about ----, but they're too afraid to break free from it because they feel validated when they're connected to this group of people. Narcissists have a high school mentality. That's where I'm going with this video high school mentality of college because college is very immature we go to college you know to get our degrees but trust me it's a whole lot of immature childish ---- that goes down in college as well no different than high school let me tell you I'm going to use my life as an example in this video to show y'all to you know I want to just teach y'all to stay on your path I don't care how lonely it feels I don't care how many people turn their back on you stay the course stay close to God don't let nobody distract you take you off your path because he the way that God's about to level you up in front of these people the narcissist cannot let go of people from their past the narcissist cannot and will not let go of toxic associations toxic affiliations toxic friendships they recycle their lovers they cannot let go of the past for ---- just pay attention look at the people in your family like I look at my mother my mother to this day has held on to all her toxic friendships okay now I'm sure there's people that she grew up with that can't stand her and don't **** with her and they know she's trifling but then she has her female friends that know she ain't about ---- and they stay ******* with her they stay attached to her you know you know how can you this is my thing how can you have a female friend and you know she abuses her children you know she's abusive towards her children and you still want to be her girlfriend that's that's a serious character flaw i'm not staying friends with no bitch that abuses her children period point blank because birds of a feather flock together bitch so for you know i just look at some of my mother's girlfriends like ---- because like you want to stay connected to this bitch and you know this bitch she married a pedophile you know she was abusive towards me and my brother but you you you you you like being with her because you know y'all are clicked up and y'all grew up together where are your morals where are your principles where what you know are you a piece of ---- too are you a narcissist too so like i said my mother has held on and clung on to people from her past because those same people are a bunch of enablers um they probably snort cocaine like she do and they all are liars like they help her cover up her lies and she'll help cover she'll help them cover up their lies so like I said birds of a feather flock together these are high school friends these are people my mother went to high school with and my mother has not elevated in her life she has got she's been stagnated in her life she has never you know when are you going to stop moving from state to state that's another video y'all I'm gonna do a video on how narcissists love living out of hotels and they love moving they don't never stay in one spot they love to move a lot they love to to move around because they have no stability or they don't like paying their bills and their mortgage so they gotta move they like they like staying in hotels oh that's a whole nother video I look at my sister bitch is clinging on to all her old friendships there was a meme I saw on social media it's a perfect perfect motto um it says something to it says something like look at your inner circle uh if your inner circle is not elevating you then you're stuck in a cage it's something like that but it's it's it's basically saying the people you surround yourself with if they're not pushing you to your higher self to elevate then you're basically stuck in a cage you're trapped in an inner circle of people that keep you stagnant in life now whether you want to face that reality or not that's up to you but yeah i look at so if you look at a lot of narcissists look at the narcissists in your family look at their circle of friends i promise you look at their inner circle of ******* friends it's usually people from their past that enable their **** ---- people from their past that are narcissistic just like they are birds of a feather flock together honey the narcissist likes to stay connected to all their old affiliates all their old toxic friendships they recycle all their old love they could be married they could have new relationships be engaged they still gonna creep and cheat with their old lovers i'm telling y'all this is why these motherfuckers never get ahead in life and then they got the nerve to sit up and be mad at you because you you and me we as empaths we come to an understanding like look God is not going to elevate me to my higher self and bless me the way that I need and deserve until i disconnect from all the dead weight i gotta cut off all those old affiliates i gotta cut off those old toxic fake friends i gotta cut off nasty dysfunctional gossiping family members if i plan to elevate and get far in life i gotta disconnect from the dead weight we understand that it took us a while to come to terms with it it's painful we love we love these people we actually love these people but they don't love us the way we love them so we have to come to terms with disconnecting ourselves and and doing a sweep through you got a clean house honey you got to get rid of these folks you got the clean house oh jesus they don't clean house because their insecurities they need those toxic friendships to validate their false self they need fake friends around to to blow smoke up their ass and stroke their fake egos they need fake people around them all times because they don't know how to fulfill themselves. They don't know how to get close to God and do it the right way. They don't have the anointing that you and I have. High school mentality, college mentality. Let me tell y'all something. This is when I learned to stop ******* with people I grew up with. I went to a couple of colleges, but I'm going to say Grambling State University is a black college. It's a historically black college and university. And at one point, I would say about eight years ago, I launched and started my own hip hop magazine here in New York city. It was a print magazine, 52 pages, beautiful, colorful. I put up $25,000 of my own money and I kept the magazine running for four years. I had all types of rappers, singers, industry people. Um, I got to show y'all the magazine, but very successful magazine. and when I had the the magazine um all the people I'm not even gonna call them friends people I went to college with at Grambling State University I had a lot of um launch parties I would have a magazine rooftop party they came to all my parties called themselves supporting me and my magazine because the reality was this they know I was connected I'm still connected I just I move in silence now I don't let people in my business and let people know who I'm who I'm having business dinners with and and I keep people out of my business and I keep ---- off of social media but I'm still very connected to the New York City music industry entertainment industry um they came to all my parties they was up there like yo we support you this magazine is dope yo this is crazy it yeah because they know they know my history all my work is on google okay i've probably interviewed some of y'all favorite celebrities um artists rappers you see me at a celebrity party you'll see me on a yacht you'll see me at a mansion party you'll see me backstage at a hip-hop concert i had access to everything and still do quiet is kept so everybody that knew i was highly connected they came to all my parties to support me this is all the people I went to college with the moment that I started finding myself the moment that I said you know what this industry this music industry stuff is fake it's satanic um you know I got what I needed I learned a lot you know I'm respected as a businesswoman I didn't have to sleep my way to the top I got out of it and when I got out of it I started learning and evolving spiritually and I said you know what i want to do to work for god **** this industry stuff i want to work for god so i found my calling and purpose and it was narcissistic abuse start getting out here and helping people and teaching people about narcissistic abuse and freeing them from abusive relationships and abusive family so once i started doing that and once i started writing books because i already did the magazine i already have a i already have a history as a journalist an accomplished journalist in New York City I took all my writing experience and turned it into something to help people you know in abusive relationships I started writing books I have seven published books I'm out here you know doing motivational speaking internationally helping people once I got on this ---- where I'm helping people in in abusive relationships you know we're all these friends from college none of them support me none of them had come to my support group meetups once I switched the vibe from the hip hop community and turned it over to my calling and purpose. Everybody disappeared. But trust and believe they, they watch me. They're all watching me on my Instagram. They're watching my numbers go up. They watching my followers, total strangers support the **** out of me. But the people I went to college and high school, they just sit and watch like, wow, we can't **** with her because you know what? This very same toxic narcissistic behavior that she talks about every day on her platform, she's describing me. So yeah, I went to college and high school with a bunch of toxic, abusive narcissists. And now they see me using my platform to help people stay the **** away from people like them. Now it's a problem. Now they're not going to support me, but they're going to stay watching me. They're going to stay watching God blow my platform up. So what I say to you is this, narcissists stay connected to their toxic old affiliates, uh, affiliations, they'll never level up. But once you separate and you understand your spirituality, you understand what God called you to do in life. You're going to drop all that dead weight. Family got to go fake friends, old affiliates, all that got to go. And God's going to blow you up in a ******* face. I put that on my life, keep going. And when it feels lonely, God is there with you. Okay. Houston, what's up? I'll see you later tonight. God bless y'all.