The Narcissist Keeps Running Home to His Mama #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #emotionalincest #ex

Good morning, everybody. Spiritual Whistleblower here, live from Houston, Texas. It is pouring down outside right now. It's storming outside because you know I love to do my morning cardio exercise routine. I'd be outside right now walking through the streets of Houston, Texas, but it is pouring outside and I'm snuggly. i'm comfortable i'm answering my business emails i have some phone consultations lined up today so i'm indoors look how snuggly i love this blanket i'm so comfortable and snuggly um so i'm indoors today but sis that ain't stopping nothing i still can give y'all this quality content these videos from the comforts of indoors while it's storming outside okay uh like i said houston texas i am here saturday is my event swvs uh swb not v swb's birthday celebration narcissistic abuse meetup is here saturday october 16th here in houston texas if you would like to there are still tickets left over if you want to uh you know come through and have a good time i'm celebrating all libra if you're a libra let's celebrate together i have birthday cake come on come on um the following week after uh friday october 22nd i will be in dallas dallas dallas texas i will see you all next week friday october 22nd get your tickets dallas and then on that sunday uh october 24th i'll be in austin austin y'all sit tight i'm sending the emails out I sent the location out for Houston and Dallas Houston and Dallas y'all should have y'all check your emails I sent out the location Austin I will have y'all location ready next week be patient okay I'm just one woman girl I'm just one woman be patient with me I got you uh so Austin Texas is Sunday uh October 24th okay guys and um this month will wrap up my summer tour I went all over the United States, uh, conducting support group meetups for survivors of narcissistic abuse in October. This is it here for me because after October is done, I'm going into hibernation and I'm going to finish up all my projects, my books, the things that I'm working on to bring y'all greatness. I started a domestic violence organization called BWANA, Black Women Against Narcissistic Abuse. Um, I've got a lot of things I'm working on, so I got to pull back from the social media and complete my work in preparation for the brand new year 2022 that is coming okay so all my people in Texas I'm here I'm in Houston right now holla let's get into this video this video is for my ladies ladies ladies motherfucking ladies let me explain something okay sis and I'm gonna talk to you like I'm your big sister we here sis and don't even like listen if my tone of voice sounds like I'm being condescending or I'm talking down to you please get that ---- out your head I'm talking to you like I love you and I want to shake some motherfucking sense into your head okay so please don't get it twisted I'm gonna explain in this video why does the man keep running back home to his mama why does a man keep running back home to his mommy this nigga is in his 40s his 50s we can even say late 30s why does he keep running home to his mommy his mama um let me let me let me say this ladies like i said in several other videos before you get in too deep and you think you want to pursue a future with this ************ even consider marrying him moving in with him sis you better you better figure out you better investigate how was he raised who raised him what are the women like in his family i tell you it's critical because if them women in his family number one there's this there's a word called incest there's another word called emotional incest if these women are supposed to be his blood relatives however they're behaving as if they want to ******* suck him you're gonna have a problem yeah you're gonna have a problem because if you come in that family he introduces you and you're beautiful you got your ---- together baby you're competition these women instead of them knowing their role and behaving like family members they're low-key hating on you and they're ready to ******* break your relationship up because they feel like you're taking him away from the toxic family they're like our family is dysfunctional but it's normal and we love it and it's comfortable and safe for us how dare you pull him out of our family and start a new life with him this is how these bitches think they're not going to ever admit to it but all you got to do is just watch the behavior of his mama watch the behavior of his sister his female cousins his nieces there's incest in the family there is incest pay attention there the streets the street slang is called kissing cousin find out if he has a kissing cousin this is the cousin he will **** uh however he will use her to be his you know oh you know i'm just kicking it with my cousin when he's out in the streets and you want him to come home he gonna tell you i'm out with my cousin my cousin you know i ain't i ain't doing nothing you can as you can ask my female cousin he gonna use that female cousin because female cousin is ******* and sucking him and because she's a family member he can use her to throw you off y'all better peep game these niggas that come from these families be so fucked up because the whole goddamn family is fucked up but let me get back to on point why does he keep running back home to his mama think about it mommy mommy is a trifling toxic narcissist mommy is a queen narcissist mommy was a narcissist before she gave birth to him mommy been toxic before before she even you know thought to get pregnant or his daddy got mommy pregnant mommy was toxic already let's get that out the way mommy brings her baby boy into this world now there's two types of situations if mommy is a single mother and she has no man in her life she's raising her baby boy to take the place of her man you the man of the house you know the baby is eight nine ten eleven years old she's pressuring him to be the man of the house when he's a little boy that is toxic parenting he should not be telling a little boy he's the ******* man of the house a lot of times these women allow their sons to sleep in the ******* bed with them it's okay when he's a baby he's a toddler but as your son gets older he has no ******* goddamn business sleeping in the bed with you he shouldn't see you with your titties hanging out walking around naked sis baby if he's a baby toddler you're breastfeeding him it's okay but when he hits them them adolescence years he's old enough you know where his the kids can clown him you have no business walking around the house naked in front of him you should not be letting him sleep in a bed with you there are just things that are inappropriate you should draw boundaries but see when his mom is a narcissist all that ---- will go all that ---- will go um if there's other female family members flirting with him and he's a little boy mama ain't gonna say nothing all that ---- is normalized in these types of families okay so if he's raised by a toxic ass single mother he's either going to end up hating her and getting away from her and breaking free and he's going to you know start a new life with a good woman that's nothing like his mama or what he's going to do is he's going to go out into the world and punish women for the mistakes that his mother did you know growing up so he'll get in good relationships with good women but he'll end up destroying them relationships uh because he hates his mama and he assumes that all women behave like his mama he'll get with a good woman and he'll he'll actually sit up and wait for his woman to **** up and do something wrong and he'll say you know what you're just like my mama you know you ain't ---- like my mama they're waiting for they're looking for flaws in all women that match the flaws of their mama to give them a reason to sabotage their relationship and guess what where is he gonna run when he destroys his relationships where does he run he runs back home to his mommy ladies listen a lot of these dudes if they don't live at home with their mama i dated a guy he had an apartment building his apartment was two doors down from his mama's apartment he lived close to his mama his he gave his mama a key to his apartment if he's not home she can go in his apartment so it's the same thing like he has an unhealthy toxic connection to his mama he may not live with her but if he's living two doors down from her he lives up the block from her she he's still giving her all this power and deep in his heart he hates her ass he can't stand her he has a love-hate relationship with her so you gotta watch for these dudes if they were raised by a single mother was she abusive towards him did she beat the **** out of him did she emasculate him when when he was a little boy call him a punk a sissy stop crying you're supposed to be the man in the house did she dump all this responsibility on him when he was a little boy trying to make him the man of the house toxic toxic toxic you need to find out now if this bitch had a man let's just say he was born into a family where he had a daddy his parents were married and he watched his father disrespect his ******* mama his daddy might have cheated his daddy might have beat the **** out of his mama um his mama sat back and didn't protect him while his daddy was beating the **** out of him he's gonna hate his mama he loved her but he hate her at the same time you let my daddy beat the **** out of me you let my daddy bully us then he sat back he watched his mama get beat up and bullied by the daddy so he don't respect his mama either bitch you should have ******* stood up for yourself and left this ******* nigga these young boys be resenting their mamas because they their mothers lack self-respect to leave a toxic man so her son will grow up thinking all women are the same his mama has ruined i'm telling y'all the mama is ruining these men so let me let me get to the point why does he keep running back home to mama because mama set him up to fail mama has put it in his brain your loyalty is your your loyalty is to your mama first i come before before any woman in your life mama does not want any boundaries she must be able to come in and out of her son's life want to be able to you know ask him for money he got a whole family a wife she don't give a **** she's going to intrude on the boundaries she's going to be in his business all the time she's she's going to try to set him up with a mistress yeah mama will set him up with a new mistress to **** your relationship up and because he'll end up fighting with you because he will not get rid of his mama's toxic ways you're gonna end up kicking him out in the streets and guess what guess where he's gonna go when you kick him out he's gonna run back home to mommy and mommy gets to regain that control over him but what what the six this is the sick ---- when he goes back home to live with his mama he's gonna start disrespecting her he's gonna you know she's gonna get mad at him because he don't want to pay her no rent money he wants to use her he in there cooking up eating up her food he using up her washer and dryer burning up her electricity yeah bitch he's using you because you enable him to be a ******* user and manipulator and then he's cussing at you disrespecting you so mama gets tired too so mama will want to put him off on an innocent woman mama will want him to move in with another woman just to get him off her back temporarily until she starts missing her baby. Then she wants to, you know, involve herself in his relationship, break it up so that he can come back home. It's a push-pull, passive-aggressive, dysfunctional, toxic ass. The mama is fucked up. And I blame these niggas. They so ******* weak, they can't see the manipulation that their mama has put over their head and then cursed their life. Y'all, when you see he come from a toxic mama, get the **** away from this nigga, all right? On everything. I love y'all. Houston, what's up?