Narcissistic Mothers Destroy Their Daughters #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #covertnarcissist #toxic

Hello, hello everyone. Spiritual Whistleblower here. Happy Thursday. Before I jump into this video, and it is by request, lots of women have requested that I discuss the topic that I'm going to be doing in a few minutes. Guess what? Tomorrow, Friday, I will be in Cleveland, Ohio. Now the event, the Narcissistic Abuse Support Group in Cleveland takes place Saturday. So there is time to buy tickets. This Sunday, October 3rd, I will be in New Orleans. same thing you guys get your tickets if you want to attend Cleveland or New Orleans now the rest of the month October I will be in Texas I will be in Houston October 16th Dallas Texas October 22nd and I'll be in Austin Texas October 24th get your tickets now because these are I'm doing a birthday celebration in Texas all three dates in Texas will be birthday they'll be special you know I'm going to dress up and everything. So please come out and help me celebrate my birthday this month, October, and we'll have a good time. Again, I'm available for phone coaching. You email me at [email protected] Get scheduled today and I'll be here for you. All right. Now today, by request, I want to talk about narcissistic mothers and their daughters. This is a big one. um i did a very short 30 second reel on instagram this morning then i spoke out about you know i said if you want to know why you continue to jump from one toxic and i was speaking to women really um it's a general video for men and women but women are are responding so uh i said in the the video if you want to know why you continue to attract toxic relationships and toxic friendships then you need to take a good look at your mother and father either one or both of them are narcissistic and what has happened is that because their behavior is so dysfunctional and toxic they have programmed you in your childhood to normalize their abusive behavior and what happens when you become an adult you jump into friendships and relationships with people that are the duplicate of your mom and dad so your boyfriend is basically a reincarnated version of your daddy fellas you're with a toxic woman she is the reincarnated version of your mama or your grandmama somebody in your family groomed you to attract abusers so you know uh women want me to talk more about the narcissistic mother and um her her influence over her daughters okay so i'll break it down because and i'll definitely use my situation because i was raised my i believe my mother is a sociopath she is an ex-convict she is violent um she's abusive she's verbally abusive emotionally abusive financially she's a gold digger um she's definitely um physically abusive all of the above highly manipulative she you know puts on the facade that she's a goody two shoes to the public eye doing her community service but behind closed doors she does not treat all her children equally she demands respect but she doesn't give respect because she thinks her children are still five years old and she can talk to them and order them around any kind of way but when you get a backbone and stand up to her then she has a ******* problem so I will talk about i gotta get away from the noise guys i'm in the park it's a bit noisy here i'm gonna get to a little quiet bench um i'm gonna talk about a narcissistic mother's influence over her daughter okay now mommy um if she's a narcissist she definitely was abused in her childhood either she was neglected by her mother your grandmother uh you got to find out how she was abused she may have been molested. Her mother may have not raised her and dropped her off on her grandmother who raised her. In other words, abandonment. So your grandmother may have also, my grandmother was definitely a covert narcissist and she abandoned my mother and left my mother to be raised by her grandmother. That's what covert narcissists do. They're disconnected emotionally from their children and on top of that my mother was a love child many of you can relate oh New York is so noisy many of y'all are uh you know were conceived out of a love affair you you were you were a love child because your parents had a fling either mom was a side chick or daddy was cheating on his wife and you were conceived that way so my mother was conceived she had a twin sister but my mother is a result of a fling okay and both her father and her mother my grandmother are narcissists may they all rest in peace let me break this down to y'all so you got to understand your mother's upbringing number one and why she turned out to be so ******* toxic dysfunctional insecure incredibly insecure deeply insecure dig into her childhood try to you know find answers ask family members you know i got the answers i know why my mother's fucked up in the head and walking around like she ain't did nothing nor will she hold herself accountable apologize to her children it's always hey y'all can kiss my ass no i'm not kissing your ass bitch i'ma hold you accountable to you on your ******* deathbed and i know you watching i'ma hold you motherfucking accountable to you on your **** and i'm not going to your funeral and if your ass is sick in the hospital I'm not coming to visit you you're going to be held accountable ************ till you apologize and own up to the ---- you did you destroyed your ******* family you are my father both so a narcissistic mother um her influence over her daughters I you know I talk about how a narcissistic mother destroys her son I wrote a whole book on it mother made you mother **** you is a book about how toxic women raise and destroy their sons they groom their sons to destroy good women so that they can control their sons. They want their sons money. It's emotional incest. They want their sons, you know, they treat their sons like their lover more than a son. So what type of damage does she do to her daughter? Okay, so here, let me give you two different scenarios. The first scenario is the one daughter who she is jealous of. Now, if you're a victim and you're watching my page you are more than likely a victim of abuse if you're watching me then there's the chances are your mother was jealous she was competitive and I'm talking about when you were a little girl and a teenager she was jealous of your beauty back then she treated you like a woman who wanted to **** her nigga she didn't support you morally she didn't say I love you she was emotionally disconnected sure she might have provided paid the bills and cooked dinner but emotionally she was disconnected there was no emotional nurturing and that is the most important thing that a child needs before financial comes and if she's a narcissist she doesn't want to raise her ******* kids to begin with so if you were appointed to take care of your siblings then what she did was she stole your childhood from you forced you to grow up early and she uh you know like me i had to work two jobs and my mother took all my paychecks i was in high school with two jobs i never spent any of my money shopping at the mall my friends saving money for college my mother took everything and she was jobless she stayed at home on her fat ass watching soap operas and her pedophile husband was locked up at the time so I she turned me into you know the caretaker financial provider because she was jobless and her nigga was laid up in jail so the responsibility was dumped on me to have a job to pay the bills and get groceries my senior year of high school which is why I had to escape and get away to college and I went to college several states over to get away from my mother. I was gone. I couldn't wait to get away from my mother. So if you're the scapegoat child, your mother's going to be jealous of you. And that's whether she has a man in the house or not. Let's talk about the scenario. If she does not have a man or, you know, your daddy's dead or your daddy remarried somebody else, your daddy's not in the picture. Your mother's still going to abuse you. If she, if she's a single mother, she will still abuse you or she will jump from one toxic nigga to the next a lot of y'all have stepfathers that have molested you and your mother treats you your mother knows a nigga ain't ---- your mother knows he's a cheater liar scumbag but your mother will stick by his side and treat you like a side chick trying to steal her nigga your own mother will ******* betray you for a piece of dick okay that's how threatened and jealous and insecure she is of her own daughter. Okay. This is why when you grow up, you are constantly attracting toxic men because these toxic narcissistic men have the same personality as your mother. Okay. Took me years to figure this out, but I jumped into relationships with sociopaths because my mother is a sociopath and her behavior was normalized in our household growing up. I normalized it. And because I was trained as a teenager to have no boundaries, to always put everybody's needs before mine. I was a caretaker at a young age, always let people walk all over me. My parents trained me like that. So your mother will forever be in competition with you. If you have children, she will try to take her grandchildren, she'll take you to court and try to steal your children from you. because she's desperate for control she'll she'll go to court this is why a lot of these toxic mothers file fake child protective services reports your mother will call the police and file fake police reports she wants to **** your life up because she knows she was a piece of ---- mother to you and she's trying to destroy you so that you could be on her level so she could have the one up over you now okay so for those of you that are still dealing with an abusive mother and you're 30 40 50 years old shame on you and I hate to say it like that but you know what you have to do you got to cut that bitch off she should not have your phone number she should not know where you live you're never going to heal if you keep you keep trying to control the situation you feel sorry for her you feel guilty for her you're not going to ******* heal till you cut the bitch off and treat her like she's dead she is the root of all your issues honey start dealing reality now the other type of daughter your mother will if your mother has multiple daughters like my sister she will turn that daughter into a narcissist a duplicate of herself so she wants one daughter to be a whipping post you know the typical cinderella story she she wants to you know the cinderella story they treated cinderella her sister her stepsister they treat her like ---- they were mean to her and that you're the cinderella okay your sister who is a narcissist she is the the the nasty sisters the stepsisters that mistreated cinderella so if you have a narcissistic sister just know your mother deliberately trained your sister to be a narcissist your sister has the same exact qualities as your mother your sister is a gold digger, she's a con artist, she is stuck up, conceited, lazy, a predator always seeking out men with money or trying to trap a nigga with a baby, hasn't accomplished nothing with her life, she lives close to your mom because your mom wants to keep controlling her and she's too weak to be independent of your mother. She will not realize that your mother is manipulating her and destroying her life. You got to cut your sister off too. Anyone in your family that is connected to your mother must go. There's no other way to heal from it. When you cut off your mother and you isolate and you deny, listen, I don't give a **** if your mother pops up to your house, you better call the police on that bitch, I will call, my mother show up in my house, she going to jail, she know not to **** with me, make your mother respect your boundaries, isolate, go to therapy, heal so that you can stop attracting men with the same personality as your mother, period