Narcissistic Fathers Don’t Deserve Praise Today! #npd #narcissist #happyfathersday

Good morning everyone. Spiritual Whistleblower here live from Miami, Florida. As you know, today is Sunday, Father's Day, and this is a special message for those of you who have a narcissistic father, grandfather. You know, these holidays are difficult for people. I hate that society pressures us to acknowledge. It's very triggering, you know, when you have an abusive parent and they have holidays acknowledging them you know so this is a father's day video for those of you who have a narcissistic father um before i get into the video again um i want to thank my group yesterday in miami we had a great time on the beach um i posted some pictures in patreon like i said i will not be posting everything on youtube and instagram if you follow my patreon account there's exclusive bonus content in there so um i'm documenting my journey as i visit all these cities and doing support groups and i will post in patreon it's only five dollars a month to get exclusive access to my exclusive content one dollar a month for all my old school videos so go join patreon the link is down below i am still available for coaching while on the road phone coaching sessions hit me up Chanel Jasmine at gmail.com I will be posting a brand new flyer for the month of July all the cities I'm visiting I will be doing the whole Northeast New York Philly Washington DC Boston Connecticut all those Northeast cities I will be hitting up and again I will be in London England in Paris July 10th and July 14th I'm not playing y'all my foot is on the devil's neck you want to attend any of these support groups all you gotta do is email me to rsvp thank you now let's get on with this video father's day what and where i mean a lot of you are feeling guilty today a lot of you are feeling guilty should i or shouldn't i reach out to my father should i call him for father's day should i gift him with a card or a present um if there's any pressure from toxic family members oh you know you only got one father reach out to your daddy you know ain't none of us promised tomorrow you got people guilting you to reach out this video is for you let me tell you something you do not have to reach out to your father today what you can do is say a silent prayer to the Lord above you tell you tell the Father God if you're ready father I forgive my father I pray that he's safe and healthy in your precious name amen see days like this these holidays that trigger and pressure us to reach out to abusive people i turn it all over to god psalm 27 10 it's clear as day when your mother and father forsake you the lord will take you up why would you allow a holiday or any toxic individual to pressure you to to run back to the person even though they gave birth to you and raised you and they really didn't raise you they might have been there my father wasn't there my father was not a provider he was the feminine one and my mother was the masculine my mother was the breadwinner so he wasn't there financially he was a good caretaker he could braid my hair cook us some food and clean the house he acted like the wife but he was terrible he kept getting fired from his jobs he was not a provider and did a very poor job of child support my mother was getting like 50 dollars a week for three children that the government had to garnish he wasn't willfully giving her money they had to garnish his wages and now you know i didn't understand then but i understand now my father took his frustrations out that he had towards his mother he took it out on his children which says to me there's no way he could love his children if he's punishing us for the ---- his wife did to him and it is his fault for choosing a woman who has the exact same personality as his mother my nana my nana abused my father i i mean he told me he confided he told me all of the abuse he suffered but i can't even imagine all the things he hasn't told me that she has done to him behind closed doors but you know him and my mother had a shotgun wedding they were too young I think my mother was 19 when she was pregnant she was pregnant with me when they got married they were too young and dumb and broke it was a shotgun wedding the family pressured them both of them had no business getting married it was like a pre-arranged wedding almost because what I heard was that my nana wanted to set my mother up with my uncle my uncle charlie see my nana is a ******* controlling ass misogynistic um you know she's a bully she was controlling over all her sons how you gonna pre-arrange who your sons date and deal with so initially this is what i was told she was trying to set my mother up with my uncle prior to my father now my mother being a malignant narcissist i don't know if she trapped my daddy with a baby or if my daddy trapped her because they're both narcs but all i know is they were too motherfucking young and dumb and they both allowed my grandmother to pressure them into marriage they had no business both of you were severely ******* broken both of you didn't know who you were you have no identity no calling no purpose now my mother had a beautiful voice she could sing she should have pursued her career before she had children and got married and and and got out into the world and lived life to learn and figure out who she was and what god wanted her to be and her calling and purpose she didn't do that but every chance she get she blames her children i wish i would have had an abortion i ******* you know i can't stand y'all y'all fucked my life up we get blamed no sis you are in control of your life and the decisions you make you need to be accountable for your decisions you don't blame your children your children are a blessing we didn't ask to be here how do you blame your children because you're pissed that you married the wrong person or you're pissed that the man that you marry is trifling and lazy that's your fault you don't blame your children but we got blamed for everything now my father being the passive feminine was petty he put his hands on my mother now he bad mouth her and says she start arguments and she's crazy but he gas lit her he started a lot of arguments he blamed her for everything but what real man would put his hands on a woman instead of leaving my father enjoyed the fights because that's what he saw growing up his mother my grandmother and my grandfather had bloody fist fights so they normalized domestic violence and my father passed it down so fighting a woman is normal that's what was taught to my father so to completely blame my mother for starting fights I don't buy that he started the arguments he gaslit her and when she would go off and go crazy and fight him now he's telling everybody she's crazy my opinion both of them are ******* crazy both of them are narcissistic it's clear as day now I i didn't i didn't bust the personalities down to a t to a science they can't even come at me both my parents sit at a table right now i would **** their ---- up i would i would read them their rights i would read them head to toe break down their personality i said why don't both you motherfuckers sit i'll sit in front of a psychiatrist i love i would love to get a psychiatrist to diagnose me because bitch my diagnosis is ptsd i ain't psycho ain't crazy you motherfuckers are crazy and y'all both had a choice because you both come from broken toxic backgrounds where both your parents fucked y'all up y'all should have both made a decision when we bring children into this world we're gonna do it right we're not gonna subject our children to abuse we're not gonna fight in front of our children they just they just did they did the opposite everything that their ******* parents did to them they just turned right back around and did it to their children and now they mad at their children, well at least me because i call them out for it and i'm making them be accountable no you're not gonna sweep this underneath the rug now i'm all game for mommy and daddy and myself if you want to sit in the presence of a psychiatrist where we all can get diagnosed i would love that but they're not gonna do that they don't want to be accountable they're delusional and detached my father just keeps using the bible all praise the lord this and the lord father god's gonna cure this and no don't use the bible to manipulate dad and my mother just straight why can't you just get over it move on why are you smearing me no i'm gonna stick it to both of them motherfuckers when you're ready to address me at a table in the presence of a psychiatrist let's talk let's do it because i want your diagnosis i want daddy's diagnosis and i want mommy's i am an open book i would love for you both to know my diagnosis because you're both ******* responsible for whatever happened to me I'm cleaning this ---- up the name of the game is accountability mommy and daddy so my father we got close I didn't realize that he had made me his golden child over the years he would pick up the phone me and him gossip we talked and I had a lot of toxic behaviors that I was not proud of I did a lot of gossiping I talked about you know people in my family that I didn't like I talked about my relationships with men all the toxic men I thought I was confiding in my daddy because I trusted him I didn't trust anyone else but I learned in the end my daddy was turning right around he'd get on the phone he's all the way in Florida family's in Jersey I'm in New York he's on the phone gossiping and telling all my ******* business and he's inciting fights with other family members so now other family members are are mad at me and now we're beefing so he's messy that's that feminine gay ---- coming out of him what is you on the phone telling my business for and you got my sister disliking me my cousin you know mess but i you know i said let me stop ******* with him and let me break free of him let me cut him off and let me check myself because i don't want to be toxic i stopped the gossiping I stopped the phone calls I denied access and I cleaned my life up so now that I have cut mom and dad off and I've held myself accountable I've gone to therapy and I've gotten myself straight with God now I'm the bad guy in the family I'm the black sheep because I will not participate in the ******* dysfunction I cut them motherfuckers off many years ago because I don't want nobody dragging my name and no gossip I don't want nobody saying Chanel said this Chanel said that if they want to hear from me they can tune into this channel and they'll hear it straight from the horse's mouth i don't do the gossip bitch i will tell you i will say what the **** i mean and what's on my heart right on this ******* platform and i don't give a good goddamn who don't like it so father's day i had to come to terms with my daddy being a covert narcissist my my daddy passing down his trauma his daddy my daddy training me to be a pawn to spy on my mother and retrieve you know gossip and bring it back to him so he could fester and get on the phone and gossip with others my father was a part of the the issues that I had and it wasn't until I cut him off and understood who he really was I love him but he is disordered both my parents are so you know when I got myself together and started holding myself accountable for my own toxic behaviors and I got treatment I said I can't go back to daddy I can't go back to mommy because they have not changed they're not going to change they're stuck in their dysfunction no nobody's going to sweep it underneath the rug no no one's just going to get over it no we're not going to hide behind the bible to manipulate to get me to be quiet you will be held accountable do not talk to me until you're ready to sit the **** down in the presence of a psychiatrist where everyone can be diagnosed and called out on their **** ---- happy father's day to all the amazing dads that take care of their children not just financially but emotionally all these men out here that are mentoring children that don't belong to them and helping build children in strong communities let's acknowledge those good men let's acknowledge all the good step daddies that are raising kids that don't belong to them and making them successful men and women god bless you all do not feel guilty until the next video spiritual whistleblower