“Dumb & Dumber” (The Narcissist & the Recycled Old Supply)

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You want to work hard despite all the obstacles. That's much different than them going back to an old supply. Old supply works a bit differently. So, you know, we as empaths, if you're the empath that kept going back and getting kicked in your teeth, you'll understand that you had no malicious intent to hurt anybody. You were just trying to fix the relationship. See, this old toxic supply that your your ex keeps recycling this ************ is toxic than a ************ they are very toxic they know the full good and goddamn well exactly what they're doing they're just as calculated they're in this secret competition with you you have no idea that this person has it out for you your ex has told this person all about you this person has been all over your facebook they were monitoring you while you was with your ex the entire relationship they don't give a **** their objective is i'm about to break this ---- up oh no i'm gonna snatch him back at all costs now i i called this video dumb and dumber because the old supply you know is working with your ex so in this instance your ex would be dumb okay we're gonna label your ex dumb and i'll explain why in a minute but the old supply is we're gonna label the old recycled supply as dumber okay so your ex is dumb and his old recycled doormat the old supply okay the the ******* dumb dumb, that's dumber dumb and dumber have teamed up together after you have you you have dumped the narcissist whether he broke up with you you broke up with him the narcissist is back with his his good old recycled ass doormat dumb and dumber so let's you know your ex why is your ex dumb why is your ex dumb your ex is dumb because what he had with you he completely sabotaged and this video is for my fellas too fellas don't think i'm just talking to the ladies if you were with a female narcissist and she left you for a whole bum she left you for a thug an ex-convict a broke-ass ************ they don't give a **** about her all he can do is **** her and fight other dudes and and you know uh or get her pregnant or do some some ignorant ---- sit up get high with her yeah he's your ex the female narcissist is dumb and and the bum that she's laid up with is dumber okay so your ex is a dumb ass because there was no you gave him no reason to cheat period everything that your ex asked you to do in that relationship you did it and and you multiplied it and you you drained yourself broke your back trying to do this and what you what you come to, you know, when you get out this relationship, what you're going to realize when you look back, you're going to be like, oh my God, nothing, nothing I would have done would have made this ************ happy. I could have given this bastard the moon and the stars. He would have complained. That's all the narcissist does is ******* complain. You can give him your last dollar. He'll, he'll hate you for giving, giving him his last dollar, give him, giving him your last dollar. You know, if it's raining outside and he don't have an umbrella and you hand him your umbrella and you're willing to get yourself wet to keep him dry he'll he'll be pissed at you for handing over your umbrella he'll talk ---- about you and call you dumb for handing him your umbrella to help him stay dry yeah real real real real stupid real you know warped in their thinking he sabotaged everything with you she sabotaged everything with you and there were really you know really there was no need for it see the problem is people are always trying to see if the grass is greener on the other side this is what the narcissist does he thinks he he always thinks the grass is greener then he gets his ass over and into the the the the i don't want to say new supply the old supply let's say old recycled supply he goes back to that old thing that's been sitting on the back burner he run up in the old supplies yard he's in her yard now and the ******* grass is turning brown it's withered why because he done pissed all over the grass he driving the old supply crazy he cheating on the old supply tearing her finances up controlling her everything he did to you he's going to punish the this person way worse because number one in his mind he thinks the old supply really enjoys the abuse why would somebody keep allowing willingly allow an abuser to keep coming back okay this ************ done beat your ass before he done stole from you he then took your car, used your car to go pick up his side chicks and take them out on a date. You know what he did to you before. And you're going to willingly and I'm telling you, they'd be begging when they see the narcissist has upgraded and got with someone quality like yourself. That old supply is going to be in a secret competition with you. They're going to ignore all the abuse that they've endured in the past. And they're going to say, uh-uh, he's mine. And the narcissist, your ex he deliberately used you to triangulate the old supply to get the old supply to comply to get on her hands and knees and beg him to come back and it always works on the old supply if they're a narcissist the narcissist is very controlling that's why the old supply has to have the ex back the the old supply is not focused on the fact that the narcissist is an abuser and and you know he he he is highly capable of tearing ---- up again as he has done in the past over and over again that that old recycled supply their agenda is oh my god he's going to live a better life with her she's beautiful she's educated she's got her ---- together he's going to do better with her than he did with me so i'm going listen listen i i will do whatever it takes to pull him back Because I don't want to look like a fool to my friends and family. I need to feel like the bigger woman. And what happens? He cheats. He goes back to her. And it's quite the contrary. Her friends and family, if they have any ******* sense in their head, because nine times out of ten, they're probably enablers and all toxic. Bitch, you's a whole ******* fool. You fighting over trash. And this old supply, once they pull your ex away from you, now they're laughing at you like they like like they're they didn't win a trophy bitch he's trash any man that abuses a woman a female physically verbally whatever he's trash what are you fighting over he's not a prize or you know he he's the type of prize that that i like to call the narcissist he's that plastic toy ring in the bottom of the crackerjack box and y'all know what crackerjack is is that is that popcorn with the sugary coating when you get to the bottom of the box there's a plastic cheap toy ring or some type of toy that's what type of prize a narcissist is he's that cheap ******* uh toy that prize in the bottom of a crackerjack box and the old supply will bait you to fight and compete she's going to send you a friend request on facebook she's going to send you a message on facebook messenger she's going to get your information from him she gonna call a text she gonna do something that she wants she wants to feel like the bigger woman in the competition she's the biggest ******* loser bitch you got a whole ******* bum on your hands and he's gonna tear you a new asshole he's gonna punish you way worse than what he did with with the real person that he he tried to level up and get with he just could not level up with you because your standards are too high he's with his equal so dumb and dumber. He's dumb for destroying what he had with you and downgrading. And she's dumber for willingly accepting it repeatedly. Y'all have a blessed day to the next video.