Nanny conversation with MARYANN

Yaseni, mkofiti, manze ni mewa hata. I am not going there. Welcome, Celeste Reflection. Welcome, make yourself at home. Welcome, water. Therefore. I hope you've been well; I hope your week was amazing. Welcome again, it's another Wednesday, so we meet here. Celeste Reflection, Satan. When the sun sets on Saturday evening Live, I said there's no game or content. That is, content, hot content after hot content. By the way, I hope you're planning to do the mapap smia thing, Mulienda. to after that discussion we had. So I hope you're treating yourself with kindness by doing what's right for your body. If you're going, at least you're planning to. Next month, in October, I hope you'll go. So, a few weeks ago, siyasi sama—exactly which month? But a few weeks ago, Tulifanya, I was here alone. Okay, she's here, but who did the episode? Well. Ilienda Ivo Nani's because I was sharing my stories with Nani's but then today Ni Kona guest we are not going To talk about Nani's, we are going to talk about domestic managers. There are many domestic managers in Sasa Nani's place. So we are going to talk about WA domestic managers. She always responds to comments. Luckily, most of the comments were just nonsense, oh they They're lucky they've had nannies. I was happy to see nannies in the comments, wali kisema wow My manager is good, my boss is good, you are family. I was happy for that. I sent it to her. What good people, what very good people. But then we had questions, and we had people asking for help. Beautiful, I am also here, mine have come, they have arrived. So how do I even know what to do? A natafuta specialist, a natafuta mse mwenye anajua yo line vizuri sana. And not only nannies now, but domestic managers, from that first herd of cattle, Go to the gate man, go to the one who is waiting for the grass, housekeeper, house manager, person in charge of children. Like all those domestic managers, a nikatafuta expert. I will not be silent, I will learn, I will know. What we are supposed to be doing. So today I am with However, Mirian, welcome so much. Usiogope. with I know this is your first time here. Stone is heavy. However, They are very good people. So make yourself at home. Thank you very much. with So maybe introduce yourself properly. Indeed, Alright. My name is Mirian Marara. with And I run a company called Yanara. Yes. It's training for domestic workers. And house managers are included in that training. And I am a trained hotelier. hotelier hospitality management and I have also completed a course on training and domestic workers and house managers And um, yes, that's what I do. Thank you so much. Therefore, therefore. so the reason we have marianne here is because We are facing many questions. There are just a few things, but they are the ones that shaped my experience. I said my experience with Nani is lucky—I've had two. The first one came here about a month ago, and since then, we've been together. When I got my baby, I held her tight. She's very nice. They are best friends with Tugi. Up to date, we are with her. And there, you will see the house manager. Unis is part of the family. Therefore. Who did you hit? This is my sister. You feel like this is really part of the family but when we were having that discussion I have forgotten a few words but I feel The system path is once again the most, most, most of all. Tanzi, I'm using it now outside, so I'll leave it for you. He was killed in the attack. The system path is the same as the one currently used to provide the Meryan path, which is identical. Hi, using the mandate and the mandate. There are two types of birds in the forest: forest birds and forest birds. You may forget or lose consciousness due to heat. A person is a person, no matter what. Okay, let's go over the don'ts. Don't expect this from you guys. The rights of domestic workers according to Kenyan law. Yes. Yes, according to Kenyan law. So, there aren't that many, But there are laws that encompass other small details in between. But one of the things you need to do for them is provide medical coverage. Therefore, it is NHIF. By using, what I did in the end to do for the child. For what reason, Therefore, it is to be done at the end to use at the end To do for the child. Therefore, using it for a child. So, do it for the child. So, do it for the child. So, do it for the child. So, do it for the child. So, do it for the child. So, do it for the child. which is usually 21 days or leave days And then the days off should be two days per week. which accumulates to a to about 48 hours, so on discussion, 48 hours starts From what time to what time does it start? Does Saturday morning start from Saturday evening? to Sunday evening, which is not 28 hours, that's not to 48 hours, which is 24, so is it Monday morning? Then how does it work? But I usually tell the nannies and Also, the employers sit down. and agree on what works for that person and what works for you, but But they are entitled to two days of leave and 21 days of leave. I didn't know for two days. I knew for one day. Yes. Actually, it's 48 hours, which is two days per week. That is day and night, day and night. Yes. The package will arrive in 48 hours. The girl is in for 48 hours. So you'll find some nannies will say I should Not come back on Sunday evening. I should return on Monday morning. That's when my 48-hour period expires. From Saturday? Yes, from Saturday. If I were to use it, but I was alone, would it be worth it? Manager discusses what It works best for you. If it he It means giving her Friday off, Friday evening. so she can come back on Sunday evening. Then hey uh Hi the time for her to be able to be there If you leave on Monday morning, then that works, provided you don't. If you have small children, then work no more than 48 hours So, my dear, my dear, when you hear it, you're waking up Saturday and Sunday, I'll see you on Tuesday On Wednesday, exactly, it doesn't have to be the weekend. It can also be during the week, whatever works for mskizane. but it needs to be 48 hours; they are also entitled to maternity leave When they need it, maybe you have a day bag for someone who doesn't live with you. She lives with her husband or her family, and she is pregnant. She is entitled. DTO maternity leave. And what if she's, like, she came and now she's pregnant I am tired. God is the creator. and they have small children. If she if She has. I'm going to tell you this is what we do. Yes, like end after you've It's been like once you've let it all go, because once again, we're not after courses. Some Things we're forced to do, it's not like I'm chasing you or anything. You're away. I'm not Nia. tac But you see, si a little thing, so that means when you just go and look for another one, yes, of course there's of course they also know you need someone to shikilia them until a rudy that is if you're planning to have her back but she is entitled to maternity leave regardless of whether she came pregnant or she has been working a day job and she's so expectant, she's entitled to maternity leave, okay, yes, okay, yes, and um Therefore, therefore, therefore, therefore, Therefore. The end of the month is like that. For now, he has 24 of his own, 10 of his, and 5 of his. Therefore, his being late caused the delay in the meeting. Therefore, here is the clarification He also wanted to take his wife and his children with him. There is a lot to discuss, and now is the time to act. Therefore, here is his address. He fell down while running. Therefore, thus, the state of the cure. The name of the river. Another right they have is sufficient rest hours. They are supposed to work between eight and nine hours a day. That is also open to discussion. 8 to 9 hours—does it start at 5 a.m. or 4 a.m. or at 7 a.m.? There are five of them who were killed. Yes. Wanamkanga 5 tomorrow. Yes. 5, so let's count. 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11. 12, 1, 9 hours finished. Work finished. There's a teacher there at the school, there's a teacher there at the school, I want to pick vegetables, but it's too hot, and the sun is scorching here. I worked 15 hours. Yes, but now agree on those hours. Because hata kama hamiamuka 5 kufua, Then there is tea break, breakfast. It's breakfast time. Let her have some time to have breakfast. There are those who will say, "Mimi wacha nikunye chai saane." Sorry, I don't know what you need to do. Then I will have chai. So let her have about an hour. So during that hour, you're not including it in the nine hours. So then there's also the lunch break. I'll work until the other side arrives. Give her an hour's break to have lunch. to relax, to sit down, rest her legs and then start from maybe two or three then Just relax, you know, have lunch, relax, let her breathe. and then now she'll start all over again like An hour from there—let's say around two or three o'clock. so when you accumulate those hours and allow intervals or breaks, also shower time, maybe a machine, Akifua, I'm sweating You know she needs to make dinner. When she's fresh, allow her another 30 to 40 minutes. Or an hour to go freshen up, shower, come ready to make dinner. when she's fresh, then when she makes Dinner allows her time to also sleep early. that's even more muka mapema by five or six to prepare kids for school or to four if you have a small baby so by the time you're leaving, she has enough time so those nine eight to nine hours In between, agree on the breaks, spread them out, yeah but I think the key point Point of contact. Yes. Yutu kubalianeni. Yes. as long as you know what is right then I'll handle it, yes, how to distribute them, we'll pay them on You said the minimum wage on time? The minimum wage according to Kenyan law is KSh 7,900. to eight thousand nine thousand five hundred, that is the minimum Just a little more effort, and you'll succeed. To domestic managers, note. It's a cattle disease. What's up? No. Municipalities, towns, and cities. Oh, like Huku Town. Yes. So, it depends on where you are again. Exactly. Masa, hee, huku Kenya. The one with the kit, Kitale, or let's say, right here, near us. I wouldn't expect my dad to pay his MTU Wangombe 8,500. So, that is also stipulated in Kenyan law, starting from KSh 5,000. Minimum. Minimum. That is the minimum, the least you can pay that person. And you also give them these rides? Yes. For the rest? Yes, exactly. There are 21 days, there are days off, There are times to rest, and there are also working hours. What do you mean, of course I do A housekeeper, I have a nanny. I have a few, but at least I have one. Now, he said with certainty that he had known. Yes. I didn't hear you. Yes. What is the minimum wage? But then there are things And I love the way you're saying it You and I are together For there are things that exist It is sweet, but it is bitter. Kama 48 hours I am asking you 48-hour siege But you see, that's the job. Uko Monday is a sato Sunday I was working, by the way Sunday muse menyewe You're welcome So those who you argued with are those ones So there are things that I'm low But it's not easy. Ata did 21 days; I can't give a whole month. But by then, when she told me, I'm the one going. You see, it's not me. Therefore But by the end of the year, I will have been here for these 21 days. Juhu, a holiday of a week or more. Yes, four days, three days. Pia, he told me, if you say you'll pay twice a week, then it's a cost for them. Yes. Izo, that fare for the journey every hour is not possible. Yes, yes. So, is it okay? Is it okay, Ama? Is it something we should write down? because we have it by a word of Mouth, yes, missing a contract, yes, we have it. By word of mouth, yes, am I supposed to go about it? It is important to have written contracts. because a verbal contract is not legally binding Therefore, the usage contract is standard. Therefore, Yes, yes, Yes, yes. Mkingi for using for using for using for saying, That is why the mountain is called Ilisigia. So, so, so, so. By using it quickly, thus, using using using. It's hard to use it. By using it beforehand. You are the one who does everything. I will do a real agency. When you are tired, rest. Sijobu unezarukwa na mtu kama ukusign contract. Kwa Exactly. So write it down. Agreed. Indeed, Talk about it. And it's never too late, even if you've never had one yourself. You can still go back, sit down with her, and say, This is what I think we should have done from the beginning. with What do you think? What do you think, and do you want to be saved? No, actually, phrase it in a positive way so that they think, Yes. No, now she has become professional. And so you're taking her to another level. where she actually has a contract now for her job. But then there's also something Umesema, I agree, You're on time, that's a good thing, that's a good thing. Right now, we know that my share will enter on this day, So it's only fair that she knows. But Sasa, who exactly is he talking about for the minimum wage, even the ones who are just starting out, who exactly? 8500—does that limit you to the amount of work she's supposed to do? Eight thousand five hundred is not bad money. It's okay. The stone courtyard, this is the work, they do, they do. Badu paid 8,500. That is what Kenyan law states as the minimum wage. But it's not the only thing you can give her. There are incentives, there are increments. Kwa Indeed, with Yes. Is it quantifiable what you're giving? How does this person compare to the job they are performing? I usually ask myself, why should I help? Who helped me? Yes. Like, say 8,500, just to be safe. But surely, a whole month, that's the work of a skilled artisan. Yes. Next week, two weeks, next week, we will be leaving. Like January, we were like, I can't wait for my nani, I can't wait for my nani. So you can imagine this person doing That work the whole year, so it's only fair. That's 5,000 cattle. Are they purebred? Yeah, no. Certainly, 5,000. Each cow is 20,000. No, it can't be. Yeah, it's not fair. Quantify the job you're assigning them by the amount you're paying them. God. And many, that is not by contract, not by law, but like you, as a human being, do you feel like... That work will surely come to those who do it. Because of the eruption a drink for the jaw, You are my light in the darkness Where did the child start? What is your name? For the time being, we need to be cautious It's time to wake up, my dear When you leave, you may go, you may leave quietly I heard you're going to use it for free At the moment, I would like to work on my tasks. Why do you end up struggling in the process of building? At the time of the furnace's operation Because of your great curiosity So, so. There are things that get rude. Now this is me speaking Yes, 8 to 9 hours So 8 to 9 hours I have a friend, Juzi, we were talking. Why did you arrive at sleeping time? Yes, our beloved leader unajwe Well, sometimes I just feel like taking a walk somewhere, you know. I know it's luxury, but I just want this one day. I saw a ghost, a few hours before dawn. back then, before COVID and Mimi. Yes. Look, I see, that's what I'm observing. I was beaten before I could even receive it. Kumuliza, yes, it's past working hours. So, well, I agree with Kuna law. Nine to ten hours, yes, but surely, Pia Wewe, my child, you're taking too many pills. It's past working time, masaya kazi ilisha sipi hapo it's that's why I say a relationship should be handled like a relationship like any other Sit down with this person, agree, this is what I have to do, I know it Your previous working hours, please. I need to rush to a certain place. It could be work, it could be family, it could be leisure. but agree with this person, talk to her, don't expect her to, Anyway, Sinia ya Konyumbani, she will work; no, sit her down. Tell her, today I'm going to an evening office party, you know, I'm needed at XY place, so I want you to take care of the children. I know it's past your hours, Lakini, Niangaligie. But also when she does that, Agree with her—how do you pay her over time? Or how do you compensate for those additional hours she has worked? to do more than she should have done? Not the one she has now Because even if she was paying her less She used to tell her thank you. As for her, that's such a big deal That her employer would tell her thank you so much His name is not Josie Our nanny was telling Baba Tugi I'm tired of always being the one to suffer Nikiawapikia chapula, siyo ni kazi yangu. Then now, after you've mentioned it, I'm like, ah yeah. By the way, do you know, appreciate, or realize that someone has appreciated you? Celestine, you've done a good job. Yes, you feel good. Even after paying, I feel good. Yes, this person is going far beyond what is required. Your pay is and appreciating your job and appreciating you. So even when you put in extra hours, you don't feel like, You know, because you know this person really appreciates. It's not so much about the money as it is about the relationship you have. Tell this person you're grateful. I really love children very much. you know, like the way sometimes you and your spouse or you and the person you live with You come home and they ask you how. Hey, how was your day? Oh, you got a text—how's your day going? the reason is the same as the laborer's day of work If you do that, you will be in trouble. Cred Gleich oilib matsulia Hello, good morning! Unipika free for a person I'm sorry, but I cannot provide a translation for "ni vya" as it does not form a coherent phrase in any widely recognized language. Please check the input and provide a complete, meaningful sentence or phrase for accurate translation. Lewé Toroomu unanimous To Tylia I don't know what you're talking about. tunauma joy This is the end of the story. Harsa Agosia Zaamilishi You know, it's humanity, it's humanity, exactly, it's humanity. Not only about contracts and jobs, yes, and I I feel like Vinyatu, I keep saying if you, you will feel happy, yes Then do it, yes, mwulize tu By the way, it feels good, ukiulizo Hey, how was your day? Yeah, umeshindaji. If it becomes bad, it will become bad; if it becomes good, it will become good. The higher you feel, the less you actually care. Carefully, much higher, so you want to know how I'm doing, yeah, other than Why, why but since most of us are good at that, I ask myself, by the killers My bedroom is small, but it's safe; I'm staying here. because Ata Ukiona has I can't imagine leaving that person, how am I going to do it? If I see you're not here, if I see you're not here, There is no such thing as a perfect solution. Sometimes it's psychological. Sometimes it's physical, sometimes it's emotional. Take care of that person, because when she is whole, Then she will give you a good performance. True, true. Sisa, Mirian, you told me you train nannies? Yes. Where on the train, where are the train nannies? Yes. Like, they come, like me, this one, therefore She's a mother. So when she came in, she immediately started teaching. Just look at this, Mama Tugi, do it like this. So I have never hired a nanny. Do we untrain nannies? My first question was, Are there any train stations in Kilimani or Githurai? Like the Una-Train Aishi lifestyle? I'm not saying Githurai is bad, I'm just saying it's not great. I'm from Githurai, but you know what I mean. You're training the nanny for a five-bedroom house, and you're Also training the nanny for a one-bedroom We train our nannies just like any other job. are required to have some type of training or some kind of expertise To do your job, all nannies require training—there's no school. These people go so that they may come. and work at your house, so all of them in one room On the upper level, there are five-bedroom, six-bedroom, A ten-bedroom house, each of which requires some form of training. So that they may then know these expectations How do they do it, given what you know about them? It's enough; I don't know those questions employers ask. I know how to die, I know how to live, but then... Buying in your house is different from buying in my house. You ask them, "Have you ever worked before?" Is Usha a示意 for a little child? Oh, one year, two years. Alright, then you can come to my house. That does not necessarily mean she is suitable to work at your house. So she needs some form of training that suits your home. Oh, so you train according to the client? Yes, according to the client. So what happens is we have a conversation with you, a consultation, You tell me this is your home, this is what you need, then I tell you there are the basic usual trainings like communication skills, cleaning and basic scheduling and menu planning There are the basic normal things that would be in any other house. But there are also things that are unique to your home. So we carry out those trainings according to your specifications. and according to the needs of your home So training nannies and training domestic managers should come From the employer, yes, Mimi ni kuja ni kwambi I want you to train my house manager, yes. Because of this, this, and this, yes, so I'm supposed to I'm the one who's going to pay for that course; it's A course, it's a course, it's a 15-day to 20-day course. Class at my place? Am I in your place? No, it's done. at your house, initially, when we started this, we used to house them or take them somewhere in a group or in a location, and then we would train them on General things such as first aid, communication skills, and their rights and you know general things but we realized that every time we would call The group back would have different people So then we thought, find them where they are and train them in-house. So if I'm coming to your house and I'm coming to train your girl according to your specifications for the house, It is you who bears the cost of training. I have seen some employers who would say, "What do you feel about this?" Since you will receive a certificate at the end of the training, But the certificate is issued in the girl's name. Yes. Satisfaction. Exactly. So he continued walking, and it seemed he would have to be trained again. Yes. As per that home. Yes. And you get clients, anakuja na kumbea Mariana, want a nani. Yes. I'm looking at the humidity here and I can see this. Anaungia tu lakini siwezi muletea. Siwezi. Because it happens. Yes. Unamuletea unamuletea pake inafika mahali. I'm sorry to say, but sometimes we are the problem. Exactly. Most of the time. Yes. Yes, there is an alliance in speaking: these people are helpers. Yes. Accomplice, this is not the fate of a wandering beggar, Help the poor man, the beggar, the one in need. So unfortunately, sometimes things go wrong, Like Sisi employers, we are in trouble. So Usha, if you arrive at the place, look for the landmark. My client, but I couldn't. Yes, I have. I've had times when I've had to sit down. with the employer or the client and told her in this case... I hope to watch it. In this case, I think this is what you should do even if they watch, I think he's You did it, yes, the right way, nicely, yes, the right way. Of course you don't, you know, despise them. And tell them I can't deal with you. because once again it's business, business, and it goes beyond because I am passionate about This goes beyond just what the client is paying me. So I sat her down and told Here, I don't think changing the man is the solution. Therefore, we pray Keep the person you have now, because she's been with you for about eight to nine months. the s Who was the tallest person? who had stayed among the four I had to sit her down and tell her Let's rethink what the problem is I don't think it's a nanny. because if I was going to give her a fifth one And then the fifth one stays for about two to three months. For me, two or three months is a probation period. so then it means the problem is not the helpers it Is she? So we sat her down and told her, "Let us." Train the one you have, and even if I'm training them, you still need to change abcd about your children you need to change the way they respond to her, the way they talk to her you need to also change the way you Talk to her, and the way you handle her—she didn't say hey, it Is my house? Those are my children. They can Do whatever they want, yes, but even if that is yes This person has come into your house to help you. go be a better word, a robot, or you know, to clown Because you always say, "If you want to, then do it." Something done To fall down from above. Right. Do I So yourself For very many reasons and we know very many and some others. This is the very place from where he fled. By the way, it's true—sometimes I have a friend of mine, He went to another house. He has another house, he has children, imagine having a large family, Imagine a place where the sun is so intense that it burns the skin. He should focus on his work and not disappoint his mother. My wife, these are my children and this is my house. So you can imagine, even if this person is aware and still wants money, When the rain falls well, sometimes it's not fair. They are dissatisfied, yet they do their jobs. When they are unhappy, they are not(('peace. Imagine, even if, like what you said, sometimes it's humanity. You are the one who is always lying. Help your parents up at home do something. On top of the request, only money is distributed, and that's why they are all happy. Sometimes it's not fair. No, it's important to also talk to your children. Let them know we need to respect Auntie So and So. She's here to help us. She prepares delicious meals for us. She cleans our house. You know, we also need to respect her. If it's possible, tell them what Auntie does that Mommy can't If she goes, you kids are going to see even them—they may not be able to do what Auntie So-and-so did Yes, some of them are not yet at an age where they can be able to wash their clothes So they need Auntie So-and-So to be around the house. Even when she's gone, they miss her because there are certain privileges. Yeah, that they aren't, you know. Mom, I'm busy, Mom, you're bothering me, Mom, I'm busy So talk to your children that's why I say when a nanny or a house manager comes to your house And she is coming in to help. There are certain responsibilities that you, as a family, should undertake. and so, and so, and so, and so, and nearly possible And so it is, and so it is, and with Him, they are capable He was more than just a man named Eso. Yes, that is the time to be silent. if here it can be possible for it to be possible below You are not allowed to access it at this time. If this situation continues, the children might start complaining. they were able to kill many of them and thus But she has one problem. This little boy, a very small boy, A 10-year-old who keeps spanking her every time she passes by. And she tells him, "Let's do it again." I don't want to mention names. We did it again, someone else. But he will keep doing it, and he should tell the mom. And the mother would not do anything about it. She felt disrespected. And for that one small reason, she wanted to leave. And she's okay and she's good. She's the best at what she does. Yes, everything else is fine. So sometimes when these nannies report the children and yei haezi mpiga because when she came she was like us, my child, why did you leave me? Why did you kill my child? So he's a scoundrel, but when she reports him to you, What do you do about it? Let us also train our children to respect These people we have at home, we cherish them. And sometimes, is a nanny also allowed to say "Don't do that again"? And when you do that, I will report you. Or when, you know, what have you agreed on? Are they, yes, impossible, but what can she do? Tandika na mwiko. Because you know she can't overcome that. But if you don't get it.SystemColors, you can do up to. Up to this point. You can warn, you can report. And when that happens, because I told this client of mine, Can you tell your son, even after you've corrected it, To go and tell Auntie sorry? And say I will not do it again, so you have made it known to this boy that if This happens again You're going to have a tough time, go see Auntie. And say sorry to Sita Rodia, so she also knows you You handled it, yeah, yes, you didn't go handle it in the bedroom. and she doesn't know whether yeah Is this done or not? Let her go. Let him go. And say auntie, sorry, Sita fanya ivo tena, so let us teach. our children as well to appreciate and respect and respect is two-way; yes, you want them to respect your children and not to punish them and feed them on time, wash them on time, clean them on time, but It should be two-way, yes. so now there's someone named Ameona, pale ako, like hey, I think Celestine Indone, I've been looking for you for so long I'm looking for a girl, I don't know how to cook I don't know how to sleep, I can't sleep I'll help you with that, just like you get yes and then Most people are busy, like Wako tight, So, I was just about to learn how to cook. So, bad food, I know, guys, right now we don't have any options. So this person has seen you, Amona Mirian, in Seller's Reflection. I don't know, how can I reach Mirian? Is it easy to get to Mirian? How can I hire a nanny? Since you mentioned that you also get nannies. Just like you source nannies for people. Yes, we source and place. That's another big... Challenge, I need a place, I need a place first January, yes January, the video had views Abuzi Look, Rudi, this video is by Abi, yeah So maybe give them your details. Um, you can find us on Yannara, I'll give you a contact. and an email we have yannara investments at gmail.com My mobile number is also 0722 295 905. You can find us on those contacts, Facebook. Not yet, okay? We're still figuring out how to go about it. But those are our direct contacts via email. and on mobile phone, then we can plan how to best help you Do you follow up? Yes, every time we place, we say we agree. together with the girl and the client that we give a probation period of two to three months During those two or three months, I'll be on her case and yours as well. We proceed with the training, which lasts approximately 20 days. We follow two weeks after the training. Just as we give a certificate to the girl after the training. But we don't give it immediately when the training ends. We give it two to three weeks later. So, don't worry. So, does the susilipi have a hole for the stem? So, what's the point of being a way? Therefore, you should not lie down and relax, In heaven, there is a river of milk. Therefore, you should hurry. It's easier to talk to you, yes. and it's always easier, sometimes people say, "Then that's why I" Sometimes the best way to train is through a intermediary. Some clients will tell me, "I know." My house, I'll do my training myself. But then it always seems like you're being picky. your training or is it a command coming from you, but it's different when it comes from a teacher, teacher anakuja kunifunza, Then they take it and appreciate it more. The things that you would say that would sound like a command When it comes from a teacher, it is learning. It is a course I am taking. And so it is easier for her to reach out to me than it is for me. Some people say, "Atako kikwambia everything will be fine at home." They also know what I need to know. You're not telling me about Jana Selea being the owner of the yellow car, Jana, you are eating meat. No, it is professional only if it is related to work. And if you're experiencing any difficulties that you're not able then reach out to your employer, fine, Reach out to me, and I will know how to merge the two of you. When eating meat, one should not be too greedy. Why do the poor and the traveler always get the leftovers? Yes, I have. Oh no. Yes, I have. Therefore, from going from and going from from from from from That meat is cooked together or is it something ongoing, you know? so I tried to follow and find out where the problem is, as well as understanding how to approach it from her employer and find out exactly, because once again This is information that someone does not want to get out. About your home, going to report that Niliambua na mshana wako umpeye meat is a delicate balance between the two but yes, I've been told that someone from Nananyuma brought food they not allowed enough time to rest, they are not Then you know how to deal with those complaints, wow That is so interesting. Well, I Nimelan, nimelan bitumen. And I'm glad there are people like you. Who do these ladies represent among these people, yes? Because it's so unfortunate, man, the humanity, Nafikanga Mali, pengine It's raining here just like here. Yes. When you go to the office, you'll need a dose of doing this, that, and the other. Yes. Go back home when it's your time to do what you expected. Exactly. Now you're failing. Yes. And it is the truth. Sometimes it's us who are failing. Yes. Well, it's not always our fault, but sometimes we do fail. Yes. Because we, I don't know, we treat them as if they weren't. Human beings, I say maybe Kesho will find it, I am that one My child is the one, the domestic manager, oh yes You don't know your tomorrow, yes So many thanks to you, Marianne, for the details, Marianne. The one who is properly appointed by the commission is the one who will be appointed. to follow the channel Yeah, but thanks for coming. and I hope it's going to help someone maybe change something Two hearts. It's going to affect you in a certain way. Perhaps it will help you with what you have right now. You will be with it. When it comes to where you want to go, don't deny it. As for me, I don't know what they'll tell me. I want to go. I will cry. I will cry for real, I will cry because because she has been a part of you and a part of your family and Then you're also afraid, am I going to get another one, yes? but if she wants to go on a future like yours You can't hold them forever, yes, actually. When we do, we tell clients to make a contract, you make a contract for how long, because a contract states the duration So is it for five years or for ten years? You usually say it's actually not fair to have a girl For 20 years in your house, you don't want her to grow She should actually have saved enough. because sometimes we see these girls when they come growing up as a God for God for God for God for God She had a dream. Whether she did well in school or was unable to finish Or wherever her education reached Or she's coming for the school season She has come for a reason. So some of them will tell you I want three years I saved money That's a business Ama ni kasome Because it is not in them The people who actually want to be Anani, they want to be a housekeeper. That is what they want to do in their minds. But some of them are still in transit. They'll tell you, it's better to read, it's better to run a business, I know how to cook, I know how to eat, I want to go somewhere nice, a hotel or something. So, agree with them, this contract, miya miaka ngapi? Over these ten years, what is her budget in mind for her business? These are the things we talk about with them. when you're training them. You know, trying to build them. Because it's not only about working in your house, What else do you have in mind that you want to do? When you save your money, you can start a business, Hi, how many years do you need to run a business? I mean to raise enough capital, because if you're earning about 10,000, I want to start a business worth about half a million or something. then that translates to how many years. And does that mean if you're earning 10,000, You know, the ones who raise children? After deducting your expenses, then agree with them. Ilikoncha. five-year contract in the ten-year contract when they tell you after 10 years, like yours I'll tell you at some point I'm going home I want to buy a piece of land there I want to go farming, allow them that and appreciate it. that they've given you ten years or 20 years, however much time they've given you, let them grow To another stage, yes, true, thank you so So much, Mirian—it's hard to say goodbye to them after 10. After more than 10 years. I think Tuneza is looking for another suitcase on the one you're carrying. We have been wandering, and we wander, and we wander on. Yes, if you had a good relationship. Yeah, thank you so much, Mirian, for coming. If you want to reach Mirian, the phone number is this one. If you're looking for a nanny. And please just be good. We hope you've received our feedback and appreciate your comments. Oh, thank you. Now I'll have about five years from now, I imagine the lady Mirian Aliletea. We're still together. Like good feedback. Good vibes, yaa ikikataa pia, don't force it, yes, yes we're I'm not saying it's for everyone. But thank you so much, Mediane. For coming very well at least you meju vitu Yes, Mingi, yes, thank you for that. In case you have any other questions I'm always ready, yes, yes, absolutely ready Oh, thank you so much. Thank you for having me. Thank you all for watching Seller's Reflection. I hope you're doing well. It was a matter of women, it was everyone's concern. I hope you're doing well. See you next week on Seller's Reflection. Bye.